Doctor appointment

[Leonora]

I have a doctor's appointment this Monday morning. I know I have to take my pants off wondering what color panties I should wear. I wore white last time, I know they don't care and my underwear is the last thing on their mind. I just thought I'd share.

[IleneD]

Go loud and proud.

[Leonora]

What do you think pink, lol it is my favorite panty color. I don't know I may go with one of my light blue pair. There no men color for sure.

[Crissy 107]

Leonora, You will be fine and just go with whatever panties you decide to like that morning.

[Robin777]

My last Dr appt I had bright red panties on. Wear whatever you want.

[Lydianne]

Femme jeans? . . :Pray:.

- Lydianne.

[Jean 103]

I would go with pink.

[Rachelakld]

When I went, I forgo the underwear, just a nice skirt and top.
It just saved me the hassle of having to drop my undies

[Kiwi Primrose]

Female doctor - colour to match your bra but make sure you have some lace on both. Male doctor - anything will do.
I hope it is nothing serious, good luck.

[Beverley Sims]

Probably the only thing I now do in drab.

I am fortunate I only go every six months to renew a prescription any way.

[Teresa]

Leonora,
It depends what the medical apointment is for , I would be more concerned with tucking well than the colour I wore not unless it's the parts between your legs that are the subject of the appointment . Would it solve the problem by wearing a skirt and thigh highs .

[Leonora]

It more of a follow up visit if anything but he checking my bum bum so I will have to strip from the waist down.

[Angie G]

Oh it really should be pink and lace. :hugs:
Angie

[Crissy 107]

Leonora, Whatever you decide to go with you will have to come back and let us know.

[Leonora]

What about one of these?301413

[Crissy 107]

Leonora, Nice choices! I like them all!

[Sara Jessica]

Seems like exhibitionist tendencies when writing on an internet forum about what color panties to choose for a doctor visit. Why is it important to you for your doctor to know you wear panties?

[Leonora]

It not like I said in the beginning I know they don't care. I was just having fun with a post just to get other members reaction. I have to undress before the doctor comes in the room anyway. But I was just doing the post for fun.

[Lisa516]

Leonora hun,

Match the panties to your toe nails, Pink is of course my favorite.
Lisa
:)

[kimberly c]

I really don't understand the obsession about wearing panties to a Doctor's appointment. No one cares.

[Michelle123]

I agree with Sarah Jessica. Why must you involve your doctor with your crossdressing? have you considered that it might make the staff uncomfortable? Embaressed? Is it for your own need to be seen by someone? This is a much different situation than just going out in public, and letting total strangers see hints that you may be a male in womens clothes.
In this case, you have developed a relationship with your doctor. A patient/doctor relationship. Unless you have discussed your needs to dress, or perhaps you are going through a transition that your doctor knows about, I don't understand why you would want to just show up for an exam, knowing you would be removing your clothing, and wearing womens underwear. I have never understood why so many here are ok with putting their doctors, and nurses in a possibly uncomfortable situation like this.

[Teresa]

I must admit I wouldn't want to put myself in the embarrassing situation anymore than embarrass my doctor or the staff.

Of course it's different if you do dress full time , I've attended all my medical appointments as Teresa , in those circumstances it would appear very odd if I revealed I was wearing male Y fronts underneath .

[JeanTG]

No one cares.

Actually someone does care. My wife is a doctor and doesn't take kindly to someone using a physical exam to exhibit their proclivities. She feels used when that happens; maybe a male doctor would feel differently, I wouldn't know. I feel very strongly that we crossdressers should *not* be using a doctor's appointment to make a statement, unless one is out as transgender, and in transition. Sorry for being such a stick in the mud, but it is what it is, I feel a need to defend my wife's right to having a workday that is not sexually charged as *she* interprets it. In fact the surest way to get yourself kicked out of her office is to show any hint of sexual titillation. And yes it happens often enough to be an issue. Not just panties, but inappropriate comments, springing wood, proposals from both males and bi/lesbians, you name it.

