View Full Version : Your French Maids Outfit - Has anyone actually seen you model it ?
Robbiegirl
01-01-2019, 11:36 AM
These Days it seems like women are not nearly as into French Maids Outfits as Guys are so I was wondering if any of you have ever actually worn one to a costume party or in front of your significant other ?
When I asked some ladies over drinks about the maids outfits they all had a good laugh and made it clear to me that things like the ruffle butt panties and all the frills and bows were what men liked not women. So I can only imagine how women might react to a guy wearing something that Girlie that even they wouldn't wear ?
Really would love to hear how you got the courage up and how women reacted
Oh and PLEASE Post a pic of you in your outfit, Thanks
HAPPY NEW YEAR
Danielle_cder
01-01-2019, 12:40 PM
Yea my wife! I mean she did buy it for me
Alice B
01-01-2019, 02:00 PM
I do not ave one, but think it would be a lot of fun aas the house maid. But pretty sure my wife woud not go for it.
Robbiegirl
01-01-2019, 02:24 PM
So Danielle, how did your wife react to you as the French Maid and are there any pics ?
Yes Alice that is the million dollar question, will the wife go for it ??
Misty_cder
01-01-2019, 03:03 PM
I wore my outfit in front of two people, my wife and a crossdressing friend. My wife and I bought it when we visited a store in Las Vegas that catered to the transgender over 15 years ago. I would wear it on the weekends when we cleaned the house. I'm very blessed to have a wife who not only allows me to indulge in my fetishes but is willing to help me with it. I don't know if the store is in business anymore. My friend was a foreign exchange student from Sweden. We both had a thing for lingerie. One night while we were hanging out, he admitted he really liked French Maid outfits. I surprised him by changing into my outfit which consisted of a petticoat, apron, Mary Jane block heels, black thigh high nylons, corset, breast forms and blond wig.
Piora
01-01-2019, 05:14 PM
Re: French Maid outfit. Nobody in person. Only those on this site who have viewed my profile. :)
Georgia K
01-01-2019, 07:08 PM
I've always had a thing for French maids outfit . But never seen anyone wearing one for real
Maid_Marion
01-01-2019, 07:20 PM
I saw a few outfits in real life at a Ramen shop that was having a Maid Cafe day. They had one crossdressing waiter!
DianaPrince
01-01-2019, 07:23 PM
I saw a few outfits in real life at a Ramen shop that was having a Maid Cafe day. They had one crossdressing waiter!
How fun!
Tracii G
01-01-2019, 07:31 PM
Always wondered what the big deal is with those outfits?
JenniferR771
01-01-2019, 07:39 PM
I spotted an outfit at Goodwill near the week of Halloween. I pulled it out to estimate the fit. I hesitated. 60 seconds later it was gone.
However, now thinking about how to make a French maid's outfit. I need hot glue, a black dress, plus a lacy slip to cut apart to make the apron, cap and lace around the hem and sleeves.
Imagine the theme for a support group meeting.
docrobbysherry
01-01-2019, 09:01 PM
Now they have!:heehee:
These r 10 YEAR OLD pics!:straightface:
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RADER
01-01-2019, 09:19 PM
Yes, My Wife bought it for me to wear on Halloween, She would dress me up to hand out candy to the Kids.
It was a lot of fun.
Rader
cdinmd206
01-01-2019, 09:29 PM
My first time out fully dressed was on Halloween and dressed as a maid, OMG the feeling of the wind going up around my stocking tops was such a rush. I knew then this was good thing. I occasionally wore the outfit around the house when I helped with the cleaning. One one occasion we spent the weekend with out best friends at a rental house. They knew I dressed, so I spend the most part of Saturday afternoon totally dressed as their french maid complete with makeup, blond wig, frilly panties, stockings with garters and 4 inch stiletto heels. They were constantly having me serve them drinks and bending over to pickup things off the floor. There was a lot more that went on but I can not post that here.
sometimes_miss
01-01-2019, 09:45 PM
When I asked some ladies over drinks about the maids outfits they all had a good laugh and made it clear to me that things like the ruffle butt panties and all the frills and bows were what men liked not women.
