Marie-Jo
10-15-2017, 01:27 PM
I was reading Eryn's thread on coming out to people (https://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?234480-Coming-Out-to-Long-Term-Friends) which, by the way, is wunderful to read from start to end. At one point she mentioned that the woman in a couple started to help Eryn (then dressed as him) with the hair and later gave her shoes. This act was then recognized as acknowledgement of approval to the disclosure of Eryn as transgender.
A while after it struck me. This sort of happened to me just recently. My daughter, who is as tall as me - about same size, have sort of hinted that she have the impression that I'm transgender. It has never been out in the open though. She have never seen me fully dressed, but probably seen pictures in a notepad that I forgot to take with me at a visit once.
What happened last Sunday when my wife and I was eating dinner with them at their home and she showed two dresses she was about to buy for a formal dinner event, was that she also showed a blouse and a top and asked if that was something we wanted to take as she wouldn't use it. She actually looked at me. My wife do not want my crossdressing to be openly disclosed and said nothing. I thought that I would like to try it on but then ... So my daughter dropped it and said it would go to charity then.
A couple of days later I was picking up their child from school and saw the top and the blouse lying where they were left last time. I picked them up and tried them on. Both fitted fine so I put them in my bag and texted my daughter that I took them. I got an Ok back. Didn't think more about it until I read Eryn's thread. What we actually did was me accepting that she accepted that I was cross-dressing. I do not know if she has informed her husband, so far. Probably not, so it is just between the two of us so far.
Today I made a lunch for my daughter, husband and child as he had his birthday earlier this week. In the morning I had put on a skirt. Still in skirt when starting to cook the meal, my wife commented "You do not intend to be in the skirt when they come?" No, I changed before. I was thinking about if I should use this time to tell about my cross-dressing but decided against it. I think I must prepare my wife for that in advance.
A while after it struck me. This sort of happened to me just recently. My daughter, who is as tall as me - about same size, have sort of hinted that she have the impression that I'm transgender. It has never been out in the open though. She have never seen me fully dressed, but probably seen pictures in a notepad that I forgot to take with me at a visit once.
What happened last Sunday when my wife and I was eating dinner with them at their home and she showed two dresses she was about to buy for a formal dinner event, was that she also showed a blouse and a top and asked if that was something we wanted to take as she wouldn't use it. She actually looked at me. My wife do not want my crossdressing to be openly disclosed and said nothing. I thought that I would like to try it on but then ... So my daughter dropped it and said it would go to charity then.
A couple of days later I was picking up their child from school and saw the top and the blouse lying where they were left last time. I picked them up and tried them on. Both fitted fine so I put them in my bag and texted my daughter that I took them. I got an Ok back. Didn't think more about it until I read Eryn's thread. What we actually did was me accepting that she accepted that I was cross-dressing. I do not know if she has informed her husband, so far. Probably not, so it is just between the two of us so far.
Today I made a lunch for my daughter, husband and child as he had his birthday earlier this week. In the morning I had put on a skirt. Still in skirt when starting to cook the meal, my wife commented "You do not intend to be in the skirt when they come?" No, I changed before. I was thinking about if I should use this time to tell about my cross-dressing but decided against it. I think I must prepare my wife for that in advance.