Really odd feeling........

[Minnietheminx]

Don`t laugh......This may sound odd but i am feeling like a guy that is on one of those sites full of gorgeous girls!!!
its an odd feeling that came over me earlier. Believe me i feel like ive died and gone to heaven surrounded by all you lovely ladies but when i am posting on pics saying how gorgeous you ladies are in certain clothes etc i am actually feeling like i shouldnt and wondering if it feels ok for you for me to be doing so as a GG that loves CDs..does that make sense?.it probably doesnt!!..i cant explain it but i hope you dont mind me posting compliments anyway lol xxx

[Dana44]

Actually we like you here. I see you have helped some wives already. I have an accepting SO but she is not like you. You are a very nice person and it is good that you are participating.

[Jaymees22]

Personally I love compliments, don't you? In fact it really makes me feel like it's worth the effort it takes to make myself presentable. Believe me sometimes it takes a lot of effort with what I've got to work with. Hugs Jaymee

[Minnietheminx]

Thankyou ladies
I am trying to work out what it is i`m feeling lol but i cant but it came over me when posting earlier and i thought i hope they dont mind as its kind of like im in another world...a world i love believe me but kind of its reversed as ive never been amongst so many ladies to share this with....see i cant even explain it lol xx

[Kas]

I don't think any of us are going to complain about a compliment from a GG. It's not the same as say being some creepy guy posting on a lesbian forum or something like that if that's what you're meaning.

[Minnietheminx]

I don't think any of us are going to complain about a compliment from a GG. It's not the same as say being some creepy guy posting on a lesbian forum or something like that if that's what you're meaning.

I honestly dont know to be honest. I think its to do with headspace as they call it. When i have been with dressers in my life i suppose i have seen them totally as girls..once they are dressed that is it plain and simple i see girl and i dont link with the male side until they are not dressed girly...so when i suddenly come across a post that mentions man dressing i suddenly have to check myself because i just see you all as girls....is that wrong? Maybe it is.i am still on a learning curve i think ...but i just come on and see it as i amongst girls ...now i am getting confusing ...xxxx

[Tracii G]

You can think of me as a girl all you want I won't mind a bit.
I feel more female than male all the time anyway even my ex wife agrees with me.
She sends me sale coupons for nice ladies clothing stores and even refers to me a a woman all the time.
Even sent me a link to a web site with pics of hot guys.

[Dana44]

I felt the same way when I came here. yeah a lot of girls here. LOL Not too many men post here either. But some on hunting and fishing pops up sometimes. And some on sewing. LOL

[Kas]

i see what you mean. (This all all in my own opinion btw) Thats the complicated thing with crossdressers as opposed to transsexuals, we know we are men and we like being men, but we also like our feminine side. We usually still talk like men and act the same as our "man" self even when fully dressed. I think that is why you are having problems is because you are maybe not seeing that. I know what i am and for somebody to assume I am automatically some "princess" just because I dress would really put me off. I don't want the clothes I wear to be the determining factor in how I'm treated. I think the guys you have met maybe think you are just using them for their girlyness and not their real selves, which is the most important part.

Edit: I am not saying ALL CD are like how I have described, but many are.

[Minnietheminx]

You can think of me as a girl all you want I won't mind a bit.
I feel more female than male all the time anyway even my ex wife agrees with me.
She sends me sale coupons for nice ladies clothing stores and even refers to me a a woman all the time.

Thankyou hun
i`m glad you are ok with it...i suppose its because i dont have any other GGs that are similar to me to actually ask is this ok? Am i too deeply immersed in the love of dressing that i forget? As others have said on here most GGs accept it but know how to seperate the two but i tend to go into that headspace where i am just seeing that i am amongst other girls chatting etc and i suppose because i dont see the male side of anyone on here i of course just see ladies....I wish there were more GGs to see just how it feels to them xxxxx

[Kas]

i dont see the male side of anyone on here i of course just see ladies....I wish there were more GGs to see just how it feels to them xxxxx

That's because this is the one place many CDers who are either in the closet or don't know anybody else can come act out their girly side. We could go to any website and talk about man stuff, but where else can we openly talk about this kind of thing with other like minded people? (Rhetorical)

[Minnietheminx]

i see what you mean. (This all all in my own opinion btw) Thats the complicated thing with crossdressers as opposed to transsexuals, we know we are men and we like being men, but we also like our feminine side. We usually still talk like men and act the same as our "man" self even when fully dressed. I think that is why you are having problems is because you are maybe not seeing that. I know what i am and for somebody to assume I am automatically some "princess" just because I dress would really put me off. I don't want the clothes I wear to be the determining factor in how I'm treated. I think the guys you have met maybe think you are just using them for their girlyness and not their real selves, which is the most important part.

