Where do you keep your things

[missjoann49]

I read a lot of posts on here pertaining to many of you say that your SO does not approve of your dressing.
With that being said (as I do not have that problem) I am curious where most of you
keep your clothing and other belongings.
Just a curiosity question.
Hope you all have a great day

[Hogrom]

In many bags, and some, on a hanger but well hidden.


If you search in my dresses, you'll find my outfit easily. But my future GF (if I find one haha) will knew before she even find them.

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Joann :hugs:, With my very workable DA/DT everything is kept in three closets. >Orchid ..+:daydreaming:+..

[RADER]

I live alone, so any place is a good place.
I have a closet with just Girl Clothes, and several dresser drawers full of "Good Stuff".
Rader

[NancySue]

I’m happy and fortunate to have a supportive wife, all my own clothes, my own closet, mirror and dresser. All are completely filled.

[missjoann49]

I live alone, so any place is a good place.
I have a closet with just Girl Clothes, and several dresser drawers full of "Good Stuff".
Rader

Kind of like my place Rader, everything I have is womens clothes so my closets and dressers are full

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I’m happy and fortunate to have a supportive wife, all my own clothes, my own closet, mirror and dresser. All are completely filled.

Good for you NancySue, you are one of the lucky ones

[LucyDarlene20]

Very supportive wife, so I have my own closet (steel pipe so things don't fall into a heap; fun bit of engineering) that limits how much I have (something comes in, something goes out). With my late wife, stuff was stuffed into various cardboard boxes, and thus out of sight/mind.

[Suzi Q]

Miss Joann,

I have a non approving spouse, but she knows I dress. I have a curious twelve year old Great Grand Daughter that wants to check out everything in the house and garage. She even asked me to let her go up the pull down ladder to the garage attic to check it out. That's where I keep my stuff!

Suzi Q

[Tracii G]

My girl clothes are my everyday clothes so I have 3 big closets full.
Having to hide must be awful.
I am so thankful I don't have to hide.

[Meghan4now]

My wife does not like it. But I keep my stuff in the closet, and in various drawer. My wife does not put my PJs or undershirts away because she doesn't want to see my bras or my corsets and shape wear. She hangs my other close and puts away my underwear incluing panties, and socks. So she sees some things and not others.

[fun4metoo2004]

My closet?

No spouse or significant other.

[Sometimes Steffi]

My wife is DADT, but doesn't snoop. Most of my girl stuff is in bags or boxes in my home office. Right now, it is too crowded with girl stuff to be useful as an office. I also have a small storage quite filled. Twelve years ago, my wife discovered a bra I was packing to take on an out of town trip. She was so angry, I thought she would conduct a search and destroy while I was out of town. I took most of my girl stuff to a storage locker, and left some clothes around that she could search an destroy. By the time I became comfortable enough to bring my stuff back, I had too much to hide in my office.

[Chelsea B]

I have an accepting wife, but it was a process. First, my things came out of the garage and into some containers which I kept in my office closet (my man cave!). For the last year, that closet now has all my things hanging and stored in view. At her request, I put a lock on it, so prying grandkids and others would not make any discoveries.

[Kaylin]

I also have an accepting wife too. But it wasn't easy. She was pretty freaked out by it right away when she first seen me fully dressed up. But she said she doesn't want me to feel uncomfortable with myself. And that she was open to it. I remember before these last 4 months I used to really have to hide all my stuff carefully. Under the bed and in the bottom of the closet. Now I store it in a few totes in our bedroom out in the open. She's seen everything of mine now. Me and her share and swap different makeup products all the time. I have all of my own and so does she. But I tell ya, having to hide all my stuff was a nightmare.

[TheHiddenMe]

My wife is tolerant. I keep my hanging clothes (dresses, skirts, tops) and shoes (I have more girl shoes than she does) in our walk in closet (along with my boy clothes and my wife's clothes) and my underthings in my dresser.

[alwayshave]

In my dresser and in the walk-in closet.

[Angela Marie]

I told my wife, then girlfriend, very early in our relationship. She went out with me a few times but did not really enjoy herself. Other than that she is supportive; so I have my own drawers, makeup mirror, etc.

[Fran-K]

Hi Miss Joann

I have a disapproving/etc wife
I’ve found some dead spaces around the house (mostly the basement and garage) where things can be stashed. I’ve built removable panels/etc (yes, think gothic mysteries!) so things “disappear” when needed. It takes time to get things out or put them away, but it seems to work well. It also limits what I buy - nothing that can’t be scrunched up... so no ball gowns. On the plus side, the limited space means that the budget is well under control ;-)

Fran

[rian]

Before my wife new about my crossdressing , I used to hide them in the reflected ceiling hide away.....till one day she discovered the place ...i accused the previous rentals

[luuv2dress]

I just keep my things in a few bins in my storage area panties in my dresser drawer, although it's not ideal because things wrinkle it works for now.

[Lacey86]

I purged awhile back but when I had quite a wardrobe I kept most in a dresser drawer and a couple things in a closet. Right now I have 1 bra that I had ordered and arrived post purge. I keep that locked in a gun safe that nobody accesses but me. I don't wear it... Not sure why I keep it locked away... Just can't bring myself to throw the last item out.

[missjoann49]

My girl clothes are my everyday clothes so I have 3 big closets full.
Having to hide must be awful.
I am so thankful I don't have to hide.

