Online Chats

[CDLizzieB]

So much of online chat is just sharing pics and messages for someone to jerk off. I know ppl need to get off, but I’m always looking for something more than that. Idc if I get off. I try to use chat to make genuine friends irl. I wish I knew people who I could hang out with, dressed or not.

[Eemz]

Hey Lizzie, welcome to the forum. I think you're in the right place here. What I like about this forum is that people are genuine and want to share their experiences and thoughts with each others who feel the same way, and aren't going to judge them or think they're weird for wearing dresses or makeup or panties or whatever. Mostly the photos are just a way for people to say - hey look at this really cool dress I got. Or for people who are deeply in the closet, they might think some day - hey this is the best makeup job I have ever done. And I can't tell anyone irl - but I can put it on the forum and say hey girls look at this I'm so proud of the great job I did.

[Beverley Sims]

Lizzie,
Welcome to the forum, learn to type and then chat with us that way. :-)

[docrobbysherry]

Lizzie, when I arrived here 10 years ago it was after getting hit on all the time at another CD/T site.:doh:

I was very cautious about meeting others here at first. But, after 10 years I can honestly say no one has hit on me in person or in PM's from here, ever!:thumbsup:

[Patience]

Welcome, Lizzie.

I hope you enjoy the forum.

[Macey]

Lizzie, this is a nice, safe, supportive group and the mods seem to work hard to keep it that way! Welcome!

[Crissy 107]

Lizzie, Relax and enjoy the company, this is a clean site with none of the crap doc described.

[GretchenM]

I echo Crissy's, Doc's and the other responses. I have scanned other sites and it is sometimes appalling what goes on there. It is sometimes border line porn; maybe over the line. You won't find that here and doing that is a great way to get banned for ever. Welcome. There is a great deal to learn by being on this site. It is like being in a support group sometimes. I have never felt uncomfortable.

[Shelly Preston]

Hi Lizzie

Can I suggest you post a little about you in the introductions thread.

You will get more information when you are there which will answer your question.

[Leigh_n_il]

Lizzie, I am available to talk if you need to connect with someone without the things you do not want to experience.

[Helen_Highwater]

Lizzie,

Welcome and hopefully you'll find here what you're looking for.

After only a short while here you'll hopefully recognise that this forum is for those serious about their dressing. Some are stay at home dressers, others are out and about in the world either full time or at every opportunity they get. Some like me are in the closet to family and friends, I do go out though, while others have the full support and knowledge of their families. Other are or have transitioned. A real mixed bunch!

We're all free to express opinions within the forum rules, to ask and give advice. As Shelly says it would help if we know a bit about yourself, what you're aims and aspirations are in terms of talking your journey forward.

I've been fortunate enough to have met in person others from this forum. You'll find guidance in a sticky, a permanent thread, about how to stay safe and protect yourself from potentially dangerous situations if you do opt to meet others. Follow these guidelines, they're put together using the valuable experiences of those who have gone before. Most important rule, if it feels wrong then it most likely is wrong. Trust you spider senses!

Look forward to reading more about yourself.

[Leslie Mary S]

Hi Lizzy. Welcome to the group. When I first read your post I had to study it to figure out what some of your shortcuts aberrations were. Hence the comment by one of the girls comment "learn to spell" .
Most of us are friendly and open. This is the place where we can speak more or less freely. After you make 10 post more areas will become open to you.
A post about yourself and about your CDing history would be nice.

Leslie Mary Shy in the Heart of Dixie.

[phili]

Let us know your location and usually there are members somewhere nearby who would be glad to chat. Many cities have transgender meetups at nice places to share a meal and chat as people, not sex objects!