Yep, for them, it's all just a lot of silly nonsense. This one never fails: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eosFml0rhXY
About 12 years ago, I took a picture of myself from the neck down in it and posted it on another forum as someone had asked to see it. Nothing with my face or hair in it, though. Xdress used to sell them made out of a stretchable jersey type (felt cool to the touch) material; no longer available. I've inquired with them, but never got an answer back. So I can't get any more. It came in black, pink and red. I have one of each. Like everything else in my life, once I found something that fit me, I should have purchased more, but in my insanity, of course, I figured that there must be a market for them so they would always be available. Nope. For some reason they changed the design and material. Even the XXL size doesn't fit, because the material no longer stretches at all. So once again, us big 'gals' are out of luck.
Edit: Just checked, that forum is long gone, and so, I suppose are those pictures. While someone MIGHT have them, I don't, and wouldn't remember what the file names were, anyway. So the wayback machine website probably wouldn't help.
Teresa
01-01-2019, 09:58 PM
Robbie,
I have two, so far I've not modelled for anyone but don't mind if I could raise some money for a good cause .
https://www.crossdressers.com/forums/attachment.php?attachmentid=264934&stc=1&thumb=1&d=1416949531
I almost forgot I was wearing my first wig !
Ressie
01-01-2019, 10:16 PM
I'd just go for a regular American maid uniform!
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Christina Page
01-02-2019, 01:46 AM
My wife thinks I'm cute cleaning the house in my French Maid uniform. And I feel cute & sexy.
Beverley Sims
01-02-2019, 01:52 AM
I went to a fancy dress party in mine once, shock, horror, another girl had one just like mine.
We both had a good evening together, serving guests and our partners.
Connie D50
01-02-2019, 07:46 AM
I have a couple of those outfits my wife has seen me in them. I sure she likes the job I do cleaning more then the outfit but she has had fun with it.
t-girlxsophie
01-02-2019, 08:26 AM
State our house gets in with two messy boys,perhaps wouldn't be bad idea French maiding it up, help keep my good clothes clean, mind you I'd draw the line at taking the bins out :)
Sophie
Cheryl T
01-02-2019, 12:34 PM
I don't have one, but I would really love to have one for housework.
I've kidded the wife about this constantly over the last few years, but she hasn't taken the hint yet.
Still hoping....
Lacy PJs
01-02-2019, 01:33 PM
Sort of like what Sometimes_Miss said... if I could find on that fits this big body of mine!
Lacy PJs
Rachael Leigh
01-02-2019, 02:06 PM
I had one years ago and bought to wear at a Halloween party, so yes lots of folks saw me in it.
That was before I fully understood for me it was way more than just dressing. But those outfits are fun
Most weekends I do all my wife's laundry and at night put it away in a dress and heels. Sometimes I wear a plain maid's outfit. I would prefer a nicer one, but too frugal to buy one. My wife and joke about the maid needing to come over.
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pinkheels
01-02-2019, 04:31 PM
I bought this outfit and have loved it since the first time I put it on. Wearing it out the first time was so nerve racking. I went and got a hotel room and spent waay too much time getting dressed up. By the time I did it was late so I went back to the front office and had the desk girls take pictures of me. Well they had a bar attached to the hotel and it was the night before Halloween so they asked me to go in and compete in the costume contest the next night. I said ok, knowing I didn't have the courage but left them and went out that night. I had more picture taken of me that night then I ever had prior to that outfit(not since as my nurse outfit gets all the attention now).
However, the first time I wore it in front of someone I knew was a couple years later when I had just started dating a girl and she asked me to come to her Halloween party. I said I would come but that I liked to get dressed up as a maid. She thought that was going to be the hit of the party so I anxiously awaited that night. The night of the party comes, I get dressed up to the nines, and make my way to her house. I pull in front of her house and as I'm about to knock on the door, my phone rings. She says that I shouldn't wear my costume because people started showing up the Halloween party not in costume. I tell her that I'm already at her front door and I can deal with it. She answers the door and lets me in. The laughter still echos in my mind. I didn't mind that as I know I looked good. About an hour in, she pulls me aside and says, "wow, you really went all out, I saw you were wearing frilly panties too". I confirmed to her that I was. The party ended a few hours later and it was still early, so I left and went to a costume party at a bar and won first prize.
