LeslieSD
04-20-2018, 10:27 PM
Actually my colleague has nothing to do with the waiter. The two incidences just happened to be on the same outing.
I went on a business trip recently. As usual, I always bring my Leslie stuff along. After work, I just finished early and went back to the hotel to prepare for a dinner out as Leslie. In the company I worked for, we book our travels ourselves. So I was not concerned too much about finding my colleague in the same hotel as there are too many to choose from. So I got ready and decided to walk out to the next block to find a restaurant. But you know, the unexpected has happen some day. Just when I was walking out, I saw someone walking in my direction. And I recognized immediately that is my colleague who are coming for the same meeting we had in the afternoon. I was a bit nervous, but I reminded myself that no one should be able to tell, especially in the street (even though there are only 3 or 4 people in the street at that moment). So I just held myself high and walk right past him. I even sneaked a peek after we passed each other, and yep, he doesn't have a clue!
So I was pretty pumped up from the confidence and picked this nice expensive seafood restaurant. Here came the waiter and the first thing he asked "what can I get you to drink, SIR?" Sir? My confidence bubble was immediately pop-ed. I thought I just had the world fooled. But what the heck, I am going to enjoy my company paid dinner. I kept my cool and happy self and order a cool sea bass. It all went uneventful, and the waiter, after the initial greeting, was extremely nice and polite. But I have decided to get this straight with him. So when I got my bill, I asked him over and said, "I have something to ask you. Why did you address me as Sir when you first come?" He immediately went blushing and apologized. He said there are someone who walked in front of him and got him totally distracted. I think I took his word and believed that he did not do it intentionally. I made my point, and I am sure he will remember it.
Here is a selfie I took in the street. Some of you might be able to recognize where it is.
Cheers,
Leslie
I went on a business trip recently. As usual, I always bring my Leslie stuff along. After work, I just finished early and went back to the hotel to prepare for a dinner out as Leslie. In the company I worked for, we book our travels ourselves. So I was not concerned too much about finding my colleague in the same hotel as there are too many to choose from. So I got ready and decided to walk out to the next block to find a restaurant. But you know, the unexpected has happen some day. Just when I was walking out, I saw someone walking in my direction. And I recognized immediately that is my colleague who are coming for the same meeting we had in the afternoon. I was a bit nervous, but I reminded myself that no one should be able to tell, especially in the street (even though there are only 3 or 4 people in the street at that moment). So I just held myself high and walk right past him. I even sneaked a peek after we passed each other, and yep, he doesn't have a clue!
So I was pretty pumped up from the confidence and picked this nice expensive seafood restaurant. Here came the waiter and the first thing he asked "what can I get you to drink, SIR?" Sir? My confidence bubble was immediately pop-ed. I thought I just had the world fooled. But what the heck, I am going to enjoy my company paid dinner. I kept my cool and happy self and order a cool sea bass. It all went uneventful, and the waiter, after the initial greeting, was extremely nice and polite. But I have decided to get this straight with him. So when I got my bill, I asked him over and said, "I have something to ask you. Why did you address me as Sir when you first come?" He immediately went blushing and apologized. He said there are someone who walked in front of him and got him totally distracted. I think I took his word and believed that he did not do it intentionally. I made my point, and I am sure he will remember it.
Here is a selfie I took in the street. Some of you might be able to recognize where it is.
Cheers,
Leslie