Edit: I am not saying ALL CD are like how I have described, but many are.

Thankyou for your honesty hun
You may have a point though when i have been with CDs in the past in reality i can seperate once they are back out of their dresses. Those i have been with have wanted to be treated girly and as another girlfriend and havent told me that they want to be seen as a male dressed but i suppose its each to their own so by these experiences so far i have just done what they have wanted and gradually got into that headspace where i treat them as such...but this is a learning curve for me i have to admit as you have just told me otherwise so i do have alot to learn or i am going to probably mess up any future chances if not all that dress like to be treated as such xx

[Kas]

Those i have been with have wanted to be treated girly and as another girlfriend and havent told me that they want to be seen as a male dressed but i suppose its each to their own so by these experiences so far i have just done what they have wanted and gradually got into that headspace where i treat them as such

I think that could be an issue with the CDer themself. Maybe they had always wanted/fantasised about being treated girly, but when given the chance to do so all the time, maybe they realise it's not what they really want/envisioned? I'm not sure though honestly. I am just saying what's coming to my head. I am new to this too.

[Minnietheminx]

I think that could be an issue with the CDer themself. Maybe they had always wanted/fantasised about being treated girly, but when given the chance to do so all the time, maybe they realise it's not what they really want/envisioned? I'm not sure though honestly. I am just saying what's coming to my head. I am new to this too.

I dont know hun all i know is i have a heck of a lot more to learn by the looks of things. Seems i have had those that do like being treated totally girly but not all are the same which i suppose is obvious really but maybe i need to step back a bit and as you say remember you are guys that like dressing ...its all so daunting as ive only my past experiences to go on.... Hopefully i will learn more by taking on board what i read and see on here which is why i am glad i came on here xx

[nameinuse]

Minnie, you are so sweet :) I don't see a compliment being a bad thing ever, not when it's heart felt and honest.

I don't think you are the only GG to really really enjoy men in women's clothing, but you're level of enthusiasm about it is plain awesome. This sight would be heaven for you surrounded by such amazing friendly ladies

and I just have to add: Kas! I thought you were a GG! lol, your avatar is gorgeous

[Teresa]

Minnie,
To me to receive a compliment from a GG is very special, to know we are getting something right . For some CDers like myself who have had to do it all for ourselves , to a take the guy and transform himself into a convincing woman is very hard, both physically and mentally . To find you enjoy going out and choosing outfits and come to terms with dealing with SAs knowing the items are for you and then go out wearing them to meet other CDers and the public does take some courage, even my wife had to concede that one , she didn't think I had it in me .

To find a GG that actually enjoys that is not totally unusual because many wives and partners accompany their CDing partners to our meetings, they love playing dress up with them , what ever their reasons .

[bridget thronton]

I hope you are part of our community for along time.

[paulinescotlandcd]

When a GG gives you a compliment you really take notice. I was first complimented years ago on an old Forum now gone (Roses Forum) and the woman was the wife of a member who was going through the whole transition business. She said I looked great but then sent me a wee message to say my boobs were too high in a few of my pictures. Suffice to say it stuck in my head to this day. I always pay attention now and make sure they are at the right level. Always a novelty when a GG steps in to offer an opinion - just so refreshing.

[faltenrock]

Minnie, we all like to receive compliments about our look, our style and dressing. There is nothing wrong to comment on our pictures, everyone does on this great forum. I probably have a few hundred pictures on here.

[ellbee]

Okay, but I'm going to laugh, anyway! :roflmao: :tongueout

Yes, of course it's fine for you to do so, IMO. Please, compliment away! :battingeyelashes:


I will say that when I used to go clubbing en femme with my little crowd back in the day, a couple of the GG's I was with would always literally & genuinely gush about me all night long... How good I look, how am I able to pull this off, how much I look like a real GG, blah blah blah. And yeah, of course I loved it! But admittedly, part of me did get a wee bit annoyed after a while, especially after they got a few drinks in them. Though I would never show it. It was like, "Okay, thank you. But I get it -- really. Now can we please talk about something else for a change?"