This picture comes from one of my escapades. I like being embarrassed in this outfit so I usually stop at a few hotels and apply for "maid" positions when dressed up and ask them to take my picture. It's always entertaining the reactions I get. No offers yet though :(...oh well. Enjoy!
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Brenda Freeman
01-02-2019, 09:33 PM
I bought a cheap French maid costume years ago when I was just starting to go out. I was planning to meet a Tgirl friend at a bar we meet at. As the day started I thought against it but changed my mind when getting ready. I thought I looked pretty good and wanted a picture. I new my wife did not like to see me dressed but was supportive other wise so I asked her if she would take a picture and she said sure. When she saw me she looked me up and down and smiled. Then she took a photo I said thanks and as I was leaving she said "Nice Legs" oh How I loved that. Met my friend at the Bar and it was packed with people and lots of creative costumes. It was so fun wearing the costume I received lots of compliments. I could not believe I did it, but am glad I did.
Majella St Gerard
01-03-2019, 09:39 AM
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Here's my sexy maid uniform, I've worn it in public and in private, if you know what I mean 😉
Vicky Peters
01-03-2019, 10:41 AM
I have a maid uniform and have worn it in front of my wife. I had the pleasure of doing the house work and being submissive to her needs. My wife has changed her views and now it just hangs in the closet, like me.
Diane Taylor
01-03-2019, 10:54 AM
I had a French maid outfit at one time but got rid of it. now I do my housecleaning in a regular housekeeper's dress with apron. My girlfriend who lives with me loves it.300053300054300055
Sherrii
01-03-2019, 11:35 AM
Tracii G
To and try and answer your question," What's the big deal?". I think the big deal is looking and feeling ultra feminine and sexy. What is more feminine and sexy than a very short flouncy skirt, full petticoat (that as soon as you bend over just a little shows more than would be considered decent), stockings and garters- the tops of which are barely concealed by skirt and petticoat, black with white lace trim, little apron, and high heel black pumps. And while dressed like this you act submissive serving or cleaning. And there is the fantasy of the maid being available for sex. Add it all up and I love it, and that's what makes it a big deal for me. If you don't get it, well that's OK too. Have you tried such an outfit though? Sherrii
Princess Chantal
01-03-2019, 12:06 PM
I never had a desire to wear or own a french maid outfit. Many folks wrongly assume that I do just because of my fancy of Victorian dresses, 1950’s styled full skirts and petticoats, and square dancing outfits.
Robbiegirl
01-03-2019, 01:27 PM
Tracii G
To and try and answer your question," What's the big deal?". I think the big deal is looking and feeling ultra feminine and sexy. What is more feminine and sexy than a very short flouncy skirt, full petticoat (that as soon as you bend over just a little shows more than would be considered decent), stockings and garters- the tops of which are barely concealed by skirt and petticoat, black with white lace trim, little apron, and high heel black pumps. And while dressed like this you act submissive serving or cleaning. And there is the fantasy of the maid being available for sex. Add it all up and I love it, and that's what makes it a big deal for me. If you don't get it, well that's OK too. Have you tried such an outfit though? Sherrii
Wow Sherri you sure hit the nail on the head with that description
Sherrii
01-03-2019, 05:33 PM
Thanks Robbie, The French Maid thing has been popular for a LONG time and my the way I have described it is why I think. Hope it helps others who haven't yet "got it" to enjoy another aspect of CDing. Sherrii
AllieBellema
01-03-2019, 06:08 PM
I have one, but I don't have any pictures of me in it... although I thought i had some, might have to correct that soon!
Periwinkle
01-03-2019, 07:06 PM
I don't have the exact type of maid outfit you're probably talking about, but I have an old-fashioned maid dress. It's based on vintage designs so it's modest and lacy and I love it! The only pictures I have of it are old and bad, but I'm thinking of digging it out of storage this spring. I always feel so elegant and refined when I wear it. :)
Maid_Marion
01-03-2019, 07:15 PM
Brenda, you look really good in that outfit!