My view is that if female underwear is *all* you own, then the plainest pair of white or black cotton briefs are appropriate. Bikini briefs OK I suppose, as there are men's bikini styles.

As for me, drab underwear for my own visits to my male GP. Honestly, I think one should question one's motives: if discussing what panties to wear at a doctor's appointment, one has answered one's own question: don't. Keep it at the level of a professional visit.

Edit: I would add, that just because the doctor doesn't comment, and acts as the consummate professional, to those who have already worn obvious panties to a medical visit, does not mean that (s)he does not care, or was not made uncomfortable. The doctor is just being professional and considerate. Return the favour by being considerate to him/her recognizing that perhaps (s)he is uncomfortable. Female physicians in particular are already in a situation of vulnerability, being alone in an office with a semi-naked male. Trust me they would really rather *not* deal with our baggage on top of everything.

[Sara Jessica]

^^^ ...should be a sticky thread as this subject is repeated quite often. Well said from the perspective of an actual health care provider.

[char GG]

Thanks JeanTG! I used to work at a hospital and everyone did act very professional in front of the patients. However, word got around to the rest of the staff after the patient was gone. Hospital workers are there to help people and should not be used for anything else.

[Leonora]

Well I wore pink but I tucked my, panties inside my pants on the chair. I read every one comments and maybe I was somewhat miss understood as to my intentions for the post. I wasn't intended on showing my panties to the doctor on purpose.

[Sissy_in_pink]

I would wear a pair with plenty of lace and flowers on them.

[Leslie Mary S]

go get some white or pink with red heats and bows on the legs.

[ShelbyDawn]

I met with a neurologist about some numbness in my feet last week. I made sue to ask what type of exam they would be doing and how far it would go. They told me they would be testing the nerve in my lower leg, foot to knee.
Knowing this I 'knew' i could wear whatever I wanted. I opted for my new matching lace bra and panties, nice pale pink and quite sexy...
So I get there and put on the shorts they gave me.
The exam goes exactly as described; knee to foot, until the Dr. gets a funny look on her face and says, "This doesn't look right to me. We need to check further up. Lay on your stomach."
I turn over and lay down. She takes her electrode thingy and proceeds to pull my shorts down just enough to get to the lower lumbar part of my back which, of course, exposes my panties.
Without missing a beat, she pulls then out of the way with the shorts, completes testing the nerve and never says a word.

Go for broke. Maybe a bright fuchsia thong...

<Edit>Wow, Just read some of the other posts, JeanTG, and I had not honestly thought of that. I normally wear the most generic panties I have. In this case, I was absolutely certain it would never come up. Thanks for making me think. I will be sure to be more careful in the future.

[DianaPrince]

Yikes! Excellent advice JeanTG

[Sallee]

Shelby That sucks Neuropathy really has no cure. I have had it for some time and it really sucks at night. It will wake me up. Doesn't much bother me in the day time but you have to watch your feet so they don't get injured blisters, etc. I spent a week with wet feet on a sailing trip and got blisters that I wasn't aware of and ended up getting treated with meds. I have been treated lots of different ways for the neuropathy and nothing really works. ONe doc wanted to give me heavy pain pills. They worked but who needs heavy pain pills, oxys in this case. I sure didn't need them and they didn't work I just didn't care about the pain. CBD oil kind of helps. Nothing seems to work well I spent lots on a chiropractor and acupuncture to no avail.

Nylons and high heels might do it but you'll have to wear them all the time LOL.

Good luck if you find something let me know Thanks

[Glenda58]

when I had my stroke I had on pink and lace panties girl jeans and top. I had taken off my bra just before I went out the door But the witness lines were there for all to see when they took off my top.

[lingerieLiz]

Actually someone does care. My wife is a doctor and doesn't take kindly to someone using a physical exam to exhibit their proclivities.

Going to the doctor for an exam is the one of the few places I don't underdress. I don't want to offend the doctor or staff. I also want them to find my problem and give me good service. I don't want to distract them.

