Dress shopping with my wife

[Shayna]

Well, it's not what you think.

She needed a couple of outfits for an event and was stressing about it. I volunteered to go help her look. She knows I dress, but it is strictly DADT. She never wants to talk about it. I wonder if she thought for a second that I'm able to give her good advice because I know what I'm looking at.

[DaisyLawrence]

Did you give her good advise?

[Rayleen]

Shayna, I have been shopping for my wife for quite a while, she rely on me and love my choice for her clothes.

It has given me a chance to bye clothes for myself.

Rayleen

[alwayshave]

Shayna, I enjoy shopping with my fiancee, whether its for me or her. Even though she knows and is supportive, she is not looking for my input as our styles are completely different.

[Beverley Sims]

I help my wife look for a good supporting bra the other day.

Yes I know the ins and outs of fitting bras due to my photographic background and fashion photography for advertising.

[Connie D50]

I go shopping with my wife a lot .(sometimes even dressed) She always looks for my opinion (I love giving it) . Even when we go out and when she used to work she would come into my office in the morning for my two cent on that days outfit. I help with every aspect of her wardrobe shoes, cloths, even bras & panties just yesterday we went shopping for her next Coach purse.

[Robertacd]

Crossdreser or not, women expect their spouses to be able to answer honestly when asked "Do you like the red or the blue dress?".

So I wouldn't read much more into it, specially if you are in a DADT.

[Tina_gm]

At 1st my wife felt very uncomfortable with me looking at dresses (for her) as she felt I was thinking more about myself than her. I admitted that I would look for myself, but yet at the same time had a true vested interest in what was good for her. In time she grew to use me as a pair of eyes. We would be shopping in separate sections of a mall sometimes and I would get a text or call to meet her where she was to get my opinion. It did become a validation of sorts, and I too had been in mostly a DADT agreement. I say mostly because the subject was talked about but I have not except with only one real occasion never dressed in her presence.

[jacques]

have a good time!

[LeannS]

Shayna I am in the same boat as you I go along to give support and pick out things she has missed
or get an Idead that I like and go back later and pick it up lol

[Joyce Swindell]

I do love shopping in Joyce mode with my wife. I'm good with shopping in male mode also and will sometimes even get up enough nerve to try something on!

[Sami Brown]

My wife likes to get my perspective on her choices. I have a pretty good understanding of what she likes, and sometimes I see aspects that she can't see from her view in the mirror. We make a great team!

Sami

[Shayna]

In this case it was more than giving an opinion on what she tried on. I was picking stuff out for her as well. There was one dress which she ultimately bought that I was tempted to say "If you don't get it I will."

[DaisyLawrence]

It all sounds good to me. If she enjoyed this time with you she may come to realise thatshe likes the 'real you' more than the 'conforming you' and that may break down your DADT barriers. I hope so.