Marion
Brenda Summers
01-03-2019, 07:55 PM
Majella, love your maids uniform and you look great.
Jane G
01-03-2019, 08:32 PM
Not an outfit I have ever had. May be I should go mad and get one.
CarlaWestin
01-03-2019, 10:15 PM
I don't believe I've ever changed my profile pic and signature line. I would imagine thousands have seen that lovely picture.
Jojo2321
01-04-2019, 12:31 AM
Yes, my girl. Initially told her it was for her. Which she did look hot in! But she also liked it on me even more!!!
Charlie Sissy
01-04-2019, 10:56 AM
Hi I have not worn one in public yet, but I am hoping to in March.
My hairdresser and her beauty consultant organise a quiz for charity each year. These quizzes are held in hall at a local social club and are themed, and this years is International , and people are encouraged to come in fancy dress.
This has me thinking of going as a french maid. So yesterday I ordered a french maid outfit ,two petticoats 1 black and one white , to see which looks better I have Stockings and a suspender belt (garter belt) so I will be set to show the world or at least the 60 or 70 who will be there, as well as the taxi drivers taking me to and from the hall.
I ham hoping not to chicken out and will post pictures at the tinme
ClosetED
01-04-2019, 12:28 PM
I have a lingerie set that is a French maid outfit and several pictures in it, but too skimpy to share.
Hugs, Ellen
Aaron Zwidling
01-04-2019, 05:13 PM
I made one for myself that I wear once or twice a month, and my wife has seen me in it.
susants
01-04-2019, 08:19 PM
I have many maid uniforms and do all the housework at home only one that sees me is my wife
Jenny22
01-04-2019, 08:31 PM
Ladies, I'd love to add one to my wardrobe, but though I've really searched the web, I have not found one that I think would fit me (star comments made by buyers). So, Maybe one of you can recommend a seller: I wear a size 20, but can wear an 18 if the material is a bit stretchy. The underthings are not a problem. Thanks!
connie johnson
01-05-2019, 07:27 AM
Hi everybody.
Yes I have one and my wife has seen me wearing it many times. It was the first piece of women's clothing we bought for me. After the kids moved out I told her how i wanted do dress around the house while I did the cleaning. We went to the adult store and bought one for me. Only seemed the right clothing for the task.:thumbup:
I just changed my avatar so now all you have seen it too.:)
Connie
KatieGG
01-05-2019, 08:15 AM
Y'all are welcome to come clean my house lol
Lilith Moon
01-05-2019, 10:59 AM
Yes, several times in a LGBTQ+ friendly environment, actually a fetish marketplace. Got several nice comments and asked where I got it from. Mine is in shiny black PVC with a black tutu as an underskirt. I could post a pic in the members only Picture and Video Gallery if anyone is interested.
Tanya silk stocking
01-05-2019, 11:31 AM
My wife bought me the outfit one xmas with 3" heels..in fact she encourages me more to dress up than I do
Gillian Gigs
01-05-2019, 01:09 PM
I don't have any maid's outfits, but I would love to have one just like the ones' that are worn in many high end hotels. Typically they are black with white trim, just like the picture in post #17. I would were it while I am doing my share of the household chores. My only problem is that might give my wife ideas about getting more maid service...lol
Sabrina133
01-05-2019, 01:20 PM
Yes indeed, my wife was with me when i bought it. Its a custom made latex dress we bought when we visited Berlin.
Dawn Saxton
01-05-2019, 10:42 PM
Yes I have one (actually two, but only one I really like to wear)
It's kinda funny how I got into wearing a French Maid's uniform. I'm now a widower, and my late wife knew I crossdressed. She was disabled and towards the end of her life, I did everything around the house- the cooking, cleaning, and also waited on her needs. One day I was tired from doing all these things after a very long day at work as well. I asked her if she needed anything before I sat down to rest. She said, "No", but just after I had sat down to rest, she called me to get her some ice. I did so, but I told her, if she was going to use me as a Maid, then the least she could do is let me wear the uniform. To my surprise she said, " I've seen your legs--Go for it!!"