Given that, I have had occasions where I was underdressed and had no choice or the doctor/nurse discovered my lingerie. Not much you can do in an emergency. While only once did I have any indication of an issue, but it was soon ironed out.

I have donated blood while dressed. I wore women's jeans, heeled boots, and a polyester blouse which left little question that I had on a bra over my girls. I hadn't planned on donating that day but got a call to please come in. I was too far away to go home and change to save a life.

[Rachelakld]

WOW from JeanTG.
Now I understand if her wife being upset if you're aroused at the time of the appointment, but is it really "SEXUAL" if your just in normal girl mode

I mean, this is me, at my doctors, without underwear, do I really look "offensive"?

As to underwear, 5 minutes after the photo, the Doc and a medical student had stuck a painfully large telescope up my behind, so undies would have only slowed down their examination and there's nothing SEXUAL about that procedure (not for me anyway).

Imagine a Doctor, who is offended by the naked body, how would they ever examine a boil on the butt???

The next visit, I had to be totally naked - surely that's way "more offensive" than clothed in a skirt? (like the photo but with no clothes at all, or wig, or shoes)

301516
note: photo was taken at public hospital, not a private practice.

But here's the real rip... As individuals, we CHOSE what offends us, nobody can actually offend you unless you give them permission to do so

[Lydianne]

I'm thinking about intentions.

If you consider the mental state of a cis-guy wearing his usual male underwear going to the doctor, for him, it's pretty much a business-like approach: Get it done, move on.

If one of us is going to the doctor with the same mentality, then I would consider it authentic whichever panties are worn as long as we're prepared to own it. However, if one is viewing the appointment as an occasion, wearing special panties for it and hoping to create memories, then I would be quietly asking myself how constructive that would be.

I've never been hugely into panties, but if I were going to do this, I would wear the plainest of plain neutral-coloured panties ( black, white or 'neutral' ). No frill, no lace.

Nevertheless, it continues to be my belief that for those with the need to demonstrate more of their femme identity, a covertly feminine outer garment over plain underwear would be more expressive than flamboyantly feminine underwear under male clothing.

- Lydianne.

[Tammie.J.Swenson]

I have a doctor's appointment this Monday morning. I know I have to take my pants off wondering what color panties I should wear. I wore white last time, I know they don't care and my underwear is the last thing on their mind. I just thought I'd share.

What a weird coincidence,, MONDAY, I have my FIRST COMPLETE FEMALE ANNUAL PHYSICAL. My SOGGF has her annual Physical also. 2 DOCTORS, A GP, an GYN/ONCOLOGIST with MAMMOGRAM complete with "Female" exam in Morning and a Dental exam in afternoon late. (see below why, my journey to becoming Tammie full time). All her Doctors except for the Dentist are in the local Hospital where SOGGF had her Breast Cancer Surgery. Its a Large regional Hospital so its going to be quite a day. Its going to be exciting to see how passable, I am to tons of people, including nurses, other "GG" Female patients and Laboratory Techs.


My SOGGF told me this last Monday, apparently she had made the appointments for BOTH of us last year with them when she made her appointments... HER Doctors are ALL Female, SOGGF tells me they all are Very Well endowed, .. SOGGF apparent told them I've been living 24/7 Fully Female, but have never had any "FEMALE" doctor exams since I start living FULLY Female about 3 years ago after SOGGF forced me to Dress FULLY En Femme FULLY in public.

When SOGGF told them this, both her GP and GYN/Oncologist, said "Well its very Important that Tammie have a FULL Female Exam and Gynecology Exam with a Mammogram, IT sounds like Tammie might want to consider Breast Implants and if so She will have to start a regimen of very strong HRT. Thus she needs a complete FEMALE exam to determine what dosage and types of hormones to prescribe for her.

What we will do is double your appointment time, We will Examine Her immediately after you then She will know what to expect, even when we "check her downstairs' like you'..... and even a mammogram (yes men can get Breast Cancer) is Mandatory. Thus I she decides ever to have reassignment surgery, we will have a baseline exam.

