Alexis Ann
03-19-2006, 06:20 PM
Hiya gals,
Long time lurker, finally posting :D .
Just some random thoughts i wanted to jot down as well as an intro for my self:
I am a 30 year old straight CD'r who is happily married, and my wife knows. She is not exactly supportive, but is at the least accepting. She lets me do my thing without too much griping. And i love her for it. We even go shopping together, but she would prefer i not do this. So i try to temper my activities with understanding for her situation.
I have discovered a personal perk from my dressing...quitting smoking! As i live in a close residential area, i can't exactly go out onto the porch and start puffing away can i? So, when i dress...i dont smoke! It is helping me quit actually! (except the one time when both my wife and i were drinking and it was late late late at night...we both hit the porch for a smoke without a thought. It was exhilerating! I said what if someone sees me, and she said they will think you are a woman...so i had a peaceful smoke with my honey.)
Wanting more...more...more! I started out wearing lingerie mostly, and now i am full onheels, make up and wig. I feel guilty about it as it has been an incremental increase i activity. I worry whats next? Have you ladies had similiar experiences? Just when i think this is it...i want something more. Now it is jewlry and maybe breast forms. The BF would be a big nono with my honey, so i am not saying anything about them.
Guilt: I feel guilty about dressing even though i enjoy the heck out of it! I feel guilty because my wife didnt know when we got married, guilty about the whole societal aspect of this, guilt that i see frustration in my wifes eyes when i dress even though she lets me do it.
So what i do is basically bend over backwards for her when i am dressed...do whatever she wants (games, TV etc.) In male mode i am the usual american male though.
In the end though, if i could stop...i dont know that i would. I look DAMN hot! (i am hesitant to post picture...career thing dontcha know?) It is a wonderful release from my otherwise macho job and life. The application of make up, the picking of clothes...all so relaxing as to be an almost religious experience for me (not to take the Lord's name in vain or compare this to Him mind you...it's just a figure of speech innit?)
Anyway, this is my first post and i just wanted to jot some things down. In no particular order. Hope you can understand them!
Alexis 0.02
Long time lurker, finally posting :D .
Just some random thoughts i wanted to jot down as well as an intro for my self:
I am a 30 year old straight CD'r who is happily married, and my wife knows. She is not exactly supportive, but is at the least accepting. She lets me do my thing without too much griping. And i love her for it. We even go shopping together, but she would prefer i not do this. So i try to temper my activities with understanding for her situation.
I have discovered a personal perk from my dressing...quitting smoking! As i live in a close residential area, i can't exactly go out onto the porch and start puffing away can i? So, when i dress...i dont smoke! It is helping me quit actually! (except the one time when both my wife and i were drinking and it was late late late at night...we both hit the porch for a smoke without a thought. It was exhilerating! I said what if someone sees me, and she said they will think you are a woman...so i had a peaceful smoke with my honey.)
Wanting more...more...more! I started out wearing lingerie mostly, and now i am full onheels, make up and wig. I feel guilty about it as it has been an incremental increase i activity. I worry whats next? Have you ladies had similiar experiences? Just when i think this is it...i want something more. Now it is jewlry and maybe breast forms. The BF would be a big nono with my honey, so i am not saying anything about them.
Guilt: I feel guilty about dressing even though i enjoy the heck out of it! I feel guilty because my wife didnt know when we got married, guilty about the whole societal aspect of this, guilt that i see frustration in my wifes eyes when i dress even though she lets me do it.
So what i do is basically bend over backwards for her when i am dressed...do whatever she wants (games, TV etc.) In male mode i am the usual american male though.
In the end though, if i could stop...i dont know that i would. I look DAMN hot! (i am hesitant to post picture...career thing dontcha know?) It is a wonderful release from my otherwise macho job and life. The application of make up, the picking of clothes...all so relaxing as to be an almost religious experience for me (not to take the Lord's name in vain or compare this to Him mind you...it's just a figure of speech innit?)
Anyway, this is my first post and i just wanted to jot some things down. In no particular order. Hope you can understand them!
Alexis 0.02