A gg staring at me

[Scarlett1975]

So at work today a girl I've known for a year did a few strange things. I wear a wireless sports bra under a loose shirt for work. It's not noticeable but maybe she has as when I walked past she flicked my breast area with a towel. Later we were talking and she was looking at by boob's instead of my face. Now I know how girls feel lol. I assume she knows about the bra but that's about it. I don't really care though but it's a little funny. I told my wife and I think it bothers her more than me. I guess if I was asked I could own it or just say it's a back support

[deebra]

Scarlett just have a good, safe answer in your brain if she ever calls you on it. Also tell her it's doctor recommended and please don't blab it all over the office. She just might think it's cool.

As colorful and sexy as women's underwear and outerwear is there has got to be some women out there that would like to see a man in it.

[Krisi]

If wearing a bra a work causes problems, you might consider not wearing one. Things like this could hurt your career.

[Robertacd]

I guess if I was asked I could own it or just say it's a back support

Why lie? GG's know what a bra is, what they are for, and what it looks like when someone is wearing one.

I have yet to find a single medical device, support, or back brace that even could be remotely confused with a bra.

[Jaylyn]

Scarlett I'm seconding the words of Deebra just have an explanation for why you are wearing it, or tell her the truth and you might have a friend to cover for you if others start complaining.

[Tracii G]

What is she doing flicking you with a towel is my question.
Telling your wife this woman did that is my second question. Why would you do that?
No reason to lie about why you are wearing it. Its obvious you are wearing a bra.
She will tell everyone you can be sure of that.

[Teresa]

Scarlett,
I know the feeling of people talking to my chest.

There was an incident in my area and a couple of BMW M5s were parked up from the local police force . I stopped to ask if I could help when walking the dog , the officers were very friendly and explained that they were searching for a missing person. They appreciated me stopping to ask just in case I had seen something while walking along the river ,the whole conversation was aimed at my chest , when I arrived home I realised my Wonderbra was doing a great job in giving me a definite bust .

[Ressie]

It sounds that the bra is more noticeable than you think! And I believe Tracii's last sentence is probably true.

[IleneD]

She knows.

"Yes Miss. I am indeed wearing a bra. I love wearing a bra. I find it to be a secure and comfortable feeling. I never leave the house without wearing a bra, ..... would YOU?"

PS: I am now wearing my bra; mostly no-wire lace bralettes, nearly every day, even in "guy mode". There's times I know that it shows; in fact I know it shows under most of my shirts if one looks close enough. At this point, I am not alarmed.

[Stephanie47]

I do not have a clue why cross dressers think women are not observant when it comes to a man wearing a bra. And, further you're going to try to insult her intelligence by telling her it is a medical device recommended by a doctor? Roberta is right on. And unfortunately Tracii is right on too. You may end caring if it becomes general knowledge.

[Pat]

It seems to me that you can follow the advice of others and lie, in which case she will know you're lying and thus know that you're ashamed, a sneak and a liar. Or you can own it. Or you can stop wearing the bra. The choice is yours.

[Sarasometimes]

Unless you are wearing a jacket or coat over your sports bra it will take a GG very little time to notice it being there. If you wear a bra to work you need to be OK with everyone at work knowing you wear a bra to work. Lying will not be beneficial, if she asks about it.
I'm taking Barre exercise classes in women's plain black leggings and once I wore crop length. I will not delude myself into thinking they think they are men's tights. These are things they wear and shop for, trust me they know what their stuff looks like.
Tracii G is correct, she will tell everyone if she hasn't said something already.

[docrobbysherry]

Next time, put on your breast forms. Then, she and everyone will know what your bra is for!

I gave up underdressing after a few weeks. I found it uncomfortable and pointless. And, I don't wish to be caught. So, I don't wear fem things out in public!:battingeyelashes:

[Pumped]

Even wearing a loose shirt there will be times when you stretch to lift something, lean over a desk or counter, or stand at some unusual angle where the shirt will pull tight and show the outline of even a sports bra.
Don't want to get caught, don't wear a bra!

