faltenrock
02-20-2018, 04:52 AM
So, last Saturday I had some business in the Netherlands (I'm from northern Germany).
On my way from Groningen to Enschede, I stopped in Almelo to visit a bar/cafe for a beer.
As I was sitting at a table for only a few minutes, a woman came up to me and asked if I wanted to join the round, at another table.
She said, you're sitting here alone, so why don't you come to our table - so I did.
There were three women (around 50 or little less) and an older man (74). They told me that they had a hot discussion about politics in Armenia and so on. The woman who asked me to jin is half Turkish and half Armenien.
Not very long afterwards and an introduction (names) fairly fast, the subject came up: "Are you a woman, a man, TG or in between the genders?".
The woman, Alexandra, who asked me to join wanted to know more and I explained to her that I would identify as a Crossdresser, if at all.
I proceded to explain transvestites, crossdresser, TG, TS and 'Drag Queens'. However, I made a statement, that within the TG community, as I believe most Drag Queens are gay and tat the majority who identify as 'transvestites' are also gay, where as crossdressers are usually heterosexual men with a wife/female partner and have a family.
That went on for some time with lots of questions.
However, there was this other woman, who got really pissed about what I explained to Alrxandra, who wanted to know what my 'box' would be.
It turns out that this other woman is gay, she really got angry and we had a fight developing. All the others at the table made clear that I had only answered a particular questions and that I didn't put all together in a gay box or whatever box. I had just explained what kind of 'categories' existed in the TG community.
That angry woman didn't stop accusing me to make prejudices statements of people of all kind.
The then left angry without saying good bye.
The rest of them told me she had a terrible day and some private issues, and that this was the initial reason for that fight.
Later on, around 10 PM, Alexandra asked me if I wanted to come with her to visit frinds who live nearby. Sio we walked there, me in my black pleated skirt and a pleated white blouse with a white Blazer and black high heels.
We came to that beautiful old house, which is actually a landmark of the city center, built in 1873. We stepped in and I was in the middle of a beautiful classic room with many mirrors and a large long table in the middle.
The owners, a very nice gay couple (guys) and there was also a couple around 40 years.
Again, I was quickly the theme of the night.
I explained my life, what happened to me as a young boy (fire) and the could really relate to my motives of dressing up and presenting as female (every 4-10 weeks for 1-2 days).
Alexandra wanted my phone number and the gay couple asked me to visit next time when I get to Holland.
I might have new friends as Doreen.....
I find it very interesting lately. Whenever I go out to have a fun night I tend to meet interesting and 'interested' new people.
I probably wouldn't have met these people if Ihad been out as a man, as Dave.
Isn't that amazing???
Girls, go out there if you have any desire, the world is open and nice.
This is the room where we spent the night until after midnight. The picture of me that night.
If you have any questions, just reply or send a PM - thanks for reading.
On my way from Groningen to Enschede, I stopped in Almelo to visit a bar/cafe for a beer.
As I was sitting at a table for only a few minutes, a woman came up to me and asked if I wanted to join the round, at another table.
She said, you're sitting here alone, so why don't you come to our table - so I did.
There were three women (around 50 or little less) and an older man (74). They told me that they had a hot discussion about politics in Armenia and so on. The woman who asked me to jin is half Turkish and half Armenien.
Not very long afterwards and an introduction (names) fairly fast, the subject came up: "Are you a woman, a man, TG or in between the genders?".
The woman, Alexandra, who asked me to join wanted to know more and I explained to her that I would identify as a Crossdresser, if at all.
I proceded to explain transvestites, crossdresser, TG, TS and 'Drag Queens'. However, I made a statement, that within the TG community, as I believe most Drag Queens are gay and tat the majority who identify as 'transvestites' are also gay, where as crossdressers are usually heterosexual men with a wife/female partner and have a family.
That went on for some time with lots of questions.
However, there was this other woman, who got really pissed about what I explained to Alrxandra, who wanted to know what my 'box' would be.
It turns out that this other woman is gay, she really got angry and we had a fight developing. All the others at the table made clear that I had only answered a particular questions and that I didn't put all together in a gay box or whatever box. I had just explained what kind of 'categories' existed in the TG community.
That angry woman didn't stop accusing me to make prejudices statements of people of all kind.
The then left angry without saying good bye.
The rest of them told me she had a terrible day and some private issues, and that this was the initial reason for that fight.
Later on, around 10 PM, Alexandra asked me if I wanted to come with her to visit frinds who live nearby. Sio we walked there, me in my black pleated skirt and a pleated white blouse with a white Blazer and black high heels.
We came to that beautiful old house, which is actually a landmark of the city center, built in 1873. We stepped in and I was in the middle of a beautiful classic room with many mirrors and a large long table in the middle.
The owners, a very nice gay couple (guys) and there was also a couple around 40 years.
Again, I was quickly the theme of the night.
I explained my life, what happened to me as a young boy (fire) and the could really relate to my motives of dressing up and presenting as female (every 4-10 weeks for 1-2 days).
Alexandra wanted my phone number and the gay couple asked me to visit next time when I get to Holland.
I might have new friends as Doreen.....
I find it very interesting lately. Whenever I go out to have a fun night I tend to meet interesting and 'interested' new people.
I probably wouldn't have met these people if Ihad been out as a man, as Dave.
Isn't that amazing???
Girls, go out there if you have any desire, the world is open and nice.
This is the room where we spent the night until after midnight. The picture of me that night.
If you have any questions, just reply or send a PM - thanks for reading.