Any how SOGGF has decided, I will wear my Sexy Bright Orange Lacy Balconet Bra, it's Matching Retro Thong Pantie, Pantyhose, my White Sexy Pantyhose Like Deep V-Neck Bodysuit and my White Wedge 4" Strappe HiHeels









Jammie's Journey to Becoming Tammie full time:

after she discovered me wearing a sexy outfit of hers, when she came home 3 days and 4 hours early from a 3 week 'business" trip....boy was she pissed...anyhow see is a breast cancer survivor with with 2 pairs of Expensive Custom Made Breast Forms, one is a spare pair...(i had only been a closeted XDER until then) she said AHA so you are the one that has been riffling through my attire when I am away on business trips....WELL then since you like FEMALE attire so much then for next 3 weeks until HALLOWEEN YOU WILL DRESS FULLY FEMALE 24/7 in public thru HALLOWEEN,,,..little did she know,,,, I had always wanted to but never had the courage to do so...so every morning we got up extra earlier and she dressed me FULLY ENFEMNE including MakeUp etc...the nite she outted me she had SEMI-PERMANENTLY adhered her spare pair of forms to my chest B4 she dressed me up in a very sexy outfit to go downtown for dinner and going to a nightclub....Come Morning after Halloween, SOGGF said to me "Jammie, I think u really have enjoyed being a Voluptuously BUSTY Female for the last 3 weeks, would you like to continue until the New Year's Eve Formal Dinner Dance my office is having?""'...little did She know I loved the idea. I said definitely,,, she said OKAY good,,, I have told my office I will be on vacation this week....First we have to get you some FEMALE ATTIRE of your own,,then we are going to have a GIRLS week shopping including your own makeup, etc. Come New Year's Day....SOGGF said Tammie,, how about you continue living FEMALE this year,,, you make a beautiful lady....so that is what I did...come that October, MY SOGGF surprised me, with a BIrthday present,,, my 1st Bday as Tammie....she had purchased for me my own set of 38DDD BOOBIEs and gave some new 38DDD bras.

[rockerreds]

I have gone to my last couple of appointments in a skort, feels very comfortable going that way.

[Sara Jessica]

Rachel, there is quite a difference between walking into a doctor's office presenting as a female and going into an examination presenting as male in anticipation of a panty reveal. Your presentation disarms the staff and in the event they perceive you as trans-whatever rather than female, they can make fair assumptions going into the exam about you as a person. Even better if they know you as a regular patient, they might have an understanding that you are transitioning or a crossdresser or somewhere in between. Bottom line, I don't think anyone here is questioning whether someone who presents much/most/all of the time as a female for whatever reason should present as such to their physician unless there are less than sincere reasons for doing so.


As for Tammie, your story makes my head spin. Completely uncertain about what was just added to this conversation but in all honesty, it reads like fantasy fiction.

[JeanTG]

WOW from JeanTG.
Now I understand if her wife being upset if you're aroused at the time of the appointment, but is it really "SEXUAL" if your just in normal girl mode


Yes but you are presenting female. It is reasonable for a doctor that doesn't know you, say a specialist, to simply assume you are in transition and this is your *normal* presentation. I mentioned in my reply "unless you are in transition". I don't know what your relationship is with your GP and if (s)he knows you are TG or not.

My point was in response to the OP: "what panties should I wear to my doctor visit". I may be reading this wrong but it sounds like there's a degree of *wanting* to show the doctor you wear panties. This, IMHO, is what is wrong, and what I can guarantee, a female physician in particular, doesn't like. Obviously in an emergency you are wearing what you are wearing, but if you have a doctor's appointment planned in advance, please wear drab underwear, or if you don't have any, something plain in a neutral colour like black, grey or white.

Again, if you are transitioning, or you live your life presenting as female, it's a different matter.

Also, don't make the assumption that if your doctor's visit is to check your throat (s)he wont want to look at other things, as happened with the neurologist above. Don't be surprised at a "when was the last time you had your prostate checked"? I am diabetic and one day it was "today I'm going to check your feet as part of diabetic foot care". Good thing I had taken off my toenail polish...

