"Making Love" Whilst Dressed Up?

[Chanel-hilton]

Is that a regular thing for any of you?
Back when I was single I used to get 'straight' guys off Grindr asking to meet me almost daily whilst dressed up - and that's how I met my ex who classed himself as straight so would always prefer me to get dressed up most of the time too.
My current boyfriend isn't into it, doesn't mind that I dress up - just not in the bedroom, which is fair enough.
I don't mind either way, but I think it's so hot when I know that the other person prefers me as a girl and I'm kinda fulfilling a fantasy for them in a way lol
How about you ladies?

[Shelly Preston]

Hi Chanel

I have moved this thread for you

[Kendalli]

I definitely prefer being dressed when doing things. The several guys I have been with didn't really like it but put up with it. Like you I found them on grindr, but they were definitely gay and into my guy mode. I did it with the wife once recently, wearing some of my lingerie, and it was spectacular. Again, she wasn't really into it, so she said. So I am keeping it out of the bedroom for now.

[Chanel-hilton]

Thanks Shelly

Kendalli, tbh I don't mind either way - usually guys who are actually gay want me to look like a guy, because obv that's what they're into, I only dress for the straight guys like when they ask
My Grindr profile pic used to be a pic of me in and out of dressing up so guys would message and be like "I'll have a girl please" or "boys only :)" haha

[KymG]

Its something i would very much like to do, just need a Girl who is in to that, not just puts up with it.
I think it would be amazingly sensual and sexual.

[Mykaa]

Yes for me, Ive been told more women are into this than I realize, I have yet to meet one

[McLegs]

Yes they are out there. I had a female friend, that when the mood was right; it would be girl on girl love making. A sort of "lesbian" affair if you will. "Spike & the boys" would remain tucked, toys were used. That was such a great time.

[Tracy Irving]

Occasionally my wife will ask where my bra and forms are. She does it to make me happy so I eagerly comply. Any clothing beyond that would just get in the way.

[CONSUELO]

Hi Chanel,

If you haven't already done so you need to read ALICE IN GENDERLAND BY RICHARD NOVIC. I think you may find someone who feels like you do.

I think that what you do is very erotic and I hope you don't feel as if you are alone in feeling this way. Many members would not countenance such behavior but it is not for all and perfectly acceptable for those who like it. Being made love to while dressed is a highly charged experience.

[Majella St Gerard]

I'd say about 50% of the time I'm crossdressed when having sex. Just recently while getting "reacquainted" with my wife, my breast forms popped out and smacked her in the face.

[deebra]

Your current boyfriend is "not into it" and you think it's so "hot" when you are with a guy that prefers you as a girl. Maybe you should keep your eye open for one that prefers you as a girl; boyfriends can be changed out for someone where you both have the same likes and you are both happier. I'm sure it's much more of a turn on for you when you get dressed as a girl, are treated like a woman during the evening and enjoy his eyes on the woman he was with that evening as you undress as you get ready for bed.

[Stacy Darling]

Not anymore, with girlfriends and ex-wife in the past though! Their DOM choices!

Some of us "Girls will be Girls" I guess, so personal preference it is!

Stacy!

[Chanel-hilton]

Deeba, well I love my boyfriend lol. Like I said before I like sex both dressed up and as myself - my boyfriend was straight up until last year when he met me and realised he was gay - now he's not into girls at all, that includes to have sex with - he fancies men so me dressed as a girl wouldn't do it for him. I mean, we've had sex whilst I'm dressed up a few times, but that's usually after a night out when I'm already dressed as a girl and he's horny so doesn't care what I currently look like haha
Back when I would sleep with the guys when I was dressed up, that was just for them - not for me

Consuelo, I've not heard of that book, Im not really a reader but I might look it up :)

[docrobbysherry]

I'm straight Chanel or I'm SURE I'd have some great stories to tell because of the guys that have hit on me. :heehee:

Unfortunately, no GG's interested as yet.:straightface:

But, at this point in my life I'm 75, not sure I want to share Sherry with anyone. Even a pretty GG!:devil:

[Stephanie47]