Well after she passed away , my youngest daughter was so distraught she was bordering on suicide. I made a bet with her that if she would get dressed up in a costume for Halloween to take the grandsons out trick or treating, then I would dress up in costume too. We spent over a month preparing for Halloween, and took off to visit my oldest daughter and her family. I dressed before leaving my house, so I was in full girl mode. We stopped at a supermarket to get some things for the party, and I had a line of men following my every move in the store, I never knew I could run so fast in 3" Heels! At the party I got many complements on my uniform, and one lady complemented my youngest daughter on how well my makeup looked. She lost it when my daughter replied, " I didn't do his makeup- he did it himself, then did mine!!"
Hopefully one day soon I will upgrade my membership so I can post pics of me in my French Maid's uniform!!
Sissy Sandy
01-06-2019, 10:41 AM
Apart from me posting pictures on the internet no one has seen me wearing it
I would so love to dress in one for a woman or Mistress and maybe even serve as a sissy maid
I have been asked to wear one for guys and cds before
but didn't do it as I'm really seeking a woman
melissalynn
01-06-2019, 10:55 AM
When I raised the level of my CDing some years back my inclination was to avoid costumes (though I did do the schoolgirl look at one makeover). Now that I am far more comfortable with it, maybe it's time for the French maid.
Heisthebride
01-06-2019, 11:18 AM
I did set up a photoshoot with a female friend of mine about 5 years ago. Mistress and the maid theme. So much more fun when you can share it with someone else.
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Robbiegirl
01-06-2019, 03:11 PM
Great Pic Hesithebride ! Wish I had girlfriends like you have
Territx
01-07-2019, 03:43 PM
Hesithebride: I agree with Robbiegirl. Looks like you had fun.
Sometimes Steffi
01-08-2019, 11:13 PM
Ummm, yeah. I bought it for Halloween party years ago, but no pics. Someone did stuff a dollar in my bra though.
No pics, but you have to just believe me. I think I still have it somewhere, but I don't think I could get in on now.
BTW, my wife was the butler.
Piora
01-09-2019, 05:21 PM
This pic is a few years old, but I still have this outfit, and still wear it occasionally.
mirima1992
01-09-2019, 05:30 PM
I have occasionally met guys on Craigslist and now Doubleist. For a date, I give them the option of regular girly attire, or a more racy ensemble. French Maid is the #1 choice.
Lynn Sealy
01-11-2019, 09:42 AM
Halloween 2006. It was my wife’s idea (I think she doesn’t know I dress).
A friend invited us to a Halloween party on s Saturday before Halloween. We were married on Halloween, so it is an important date for us. Although we had been married for over ten years, it was the first Halloween party for us.
We decided I would go as Ben Franklin. Went to a local costume shop. Tried on the costume and my wife hated it. As we were walking out, my wife scans the aisles then stops and says “Oh Honey, Look! This would be so cute.” She pointed to “Men’s French Maid Funny Costume”. My outside voice balked, but inside I was thinking “Fun.” After a few hems and haws from me and pleading from my wife, I agreed. I then told her that if I was going to dress in drag I would not do it half ass.
After purchasing the costume, she immediately had us go to Payless to buy shoes. She wanted me to wear boots, but my calves were too large. She found a two pairs of Mary Jane heels in each of our sizes. As I was trying on the shoes, I saw a woman with her children and immediately stopped. She laughed and said it was okay as Halloween was approaching. I replied, true but I didn’t want to mess up her son.
The next weekend, my wife took me to Erotic Cabaret to buy us each a petticoat and fishnet hose. She reveled in telling the women working that we were buying stockings for me to dress as a French Maid for Halloween. Then to a party store to buy us both cheap red wigs.
When we arrived at the party, the host started laughing, and said she loved it. We mingled around and danced. Said hi to a long-time friend who didn’t recognize me. When someone toasted my outfit, I said “I'm more man than you'll ever be, and more woman than you'll ever get!” People laughed and yelled Car Wash. What surprised me was how much more comfortable women I didn’t know were talking with me. Several women commiserated with me on how much our feet hurt. They also were oddly interested in feeling my boobs and wanted to know how I made them (pillow stuffing). Got lots of compliments for my legs. Not my best effort, but the first time in public dressed, albeit as a guy in drag not as Lynn.
