changing limits

[sara66]

A couple of years ago my wife asked me to go out once a year. I have been kinda antsy so I asked her if she would object to a 2nd outing in less than 6 months. She suggested this coming Monday as our neighbor will be out of town and I could leave from home. She also said I need a new wig. She has never seen me dressed, but a close friend of ours(and a hair stylist) has be been out with me and told I really need a new wig. So I am going to make an appointment at a wig shop. I also going to see a couple of SA's that have been wanting to see me dressed.


Funny thing I think two or three times a year is all I really need. I think my wife was worried that I would want to go out all the time.

Get out and have fun.
Sara :battingeyelashes:

[Stephanie47]

I think for many of us going out all the time just for the sake of going out is overrated. My wife was recently away for nine days. I did go out several times. I did have the opportunity to go out as many times as I wanted for as long as I wanted, but, without something really to do, Why? I felt the cool breeze upon my legs. I actually enjoyed my time at home fully en femme getting something done, even if it was only reading and watching movies.

I think the thirst to go out grows and grows until there is some relief. If there was a social or support group of like minded individuals, then I could see going out frequently. Just to go out and roam the streets is, well, just like going out and roaming the streets. Boring in the long run.

[Micki_Finn]

We’re all at different places in our journey. For some it may be boring, for others a thrill. As long as it’s bringing us joy and not harming anyone else, do what you feel.

[Cheshire girl]

I go out when I want to and not every time I get a chance. A couple of times a month works for me. Staying in dressed is ok but being able to blend in as a lady is what I like.Socialising with women and going out dressed is a thrill I never thought could happen. Now it does it’s fantastic. Just the little things like sitting in the beauty salon waiting for my appointment or having a make up consultation at the cosmetics counter are lovely.

[BTWimRobin]

We’re all at different places in our journey. For some it may be boring, for others a thrill. As long as it’s bringing us joy and not harming anyone else, do what you feel.

Well said Micki! I know I have long way to go before I can even think about leaving the house dressed.

[Teresa]

Sara,
It's great you have yoir wife;s approval and if you're both in agreement then where's the problem ?

It wasn't enough for me I guess my GD or whatever had different demands , I'm far happier being full time the difference being I had to separate to achieve it . I also don't have to concern myself with neighbours as they all know but as it turns out not comfortable .
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The one detaill that I'm surprised at is your wife accepted going out dressed with another GG . Well I hope you get your new wig and you enjoy your next time out .

[Beverley Sims]

Sara,
Nice to see the changing limits are acting in your favour.

Take it easy with your wife and her wishes and you should get on well with your activities.

[Patience]

Nice!

Would your wife object to a makeover? It’s just that maximizing your feminine appearance is.very helpful when choosing a wig. If not a makeover, at least a bit of makeup so when you look in the mirror you see more than a guy in a wig.

[docrobbysherry]

Sara, it sounds like the only issue is your neighbor seeing u? I have that same problem.:straightface:

What I do is when driving away during daylite hours:

Not wear my wig. Wear a ballcap
Wear shades to hide my makeup. Put on lipstick and wig when I arrive at my destination.
Wear a loose man's jacket to hide my blouse, dress, and forms.

If any of neighbors see me leave they won't see Sherry. I always return very late at nite so don't worry about them seeing me return. But, if I do ever come back in daylite, I'll look to be in man mode again!