View Full Version : I found out now that I am a Brassiere lover
Bruce64
10-05-2018, 07:55 AM
My first Bra I was a bit nervous to buy, that was 2 years ago. Now I have over 2 dozens and my collection would increase overtime. I just ordered another pair Breast Form for Nearlyme. Going a bit Bra Crazy would you think or is this normal?
Micki_Finn
10-05-2018, 10:33 AM
Oh hon, nothing we do here is “normal”. Lol. Are you hurting yourself or anyone else with your bras? If the answer is “no” then don’t worry about what’s “normal” and just enjoy yourself.
RainbowDash
10-05-2018, 11:41 AM
2 dozen bras in 2 years? Heck, I started in May this year and I'm close to 2 dozen already. I've been told I buy more bras than some women, who simply have just a few to get by. But I've also been told that some customers come in and spend hundreds every single time. Myself, I am practically almost buying a new bra when I walk into my favorite store Victoria's Secret and found myself spending more than I wanted to. Got to the point where I had to take my eyes off the bras so I would not be tempted.
If anyone is bra crazy, I'd say it has to be me. But even so, I'd rather not have it any other way, because I love bras. I love the way they feel, and the way they help me look more like a woman. My advice would be, do not worry about what is normal, because we crossdressers, transgenders, etc., are not considered normal, at least in terms of society. But so what? Who cares what they think? Look, there's always gonna be people who tell u what u should do with ur life. Don't listen to them and just do what u want, as long as ur not hurting anyone including urself.
docrobbysherry
10-05-2018, 12:23 PM
Not normal. Normal would be buying a bra because u NEED a bra. Buying dozens of them means u WANT them. That's a fetish!
but, don't feel bad, Bruce. A large percentage of girls here r either bra or pantie fetishist! So, even tho they won't admit it u have lots of company!:heehee:
I'm an admitted fetishist. Sadly, my fetish is, "Dressing up to appear to be a female." It takes a lot more work to satisfy my fetish. I can't just throw on a bra and panties and prance around yelling, "Wheee", like some girls can!:battingeyelashes:
AmyVanessa
10-05-2018, 12:52 PM
Hello fellow bra lover.
I'm a hard-to-find size, so whenever I find one that fits me at a nice price, I pick it up. I have a nice collection now.
The same goes with heels
Sami Brown
10-05-2018, 01:23 PM
You aren't crazy unless you are buying so many that you can't pay the rent!
Sami
Joanne Curl
10-05-2018, 01:29 PM
I’ve finally finally had the chance to wear a bra the last few days and I have to say it really feels good. I don’t know why and it’s not a sexual charge anymore, it just feels good and it makes me happy❤️
njcddresser
10-05-2018, 02:02 PM
Bras are my favorite!! Have about 12. Rarely a day goes by that I don’t wear one.
ellbee
10-05-2018, 02:14 PM
There are some here (including yours truly :wave: ) who own *hundreds* of something, whether it be panties, or shoes, or leggings! :confused3:
You're fine -- for now. :devil:
Jenny22
10-05-2018, 02:24 PM
Bruce, your bra craziness has a long way to go to catch up with my count. I don't buy many bras now a days, but in my hay day, if it was pretty and my size it just hollered out to me, "Save me, save me". Have fun!
Bobbi46
10-05-2018, 02:30 PM
Ther's nothing wrong in having lots of something if it makes one happy then so be it, enjoy I keep telling myself I have enough panties but then I see some relly pretty ones in the style and fit i like and lo and behold my "stock" of panties has increased again. Fetish? no way just wanting to feel nice when dressed.
DanielleCD
10-05-2018, 02:52 PM
Quite normal I think... I have a dozen or so... all different colors/styles... I wear what appeals to me that day and which forms I'm wearing. I just love the way they hold my breasts and control the bounce when I walk. I love panties too.. especially satin but bras are a whole other world.
Tracy Irving
10-05-2018, 02:55 PM
From some of the responses I read, having too many bras might be the new normal, lol.
Just last week I donated more gently used bras than that. You have done well to keep your collection under control.
deebra
10-05-2018, 08:14 PM
Bruce,
It's nice to have a nice set of boobs therefore you need nice bras for them so it's not crazy. Whether it be real female breasts, female with implants or forms we all need bras and plenty of them; but just two boobs. Make Sense ????