Several months later, my wife told a lesbian couple friends of ours about my French Maid outfit and my going all in. We saw the several months later, and the told Deb “We have something for Lindsey. I hope he likes it.” It was a 3X latex fetish mother superior outfit. Frederick’s of Hollywood had donated it to a local women’s shelter, and they had decided it might be inappropriate. Had been hanging in their closet for several years. Wore it to a Halloween party that year.
KatieGG
01-11-2019, 11:47 AM
I just got my hubby a French maid outfit, it should be arriving today, he doesn't know about it so I'm super stoked to give it to him I hope he likes it!
Crissy 107
01-11-2019, 12:40 PM
Katie, How could he not like it, it’s wonderful on many levels. I think you are both in for a fun weekend. :)
Michaelasfun
01-11-2019, 01:45 PM
300337No, probably never would wear it in public. However, here it is.
Alexis00
01-21-2019, 12:52 AM
I've never been interested in them. But we went to a big singles Halloween party in Boston and there were so many guys in French Maid costumes the MC joked they should have their own costume category. BTW the top prize winner came as a giant roll of Charmin. There were also categories for pairs and groups.
I heard one of them complaining to another how many girls were hitting on him: so I guess I should look into it! :)
giuseppina
01-21-2019, 10:28 PM
Like some posters to this thread, I've never understood the attraction to a french maid outfit. I might wear one for a GF or wife, but that is the extent of it.
That said, everyone has their own likes and dislikes.
Cynthia T
01-22-2019, 02:58 PM
I cobbled together a French Maid outfit from a black leotard and fishnet tights, adding a lacy white apron, headband, cuffs, garter and heels. Sometimes I wear it to change the bedlinens and vacuum. S.O. watches, then disciplines me for doing a poor job.
HollyGreene
01-23-2019, 05:29 PM
I had one a very long time ago. Black and white satin.
Nobody ever saw me wearing it.
Not really interested in wearing one now.
PatMatoole
01-25-2019, 01:51 AM
Went to a drag queen pub crawl in Austin. I decided to wear French maid outfit and went to MAC to get makeup applied.
I got ALOT of compliments!! One person said to me “I didn’t think anybody could pull off wearing a French maids dress but I was obviously wrong!!”
Had several women compliment me and a lesbian couple said they wanted to take me home with them!! I think they were just being nice
Had another woman come over and she said “I saw you when I first came in and I thought wow what a good looking woman. She then says she figured out I was male but she had to come over and tell me how good I looked.”
She said I should take that as a compliment coming from a serious lesbian
I love wearing it in public. It just isn’t what you typically see anyone wearing in public!!
Beverley Sims
01-25-2019, 02:20 AM
I would wear mine to themed costume parties and then assist the hostess with serving drinks and supper.
I was often mistaken for hired help and I could have got a few dates from those that never knew. :-)
alwayshave
01-26-2019, 07:52 AM
Admittedly I have always wanted the sexy French Maid costume, but have never gone there. Surprisingly, my actual Salvadoran maid wears jeans and a t-shirt, mores the pity.
Michaela, you are a daring girl.
MsEva
01-26-2019, 02:14 PM
Oh they look wonderful. No maid outfit sadly though. I do a lot of house work dressed as a house frau. Just normal clothes a working mom would wear. I put my hair in a pony tail (wig anyway) and get to my chores.
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Robbie,
I have two, so far I've not modelled for anyone but don't mind if I could raise some money for a good cause .
https://www.crossdressers.com/forums/attachment.php?attachmentid=264934&stc=1&thumb=1&d=1416949531
I almost forgot I was wearing my first wig !
Love it!
Robbiegirl
01-26-2019, 07:29 PM
Well I certainly would volunteer to do housework if someone bought me a cute maids outfit or maybe a 1950's housewife outfit with a nice frilly petticoat
leotard fan
01-27-2019, 12:32 PM
I never had one. i love to have one... or more :) ! maybe my wife will buy me one someday...
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