Do I want her or want to dress like her?

[KymG]

A random thought,

Saw a really good looking lady working in a hotel recently.
I couldnt decide if I wanted her or wanted to dress like her.
Then decided I wanted her while I was dressed like her.

Decisions....

[Sami Brown]

If you did what you want, would you both be wearing the same outfit at the same time?

Sami

[KymG]

Similiar outfits maybe?
Would just be happy dressed in that situation.

[Teresa]

KymG,
What a choice to have to make , I'm usually happy in my own outfits so I may be thinking more about the lady .

[Alice B]

My choice would be the same although the chances are slim to none

[Cwest862]

Yes, Yes and YES. I think one of the reasons I dress is to emulate that which I admire. But to be dressed and to be with a woman is one of my enduring fantasies.

[Queen Bridget]

My interest in women is purely visual. So I'll just take the dress :D

[emma30]

Good question and ive thought about this a lot. Ive realised that i look at women in a way of being envious of their look. Ok they are attractive but thats how i want to be. A relationship 99 per cent of the time with that attractive woman would never happen but taking tips from her look is very realistic.

[docrobbysherry]

We all have our fantasies don't we? :daydreaming:

I KNOW I'm not getting the woman. But, if I want to, I CAN imitate her look!:D

And, have countless times. For example, here's a look I saw in an airport years ago that struck me!:battingeyelashes:

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[Tracii G]

Interesting thought.
More interested in guys but I would not want to dress like them even if I did like what they were wearing.

[Lygophilia]

I tend to disregard what she has on and want sex from them if I find them attractive. That goes for men too. I'm not interested in relationships.

[Aunt Kelly]

Interesting question and one which I have been prompted to ask myself recently. There was a time when I would seldom pass up an opportunity with a comely female, but there was often also something quite different going on when observing adult females. It was neither sexual nor about their clothes.

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Kym :hugs:, When I see a particular lovely well dressed lady I make a mental note
and try to see ii I can come close to copying that look the next dressing session. >Orchid ..0:daydreaming:0..

[Tracy Irving]

I choose both!

[Beverley Sims]

When I was younger...... Both.

I could not make decisions then, not much better now.

Ho, hum. :-)

[Becky Blue]

I would want to look like her/ be her thats where my thinking would end

[Kimberly Adams]

I want the girl first. Getting her while looking like her would be a plus but not a hard decision.

[Brandi Christine]

What I really like is seeing the woman I'd like to look like with the man I like to be with...

[SaraLin]

I guess I'd have to say that I want her ...(drum roll please)... body.
Then I could wear what she's wearing without looking ridiculous.

It usually goes something like this in my head: "She looks great in that <whatever it is>. I wish I could look like that."

[Rayleen]

would probably want to dress like her, but again might fantasies being one .

[Krea]

If i see a woman wearing something that looks great my feeling is "i wish i could wear something like that and look that good in it."

[julie c]

My Partner wears very formal clothing for work I often replicate the look and love it.

[Charlotte7]

I would want to dress like her. Today I am wearing a pink skirt and a grey top, because recently I saw a girl wearing a pink skirt and a grey top, and I thought, that'd be nice to wear. I wasn't wrong.

[sometimes_miss]

I couldnt decide if I wanted her or wanted to dress like her.

It was that very dilemma which convinced me that I wasn't gay way back when I was 14. Took me another two decades or so to figure out the rest.

[Felicia M]

Then decided I wanted her while I was dressed like her.

Yes please!

[biancabellelover]

I kind of got lost in the answers. Probably the girl, her body, her outfit, my body, no outfits... you get the idea.

Michelle

[Darling Micki]

I have on numerous occasions commented that I think along both lines. While chatting with a few I am comfortable with, have pointed out an attractive GG, wearing a rather fetching outfit.

Me:"I could so do that..."
Friend: "The outfit, or the girl?"
Me: "Yes."

I freely acknowledge I still have a hetero male mindset. I think of all the "fun" things I wish I could do to that attractive young woman, with her permission. Honestly I feel I haven't got a chance of any of that happening, but a person can dream. If given the opportunity I probably wouldn't follow through either.

As for the outfit, I mentally catalogue its various components. Color, style, fit and compare them to my own style. This outfit would look great on me, with different heels. I love that skirt but would want it with sn asymmetric hemline... Of course there's also the thought of what it would feel like to wear such an outfit. The brushing of a combination of materials together and against me.

*purr*

[Donna June]

I started a similar thread to this last year. For me, I want to dress and be like her.

[Robertacd]

Saw a really good looking lady working in a hotel recently.
I couldnt decide if I wanted her or wanted to dress like her.


I want to be her, but dressing like her is as close as I can get.

[rhonda]

I think I'd rather have the clothes , she might be more of a problem than shes worth

[Melissa in SE Tn]

Love Rhonda’s answer !!!

[Elizabeth G]

Rhonda beatme to it. I was going to say want her - yes, want to dress like her, - yes, want to BE her - yes!

[~Joanne~]

I see a lot of very pretty and well dressed women out there, Ultimately I am jealous of the freedom they have and the fct that I would love to dress like her and be out there too.

[Judy-Somthing]

I want to do her but since I cant I want to look like her.

[Lacey New]

Kym,
You nailed it. Often I have seen the pretty woman and fantasized being with her (yes, intimately) while being dressed like her hoping that we would be wearing matching panties.

[il.dso]

I think about this question just about every day, especially when I'm in situations where women are all dressed up, such as at work, at weddings or other social events. I find myself wondering if the women feel lucky to be able to dress in such pretty outfits with matching shoes and fully done makeup. I'll often over hear them complaining about their heels or having to wear pantyhose, when I love wearing both! All part of the unfairness and ridiculousness of my life as a closeted crossdressers, I suppose. On a more intimate level, as someone obsessed with panties, I always wonder what style of panties they are wearing and if they're nylon or cotton. Nylon for me, btw, always...

[Ginni]

The female in me would like to wear what she is wearing, but the male in me would want her. It is not unusual for me to admire what a woman is wearing and want to wear it.

[Mary Lawrence]

I never fantasize sleeping with a gg I do not know. However, I look closely at all women who are approximately my age and analyze what they are wearing that I find appealing. Would such a garment work for me? If so, where can I get it and for how much? I keep a mental list of "needs" and constantly revise it. It's the clothes and appearance, not the lady.

[JanesCDcloset]

Usually I check out the clothes first if I would/could wear that or not, then check the girl.

[Georgina]

I usually notice the clothes first. However any lady wearing clothes that I would like also becomes very attractive to me.

[DIANEF]

I always look at what women are wearing, particularly the well dressed ones, but I have little or no desire or want for them.

[Chandra]

I think for me it is partly envious, but also partly attraction.

[Violet Remplier]

I definitely go with both too. I love seeing a well made up lady, but the brain tends to go in two directions! "Wow, she's gorgeous" is usually followed with the mental fight of "I should go ask her out - no, where she got that dress":heehee:

[colourmannn]

In a perfect world, I want the woman, then dress like her. Reality, I can only hope to dress like her. LOL

[t-girlxsophie]

When i see a lovely looking lady dressed in a gorgeous outfit.First thing I always think is how rare it is to see the whole package.And yes the first thought is how much I adore her outfit.

Lost count how many times I've so wanted to go up to them and ask where they bought a certain item of clothing

Sophie
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[Ressie]

All three. I want her, I want to wear what she's wearing and I want to be her. La la la la Lola

[Rollermiss]

I would want to have her outfit. Just hoping it would look as good on me as her.

Kelsey

[MsEva]

Def want to be her, or at least have her look

[Leslie Mary S]

I might admire the woman and her outfit but have no desire to be with her or dress like her because I have to wear what looks best on my Hippo frame.

[stephenie3756]

Yes I want the dress and yes I wish I could be like her to be able to dress like her all the time. The other day at lunchtime, I stopped into the grocery store and waling into the store was a very beautiful woman in a bodycon dress, mid thigh length and pair of at least 3-4" stilettos. I was so jealous that she gets to walk around like that and I can't.

What I would LOVE to be able to do is to walk up to the woman and ask her where she purchased (insert item here). Does anyone here have a solution on how to ask a woman where she purchased her dress,heels, etc and not come off wrongly, if you know what I mean?

[Leslie Mary S]

I would start by giving her one of my business cards. Either, my 'he' card if I were so dressed, or my Leslie Mary Shy card if I was en fem.
Then I would ask about her selected outfit source and maybe taking a photo. I almost always have a camera on hand.

[Cheshire girl]

I often see women in fabulous outfits and wonder if they would suit me. A colleague walked into my room the other day in a floral maxi dress and very high heels heavily made up and I recognised her dress as Monsoon very similar to one I have been wearing this summer. Her perfume was Gucci which I also wear. I envied her being able to stay upright in her heels as I had to wear wedges with my maxis! I also much envied a lady struggling to get onto the Metro in a very tight leather skirt and sky high black patent courts teamed with a white silk blouse.

[Julie Slowinski]

How about this to blow your mind... If at the time you see said women, you happened to be dressed in an outfit very similar to hers, would that make it easier or harder to pick her up and eventually be with her? I think for me it would be easier. Julie is outgoing and rather fun, while notJulie is a bit awkward and for the most part boring.

Of course, I’m married and would never pusue such an idea. But, it’s fun to think about. 🤔