No one knows?

[Wildaboutheels]

Except YOU.

Question for those that fit into this "box"

I am simply "guessing" that for those that hate their closet, merely "telling someone" isn't going to scratch your itch?

Isn't "telling someone" probably more "dangerous" than going out into the RW "dressed"?

[Kelli_cd]

That may depend on whom one decided to tell. Personally, I'd like to be able to share my love of underdressing with an accepting female. Anything more would be a bonus.

[Tracii G]

Generally yes because you may never see someone you know while out.
Why tell someone you know if they really don't need to know?

[CrossKimmy]

If we do tell someone then we have to deal with the fact that both of us are keeping a secret. And you better trust that person a lot.

[Tracii G]

You tell one person and 10 will know before long.
A good female friend knows about me but her sister figured it out and she deleted me on FB and I am sure told her brother who was a close friend and neither will have anything to do with me and the funny part is they claim to be progressives, Pro LGBT,pro feminism and yet I am some evil entity roaming the countryside.
They can kiss my ass basically but I don't hate them.
I'm not the one with the problem they are.

[Georgia K]

Last night my wifes friend called over and I was in boy mode but underdressed I thought do I put my t shirt back on to coverup my camisole ? I didn't bother and she never said a word for over an hour then asked me whats this all about ?

[Alice Torn]

Right on Tracii. So much hypocrisy these days. Talk is cheap.

[Teresa]

Wild...,
I would say going out has to be more dangerous , I know when I took my first drive , I was OK until several miles from home and realised I didn't have a stitch of male clothing if I had a puncture or worse an car accident , the make matters worse I was driving my wife's car . How things have changed !

The first person I told was my wife , at the time I didn't feel it was dangerous , just a huge weight off my shoulders , now it's lead to me separating , so did it prove to be more dangerous ?

Now virtually the whole World appears to know , no dangers left to worry about .

[Jaymees22]

It all depends on who you tell and where you go.

[GaleWarning]

Well, I ain't telling my work mates.

[Beverley Sims]

I am not sharing my secret with my co workers, and I don't bother to tell anyone.

Those that know have already met me en femme anyway.

[Rochal Tukque]

Remember in telling some one. " familiarity breeds contempt " what's that other one " anything you say can and will be used against you " dress up and go out in some other town you will always remember your first time out!

[Mermaiden]

Wild, to answer the “itch” question, I have told my wife, but am otherwise closeted. And telling her (who I trust) did not scratch the itch. I’d still like to tell others or go out but don’t think it’s a good idea. Unless everyone knows and you’re all out, I’d guess the itch persists.

Tracii, right on for not holding a grudge and recognizing its their problem.

[Brandi Christine]

The only person (other then online) that knows is my therapist...

[Roxanne Lanyon]

I want to tell my partner, as soon as I can find one!
Roxanne