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alwayshave
05-21-2018, 06:54 AM
No, not a breakup, we got married on over the weekend. We have been together for 12 years, some ups and downs, but mostly up. We are so different and so the same. Met 12 years ago at a cocktail party. I'm a 6'2, white male (most of the time), of Irish Catholic roots from Boston, who's party affiliation was strongly Republican at the time (the party left me). She was a 4'10, black female, Southern Baptist from Virginia, who was a lobbyist for women's groups and staunch Democrat. We had a date and started talking and really haven't ended the conversation to this day. She supports me and I support her, she is the love of my life.

Trish
05-21-2018, 07:04 AM
Congratulations!!

Maria 60
05-21-2018, 07:04 AM
Congratulations and I wish you both a life time of love and happiness.

Tracii G
05-21-2018, 07:10 AM
Different is a good thing IMO. You can agree to disagree about things but still love each other.
Congrats to you both and may you love each other forever.

Karen RHT
05-21-2018, 07:11 AM
Congratulations Jamie, may you both continue to share, support and cherish each other.


Karen

Samm
05-21-2018, 07:15 AM
That's fantastic news Jamie. Congratulations!
My wife is also a member of 'the 4'10" club' lol. I often have to remind her that just because she put 4'11" on her drivers license doesn't actually make her 4'11".

Elizabeth G
05-21-2018, 07:21 AM
Congrats Jamie!

I have to admit that when I first saw the subject line of this thread I was a bit worried. I'm glad it wasn't what I initially thought :lol:

Stacy Darling
05-21-2018, 07:26 AM
That's Beautiful, just beautiful!
Stacy!

Tracy Irving
05-21-2018, 07:27 AM
Congratulations on your marriage.

Wow, 12 years is a long engagement. Glad it is over for you.

Zoeytgtx
05-21-2018, 08:05 AM
That is such a cool story. Congratulations! My poor 4' 10" wife waited eighteen years before we tied the knot. Lived happily together that way. We always joked about my "commitment" issues.

Z

Victoria_Winters
05-21-2018, 08:29 AM
Congrats!

mary spence
05-21-2018, 08:42 AM
Congratulations!!!!

bridget thronton
05-21-2018, 08:44 AM
Congratulations

Pat
05-21-2018, 08:49 AM
Congratulations! That is so awesome. I wish you guys a lifetime of happiness. :)

Patrica Gil
05-21-2018, 08:58 AM
Congrats, being with someone who just loves you for you is a wonderful thing. Wonderful

Vicky_Scot
05-21-2018, 08:59 AM
What wonderful new. Congratulations to you both. x

Sarah Doepner
05-21-2018, 09:09 AM
I send my best wishes for a happy life together.

Linda P.
05-21-2018, 09:10 AM
Congratulations. My best wishes to you and your wife for many years of happiness.

Queen Bridget
05-21-2018, 09:10 AM
Congrats. I wish you both a long and happy life.

Must have been tempting to be the one in the dress :daydreaming:

CONSUELO
05-21-2018, 09:15 AM
Lovely story. Keep the conversation going and enjoy your new life together.

Tina Davis
05-21-2018, 09:18 AM
Congratulations Jamie! I had a moment of "uh-oh" when I saw the thread title, but then I opened it and all was well.

Asew
05-21-2018, 09:53 AM
Congrats! If you got married on Saturday we share the same anniversary :)

AndreaCalifCD
05-21-2018, 11:03 AM
Congratulations!

Amy Lynn3
05-21-2018, 11:36 AM
Congratulations on your recent marriage.:love:

Beverley Sims
05-21-2018, 12:26 PM
I like good news like that, congratulations from mee too.

May you have a long and happy life together.

Cassandra Lynn
05-21-2018, 12:35 PM
Congratulations indeed!!

I don't know why, for sure, but when 2 people with so many differences (as related to other male-female couples), can develop such a bond, it gives me so much hope for humanity. It makes me wonder of the similarities you mention; and how they strengthen the bond.........ughh, sorry that was getting a bit personal.

Bless you both, and thanx very much, for sharing this lovely news.

Cass

Connie D50
05-21-2018, 12:41 PM
Congratulations!! hope you have many many years together.

KrissyTN
05-21-2018, 01:15 PM
Congratulations and best wishes for many years together!!

April Rose
05-21-2018, 01:49 PM
Congratulations! If Jim Carville and Mary Matalin can make it work, why not you guys!?

Dana44
05-21-2018, 02:26 PM
Congratulations Jamie, hope you have a great time together.

aprilgirl
05-21-2018, 02:39 PM
Wonderful news, Jamie. I wish you both the best of everything.

DMichele
05-21-2018, 06:22 PM
Jamie,
Congrats to you and your wife! Beautiful story. Oh and nice set-up with the title.

Glenda58
05-21-2018, 06:25 PM
Congratulations

Jodie_Lynn
05-21-2018, 06:55 PM
Mazel Tov! Congratulations! WOO HOO!

I sincerely hope that you both have many, many happy years together!

natalie edwards
05-21-2018, 08:30 PM
WOW! SO GREAT! CONGRATS!
At first I was afraid to open this thinking it was a breakup. So happy it's not! Wishing you both many happy years together!!

