Van Alone Again!!!

[Debs]

Dont know what ive done, but my wife is giving me loads of space to myself, and has no problem with me spending time alone at my second home ?, still not reconciled our differences, but the freedom I have is amazing, now as dresser we all know "whats the catch", but cant see one at the moment, we speak regular on the phone, she knows why i am alone up here. But here he is "nagging doubt? ", am I being stiched up in some way, am I being set up for a fall, or is this real. Must admit since I retired the consequences dont seem as dire as all my friends at work knowing, and me having to walk into work to face it. So girls I am making the most of it, just has a shower and shaved all over, painted my nails and toes, and relaxing at the moment. So anybody want to meet in Lancaster or Blackpool give me a shout, an early one though takes me ages to get ready, lol

[Stacy Darling]

Sounds like you should just go with it! I certainly would, and if you're being stitched up now, you'll probably be stitched up somehow anyway!
Go with the flow and hope for the best, and some Sunshine to boot!

I'd do tea & scones with you but it's a ride too far!
Stacy

[char GG]

Just curious as to why you are asking strangers on a forum who don’t know your wife. Maybe it’s time to ask her. If you really don’t care, then it doesn’t matter anyway.

[Nikkilovesdresses]

Char, this forum would be a pretty empty place if the only people who came here were those with fully accepting/participating spouses. I also think Debs's suggestion was meant in blithe spirit. 68 posts in 12 years can hardly be called a major advertising campaign.

[docrobbysherry]

So, r u bragging or complaining, Debs!?:heehee:

[Stephanie47]

If your actions of enjoying yourself have changed dramatically since you retired maybe your wife is just shrugging her shoulders and thinking, "He's going to do what he wants to do anyway! So, why make a big issue of it?" Of course, when you're away enjoying yourself, what is she doing home alone?

[Teresa]

Debs,
I must admit to go from one situation to another does raise the question of what is going on , I hope you don't return to find all the locks changed and the only clothes you have are all female . I must admit my suspicions would have been aroused if this situation happened to me , is she concerned what you are doing or should you be more concerned as to what she is doing ?

[2B Natasha]

I’m with char. 68 posts or 1. Doesn’t matter the only way to find out is to ask. Assumptions make fools of both parties.

[Majella St Gerard]

Watch your back, she's up to something.

[paulinescotlandcd]

Lucky you..enjoy it while it lasts :)

[char GG]

I’m just saying... if my husband asked something regarding me on this forum, I could absolutely, positively, 100 percent guarantee that all of you would be wrong. The only way he would know for sure is if he asked me.

[Teresa]

Char,
Can you guarantee you will give a straight answer ? women are far better than men at playing mind games ! OK so I'm speaking from personal experience !

[char GG]

Teresa,
Absolutely! No need to play games.

[SamanthaToday]

I knew someone that was married 22 years, then retired... 5 weeks later his wife left for holidays and never came back.

Turns out She couldn't stand having him around all the time.

Just saying.

[sometimes_miss]

Perhaps since you retired, one of her worries is over, that being outed might affect your job and income.
And, crossdressing might be one of the lesser activities that interferes with her life. I've known plenty of women who are married to straight non crossdressing men who hate what their husbands get into doing after they retire. She already knows what you're doing, and where you are. Less worries than if you're disappearing every day and spending lots of money on who knows what.

[Beverley Sims]

I also have a suspicious nature, make the most of it but watch your back.

[DaisyLawrence]

I’m just saying... if my husband asked something regarding me on this forum, I could absolutely, positively, 100 percent guarantee that all of you would be wrong. The only way he would know for sure is if he asked me.

Exactly that.

Oh and by the way, am I the only one who thinks your wife may be having an affair and wants you away for days at a time?

[Di]

I’m just saying... if my husband asked something regarding me on this forum, I could absolutely, positively, 100 percent guarantee that all of you would be wrong. The only way he would know for sure is if he asked me.
Ditto what Char said!
I think maybe have a little talk with my wife open lines of communication .

[Teresa]

Daisy,
No I implied it but didn't want to ask the direct question .