However, that was only part of how I felt at the time. The rest of me was saying in my mind, "Please don't stop. Keep it coming, girls! :o :D "


Anyway, remember, too, that some CD'ers here are pretty closeted, and really don't get out much, if at all. Perhaps at best, they'll go for a nighttime car ride or whatever, where there's little to no interaction with others, aside from their wife at home, behind closed doors (if that). This forum may very well be their only true outlet, at least for the time being. So, yeah... I'd say especially for them, it's probably pretty important to hear a compliment or two -- especially from a cool, understanding & even enthusiastic GG. :thumbsup:


I've been to a number of drag competitions/shows at LGBT clubs, as well as full-out primary drag clubs, back in the day. And one thing that always struck me, time & time again, was, "Holy crap, there's a *lot* of dudes here dressed as women! :confused3: " It would totally take the internal focus off myself, and instead I'd just soak it all in. In the drag queen world, there are definitely some really beautiful, unique & talented ladies out there, who really know how to capture one's attention.

So, yeah... I kinda know where you're coming from, at least in that regard.

Please enjoy yourself here. :)

[Charlotte7]

I don't know anyone who doesn't like a compliment. Enjoy the site. I'm new here too and am really pleased to have discovered it

[Kas]

and I just have to add: Kas! I thought you were a GG! lol, your avatar is gorgeous

Aww thanks! You put a big smile on my face!

[Beverley Sims]

That is a very nice expression of interest.

I feel that way sometimes as well yet I am one of them.

Just not as gorgeous as some. :-)

[Minnietheminx]

Aww thanks! You put a big smile on my face!

Which is why i am confused as to how to remember that i have to seperate the two in the earlier comment as there is so much gorgeousness on here!....you probably just clarified what i was trying to say there in one simple comment nameinuse! xx

[Happygirl!]

Minnie,
You're motivating me to post some pics. Would love a compliment from a GG. I'm fortunate to be married to an accepting loving woman. I think your post hits on something I've wondered about myself and other CD's here. That is, are we afraid of not fully embracing our girly side, and hanging on to our male shell because of conditioning, culture, etc. Still trying to understand this all.
Happygirl.

[Minnietheminx]

Thankyou so much ladies
i was worried that maybe it was a bit overpowering for a GG to be commenting and as you put it Laura some ladies are just getting used to speaking about it so i didnt want to come across as too much too soon sort of thing.
I have been thinking about what you said Kas all morning about the fact that maybe i do tend to forget the male side at the time and may be treating them too female.... but i do still know that it is a male dressed in the back of my mind even though i do see them that way or i think i would start to feel wrong as in wondering if i was actually lesbian if i totally forgot that side so im not beating myself up as much as i was earlier wondering if i have been forgetting that side and disregarding the male side though i do feel i prob need to look at that more and maybe hold back
I do know i love it on here and if for any reason any of you do feel i say something wrong please just correct me as it is a learning curve for me too as i have only really had the company of a few dressers in my life so i am still trying to understand the dos and donts from GGs point of view.((((((((((HUGS)))))))) xxxx

[DIANEF]

Minnie, who doesn't like a compliment! Most of us put a lot of effort into looking the best we can and for anyone, especially a GG such as yourself to give or say something positive about our look is really affirming. I'm also with you in the 'talking to girls' frame of mind. I've sent and received PMs to and from several members of the forum, I never really have it in my head that it is a man I'm communicating with.

[Minnietheminx]

Minnie, who doesn't like a compliment! Most of us put a lot of effort into looking the best we can and for anyone, especially a GG such as yourself to give or say something positive about our look is really affirming. I'm also with you in the 'talking to girls' frame of mind. I've sent and received PMs to and from several members of the forum, I never really have it in my head that it is a man I'm communicating with.

Thankyou Diane
I`m glad that im not the only one then that gets into that head or mind space as its put ..i was starting to have to check myself as i do forget but thankfully most of you are happy with that. If for one minute somebody isnt and wants to give me a nudge to remind me please just do it lol xxx

[S. Lisa Smith]

Thank you for putting your thoughts out to be discussed. I, for one (and it seems like everyone else who has commented), think that it is wonderful that you are thinking about how you view us and then put your thoughts out to see how we feel about them. I hope you stay on the forum and help for a long time!!