Lana Mae
05-21-2018, 08:38 PM
Congrats, Jamie! Have a great life together and keep that conversation going on and on and on! Hugs to both! Lana Mae

Aunt Kelly
05-21-2018, 09:56 PM
That is one fairy-tale story. Thanks for sharing it, and nice job on the hook. Totally fished me in. :)
Congratulations to both of you!

SkylarLee
05-21-2018, 10:05 PM
Congratulations!!!

morgan29
05-21-2018, 10:13 PM
Congratulations!!!!1

Sallee
05-21-2018, 10:18 PM
thats great Congratulations I guess diffences really do attract.

Alice B
05-21-2018, 10:34 PM
A warm congratulations to both of you and wishes for a long and fruitful life together. Who says that opposites do not attract

docrobbysherry
05-21-2018, 10:36 PM
Wonderful love story, Jamie! I'm very happy for u both!:hugs:

Jasmine Jones NZ
05-22-2018, 05:45 AM
Awesome, congratulations

Rayleen
05-22-2018, 05:55 AM
Very happy for you my dear.

mykell
05-22-2018, 06:02 AM
very kool, congratz....

MichelleCD
05-22-2018, 06:53 AM
That's awesome alwayshave, Congrats. I love how open the northern girls are. I'm in Rednecksville. 12yr together, and still carrying on the conversation. Sounds like you have a keeper. What's your CD life like with her?

Tamsin Secret
05-22-2018, 09:07 AM
Jamie, so happy for you lovely news congrats!

alwayshave
05-22-2018, 10:15 AM
What's your CD life like with her?
Michelle, I told her before we moved in together to give her an out, she did some research and came back a few days later and said OK. Her research dispelled the misconception that crossdressers are gay. She is supportive goes out with me. A perfect partner.

mattea
05-22-2018, 10:30 AM
Congratulations to you! I hope you continue to enjoy your life of love and happiness, may the conversation never end!

Julie MA
05-22-2018, 11:02 AM
What a lovely story. Hope it's never ending...

Meghan4now
05-22-2018, 06:36 PM
Best thing I've read here in months! Congrats, and best wishes for a warm and wonderful future.

Kandi Robbins
05-22-2018, 06:46 PM
Jamie, sounds like you struck gold! God bless you.

And I had the PERFECT dress picked out for the wedding.......

Much happiness!!

Krea
05-25-2018, 09:36 AM
Jamie, it's great that you have married someone so wonderfully accepting. Wish you much happiness for your future. :)

Jennifer2918
05-26-2018, 08:31 AM
congrats. may you both have long happy lives together.

darla_g
05-26-2018, 08:47 AM
Congrats & love the story too!

donnalee
05-26-2018, 08:42 PM
Mazeltov!
May you live as long as you love and love as long as you live!

Judy-Somthing
05-26-2018, 08:52 PM
Very cool sharing life with someone you love is so nice.

IleneD
05-26-2018, 09:42 PM
Praise all your blessings, Shave.
A heartwarming story, rooted in love. What an incredible feeling you must have at this time. Congratulations.

Samantha2015
05-27-2018, 12:28 AM
Congrats Jamie, that is awesome !!!! :daydreaming:

Kiwi Primrose
05-27-2018, 01:48 AM
Congratulations and all the best for the future.

Sashauk
05-27-2018, 04:36 AM
A 'fairy tale' ending to a wonderful love story - congratulations!

BobbiKay
05-27-2018, 03:48 PM
Jamie,

Congratulations and best of luck to both of you!

karenph
06-03-2018, 10:02 PM
Wonderful story! I am so happy for you!

alwayshave
06-04-2018, 07:41 AM
Ladies, thank you all for your well wishes. I would have replied earlier, but I was in Fiji on my honeymoon and did not bring a computer.

KrissyTN
06-04-2018, 08:57 AM
Congratulations and all the best!!!

CynthiaD
06-04-2018, 10:58 AM
Congratulations! Sounds like you're good friends in addition to being lovers. That's a great formula for success.

BLUE ORCHID
06-04-2018, 05:00 PM
Hi Jamie I would like to take this opportunity to wish the Newlywed:love::love:Couple


a long and Happy Lifetime:kissing:Together. >Orchid...:daydreaming:...

ClosetED
06-05-2018, 08:17 AM
Congratulations! And since she is supportive, it must be so nice to always have someone to share everything with.
Hugs, Ellen

Jessica S
06-05-2018, 03:20 PM
Congrats!

Gabriella111
06-05-2018, 04:13 PM
Congratulations! That's a beautiful story! I have only read your post and not the responses yet (though I will). If you haven't already told the details, I hope you will! What did you wear, what was the wedding like? My wedding is coming up soon, so I'm in that frame of mind and love hearing wedding stories!

Again, congrats and the very best of wishes for a continuing happy life together!

Stephanie Julianna
06-05-2018, 08:07 PM
If that's not a script for a movie than I don't know what I am talking about anymore. Everyone has a soul mate and you have found yours. I am so happy for you I could cry.