How would you react?

[CarlaWestin]

So, your wife or SO says, "How would you like to have to present to the world every day as a woman?" Dealing with these big breasts for all to see? Presenting as attractive as you can with makeup and attire only to be leered at as a primal sex object?

Would you accept the challenge?

[Kelly DeWinter]

You had me at "
leered at as a primal sex object". ROFL.

[Dana3]

Yes, I would.

[carhill2mn]

At my age being "leered at as a primal sex object" would be low on my list of issues!

[Tracii G]

I would have to be attractive first off and thats not happening any time soon.LOL

[Micki_Finn]

Wait, where did my “big breasts” come from?

[Jaylyn]

Micki mine came from Glamour Boutique. I've always loved big breast so thought I'd enjoy wearing them but have have out why girls with them don't care for them. After wearing mine for several hours my shoulders, neck n back start aching. Lol, but they are fun to play dress up in.....

[suzanne]

My femme side says "Yes, please. Sign me up ASAP" I want to be thought of as sexy. I want my intimate partner to get cross-eyed horny when she sees me at my best. I want her pawing at me and having her way with me multiple times a day. Not so much with every Dick, Dick and Dicky out there. Another part of me knows it gets old fast when you're constantly being objectified and seen as having no other value to the world.

[Majella St Gerard]

Every day? No, too much work, I have a life. And definitely no to the big breasts, not right for my frame. Personally oversized breasts on a CD makes you look like a clown. Sexy is one thing but oversized breasts remind me of Harvey Korman in "drag" from the Carol Burnett show, funny for television but not real life. JMO

[docrobbysherry]

"Being leered at" by me is a primary reason I dress! :devil:

U can keep all the rest of it------:brolleyes:

[Debra Russell]

I would go for being a female version of my self - big boobs or no - all day every day right now :D ………………….Debra

[Tracy Irving]

Seems time consuming and expensive to do for more than just fun. Now, if there was a way to make a living at it...

[Gillian Gigs]

Carla, I think that it would get old really fast. I'm not into big breasts, a B cup is more than enough! I have often thought that humans should have to live at least two lives, with one as a man and the other as a woman. The old " walk a mile in my moccasins metaphor", would make us all appreciate how life affects the opposite sex.

[Sallee]

I have actually wondered why women get breast implants. They certainly can wear falsies if they want bigger boobs. Guys generally won't care when they find out the boobs aren't real when they have gotten to that point. Most GGs can make small breasts work and use falsies for guy attraction if they want it. I can more understand why they might want breast reduction if they have huge boob for the reasons stated.

[Micki_Finn]

Probably for the same reasons some men wear toupees when they can just wear a hat instead. It’s not always about what’s attractive to other people, it’s about what makes you feel good about yourself.

[Robertacd]

Challenge excepted!

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Carla :hugs:, I'm in where do I sign up. >Orchid ...:daydreaming:+..

[Tania75]

Big boobs, makeup and attire. Some things you are born with, somethings are of your own doing. As a male, I am dealing with a big nose and a balding head. I honestly feel that you are able to present with class and dignity no matter what your physical attributes are. It's not physical, it's a mental attitude. Just hold your head high, and live life with a positive attitude.

[Stephanie47]

When I was young I had women leering at me all the time. I gave up and married one of them. Then she had to fight them off for me.

[abbiedrake]

I'm with Micki on this one.
I'm 47 and starting to grey, beard's heavily salt and pepper, head not so much. But I dye my wife's hair. She's 8 years my senior and totally grey. The colour closes the age gap. As for boobs she's a 38G and always cursed them til she met me. What can I say I'm not a butt man. Lol
Though she's back to cursing the gals now she has breast cancer. RL's a bitch. As for karma? Gonna punch her in the tit if I ever meet her.

[Teresa]

Carla,
Challege accepted and living it ! No not with outsized breasts makeup isn't that hard everyday but a little expensive . Can't say being leered at is a problem but have had one or two guys follow me round the supermarket . Doing it everyday doesn't lose it's lustre but you have to learn to find a balance , think about all the errands and jobs you do in male mode and consider could you do them in female mode ? I have to admit it makes life interesting sometimes .

Tracy comments it's just for fun so it's not worth it , to me it's for real and well worth it I find doing drab is far worse .

[GretchenM]

I would accept the challenge, but on my terms and not the ones described. You gotta be yourself. I'm also with Micki on this.

Big boobs can cause some problems with some. One of my daughters had breast reduction because they were causing her back problems. Those things are heavy and a lot heavier than silicone forms. She is now much happier with smaller ones.

[BTWimRobin]

Yes, I would accept the challenge. Two conditions... boobs proportional to waist and hips, I don't want to be a sex object.

[SaraLin]

My immediate (knee jerk)response was "If I thought it was possible, I'd have done it years ago."

[Karmen]

SaraLin, my thoughts exactly.

[Taylor186]

"Presenting as attractive as you can . . ."

That's not enough of a reason for me as I would still look like a 6 foot, 190 pound guy-in-a-dress. Leering yes, sexual leering: not a chance.

[Patience]

I think it’s sad when someone feels that a woman is obligated to be attractive.

I hope, Carla, that your wife one day will be less of a male chauvinist.

Btw, my boobs are in perfect proportion to the rest of my body, thank you very much.

[sometimes_miss]

I've answered that question to a lot of women over the years when they complain about all the sexual attention they get.

My answer is always the same. Sure, it can be annoying. But you can always go somewhere alone, where you can get away from all the unwanted attention.
But now, considered the reverse. You're a wallflower. No one cares about you at all. No one wants to talk to you, no one is interested in you, you're alone all the time. But there's no where you can go, to reverse THAT situation.

