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Penny
03-16-2006, 12:54 AM
Is there something that triggers your feminenity? For me it is heels. When I put on a pair of heels, it's like I mentally switch genders. I have been in walmart's completely en fem and had the weird feeling that I didn't feel like I looked. I mean I had on tennis shoes with a jean skirt but no heels. I can feel feminine wearing jockey shorts and heels. It's like "if the shoe fits, wear it"! Is this just me?

Adrienne Heels
03-16-2006, 01:23 AM
Either heels or my wig does it for me. Soon as I put either one on, I feel like such a girl !

wo-MAN
03-16-2006, 02:22 AM
for me it is just seeing a beautiful dress or someone in a dress

Eric/a
03-16-2006, 03:08 AM
My fem side can be set off by most types of high-heeled sandals. Keep in mind, for me that can mean stilettos, platforms, wedges, woods, corks, whatever, and they could be mules, slides, ankle straps, you name it. Anytime I see a woman wearing those styles, especially if her toenails are nicely painted, the next pair I get will more than likely be that style if I can find it. Depending on where this happens, in a mall or a grocery store, whatever, I might even ask them if they remember where they got them and they usually don't mind telling me. Once I find that style, or whatever's the closest to it I can find, I'll probably do my own toenails in the same color as hers, or, again, whatever is the closest I have. The first time I wear them, I guess I like to sort of imagine myself as the woman that made me want to get them in the first place. Sometimes I'll wear them with shorts - ladies' running shorts, most likely! - and a tank top. I've got places where I can usually get away with that, like stores where mostly foreigners shop. I don't know why that makes it any easier, except maybe because there's not as much chance of running into anybody I know! What's really fun is to see a GG wearing the same kind I have on, and say something like, "Did you get yours at so-and-so too?" They laugh a little, but I've struck up some pretty interesting conversations that way! It seems I'm always looking for new sandals, even if I'm not shopping for any other fem articles.

Jenny Warren
03-16-2006, 03:34 AM
For me it's more a case of finding the few things that trigger my male side.

Let me see there's.........................
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I'll have to get back to you on this ;)

Jenny

Candy Heels
03-16-2006, 06:08 AM
Penny:) Its the same for me. Since I started as a child I just cannot feel the way I want without high heels on.

Lisa Baby
03-16-2006, 06:32 AM
For me it's more a case of finding the few things that trigger my male side.

Let me see there's.........................
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I'll have to get back to you on this ;)

Jenny

I am almost always "female." I do get stuck in "neutral" from time to time. See Jenny' qoute for when I go to "male" mode.

Lisa

Penny
03-16-2006, 06:36 AM
My fem side can be set off by most types of high-heeled sandals. Keep in mind, for me that can mean stilettos, platforms, wedges, woods, corks, whatever, and they could be mules, slides, ankle straps, you name it. Anytime I see a woman wearing those styles, especially if her toenails are nicely painted, the next pair I get will more than likely be that style if I can find it. Depending on where this happens, in a mall or a grocery store, whatever, I might even ask them if they remember where they got them and they usually don't mind telling me. Once I find that style, or whatever's the closest to it I can find, I'll probably do my own toenails in the same color as hers, or, again, whatever is the closest I have. The first time I wear them, I guess I like to sort of imagine myself as the woman that made me want to get them in the first place. Sometimes I'll wear them with shorts - ladies' running shorts, most likely! - and a tank top. I've got places where I can usually get away with that, like stores where mostly foreigners shop. I don't know why that makes it any easier, except maybe because there's not as much chance of running into anybody I know! What's really fun is to see a GG wearing the same kind I have on, and say something like, "Did you get yours at so-and-so too?" They laugh a little, but I've struck up some pretty interesting conversations that way! It seems I'm always looking for new sandals, even if I'm not shopping for any other fem articles.
Have you found a secret to breathing in a shoe store? :winking:

Jan W
03-16-2006, 06:37 AM
Penny, for me it is anything at all to do with femininity. Could be a femininely turned out woman, an ad for a pretty dress or just any femmy thought that enters my head.

A pretty girl has many triggers incorporated in her at any one time. Her shoes, dress, makeup, hair, jewellery, voice or it could be her mannerisms.

Lots of things really.


Jan

TGMarla
03-16-2006, 09:07 AM
I have lots of "triggers". Pantyhose really does it for me. Pretty dresses and skirts, nice blouses, pretty hair, perfume, lace, high heels...they all can act as triggers to me. Put 'em all in one package, and I don't stand a chance! :D

Julie Avery
03-16-2006, 09:23 AM
For me, just feeling smoothe from having shaved legs, chest, etc is a pretty potent trigger, and it's always going off! Add a little hosiery and it's bye-bye boysville :)

Alexandria
03-16-2006, 09:23 AM
Satin does it for me. When I see a lady in a cute satin top, I think of how I look wearing it myself! :)

Jennaie
03-16-2006, 09:52 AM
Lots of triggers, but I suppose for me the strongest one is tucking and pulling up my pantys. They are the first thing I put on when dressing and I always have them on along with my bra and forms when doing my makeup. I suppose that I do this because this is how I remember my mother doing it.

