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JessicasRabbit
07-31-2018, 12:39 AM
This evening was very eventful for me!
I am in a DADT marriage and my wife would rather I kept my proclivities within the confines of our home. She is out of town visiting family; "When the cat's away..." I am largely closeted. I have ventured out into the wild a few times, but never really interacted with anyone other than a drive-thru twice. I dress in clothing, but have barely dabbled into makeup.

Today's plan was to start en drab, go kayaking, change into a cute dress, hit a drive-thru, and go home. Check, check, check, check, and check

Not long ago there was a thread about swimwear. I commented that I have been inundated with swimdress ads on my Facebook lately and that they intrigued me. I also mentioned that I was considering buying one to wear in my new kayak. I bought a swimdress and went kayaking today! I forgot it at home and had to go back to get it after work. I was supposed to meet a coworker, a GG, but she never showed. I was going to come out to her. Regardless, kayaking was a blast. I started with my swimdress under male board shorts and a t-shirt. I quickly shed those and enjoyed the freedom of my new swimsuit.
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After I was done, I changed into a cute polka-dot dress for the drive home. I stopped along the way home to practice walking in different shoes. I love the wedges in the photo; they're Liz Claiborne from JC Penny that I bought some time ago.
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Along the way home, I contacted the coworker that was supposed to kayak with me and asked her if she was available. I worked up the nerve and asked her to meet me. We met and she was very open and supportive. She was a little jealous of the dress and let me know how cute she thought it was and that I pull it off about every couple of sentences. She and I work in close proximity day in and day out so we have become pretty good friends over the last few years. We have already acknowledged that we wear the same size clothes before today. Our meeting brought this up and she offered to hand me down some of her clothes in the future. Earlier today before kayaking I had mentioned that I forgot my swimsuit at home to which she joked that I could borrow one of her bikinis. She brought this up and we had a good laugh that I probably would have taken her up on it.

After my little coming out meeting, I hit a drive-thru for dinner. I threw the poor girl off that was working the window. After I got to the window and paid, she gave me my drink and wished me a good evening. I asked, "my food?"
"Oh! I'm sorry! Just a moment."

Now I'm fat and happy, having eaten. Everything worked out. The world hasn't ended. I'm curious about my update with my coworker and how things might change.

I'm sorry if this is fragmented. I did straighten a lot of it out. I am just very happy right now and must go to sleep.

Rachelakld
07-31-2018, 01:31 AM
what a fun story, glad you managed to get out and enjoy the day

Helen_Highwater
07-31-2018, 03:38 AM
Jessica,

Sound's like a day the remember and treasure.

It will be interesting to see how things develop with your co-worker. Is she aware of your DADT situation?

JessicasRabbit
07-31-2018, 06:38 AM
That was actually her immediate response; "Does your wife know?" To which, I explained that in a DADT way she does. But not in those exact words.

Traci H
07-31-2018, 09:14 AM
Jessica, can only imagine the feeling while out in your swim dress. Even the thought of borrowing a coworker’s bikini makes my mind spin...yikes.

Your day sounds awesome. Love the dress and shoes.

JessicasRabbit
07-31-2018, 07:32 PM
Day 1---
I expected maybe at least some questions. It mostly didn't come up. We've known almost as long as we've known each other that we wear the same boot/shoe size and are close in men sizes (outdoor/natural resources job). She mentioned that she just donated a bunch of shoes and clothes and it's too bad I could have gone through them. She offered for next time, or in the future.

Jimmiya
08-02-2018, 12:51 PM
That's awesome. Great for you!

BLUE ORCHID
08-02-2018, 04:52 PM
Hi Jessica :hugs:, That really sounds like a wonderful adventure. >Orchid ..O:daydreaming:O..

Beverley Sims
08-04-2018, 03:04 AM
Sounds like a great day Jessica, nice polka dot dress.