[Minnietheminx]

Thank you for putting your thoughts out to be discussed. I, for one (and it seems like everyone else who has commented), think that it is wonderful that you are thinking about how you view us and then put your thoughts out to see how we feel about them. I hope you stay on the forum and help for a long time!!

Thankyou Lisa
I know i need to know and understand alot more. I can only go by past dressing friends and relationships i have had so its nice to have other ladies tell me how they actually feel regards how us GGs see them or treat them.....Everyone is different so its helping me to know where i may go wrong or what im doing right for the future xxxx

[mykell]

so im not laughing....i dont think anyone here would object to being called a gorgeous girl, from a GG who is attracted to them, priceless i would imagine.

for me when i got here i felt euphoric.....being able to express freely who i was, then i got my first compliment via PM, felt really weird as it was of coarse from a man....it felt good to receive it and i have since become acclimated to it and take it for what it is.....a compliment.

for me i am who i am whether dressed female or male, no difference on how my brain functions....really wish we didnt have a ocean between us, would love to hang out with you and maybe even squeeze in a shopping trip.....

[Minnietheminx]

so im not laughing....i dont think anyone here would object to being called a gorgeous girl, from a GG who is attracted to them, priceless i would imagine.

for me when i got here i felt euphoric.....being able to express freely who i was, then i got my first compliment via PM, felt really weird as it was of coarse from a man....it felt good to receive it and i have since become acclimated to it and take it for what it is.....a compliment.

for me i am who i am whether dressed female or male, no difference on how my brain functions....really wish we didnt have a ocean between us, would love to hang out with you and maybe even squeeze in a shopping trip.....

Thanks hun
This is where its a head struggle for me though as id love to put pics on here of my dressing too as i love that side myself as well as with a girl....but then im thinking if i was in a female environment amongst my everyday friends i would say share a pic of me in a corset...but here i really have to think and say hang on you cant put that on and share a corset pic as its actually men dressing your showing and you have boobs up to your chin!!......do you get why i have to keep checking myself lol ...
Oh i know that darned ocean is a pain..so gets in the way doesnt it....i could swim ...take me a while to get there mind!...Jerseyshore is one place id love to actually see as if its the same as the one The Boss sings about and reading his biography its mentioned so much in it. im a huge fan..think i said that in another post of yours though lmao xx

[ClosetED]

Getting a compliment from a GG is the best I can desire. Other TG members might be more likely to be complimentary because they would like the same done for them. A GG who is here to support a SO may be less likely to compliment an XY person, as their SO might be jealous. But women often compliment other women, so I view it like that. A try to emulate clothes catalog models, who are chosen to attract men's attention but not in a sexual way and also to attract women's attention who wish to also look like that and have their man's attention. A GG who really likes CDers, and does not have a committed partner, and gives a compliment, can be taken as nice and friendly, or like a wolf whistle to women.

For me, I like attention - both as a handsome man and a pretty woman. I have posted over 600 pictures here to get the affirmation that I do look good, or fun things I tried. I love suggestions of things to try and what worked and did not work. I strive to look feminine in many different ways. I also have male bedroom costumes (sailor /fireman /leather /wrestler) to get attention that way.
So feel free to voice your opinion of how I look- I like it! And my wife (who signed the divorce papers) is unable to tolerate that I can be both.
Hugs, Ellen

[Chelsea B]

Minnie, all I can say is, you are a dream come true!
All of us here would be thrilled to have an SO like you.

[Minnietheminx]

Getting a compliment from a GG is the best I can desire. Other TG members might be more likely to be complimentary because they would like the same done for them. A GG who is here to support a SO may be less likely to compliment an XY person, as their SO might be jealous. But women often compliment other women, so I view it like that. A try to emulate clothes catalog models, who are chosen to attract men's attention but not in a sexual way and also to attract women's attention who wish to also look like that and have their man's attention. A GG who really likes CDers, and does not have a committed partner, and gives a compliment, can be taken as nice and friendly, or like a wolf whistle to women.