Karren H
03-16-2006, 12:33 PM
Mine has no trigger per say. I just turn it on or off when I want to. All guy in male mode and all fem in girl mode!! The best of both genders!!!

Love Karren

wendy
03-16-2006, 03:00 PM
i think for me, the final trigger has got to be the wig, when I put that on it covers up the 'last' portion of 'visible' drab maleness and I become a woman.:happy:

Bev06 GG
03-16-2006, 05:09 PM
Hi there,
I dont know if Im allowed to reply to this thread as a GG, but Im gonna do anyhow. One of the things that really triggers my femininity is walking into the makeup and perfume department of a big store. All the smells and glamorous women behind the counters. I always have to buy something to take home with me. Ialso love BHS and M&S Lingerie. It doesn't matter if Im wearing scruffy jeans and T Shirt, if Ive got silky underwear underneath Ifeel ultra femme.
BEVxxxxxxxx

Snookums
03-16-2006, 05:16 PM
Penny:) any thing female triggers me,I don't own any male jeans,tee shirts,or shoes,except my Lowa combat boots I wear when I'm out in nature,no Lowa does not make them for females,they are the best boot I ever owned.

Julie Avery
03-16-2006, 06:05 PM
Hi there,
I dont know if Im allowed to reply to this thread as a GG, but Im gonna do anyhow. One of the things that really triggers my femininity is walking into the makeup and perfume department of a big store. All the smells and glamorous women behind the counters. I always have to buy something to take home with me. Ialso love BHS and M&S Lingerie. It doesn't matter if Im wearing scruffy jeans and T Shirt, if Ive got silky underwear underneath Ifeel ultra femme.
BEVxxxxxxxx

No one died and left me in charge, but I say you're allowed!

annekathleen
03-16-2006, 06:18 PM
I have a trigger, but its attached to my hand-guns!

seriously, I wear panties under my jeans 24/7 so it can't be that.
I like to have an after work cocktail, but I don't think it's that.

hum....when it gets dark out, my desire increases..
maybe I'm a Vampire CrossDresser....

sometimes pictures of other crossdressers stimulates the desire,
sometimes pictures of women engaged in sexual acts....
oh, no, am I looking at internet porn???
I dont watch videos of guys doing guys, but watching a woman
doing a man.....sometimes I wish I was the woman....

Kath
03-16-2006, 06:31 PM
My biggest most consistent trigger is this forum. However, in addition I usually become female slipping on nylons or pantie hose. There is something about that that I just can't describe, it's delicious.

Hugs Kath

Joy Carter
03-16-2006, 07:49 PM
Well it's mostly attractive women that dose it for me, Kinda strange but I just get a sence of that I am missing somthing really great here. Don't get me wrong I really love women but it's their feminine form that makes me melt. Then a flowing dress and heels walking on a hard surface that does it to and I guess I can go on and on, sigh

Jenny Warren
03-17-2006, 03:55 AM
Lots of triggers, but I suppose for me the strongest one is tucking and pulling up my pantys. They are the first thing I put on when dressing and I always have them on along with my bra and forms when doing my makeup. I suppose that I do this because this is how I remember my mother doing it.

I'm assuming that you remember your mother doing her make up in her bra & pants, NOT tucking. :straightface:

Jenny

Teresa Amina
03-17-2006, 04:05 AM
Well it's mostly attractive women that dose it for me, Kinda strange but I just get a sence of that I am missing somthing really great here. Don't get me wrong I really love women but it's their feminine form that makes me melt. Then a flowing dress and heels walking on a hard surface that does it to and I guess I can go on and on, sigh

Sometimes it's not the really attractive ones for me. Some have what I call "Presence"- an overwhelming aura of who knows what which is impossible to describe. You know it when you see/feel/experience it. And, yes one could go on and on.;)

Khriss
03-17-2006, 04:10 AM
in their day...boots ,the over the knee ones were worn by ...Musketeers..but I find them soo femminine and sexy..and I love how they feel - (on) - hmmm....xx"K"..they trip my -

Penny
03-17-2006, 10:28 AM
Hi there,
I dont know if Im allowed to reply to this thread as a GG, but Im gonna do anyhow. One of the things that really triggers my femininity is walking into the makeup and perfume department of a big store. All the smells and glamorous women behind the counters. I always have to buy something to take home with me. Ialso love BHS and M&S Lingerie. It doesn't matter if Im wearing scruffy jeans and T Shirt, if Ive got silky underwear underneath Ifeel ultra femme.
BEVxxxxxxxx
Yes indeed and thank you very much!:gorgeous: