An indecent Proposal

[sarah_hillcrest]

Everytime I get dressed up it feels a tiny bit harder to go back, yesterday was no different. I put it off until the last minute and forgot to put my closet mirror back in the closet. Wife was giving me a hard time about it when she got home from work, she had a rough day and turned her filter off. "You forgot to put your sashaying mirror up," she said. I also left a couple of accessories on the table. So anyway she's asking me what I did, and I told her about being the maid and she's checking instagram for pictures and asking me why I don't post photos anymore. I haven't posted any of my Sarah, or Nancy pictures on instagram for weeks. Mainly because the last few times I dressed up and took pictures was out of the house and I didn't want to post those. I explain that I didn't think my maid outfit would really be appropriate for my instagram. She's stunned because she didn't know I actually had a maid outfit, she thought I was just kididng.

Anyway, there is an advertisement on the TV for a Charity Male Review type show at a club about an hour away, "Nancy and I should totally go to the that show!" she giggling and I'm like stop making fun. "No I'm serious, we'll totally go! I can see some eye candy and you can go out in public." I told her there was no way, but she talked about it giggling for awhile. I'm still not sure if she was really serious or just being funny.

Later I emailed her one of my photos in maid uniform, and later she told me I looked really good.

[Patience]

Seems like a win-win to me.

I'm sorry to say I'm unfamiliar with your Nancy persona.

[Jaylyn]

I agree sounds like the wife is ready for a night out and you could help a charity out. Makes me wonder though her saying she could use some eye candy..... When my wife says something abut he's eye candy she is usually talking about a well dressed clean shaven, younger guy that's fit and muscles bulging in all the right places. I'm not jealous any more but back in my twenties and thirties I looked like the eye candy she refers to now on the edge of seventy eye candy means the same to her but not me. But as she said you can attend and be in public, unless your nervous being dressed and hearing GGs scream about how good looking another GM is then that would be hard for me to attend. You might want to think about this one.

[phili]

Hi Sarah,
Sounds to me like a very decent proposal- she is trying to manage her situation with good humor and looking for opportunities to collaborate in meeting your needs, and feeling that it is not life threatening. She gets that it is a form of dressup play, and she is curious, so she is still trusting you not to be going off the rails somehow. She sees that there isn't a simple way for you to fulfill the dream of dressing up around others - which women do have, at least when they are dressing up as women, rather than space aliens.

Do you give her deep heartfelt thanks for being positive and looking for those opportunities to help? And offer to do things for her like massage her feet after a long day?

PS She was also asking you to understand she might just like fantasizing about the hunks on stage, but that it would be for you both an understanding that you were connected and not worried about each other's love.

PPS She probably did not actually think you looked really good as a maid, herself, but liked being able to compliment you on looking good, in seeing the whole thing from your point of view, and showing that she loves and supports you.

[Beverley Sims]

Sarah,
I would go with the flow on this one, do watch out for pitfalls though.

[Robertacd]

Why wouden't you go?

[Sidney]

Sarah, sounds like a wonderful thing to do together. Go for it.

[Stephanie47]

That would be interesting! I can only image there would be a lot of women there, screaming and yelling and throwing panties at the stage. Kind of "Girls Gone Wild." If you do not go, you'll never know how your wife will act. You do your things, she does her thing. Just be sure to take extra panties in a purse.

[docrobbysherry]

Fake heading, Sarah!:straightface:

That proposal is about as indecent as a Muppets movie------------------:heehee:

[alwayshave]

I don't do the maid thing, but I'd go for it.

[sarah_hillcrest]

Thanks for all the feedback. Yeah I was really surprised by the idea and wondered if she was just messing with me. I've mentioned it a few times and got very little response so I think she wasn't that serious. As too why I wouldn't go, I just thought even acting like I would go to a male stripper show would be a bad move. In all honesty I've never been to anything even remotely like that, hell I've never been anywhere LOL. When she first mentioned it I was like NO WAY, then she kept talking all up the benefits I said, "Well if I could pass I would do it," she replied. "It's dark in those places."

Interesting side note, I have never had the least bit of interest in going to a strip club, it just seems so lame to me. The whole idea baffles me. I've brought up the show a couple times in the last couple days just to see if she was serious, but in all truthfulness its not my kind of thing, its fun to imagine going as Sarah, or Nancy, or whoever, but it just seems like a crazy idea.

@Patience, Nancy is the name my wife has given my female persona. I've never told her that I like the name Sarah Hillcrest. It started when I started wearing panties more often she called them my fancy pants, then she called me Fancy Nancy. It was playful and perhaps meant to be a bit demeaning when it started but I adopted it and there is little demeaning about it now and she generally has dropped the Fancy and just refers to Nancy. I don't dislike the name Nancy, and don't have a problem with her calling me that.

[Kiwi Primrose]

It sounds like you have some fun coming up. Be careful with the maid outfit, your wife might get ideas. You could end up with all the housework.

[char GG]

Hi Sarah (aka Nancy). Obviously I don’t know your wife or her humor. If you think she was serious, and you really want to go out as Sarah or Nancy, it might be a good idea if you just say, “yes, it sounds like fun”. I don’t know if you shoot down her ideas about you two going out with you dressed very often but if so, she may stop suggesting.

I will usually only suggest something to my husband twice, if he doesn’t sound interested, I certainly won’t beg. I once won tickets to a “bridesmaid” ball where everyone was suppose to dress as a bridesmsid. I suggested he put on one of his long dresses and go with me. He brushed off the idea, though he has a closet full of beautiful dresses. I said fine, I have girlfriends to ask who would love to go. Whoa, hold up!! He secretly wanted to go but didn’t want to say so. In the end, he went and had a blast.

So, just don’t play hard to get games if you truly want to dress and go. You may have a great time together!

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Sarah :hugs:, It sounds like fun Just go for it. >Orchid ..0:daydreaming:0..

[t-girlxsophie]

Sounds like a great idea,Some of my best times being out have been with my wife e.g. Funny Girls drag revue,Charity Fashion Show.

Im sure it will benefit the both of you and I hope you'll be back on to tell us all about a successful outing

Sophie