[alwayshave]

Carla, You are joking right. My dream is to be a sex object.

[Rachelakld]

Do you have to dress up "sexy" or "****ty" every day, cause that would get boring quickly?

I'm at an age where make up is a 2 minute operation, I still feel attractive however, so would it still qualify for the leering?

Anyone here go leering at 50, 60 or 70 year old ladies as if they were "primal sex objects"?

Answer for me - If I could pass as a 20 or 30 year old "primal sex object" - then sign me up !!!

[KrissyP]

Youbetcha! Being attractive is a joy, tho I also know beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It has only takes one. Got whistled at once while out, and must say it both scared and thrilled me.

[Bobbi46]

Well I do know that one can be "done" for whistling at a woman it is called sexual harrassment! however does getting leered at have to include large breasts? maybe for some but lets look at it this way on an everyday thing how many large breasted women would one see? maybe a couple at the most, an opposite of this is a woman on the check outs of my supermarket, mid to late 40's, happily married with 5 kids and? small breasts! do I leer at her no but I do dream and lust for her, part of her alure is in my eyes, her perfect face, which brings me back to square one does large breasts have to be the N°1 requisite?

[JMO2]

Sure IF I looked like a real life "Barbie Doll". My breasts NEVER hurt my back. IF my legs and feet never hurt no matter what size heel I wear. AND last but not least that I looked amazing in ANYTHING I put on. Then sure I would! :D

[CarlaWestin]

Carla, You are joking right. My dream is to be a sex object.

Of course I'm joking around. The OP is just a fantastical hypothetical what if. You know that most of the threads I start are for audience participation.

[Asew]

No thanks, that many guys leering would creep me out.

[Tracy Irving]

Teresa,
The challenge (from your wife) is to present to the world every day as a woman. There are two criteria:

1) You must have big breasts for all to see
2) Your make up and attire are to be as attractive as possible. Hopefully, resulting in a primal sex object to be leered at.

You stipulate that you fail the first criteria.

No not with outsized breasts

The second criteria is more subjective. But, I think we can agree that the majority of women on this planet do not present as attractive as they possibly can. Most tend to blend into the surroundings, wearing comfortable clothing that does not come close to "primal sex object" status. Do you?

Did your estranged wife actually give you this challenge?

Challege accepted and living it !
Do you do wonderful things with make up and wear only the most attractive of clothing? Especially to your art group? Because you just recently mentioned that you attend it as a man.

Honestly, I don't know anybody living this way. Do you?


Of course I'm joking around. The OP is just a fantastical hypothetical what if.
I stand by my remarks, thank you very much.

[Jennifer in CO]

can't say I was attempting to be a "primal sex object", but I grew the breasts and lived as a woman for almost 5 years. After a couple of years, you get up and put on your panties just like everyone else. I'll admit, the first say 6 months I was constantly trying to be "pretty" for my wife. But was winter would come, being "pretty" was that much more difficult. Since she didn't do it, I quit trying. Oh I still was quite provocative (dress) around her, but not out. She was the only one that mattered.

[Sabrina133]

Woohoo -- lets go for it. Oh Sorry, i meant Ah man, not again. :-)) Does that mean we have to go shopping?

[kimdl93]

Not sure I'd expect to be leered at as a primal sex object. If I answered truthfully, I'd be very happy to present as a woman to the world. It seems it's those close to me that I'm most reluctant to be open with.

[Nikki A.]

For some it would be a dream come true. I would, if I had the opportunity and could look fairly attractive. I don't think I dress provocatively but I do try to look nice when I do.

[Maid_Marion]

This is a real complicated issue for GGs. I know two GGs with really large breasts. Both are very intelligent and have spouses with six figure incomes. One is a delight to be around. I preferred not to be around the other one. It is the sort thing that opens doors and presents opportunities. But, you still have to prove yourself, and not take ethical shortcuts. And, just because someone stares in appreciation, that doesn't mean they can't also treat you as an equal or an expert in what you do.

I think I can handle it, as I've always had a diet and exercise routine that made GGs envious. Waking up every morning and looking at my personal pair of "twin peaks?" Sign me up!

[Stacy Darling]

I'd decline.
Chicks aren't really going for my Femme pick-up routine💃 ??? and guys are creeping me out even when I'm in male mode ( possibly the makeup and nails 💅 )

Okay then Carla, but just for tonight though.

And maybe Saturday night.
Bad Stacy!

[Beverley Sims]

I don't have big breasts, nobody leers at me these days, but when I was twenty I was lovin' the attention I got. :-)

[prene]

Kind of do that ... my breasts are big but not huge though.
Makeup is usually not a problem.

Only when the guys are nasty and not nice is it a problem.

Wish I had a SO or wife.

[susanmichelle]

I was at Apple store today in a major mall in Louisville ky and saw one of the most beautiful women I’ve seen in years about 35 and she was around 130lbs about 6’1” with a beautiful yellow blouse on and skinny jeans on with 5” Sandel heels on. Looked really beautiful even though I thought wow if she had a dress on or a nice shirt on. But still was very feminine long blond hair and bright blue eyes and just a bit of light pink lipstick and long pink nails. The really type of girly girly look most of us would enjoy looking like even without a skirt or dress on. I personally like dresses and or skirts on myself but still an open to wearing jeans with the right top for that feminine look as well. Guess the heels is part of the femininity we wish to achieve. This is maybe not everyone’s cup of tea but wearing what looks good and the illusion is what’s really important to me at least.

Susan Michelle

[Palaina Nocturnus]

Yes, please