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Maria 60
02-19-2018, 09:23 AM
I don't want to come across like I'm trying to exaggerate or rubbing something in, but this is the only place I could share or talk about this. Yesterday my wife went shopping which all women love to do, she came home and pulled a few pairs of black panties out of a bag. She explained that she was looking for some panties for herself and seen the ones she was holding and she thought that I could wear my male underwear to work and the rest of the time I could wear the ones she was holding. She said there like boy shorts but there very silky and she knows how much I like to wear something fem under my male close and feel alittle feminine, almost like a win, win situation.
I didn't know what to say I was just sitting there staring at her in disbelief that she was out shopping for herself and without me telling her or asking her she just thought of this on her own, almost like she knows me that good and has me all figured out. She asked me why I was looking at her in that way and why it looked like my eyes were getting watery. I told her I can't believe she thought of me when shopping for herself and how thoughtful and unselfish she was and that I couldn't have ever imagined having a women so accepting. She's looking at me weird and she asked me if I'm getting soft with my old age, it's only underwear she didn't run a marathon. That's my wife, never wanting to get praised, or underplays everything, and just layed back and deals with everything one day at a time. Sometimes I believe she's not so accepting but more of her human nature, she is a positive person, always supporting and encouraging me and our kids that we have to live our lives to the fullest and we can do whatever we want and she will do whatever it takes to fulfill it. I could tell others about how my wife is but I could only tell how unselfish she is even for Maria here. Like I said I didn't write this to rub in the way my wife is but I thought it had to be said and the only place I could share this is here with my friends. I still don't believe she understands what an amazing thing she did. Thanks for letting share.

HollyGreene
02-19-2018, 09:37 AM
That's great.

I know how you feel. I had a girlfriend years ago who thought my CDing was a bit odd, but accepted it and she willingly let me wear her things.
Then one day, she produced some really nice sexy, lacy underwear that she had bought for me as a gift. What a fantastic feeling when you realise that they accept you as you are.
She knew it was what I liked and that CDing was totally harmless.

Krisi
02-19-2018, 09:43 AM
That's great It seems she may be coming around a bit. Be sure to tell and show her that you love her.

Jaylyn
02-19-2018, 09:54 AM
Maria that is wonderful. You are amongst the few that have an accepting wife. Really and truly do something good for her to show your love for her. Mine started out being a full supporter of my dressing even bought Jaylyn Christmas n Birthday presents, but I guess the novelty of Jaylyn being femme wasn't a lasting one. We are between a DADT to I just don't want the kids to know and promise me you'll never go out dressed. Maybe it's just a GG thing but she did let me get my toes painted the same color as hers. That was albeit two or so weeks ago. Maybe she is getting back to accepting Jaylyn is not going anywhere.
Count your good blessings Maria they certainly are not all like your wife.

Asew
02-19-2018, 09:57 AM
I have reacted similarly when my wife goes above and beyond. Thanks for sharing this moment with us :)

Samm
02-19-2018, 10:13 AM
My wife shows me fem things all the time that she thinks would look good on me. I have yet to get a surprise gift of anything girly, even on Christmas or my birthday. If, or when I do, I'll probably well up and cry like a baby with emotion.

Beverley Sims
02-19-2018, 11:45 AM
Maria,
I hate to be a leveller here but I think it is a great thing your wife has done and things look good for you.

When she does favours like that for you, yes, do show your appreciation but do not be too gushy in the process.

Telling her just how feminine you feel or other womanly things can sour the relationship.

If she asks you directly how you feel or the suitability of an item well do say so.

It is not too good to embellish the situation unless you get encouragement.

Enjoy the moment and remember in the back of your mind that she married a man and probably thinks of you that way.

Remember she is your wife. :-)

Stephanie47
02-19-2018, 11:51 AM
You're very fortunate. Decades ago I hinted that all I wanted for a birthday presents was panties. My wife and I went to our local Mervyn's to pick out several pairs. It was a psychological disaster for her. It bordered on mental spousal abuse. She was so turned off. There are issue she has which predates our relationship that she has never confronted. She will not discuss them. Perhaps, I wanted her to buy panties for me because it would validate who I was and her acceptance. It took a lot of "self" rfelction to realize I did not need her validation.

I never thought a pair of plain white or black nylon panties would turn a woman off. Anyway, Maria, you're very fortunate to have a wife would is comfortable with her own sexuality to let her husband have a little enjoyment with his own sexuality. I would conjecture she does not see cross dressing as a threat to her marriage or herself.

Isabella Ross
02-19-2018, 12:26 PM
Maria...awesome. Disregard Beverley's advice and make sure you get gushy with your gratitude.

docrobbysherry
02-19-2018, 01:11 PM
U didn't have to say it, Maria. But, since u did, I hope re-reading what u felt will continue that warm feeling u got from this experience with your SO!:)

alwayshave
02-19-2018, 10:14 PM
Maria, I have said it before, and will say it again, you have a wonderful wife cherish her.

Teri Ray
02-20-2018, 07:24 AM
Great story thanks for sharing and hug your wife

Karen RHT
02-20-2018, 08:05 AM
Awesome story Maria, thanks so much for sharing with us. It's truly reassuring to know that women like your lovely wife really do exist.


Karen

Krea
02-21-2018, 03:15 AM
Maria, that's a really great post. :)
There's no doubt about it, receiving a spontaneous CDing gift, large or small, from a partner is a truly wonderful feeling.

DaisyLawrence
02-21-2018, 05:56 AM
Brilliant!
As Isabella says, disregard Beverleys' advise.
Also, Stephanie 47, when did Maria say anything about her sexuality? She is exploring her gender expression, not her sexuality, is she not?

kimdl93
02-21-2018, 07:27 AM
It was a lovely gesture on her part, and I’m sure you reciprocate in many equally thoughtful ways.

Stephanie Kimberlie
02-21-2018, 05:54 PM
Wonderful story.