In the early years of my marriage on occasion I would wear a nightgown to bed. My wife and I even shopped together for them. She bought my hosiery and a garter belt too. She viewed it as 'kinky sex' with benefits for her. I think I have to stress "kinky.' At that time neither she nor I considered it cross dressing. It was just the texture and feel of the nylon gowns and the hosiery. Donning a gown was not a daily or frequent occurrence. As my interest in nylon expanded into slips and then a bra, things changed. Our daughter open the bottom draw of my armoire, open my box of lingerie and yanked out a vivid red Vanity Fair bra which my wife retrieved from our daughter's hands. That brought on "The Talk" which turned her off on the lingerie wearing to bed. Everything changed from 'kinky' to 'lesbian/pseudo woman' which really shut her down. She did enjoy the benefits of her husband somewhat into a little 'kinky' behavior, but, emulating a woman was a complete turnoff. No 'pseudo lesbians in her bed!

Once you have been married for over four decades you pretty much get to know or should know what your spouse's likes and dislikes are. If you find it is a "duty" to perform for him or her, the other spouse will sense it. It sort of takes the enjoyment out of it. It somewhat falls into the category of picking up a hooker to satisfy your urges without any love connection involved. Sort of being so self absorbed in one's self at the exclusion of your partner.

[Beverley Sims]

I had a relationship with my girlfriends when I was twenty.

They used to dress me up and this led to sleeping with some of them.

Always dressed as a girl.

We played wonderful bedroom games and had the most unusual pajama parties.

[RADER]

My wife did not mind me wearing baby dolls nightie to bed each night.
when we made love, it stayed on. There was no trouble.
Rader

[Karmen]

Making love while dressed is definitely something on a "to do" list for me somewhere in the future.

[Nancie64]

Most of the time with my SO it's fully dressed. It is great after some foreplay she drops my skirt or pulls down the zipper on my dress. Usually great.

[Jaylyn]

My wife and I have tried it several times when she started helping me dress. I'm very into makeup so usually when we have sex she knows it is hotter for me if she wears dark red lipstick. Many times she will ask me if I want to wear it also and of course I say "oh yes" in the heat of the moment. Nothing hotter than having kiss marks on the whites of the partners body. If you get my drift.
We have tried both of us dressed fully in hot sexy attire, I found it hotter than she does so I've settled for the lipstick.

[Samm]

I'd say 9 times out of 10, I have something girly on while wifey and I are "busy". But She identifies as bi, so I guess you could call that a threesome? lol

[Rhonda Jean]

Back when making love was a regular thing, yes.

[Robin777]

Back in our early years of marriage it happened quite frequently with me in a nightgown or dressed all the way. Over 30+ years it has evolvolved to where I start out with a nightgown but I get asked to take off most everything, Once and a while I can leave some of it on.

[Allison Chaynes]

Not usually head to toe because of kids and trying to stay fairly closeted, but always to some degree, every time, even if it's just panties only.

[Michaelasfun]

I asked my wife to allow it on my birthday one year, she played along and we had an "experience" as two girls. Lotta fun!!

[gunta]

I am horny while dresed up. Few times I had sex with TG, that was fun

[Rhian]

It's something I've always wanted to do. I have 'lesbian' fantasies but realistically I've accepted it's very unlikely to happen as very few women are into guys who are very feminine.

[MorganStar]

My bf always insists that I am dressed when we start to make love..at first I thought he needed the illusion to overcome some road block but turns out he has a thing for boys dressed in girls clothes.

[Secret Sis]

My wife has known about my dressing for almost 3 years now (married almost 19 years, been dressing for almost 50 years) and it has been a long slow road to acceptance but she is pretty much there now. That being said, just about every bedroom encounter now includes some degree of both of us in sexy lingerie and it seems to me that her level of enjoyment has increased recently. I feel like we have never been closer or happier together.

[kimberly c]

100% of the time I dress in lingerie including breast forms and its always a great encounter.

[Donna St. Marten]

Lingerie, stockings and high heels for both of us the past 20 years. Occasionally fully dressed with wigs and makeup.

[Alenko]

Ah, I haven't tried anything like this just yet. I suppose I would need to find someone who would be willing?

[Doaranna]

OMG, yes! it was a former gg-gf, back when I was str8, that started dressing me ... and every time we had such hot sex. I will admit, at first it seemed awkward, but not for long. It turned out to be a week-end ritual. But this was a lady that wanted me to dress and encouraged my feminine side. For her it brought together a deeper passion as it was one of her passions as well.