HollyGreene
10-05-2018, 08:17 PM
Who in their right mind would want to be normal?
That would be so boring.
docrobbysherry
10-05-2018, 09:38 PM
Bruce,
It's nice to have a nice set of boobs therefore you need nice bras for them so it's not crazy. Whether it be real female breasts, female with implants or forms we all need bras and plenty of them; but just two boobs. Make Sense ????
If u have one outfit, then yes, deebra! Otherwise, different looks and outfits require different sized forms. That's one advantage we have over natal women. Why not exploit it?:D
Beverley Sims
10-05-2018, 09:49 PM
Girls do buy bras for different fashions and we buy bras that are different cup sizes to align ourselves with the fashion of the moment.
I have cups from a bralette to a D.
That is enough range for me.
I would have a couple of dozen of all varieties.
Andrea2656
10-06-2018, 07:09 AM
I too a lover of bras. I think it comes from growing up in a house with my mother and sister. The bra was something that a women needed. I have a large collection of bras in various cup sizes along with different forms. This is the great flexibility of being a crossdresser. No doubt I have a larger (and more elegant) collection of bras than my wife.
CarlaWestin
10-06-2018, 07:32 AM
Gee, what should Carla write.
Careful, you might find a bra you like and notice
that it is available in seven different colors.
And matching panties. Two pairs in each color.
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Bruce64
10-06-2018, 07:35 AM
Thanks you all for those kind words, for many years I felt the need to wear Brassieres and I now get a chance and I am doing it to achieve my needs. I am always looking at Bras on the internet to buy and I go to a few stores to try them on before I purchase, for me the feelings is overwhelming when I wear my Brassiere, is a few words, I feel complete. Thanks again. Today I am really in a Brassiere mood, I changed 3 Brassieres.
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Hey Carla I am a lover of Red Panties too
alwayshave
10-06-2018, 08:01 AM
Bruce, I have more bras than my wife. Bras are not my favorite item, but I do love them.
RainbowDash
10-06-2018, 01:36 PM
I may have just crossed the crazy line myself. I've got tons of bras and intend to buy more. But I just recently got my first sports bra, and I love it. If I know myself, I'm probably gonna start building up my collection of sports bras now too. Funny thing is, I'm not thinking about how much money its gonna cost me, I'm thinking about what I'll look like wearing the sports bras.
Angie G
10-06-2018, 03:40 PM
For me it's normal, I don't even know how bras I have maybe 30 or so. now. I'm looking for a yellow one.:hugs:
Angie
Teri Ray
10-06-2018, 04:13 PM
Gulp..............I too may have more bras than my wife. I enjoy wearing them and I enjoy looking for the next special bra. I also like looking for bras for my wife. Shopping is something we (wife and I ) can share and enjoy. Please don't start another confession thread about panties I could be guilty for having more than my wife there as well.
Rayleen
10-06-2018, 04:26 PM
Sure its normal, I think about bras 24/7...I wear them in my dreams which I romp around the house with them with panties.
deebra
10-06-2018, 04:34 PM
I can't believe it, I stand corrected on my thread and agree with Doc and Bev!!!! Miracles, who would think a miracle would happen on Crossdressers.com. Just joking around, Doc and Bev are usually right except when they are wrong and I am right, make sense??? Don't tell them but I do have a dozen or so different style and color bras and they do go from B to DD and they are right, the right bra and size forms go with certain tops. Soft cup bras are the best and they show the nip&%$ and are&&%.
tammy1
10-06-2018, 04:42 PM
Lovwe my bras.
NancySue
10-06-2018, 05:35 PM
Yes, me too, but only fairly recently. For years, my #1 was hose, of all kinds. I wore bras, but no big deal. About a year ago, though, out of nowhere, I became totally consumed with bras. I, not only have +/- 30 bras, all underwires, but three cup sizes, a,b, and d. I also have silicone forms for each. I have regular, strapless, and longlines. Yes, more decisions, but I love it.
