Ceera
08-16-2018, 01:07 PM
Last week I started 100% full time living as a female. This week I had a dentist's appointment scheduled. So I dressed nicely, in a skirt, a tank top, a sweater that matches the tank top, and wedge heel sandals, and just walked in and checked in for my appointment.
The two receptionists, who both know me on sight, but only as a male, didn't miss a beat. One greeted me and asked if they could help me, and I gave my male name and said I had a 9 AM appointment. They just looked up my name, and asked me to take a seat while they told my dentist I was here.
15 minutes later, a dental assistant came to get me. She said "Welcome back. Good to see you again." and took me back to the room for my treatment. Only when we were back there did she politely ask if I had a preferred pronoun. I thanked her, said I will be using female pronouns, she/her/hers, from now on, and that I was now living full time as a woman. I also told her the legal name and gender change would probably be in 3 to 6 months, when I change over my driver's license and birth certificate. She then asked if I had a female name I preferred to use, and I told her Ceera, and that I was planning on demoting my male first name (which is a unisex name) to my middle name, and adding Ceera as my new first name. So I'll still answer to my old first and last name, but yes, the new name would be appreciated. She and I also chatted about a few other people she knew who were transitioning, and she was very welcoming and supportive for me.
Dentist came in, and did not even comment on my gender change. He just did the exam, and turned me back over to the dental tech for some minor treatments.
All told, I couldn't have asked for it to go any better!
The two receptionists, who both know me on sight, but only as a male, didn't miss a beat. One greeted me and asked if they could help me, and I gave my male name and said I had a 9 AM appointment. They just looked up my name, and asked me to take a seat while they told my dentist I was here.
15 minutes later, a dental assistant came to get me. She said "Welcome back. Good to see you again." and took me back to the room for my treatment. Only when we were back there did she politely ask if I had a preferred pronoun. I thanked her, said I will be using female pronouns, she/her/hers, from now on, and that I was now living full time as a woman. I also told her the legal name and gender change would probably be in 3 to 6 months, when I change over my driver's license and birth certificate. She then asked if I had a female name I preferred to use, and I told her Ceera, and that I was planning on demoting my male first name (which is a unisex name) to my middle name, and adding Ceera as my new first name. So I'll still answer to my old first and last name, but yes, the new name would be appreciated. She and I also chatted about a few other people she knew who were transitioning, and she was very welcoming and supportive for me.
Dentist came in, and did not even comment on my gender change. He just did the exam, and turned me back over to the dental tech for some minor treatments.
All told, I couldn't have asked for it to go any better!