[faltenrock]

Chanel, I've been dressed for intimacy quite many times and it feels great and doesn't compare to anything else. For you, I think you might come up to a point where you want a BF who will enjoy being with you as a girl.

[Chanel-hilton]

faltenrock

My ex would only sleep with me if I was dressed as a girl - and it was annoying. I like dressing up, but I like spontaneous sex too - my current boyfriend and I will start shagging at literally any moment - whilst I'm cooking, watching a movie, in the shower, out taking a drive etc - whereas before it all had to be planned and all "I finish work at 8pm so make sure you're dressed up" - it was hot but got frustrating, especially cos it'd take me like a hour to get ready

[CDPheobe]

I dress up a lot and make love to my wife. She doesn't mind either way. She just loves me for being me. But to be honest, I LOVE being dressed always.

[FrannGurl]

I like to wear something pretty at bedtime when my boyfriend stays over. I dress for me, but I want to be eye candy to him also.
If he likes me to wear a particular thing to bed, Ill humor him and I enjoy doing it
For me what I always found annoying when I was going to meet a guy was I felt like a restaurant menu.. ala carte,
They would say oh, can you wear black heels please? Do you have a short skirt? Id like you to wear this or that. I finally had enough
and would tell guys that "I dress nice but I wear what I like" and "would you ask me that if I was a GG?"
But I like wearing one of my nighties or negligees at "bedtime" and I do get a charge out of it, knowing I excite my partner

[Chanel-hilton]

FrannGirl, I've had that exact same thing 😂 Pretty much every guy on Grindr will tell me "wear this, wear that, wear perfume" etc

[Josie Whimwham]

The very few times I've been intimate with another man (way back when), I had to be the girl. It was great fun, but I really had to think of myself as being Josie.
When I'm with a woman, I have to be the man. Which my wife very much prefers! ;) She is NOT attracted to any pseudo-lesbian flings with her husband.
When I'm dressed a girl, that's the only time I'm at all attracted to men. :daydreaming:

[Babbs]

I'd say about 50% of the time I'm crossdressed when having sex. Just recently while getting "reacquainted" with my wife, my breast forms popped out and smacked her in the face.

I love it Majella!! haha before i really took cding super serious i used water balloons instead of breast forms for my boobs. Had one break while in bed...a real mood killer lol

[Kate Jennings]

I am blessed to have a gf who is very sexual.

She was not aware I was a dresser when we met but she is very into variation and living out fantasies.

Virtually from the start, we've been extremely open about things we'd like to try. So, early on I said to myself "I'm going for it" and told her crossdressing would turn me on. However, I did not come right out and tell her I am a CD.

She thought the idea sounded sexy and we made a date to try it. We each have our own home and so the plan was for me to let myself into her house early in the afternoon and to spend as long as I needed to get made up. When the got off work she'd come home and I would greet her at the door. It was so sexy, bathing, shaving, getting made up and dressing at her house as if I were meeting a blind date.

My heart skipped a beat when I heard her pull in the driveway but what was so exciting was that I didn't have to hide. I have to say there wasn't even a moment's embarrassment or anxiety. She saw me and it was an instant turn on for both of us. Chat led to love making and that night she got me to confess that I have a passion for CDing.

Confessing was the greatest thing I could have done...It opened a new world...Because we are so open sexually we have added "Kate time" to our love making. I dress for her fairly regularly and I have even gotten her to come home in a men's suit a few times to meet me. She has taken me for drives and walks while I am en femme. We have even enjoyed a few threesomes where both of us have met up with men. She and I have had an experience with another woman when I was dressed where we played as three gals.

I have been able to give full expression as Kate and not be judged. Had I not said anything, I might still be hoping.

[Rollermiss]

Well being I exclusively wear feminine cloths to bed. Then yeah, I dress up when we Make love.

Kelsey

[KelleyB]

Yes, I've made love to my wife while dressed, more times than not in the past 10 years, and recently, I've asked her to remain in her bridesmaid dress while I stay in mine. It's a little clumsy, initially, but there is a definite erogenous 'pull' to me having my bra rub against her back or to have her breasts be snuggled against mine.

There's no gender role change for us, I'm just her husband wearing something different. It's quite nice she understands this and has no issues with it.