Always keep in mind that doctors, while professionals, are also human beings. And women, whether a doctor or not, see things differently than men and are *very* sensitive to any hints of sexual inappropriateness in the examining room. We may not think that our proclivity to wear women's underwear is sexual, but the doctor may not be all that aware of trans matters. They typically don't see that many of us unless in a practice oriented towards transgender care! For may doctors, especially small-town GPs, transgenders are a curiosity in a textbook that they may see once or twice in their practice over their whole career.



As for Tammie, your story makes my head spin. Completely uncertain about what was just added to this conversation but in all honesty, it reads like fantasy fiction.

Honestly, I'm with you Sara, I call BS on that story. It also makes no sense from a medical standpoint. The last thing an endocrinologist will check before prescribing HRT is what is down below, other than maybe doing a cursory all-over physical. It's the lab work that the endo will be most interested in. And a gynecologist is not where a TS goes for HRT. That is simply not their bailiwick and a pre-op TS most certainly does not need a "FULL FEMALE EXAM", she needs blood work to determine testosterone levels to prescribe blockers, and liver function tests and other endo tests to rule out contraindications for HRT. About the only interaction a gynecologist may have with someone TS, is someone already on HRT who needs a mammogram, which TS women with breast development should get.

[Teresa]

Rachel,
I must admit that procedure does wipe the smile off your face , I had to strip and wear a surgical gown anyway . While I won't go into details the examination does leave the bowels a little loose , so it's best not to wear your Sunday best .

Jean ,
Thanks for posting your honest reply , I agree perhaps it should be made a sticky , we should treat doctors with respect . I wonder how we would feel if the role was reversed .

Liz,
I've donated blood three times now dressed , the only problem the first time was I was wearing a skirt , ( in fact the only one of twenty in the waiting area ) and the screening nurse called my full male name out , yes it did raise a few eyebrows . I've now officially changed it to the shortend form so it's female combatible .

[DaisyLawrence]

Jammie's Journey to Becoming Tammie full time:

after she discovered me wearing a sexy outfit of hers, when she came home 3 days and 4 hours early from a 3 week 'business" trip....boy was she pissed...anyhow see is a breast cancer survivor with with 2 pairs of Expensive Custom Made Breast Forms, one is a spare pair...(i had only been a closeted XDER until then) she said AHA so you are the one that has been riffling through my attire when I am away on business trips....WELL then since you like FEMALE attire so much then for next 3 weeks until HALLOWEEN YOU WILL DRESS FULLY FEMALE 24/7 in public thru HALLOWEEN,,,..little did she know,,,, I had always wanted to but never had the courage to do so...so every morning we got up extra earlier and she dressed me FULLY ENFEMNE including MakeUp etc...the nite she outted me she had SEMI-PERMANENTLY adhered her spare pair of forms to my chest B4 she dressed me up in a very sexy outfit to go downtown for dinner and going to a nightclub....Come Morning after Halloween, SOGGF said to me "Jammie, I think u really have enjoyed being a Voluptuously BUSTY Female for the last 3 weeks, would you like to continue until the New Year's Eve Formal Dinner Dance my office is having?""'...little did She know I loved the idea. I said definitely,,, she said OKAY good,,, I have told my office I will be on vacation this week....First we have to get you some FEMALE ATTIRE of your own,,then we are going to have a GIRLS week shopping including your own makeup, etc. Come New Year's Day....SOGGF said Tammie,, how about you continue living FEMALE this year,,, you make a beautiful lady....so that is what I did...come that October, MY SOGGF surprised me, with a BIrthday present,,, my 1st Bday as Tammie....she had purchased for me my own set of 38DDD BOOBIEs and gave some new 38DDD bras.

Welcome to the 2019 nominations for The Man Booker Prize for Fiction

[t-girlxsophie]

Wow that hugely improbable story is a doozy

As for OP Pretty sure the doc couldn't give a toss,unless your overtly showing off