[Tracii G]

If you look at this rationally the whole point of wearing a bra to work for some CDers is to be caught wearing a bra.
For them its the thrill of being caught by a woman and having that woman say hey are you wearing a bra?
They may give every excuse in the book to that woman for wearing one but IMO its all a game to them.
It has nothing to do with being TG or having to do with gender dysphoria its all about being caught by the opposite sex.
They wear a bra to work to elicit or bring out a response. That is pretty obvious.
I'm not saying you can't wear a bra to work if you want to I'm fine with it but to complain about the reactions women my have or the results that may not be positive or you get fired for some reason over a bra thats on you.

[NancySue]

I have a theory that, deep down, when you under dress, whether bra, panties or hose, you want to be noticed or “get caught”, maybe hoping they will accept your CDing? Don’t we all want to be accepted...by self, wife, SO, society? The risk of being outed can be consequential. It would be around our community. Good luck.

[Tracii G]

I agree Nancy and its stronger when you first start underdressing.
After some time I got to where I liked panties better but wanting to be caught was discarded as a reason to wear them.

[Nicole Erin]

If she flicked you with a towel in the breast area, It is safe to say she probably isn't judging your choice of clothing.

But if she is, things could get serious... here is how it might go down -

She reports it to the local news. It gets played on TV. Suddenly the next day, the angry villagers are rushing to your work place with pitch forks and torches. Meanwhile you just got fired and security is escorting you out where you have to face the villagers. You call the cops and they say, "No we cannot help, you are the most hated person in town".
You think this is the end and are just hoping your demise will be quick and painless as possible.
But then miraculously, you come up with a story about how you are wearing it for medical reasons. THEN...

most of the men say, "Well, alright. I get it".
Soon, all the other under-dressed ones reveal stockings, bras, pantyhose, frilly socks and underwear, painted toenails.. ALL for medical reasons.

Meanwhile, that lady you told is running around with a towel, snapping the asses of all these males wearing girl stuff.

OR.... OR....

Nothing will ever come of it and no one will even care.

[Tracii G]

Thats quite possible too.

[Sarasometimes]

Tracii G makes some valid points particularly if the under-dresser is wearing a bra under just a shirt. I mean men can look and tell if a woman is wearing one, so why, other than for the thrill would you wear one, if detection is big trouble. I also agree with Doc about there being little benefit and the discomfort not being worthwhile even when detection would not be trouble.

Nicole, I think I will avoid visiting your neck of the woods with angry villagers and all, kinda scary, Yikes.

The for medical reasons idea has big holes in it since they may simply ask you for a doctor's note, then what? Are bras for men covered under Obamacare? If so probably not for long if a certain guy with bad hair finds out.

[Scarlett1975]

So many great responses thanks again as usual, she didn't ask so I didn't say anything, I'm not super concerned about being caught and yes I probably didn't give enough thought into gg's ability to spot them. It does actually give me more support and I feel makes me stand up straighter although in reality servrs no practical purpose... I might give it a miss when next on that job. Honestly though I see guys out there with bigger breasts than me under t shirts and I checked with my wife if it was noticeable under my work shirts before I started wearing it, I'm thinking maybe she has observed me closer than I thought lol

[Kayliedaskope]

And Nicole wins the Post of the Day Award For Best Comment!

I was sitting here just dying as I read her comment....

[IleneD]

Nicole,
Hilarious. Great post.

[Tracii G]

Nicole Erin is a super cool person, yes we have met in person and she is quite witty.
I always get a kick out of her posts because they make you laugh and think all at the same time.

[Lana Mae]

Ok! So I wear fingernail polish to work and it is OK! IMHO A bra is a different story unless you have a great reason why! Truth: my nails split and break easily and is mostly why I wear polish on them! Yes, also because I like it and hate to remove it right after I get it put on! But...I do not wear a bra unless I am dressed feminine! A bra is only worn to hold my forms otherwise it is a useless piece of clothing! IMHO I understand the risks at work and doing what you did but was it worth the risk? Only you can answer that and as Erin said, "Nothing will ever come of it and no one will even care." Hugs Lana Mae

[Jenny22]

He who does not want to look for a new job does not wear a bra to work ... or any other type of under dressing.