For me, I like attention - both as a handsome man and a pretty woman. I have posted over 600 pictures here to get the affirmation that I do look good, or fun things I tried. I love suggestions of things to try and what worked and did not work. I strive to look feminine in many different ways. I also have male bedroom costumes (sailor /fireman /leather /wrestler) to get attention that way.
So feel free to voice your opinion of how I look- I like it! And my wife (who signed the divorce papers) is unable to tolerate that I can be both.
Hugs, Ellen

I can associate with you totally Ellen
Last year i was around 140lbs or so heavier...we work in stones here but it was around 8 stone (trying to work that out in pounds lol) basically i was carrying another person in weight and last March i said i was going to lose 28lbs by christmas but had shed a hell of a lot more. My aim was to get into a latex catsuit...dont ask me why as i had never worn latex in my life but i had seen pics and wondered and so that was my goal. I managed to get into one a few months back and a latex corset and it felt amazing! I love dressing anyway but to suddenly get into all these clothes i had no hope of even getting on one arm let alone my body was just the most immense feeling ever.
I dont recognise myself now and so do take a lot of pics and like for yourself it is lovely to receive compliments. I had never had them before and the feeling is one of sheer happiness that someone thinks you look attactive ....i suppose i was looking for confirmation myself and no matter how much i think hey you look ok now i do find parts of my body are not what i wanted them to be because of the weight loss of course. a tummy tuck is in order and the boobs need hoists ha ha..but dressed i feel great ...but to have others say well done you look amazing and to look back on old pics of myself is wonderful so its not just those that dress that love this even us GGs do at times.
I will try to find your pictures....still discovering how to navigate around. I dont even know how to add pics lol apart from avatars or how to resize so cant even share anything of myself on here. xxxxx

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Minnie, all I can say is, you are a dream come true!
All of us here would be thrilled to have an SO like you.

Thankyou Chelsea....I can be a bitch lmao!! dont forget us GGs also get very hormonal so once a month my claws come out ha ha xxx

[Shelly Preston]

Hi Minnie

I am sure a lot of around here can relate to a really odd feeling. I am glad to hear your are enjoying the forum.

Oh and congratulations on the weight loss ( this is never easy for anyone)

[janebynight]

Hello again
It is always nice to hear you look good, whoever it is that tells you. I only have one pic on here and not sure if it appears next to my posts, as it does not show on my pc.

[Minnietheminx]

Hi Minnie

I am sure a lot of around here can relate to a really odd feeling. I am glad to hear your are enjoying the forum.

Oh and congratulations on the weight loss ( this is never easy for anyone)

Thankyou hun
the first 8 stone has been easy but the last 3 i want to lose is another story...im just stuck lol...but i will get there. xxxxxxx

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so true hun. or i suppose what would be the point in us ever trying to look good!!
i cant see a picture of you hun. I see you are only in Cumbria too.....she says as if its on my doorstep lol xxx

[Teresa]

Minnie,
Maybe I can relate a funny story from a while ago , on the theme of forgetting what gender we are relating to I was talking about children with another member and reached a point where if we didn't stop the conversation we would end up talking about stretch marks ! We both saw the funny side of that one but it's so easy to think in opposite gender terms .

It's also happens while shopping even in drab, when I was buying some peep toe heels , I tried them on and the SA thought they looked good and said without thinking about gender how lucky I was to be able to wear shoes like that when she couldn't .

I hope I haven't got my sums wrong but currently I'm 147 lbs which works out at 10 stone 7lbs,
given that 14lbs = 1 stone so 10 stone =140 lbs .

[foxy bartender]

Minnie,
You’re such a sweet person, I doubt anyone could take offense at your compliments! You don’t come off as anything but genuine, and respectful! People like yourself are the reason this community is so great, so please, never stop being yourself!

[ellbee]

...maybe i do tend to forget the male side at the time and may be treating them too female.... but i do still know that it is a male dressed in the back of my mind even though i do see them that way or i think i would start to feel wrong as in wondering if i was actually lesbian if i totally forgot that side so im not beating myself up as much as i was earlier wondering if i have been forgetting that side and disregarding the male side...

Even though I don't post photos of myself here, if you did see me out & about, you would definitely know I was a guy, LOL. (Albeit of the pretty-boy type, as I've been known to be considered by GG's as eye-candy, at times. :battingeyelashes: )

I say that, because like some others here, I don't present as a female, with the whole get-up. I *used* to -- a lot. But these days, I'm just a dude, presenting as one, but dressed head-to-toe in women's activewear (typically the hoodie/leggings/running shoes look).

