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Janet_Johnson_cd
03-22-2006, 03:26 PM
As i've just started crossdressing for real i dont think i'd leave the house as Janet only James because my Mum would'nt like it for one thing and the other reason i guess i'm not ready yet.

I think i have to just keep it private, what do you girls think i should do? Cheers!
Lissa Stevens
03-22-2006, 04:57 PM
No body can tell you what to do. What is right for some is not right for others. I wish I had come out when I was found out by my parents when I was about 19. In the end things would have been easier. You know what they say about hindsight being 20/20. Feel your mother out about it. Find a way to work the basic concept of cross dressing into a conversation. Maybe it could be about somebody on the television or mention you saw a guy out dressed. See what her reaction is.
Julie Avery
03-22-2006, 05:07 PM
Janet, I'd do only what you're comfortable with doing, and I think it's a good thing to include "consideration of the feelings of others in my house" (such as your mum) in the checklist you go through when asking, "Am I OK with this?"
Julie York
03-22-2006, 05:45 PM
I think you have just found a bundle of information that you need to take in and have a think about. Don't take this the wrong way (hopefully) but I think you need to sit back and just take in the recent contact on this forum. It doesn't all have to be done at once, and some of us have spent a couple of decades trying to get the bits of the jigsaw to fit. If you rush at this head on you will make yourself unhappy and possibly the people around you.

Slow down.

Good luck.
trannie T
03-22-2006, 06:14 PM
Does your mum know about your dressing? You may want to come out to her. But only you can make the step outside the closet.
Star
03-22-2006, 08:18 PM
I think you feel it is better keep it private for now. If and when you are ready to come out you will sis. Why hurry? Enjoy it!
Janet_Johnson_cd
03-23-2006, 02:07 PM
Does your mum know about your dressing? You may want to come out to her. But only you can make the step outside the closet.

My Mum does know about my crossdressing but she's got a fear of looking at her beloved son looking like a girl.

Thats why i do it in private.
Star
03-23-2006, 02:34 PM
I sounds like you know what's best for you then...
Butterfly Bill
03-23-2006, 02:57 PM
If you don't think your mum will like it, and you're 21, maybe it's time to think about moving away from mum,
Janet_Johnson_cd
04-04-2006, 10:01 AM
If you don't think your mum will like it, and you're 21, maybe it's time to think about moving away from mum,

I'm unable to move out of my Mum's because i wont beable to look after myself as i suffer with learning difficulties. :eek:

I would really like to confront my Mum as Janet but i'm really scared of her reaction.

I really want to wear wigs, tops, skirts and dresses every now and again and not worriy about my Mum seeing me in femm, do you understand?

Cheers!

Janet aka J. Johnson