Danielle_cder
10-07-2018, 08:40 AM
Yup..... I have a complete OBSESSION with bras and the things they hold! The only stipulation I have for my bras is a big cup size loll
Amanda James
10-07-2018, 01:30 PM
I love Bra's! I've been wearing a bar and panties every day for well over ten years. I think I've mentioned this once before I wear a 36 B push-up bra and they give me noticeable boobs so I usually wear a vest. A few years ago my wife and I were talking about how no one we know has ever seen me with a flat chest , so I guess I'm stuck wearing a bra :), and I love it. The point I'm trying to make is it's addictive ,have fun and be aware people will notice if you go from boobs to no boobs.
valerie anne
10-07-2018, 02:40 PM
I love to wear a brassiere, in fact now it's a necessity for me!
I started with an A cup size, and had a lot of trouble determining my band size, style etc. I bought a lot of cheap bras on eBay, discarding those which didn't fit.
I have now established that I am most comfortable in a 38 B plunge bra with a full underwire and some padding. Having worn a bra for fun for some time, I now find that I need to wear one all the time for support. I started as an A, most of my bras are currently B, but I think I may need a C cup.
I do think that wearing a bra full time and feeling feminine has made me grow. I do the appreciate the boob support on stairs now.
Having got my basic size sorted out, I am now able to concentrate on style. I love lacy feminine bras with deep bands, 3 deep hooks and wide straps.
Alyssa Lane
10-07-2018, 03:52 PM
My first Bra I was a bit nervous to buy, that was 2 years ago. Now I have over 2 dozens and my collection would increase overtime. I just ordered another pair Breast Form for Nearlyme. Going a bit Bra Crazy would you think or is this normal?
Don’t worry, I have more bras then my wife, she always says why do you have them without boobs. I probably have 20 regular bras from lasenza, just about every color. Along with about just as many sports bras. I wear them to work with my forms, so they do get worn.296576
Bobbi46
10-07-2018, 04:48 PM
Finding a nice pretty bra to wear is half the fun of bra shopping add some more fun and you can call a bra an "Over the shoulder boulder holder", and very true in some cases especially my neighbour down my lane she needs a public health warning for hers.
stephenie3756
10-07-2018, 06:01 PM
Nancy Sue - it was not until recently did I start to add bras to my collection. My favorite is a foam bra that gives me a shape without having to purchase silcone forms, etc, Amazing how much better I look in a form fitting dress with this bra on...
BLUE ORCHID
10-07-2018, 06:57 PM
Hi Bruce :hugs:, If I hooked all of my Bras together they would probably reach all the way around the Block.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Orchid ..o:daydreaming:o..
Judy-Somthing
10-07-2018, 08:14 PM
When I was about 18 my mother found my Bra collection of about 50 bras, she said it was a phase.
I got rid of just about all my bras 2-1/2 years ago after I told my wife about my little dressing as a woman habit.
I use to love bras big time but now I feel I just need them to hold my breast forms.
For me at this point it's all about the dress!
Bruce64
10-12-2018, 12:21 PM
I just got another pair of forms from Nearlyme, now I need more Bras those forms looks like a C cup, I did order B cup
CynthiaD
10-12-2018, 03:02 PM
I don't think 24-25 bras is excessive. Depending on how often you do laundry, you need enough to carry you from one laundry day to another. That's about eight. But you need different colors for different outfits. You need a few black ones and some lacy ones for when you're feeling especially feminine. You need some nude ones for wearing under white tops, and some white ones for plain-old every-day wear. If you under dress you also need some with small cups to wear under your male clothing. On top of that, if you like to coordinate your underwear and your outerwear, you need several different colors. This could easily add up to 24 or 25 bras. Now, if you've broken the 100-bra barrier, that's an obsession. Maybe. :)
valerie anne
10-12-2018, 03:34 PM
Yes, 25 bras is OK if you like them all and can wear them all in rotation.
But, white bras quickly go grey, so they don't last the wash cycles. Plus, half my bras I don't really like any more.
Finally, I am starting to leak a bit.
Tina B.
10-12-2018, 05:42 PM
don't have that many anymore, maybe a dozen, for me, they hold my forms to fill out whats really important, the dress or blouse now blouses, that is something I have a lot of. But of course it's also something you can't have to many of.with a lot skirts and too many pants, it takes a lot of blouses to make them all look different.
michelleg
10-14-2018, 01:27 PM
Sounds normal to me. I can easily remember the feeling of putting on a bra for the first time, definitely released my inner girl. Enjoy them.
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