Heck, there are some of us here who throw on a dress, tights & heels... Along with a full beard.


So, while many of us here do go the whole 9 yards & do the whole en-femme thing, keep in mind that others don't. You'll find that there are plenty of different "flavors" of CD'ing. It really does run the full spectrum, which is awesome as it keeps things interesting! :)

[Minnietheminx]

Minnie,
Maybe I can relate a funny story from a while ago , on the theme of forgetting what gender we are relating to I was talking about children with another member and reached a point where if we didn't stop the conversation we would end up talking about stretch marks ! We both saw the funny side of that one but it's so easy to think in opposite gender terms .

It's also happens while shopping even in drab, when I was buying some peep toe heels , I tried them on and the SA thought they looked good and said without thinking about gender how lucky I was to be able to wear shoes like that when she couldn't .

I hope I haven't got my sums wrong but currently I'm 147 lbs which works out at 10 stone 7lbs,
given that 14lbs = 1 stone so 10 stone =140 lbs .

LoL Now that i a story i would like to know that led to stretchmarks......oh heck no ive not lost that much 8 stone in all so far ...my maths is rubbish lol...though i think im tired more so as not slept for two days....so its more 104 am i right? lol xxx

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Minnie,
You’re such a sweet person, I doubt anyone could take offense at your compliments! You don’t come off as anything but genuine, and respectful! People like yourself are the reason this community is so great, so please, never stop being yourself!

Thankyou Foxy...love your hair by the way!! xx

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Even though I don't post photos of myself here, if you did see me out & about, you would definitely know I was a guy, LOL. (Albeit of the pretty-boy type, as I've been known to be considered by GG's as eye-candy, at times. :battingeyelashes: )

I say that, because like some others here, I don't present as a female, with the whole get-up. I *used* to -- a lot. But these days, I'm just a dude, presenting as one, but dressed head-to-toe in women's activewear (typically the hoodie/leggings/running shoes look).

Heck, there are some of us here who throw on a dress, tights & heels... Along with a full beard.


So, while many of us here do go the whole 9 yards & do the whole en-femme thing, keep in mind that others don't. You'll find that there are plenty of different "flavors" of CD'ing. It really does run the full spectrum, which is awesome as it keeps things interesting! :)

LOL Laura yes i am realising that now i suppose i hadnt thought about those that dont go full head to toe or those that have beards. Like i say just my experiences in the past but im learning pretty quickly so taking everything on board now when i comment ...i may slip up now and again but just shout at me ha ha xx

[Kandi Robbins]

An honest GG perspective is certainly welcome, appreciated and could be educational in many instances. Welcome!!

[Minnietheminx]

An honest GG perspective is certainly welcome, appreciated and could be educational in many instances. Welcome!!

Thankyou Kandi xxxx

[Lana Mae]

Hi, Minnie! I agree with Kandi! An honest GG opinion will be interesting! Welcome aboard! Hugs Lana Mae

[Rayleen]

I feel the same way Minnie, I thinks it makes us feel good about our self , and it helps us being accepted as we are .

We can compare our differences and similarities . Its good to dream being what we fantasize in our mind.

[Minnietheminx]

Thankyou Lana and Rayleen...xxxx

[Alice B]

You are likke a breath of fresh air. Keepit yp

[BrittanyB]

Minnie, it's been great having you here! You're a good soul and I'm sure I can speak for most, if not all, a great addition to our community!

*Hugs*

Brittany

[Amy Lynn3]

Minnie, thank you for your honesty, speaking with us cder's. Don't worry about your ability in knowing what you need to know, just to talk to us. You already know the most important thing, which is befriending us for just who we are. Most here are men who love to wear female attire and look as beautiful as possible.

It is so refreshing to talk to a woman who sees us for who we are and talks to us in like manner. Your compliments are welcome and so are you. You have found a home here as long as you want to live here. You my dear are a rare jewel and I wish you could clone yourself, to a point that any cder who wants a woman like you could have one. I for one would love to have you.

