What to wear !!!!

[Debs]

So exited, a girlfriend of mine has asked me to go round her house dressed !!!!, ok not a big deal . but what shall i wear. Pants ??, Skirt short or long. Do i dress to take her out shopping, do i dress sexy ?????, so many thoughts running through my head. Even had naughty thoughts, what if she holds me, do i dress silky and smooth, will she unzip me. Sorry a thought to far, lol back to subject, how should i dress, my head is spinning.

[Tracii G]

Depends so why don't you ask her.

[Debs]

to scared

[Tracii G]

Just don't try and outdo her.
Is this just a friend or more than just a friend?

[Rachelakld]

too scared and willing to miss out on the opportunity of a life time?
Really what would she say?
1) casual
2) formal
3) s***ty

Personally I don't see anything scary about any of those options, just ask

[Leslie Mary S]

There are so many unanswered question about you and her relation. is your friend a CDer? What time of day? How Long? Will it be a sleep over? How long has this person been your friend? how and what type is the friendship? What are your activates for the period? These are all factors to solving your problem.
Causal everyday clothes is my first guess.

[Charlotte7]

Me? I'd think what would I wear if I was going round in drab? Then I'd think what do I have in girl mode which fits that style? For me, problem solved. I'd put that on, go round and have a ball !! Debs. what a great opportunity, get dressed, go round and have fun, and don't overthink it.

[faltenrock]

Don't be scared. I've been going out with women after they met me dressed. I never had a 'date' beeing dressed. It all happened right the time and day I met a women or more than one.
I suggest you wear something that you comfortable with, not really sexy, that might be unappropriate.

A dress, skirt or whatever you like would just work fine. I would probably take her out for some shopping and perhaps for a drink or dinner/lunch.

Good luck and keep us updated how it went (with pictures).

[Beverley Sims]

Just dress to blend and then all you have to do after that is dress up. :-)

Go for it and don't worry.

[Brenda Freeman]

Since she asked, I think you should thank her and ask her what she would like to see and maybe why to help the decision! Let us know!

[Robertacd]

Find out what activities she has planned and dress appropriately.

[Asew]

I would overthink it too (since I have done similar in the past). When I meet someone I know dressed for the first time, I like to wear one of my favorites that showcases my style. And maybe keep the sexy outfits in your fantasy. If she really wanted that you might get invited over again for that another time.

[Diane Taylor]

Seeing as how SHE asked YOU to go around dressed, why don't you ask her how she'd like to see you dressed?

[Jenny22]

Debs, in one of your first posts you stated you had a fully supportive wife. NOW, a GF wants you to be dressed in her home?
What's going on between you two? Does your wife know her? Are you and your wife now apart?

Please explain how this unusual situation all came about.

[Gillian Gigs]

To me the words tasteful and conservative come to mind.

[t-girlxsophie]

I would dress in nice stylish and conservative outfit for that first visit,see how it goes and perhaps where it leads.If it goes well then I'm sure there will be other times,and you can dress more adventurous.

Sophie

[crobeson96]

I've noticed when girls go out together, they often dress in a complementary way - both in dresses, or both in skirts, or both in pants. In addition the colors, patterns, and accessories evidence some collaboration took place prior to the outing. I say all this to suggest your friend might be sympathetic if you did call her to say you're relatively inexperienced in picking outfits and asking for any suggestions. I hope this would turn into a friendly and helpful conversation that both of you would enjoy and be the basis of many more chats to come.