Panties in the coffin?

[Mermaiden]

The other day I found myself thinking about the eventual end of my life. Not depressed or macabre, more along the line of estate planning. And I was wondering if I would want to be buried in panties, a dress, etc? Should my preference be documented?
Anyone ever thought about that?

[Robertacd]

My wife and I already decided on creamation.

[t-girlxsophie]

My wife and I have discussed at great length what should happen in the event of me passing first, there will be recognition of Sophie in the cerimony, casket etc

Sophie

[Princess Chantal]

No, never thought of it. Crossdressing is just one activity of many that I have a passion for. Good chance I will lose interest in crossdressing well before it is my time.

[docrobbysherry]

Yes, at my age I have and do. As far as my funeral details? Since I won't know or care, I'll leave them up to my kids. :thumbsup:

I was thinking of leaving a demand for a fun, wake party in my will. But, since I won't know or care, they could just spend the money on booze and a tropical vacation!:devil:

[Tracii G]

I see no reason to put my family thru possible embarrassment.

[Kiwi Primrose]

If my family want me in male underwear they will have to buy it. There is none in my wardrobe.

[bridget thronton]

I have told my family I want to be buried in my academic robe wearing a skirt suit underneath

[Macey]

Don't care what they do with my body when I'm done with it. Hope they save the funeral expenses and donate it to give the medical students a good laugh ;)

If they MUST have a funeral and put my corpse on display, I don't care how they dress it, they'd be the ones to have to explain it!

[Beverley Sims]

Hmmm! I am still thinking about that one.

I may just leave it to the relatives, they might find humour in a clown suit.

Let them have the last laugh.

[Charlotte7]

We're going to be cremated and many years ago we bought our urns from a potter in a very remote part of Co. Mayo way out in the west if Ireland. Our wishes are contained within the urns and yes, I will be dressed when I go :)

[Anna Gracie]

I sometimes think of being in an accident dressed and what would happen.

Being dead I dont want my family to hurt... So no panties in the casket

[alwayshave]

My wishes are to be cremated, so really not an issue.

[Linda E. Woodworth]

Plan on being cremated, hate wasting land on cemeteries since they ain't making any more!

Haven't really though about it any further than that.

There was a show on TV years ago with Howie Mandel where he ran an off beat funeral parlor. Yup, the first episode had a cross dresser in full dress and everybody was trying to explain or understand.

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Mermadin :hugs:, I told my:love:Wife that I want to be laid out in my lovely black sequin dress,


And she said, "OVER MY DEAD BODY" I guess I will just be another old white guy laid out. >Orchid .oO:daydreaming:Oo.

[Danielle_cder]

Sure why not, I’m sure I’ll be wearing pants and a nice shirt not like anyone will be digging around in my coffin

[Sherrii]

I don't really understand what it is about what to do with the body after death. Depending on what you believe you will either be somewhere else, or totally cease to exist. Either way you aren't there (in the body) anymore. And if your spirit is else where it probably won't matter what happened to your body. Please, no one be offended, this just my thoughts on the subject and I know many feel different and that's OK, I accept that. Sherrii

[Fran-K]

Hi

If you have wishes then you absolutely should write them down and make sure that those who are likely to be true ones carrying them out are aware of them and understand them. (_any_ wishes, not just your choice of underwear)

As the whether you want to be in panties or not ... well, only you can answer that question - we’re crossdressers, not telepaths :-)

[Elizabeth G]

If my family want me in male underwear they will have to buy it. There is none in my wardrobe.

The same goes for me.

[Cheryl T]

Cremation for me too, so whatever she decides to put on my for the fire is fine with me, although her choices will be narrowed to cotton or nylon, spandex or none, brief, hipster of boyshort.

[RADER]

I figure that when I die, I will not know what I will be wearing when they put me in the ground.
Nor will I care, as I will not feel it.
Rader

[Gillian Gigs]

Whether I am buck naked, in a skirt, or a suit...dead is dead. Funerals are not for the dead, but for the living, it is a chance to greave, visit family, and reflect on the dead persons life. I would prefer to do what ever is best for those who are alive and think of what is important to them.

[beckypanties]

My wife is under strict instruction that when I shuffle off, she is to roll my corpse up in the rug (no, not the nice rug) and dump me in the dumpster behind the 7-Eleven. If anyone wants to put me in male underwear then they'll first have to buy some, then remove the panties from my cadaver and redress me. I won't be around to worry about it.

[Diane Smith]

When I'm gone, for all I will know or care, they can toss me naked into a ditch by the side of the road and let the coyotes and vultures have their way with me. :)

- Diane

[Georgia K]

I'm getting cremated so its null and void .But honestly I don't care I'm dead

[Krisi]

I see no reason to put my family thru possible embarrassment.

Same here. Once you're dead, it won't matter to you but it will matter to your loved ones and friends. Me, I'm being cremated anyway. Why spend $10K on a hole in the ground?

[robbieatbest]

Cremation or burial once in the coffin no one will see you but it would be nice to go into the fire well dressed. So I have left instructions at to what dress I would like to be wearing. I think it makes it easier for those I leave behind.
Cheers
Robbie

[Gardener]

I have started what I call a “Death File”. It will sit alongside my Will to help whoever has to deal with things after I am gone. Partly information about what is where but also letters for people and outline suggestions for my disposal. When finished it can be updated from time to time with the Will. I would certainly express my wishes as to how I should be clothed.