Please learn how to post pictures here, without an x rating, of course. I know we all would like to see you in all your beauty. I'm sure no cder would object seeing an x rated picture, but you must send those by PM.:)

[docrobbysherry]

Minnie, I hope u realize even if u don't feel like a fox in the hen house, u r! :heehee:

Personally? It took me YEARS of looking at the photos here and of meeting trans in person before I stopped cringing!:doh:

Now, I no longer see the "men in dresses" I used to see most dressers as. I see people I know and like! Much as u do maybe. Only without the "fox in a hen house" attitude! :D
Because I'm straight.:)

[nameinuse]

Minnie, I hope u realize even if u don't feel like a fox in the hen house, u r! :heehee:


hehe, I was just coming in to say she must feel like a kid in a candy store but you beat me to it.

[Minnietheminx]

Thankyou so much ladies.
I love being on here. I feel i am where i belong if that makes sense that i can be who i want to be and dont have to hide. Its so hard at times to beable to express these things much as it is for yourselves its equally as hard for GGs like mysef to get others to understand and it doesnt matter how much you try everyday GGs just dont get it!

Ha ha Amy...clone me..well ive been told they broke the mould when they made me and with good reason coz i am just totally nutty as a fruitcake lol..if they did clone me make sure they give me a better body well toned and one that doesnt need spanx to hold the bits where they are meant to be oh and one that can eat cream cakes and never put on an ounce of weight.....im not asking for much!! lol.......deal?

I did giggle over your dont put x rated pics on...i cant even master how to put a pic on of myself never mind x rated.....and well... they wouldnt be x rated just i love corsets pettis corsetted gowns etc and so well....its unavoidable that when wearing that sort of stuff that you dont come across as a bit risque when ya wobbly bits are pushed up to the max! so probably better i dont lol. Last thing i would want to do is upest any other GGs on here as much as i love dressing up and sharing my dressing....it probably not fitting...i will change my avatar a few times with outfits maybe that is best so least i get to share my love of dressing as well that way with you x


Docrobbysherry fox in a hen house.....that made me laugh...but yes did feel a bit that way at first but im getting used to it now i think.....long as nobody come trying to shoot me ..one good reason not to post pics of myself in corsets lol!!! lol

Lana, Rayleen, nameinuse, Alice and Brittany ..Thankyou ladies....its lovely to be on here and hope to stay around...ive no plans to disappear thats for sure..xxxx

[Suzanne Blake]

Minnie,

As usual I’m a little late to the party, but I would like to repeat what the others have said. I think it’s great that you are here and I enjoy your posts. We all love compliments and when they come from an attractive GG like yourself so much more the better.

Suzanne

[janebynight]

wow love the dress in your latest photo. Fab!!!

Oh and I am in the region of 80 miles from you, as the crow flies, but quite a bit further by road.

[Shely]

Mini, I wish you could bottle what it is you have invented so i could give some to my SO. I loved reading your responses and all the other posts, too. This is why i keep coming back to this forum. I love the feeling of real sincere talk about a somewhat difficult subject. Love Ya!!, ALL.:love:

[Genni]

Minnie, you, your comments, and your opinions are indeed so very welcome here! The need to feel accepted is fundamental. You go well beyond "acceptance" to helping us feel appreciated for who we are. That is no small thing. Thank you, dear lady!
I agree with Jane, you are absolutely stunning in that purple dress. :love: I've added such a dress to my shopping list :daydreaming:

[Minnietheminx]

Thankyou so much ladies..i love it here and how welcome you have made me feel. I know i still have a lot to learn yet as only had a few pasts experiences with CD friendships and relationships but i love reading and learning more about the different sides....I havent a clue how to resize pics etc so just showing few of my bits i have worn past and present in my avatar
Thankyou about my avatar picture. Its actually a raven (Brand name) skirt with petti under then corset and gothic frock coat over. Was one of my favourite outfits to dress up in...yes i am the female equivalent lol....prob worse actually. As ive said before i just love dressing even though i dont actually go out in it all...just love pretty clothes and unusual clothing.
Jane ...yes not far really...If ever you are over this way youre always welcome...
Hugs to you all ladies xxxxxxx

[janebynight]

I had been wondering what to wear tonight, now having seen your latest avatar i know. Its going to be my red swing dress with all the layered petticoats i can find.
I cant remember the last time I was your way, bet its more than 20 yrs.:coolphotos:

[CarlaWestin]

Oh, so you came here for the eye candy. Hmmm? Maybe you should check out this thread a CD friend of mine started.

Let's see your sexiest picture (https://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?246777-Let-s-see-your-sexiest-picture)