outting myself on purpose

[LIKETODRESS2]

I was a trade show yesterday ware there is over 100 venders. I walked by one ware they were selling Electronic Muscle Stimulator. The sa asked if I wanted to try one. Having a bra on I knew she would see my bra straps if I did it I told her yes and she asked me what part of my body I thought would it work the best. I told her shoulders. She asked if she could try it on me. I told her yes. She grabs the two pads. She pull my sweartshirt so she can place the pads.. Se places the two pads on and does the dem. tries to get me to buy one but little two spendy so I pass. She then goes and removes the two pads . And snaps my bra strap and smile as she removes the second pad. Again tries to sell it to me gives me here card and tell me to come back if I have any questions

[DaisyLawrence]

You brightened her day and gave her something to talk about when the stand was quiet. Bet she wishes all the punters are so interesting.

[CarlaWestin]

Those are the little special moments that make this all so enjoyable!

[docrobbysherry]

It's nice that u enjoyed showing your bra straps. But, I don't consider that outing yourself. Outing yourself is when someone u know finds out u dress.:eek:

1000's of people have seen me out fully dressed at the many T events I attend around the country. But, I consider myself a closet dresser. Because those events r all far from home and other than my T friends there, the folks that see me r all strangers I'll never see again!:heehee:

[Jenny22]

Sherry, you are spot on .. outing yourself is done when its to someone you know or who knows you or of you. You are 'presenting' to total strangers, as I did to hundreds who saw me as my feminine self in Las Vegas.

[Majella St Gerard]

It's nice that you felt comfortable enough to show your bra straps but I agree with Sherry on the outing aspect.

[Beverley Sims]

I would want the stimulator to work on my boobs. :-)

Wanting to show you were wearing a bra?

Whatever floats your boat I suppose.

Just go dressed as a girl and they would notice if you didn't have a bra strap showing. :-)

[phili]

If it feels to someone like it is outing, it is outing!

Seriously, the General Public is a person of sorts, and represents the aggregate point of view that supposedly doesn't like crossdressing and will punish us. Outing to the GP is a real form of outing, with different threats than to our family, or friends, or work, etc.

In the individual instances of each person who glances our way, or the intimacy of talks with an SA, or having someone put their hands on us, it is quite personal.

Brava for taking the risk with GP!

[LIKETODRESS2]

Thanks phill. Each person has their own idea of outing them selfs. Some feel it has to be a person they know others like me it can be any one . And I have been out dressed in public but not in my home town. So even if others done feel I outing my self because I did not know them that is there opinion

[Asew]

I definitely agree with phil. It is definitely different to out yourself to strangers than family. With a stranger you know nothing about them and how accepting they might be, but on the plus side you most likely will never see them again.