Tracii, I agree with you, my everyday clothes are my Femme cloths
It would be awful to have to hide everything
Have a great day

[Melissa_Me]

Supportive and involving wife.
I have a wardrobe for my girl things, 2 drawers for the delicates and a huge makeup box with everything I need.
We also share a wardrobe for the long dresses but I think that's more because she can borrow and wear them herself then.
Note to self, need to move my dresses!!!! :lol::lol:

[Michelle]

Use to hide everything before my spouse knew. Now it is in between everything - male clothes / female clothes, all in my closet and drawers. Still have to keep the make-up out of site but not hidden. She's still a bit sensitive in this area.
For those still hiding - I know, it is a drag. it is such a mission to get to your clothes and lingerie when you want and need it.
All the best - until the day it gets easier:battingeyelashes:

[Stephanie47]

My wife is not accepting. She does not snoop. She values her own privacy so she does not violate my privacy. I keep some slips and panties in my armoire. My original collection of lingerie is kept in a large box in my nightstand. The vast majority of clothing is kept in at least eighteen Xerox boxes in our converted garage which is now a store room. I started collecting my favorite styles of Vanity Fair panties in all colors. I keep those panties in seven medium size postal service boxes in plain sight on a book case right next to my nightstand.

[ChubbyLeahCD]

I read a lot of posts on here pertaining to many of you say that your SO does not approve of your dressing.
With that being said (as I do not have that problem) I am curious where most of you
keep your clothing and other belongings.
Just a curiosity question.
Hope you all have a great day

I keep most of my things under the backseat of my Nissan Frontier. I have a few flip flops that I keep in a backpack in my garage lol
It sucks really.

[Traceyjo]

When my wife came home early one day and discovered my stash which I had previously stored in large plastic containers in the bush, she suggested I keep my stuff in a large cupboard in our shed, padlocked with only me knowing the combination to open it.
I am so grateful she reacted this way. We are DADT but I have frequent opportunities to use the contents of the cupboard, My CD life is wonderful.

[Christie Camelle]

Everything is in the closet... with me! 🤣

[shellybme]

I have a large suitcase in the basement by the hot water heater and i keep my panties in the back of my underwear drawer. At this point I have more panties then mens underwear. oh well.

[Asew]

My wife is supportive but all my clothes are in my home office. During a rough patch before my CDing I moved all my male clothes there, then when I started CDing regularly my girl clothes went in our bedroom closet so our kids would think they were my wife's. Then during an argument about my dressing I moved all the girl clothes to my home office and it was nice to have it all in one spot so once things were patched I left them down there. Since I like to wear mix mode outfits, it is nice to have both the male and female clothes in one place. The only thing that sucks is my home office is on the opposite side of the house and down a flight of stairs from the master bathroom. And my home office closet is not tall enough for my dresses so I keep those in the master closet. And I keep nightgowns and half slips in my night stand.

[LIKETODRESS2]

in the closet or dresser. My gf knows about my girl side and is f9ine with it

[Tina Davis]

I keep everything in duffel bags that are hidden in a space behind a door in a closet on our top floor. Getting to this door requires removing all the suitcases in the closet, so my disapproving wife is extremely unlikely to find them. It also limits the amount of clothes and shoes that I can buy, which is a good thing! :D

[Shayna]

Dresses and most other things in a box in the garage. Panties, stockings and a few other things in the dresser. After my wife found the box a few years back she decided she doesn’t want to see it so she doesn’t snoop.

[Charleene]

Hiding clothes is a major factor in not purchasing my own wardrobe. We are thinking of downsizing which would really make things harder. Those of you that do not have approving wives must harbor some fear of being caught. I know I would.

[Judy-Somthing]

When I was in my teens I kept them in this304718

[Angie G]

My jewelry is on a stand in the living room, My clothing is in my closet in my wife's sewing room. My undies are in drawers. and my makeup is in the bathroom. Nothing is hidden. :hugs:
Angie

[sometimes_miss]

When I was in my teens I kept them in this304718

Hidden in plain sight! Perfect!

I'm not sure if this thread is a question of where to hide your things, Joann. For those who need hiding places, I've used above drop ceilings, between rafters with a sheet of paneling to keep it there, behind walls hung on a rope in a duffel bag, in the space between the bottom drawer of dressers and the floor, false bottoms of trunks, in between the 2nd floor and the ceiling of the 1st floor by making a removable floor plank, bottom of a toolbox, bottom of a tackle box, and even kept my heels in a Timberland boot box right under all my other shoe boxes. A big box that a christmas display came in, I knew that wifey would never set it up, so I knew I could keep anything in there. I had teh box my hand held band saw came in, another thing she would never look into. Basically, in places that my wife would never want to look in. Every little space where no one would usually look works.

Since I'm not married anymore, I keep everything right where any woman would, for convenience. In the closets, in the dressers. Some in a big suitcase. Whenever anyone comes over that I don't know if they'd be okay with it, it all goes into big plastic bins which slide under the bed, and in my luggage.

[lingerieLiz]

Since most all of my clothes are women's I keep them in closets, drawers. We do have some in storage boxes for out of season things since my wife and I both have a lot of clothes. The only thing she complains about is the lingerie numbers. She thinks it is excessive and it is.

[KimberlyCasino]

I have a backpack hidden in my closet stuffed with all my goodies lol

[CarlaWestin]

My wife is not accepting. She does not snoop. She values her own privacy so she does not violate my privacy.

This is our arrangement. We have our own private spaces. Carla's stuff commands four large dressers and a walk in closet. Her shoes line the wall in the office. Private bathroom with makeup filling the drawers and sink top.
One wall in the closet is all wigs hanging on coat hooks.
It's a crossdresser's dream, actually.
I have a long time friend that installed fake air ducts in the basement to conceal her wardrobe. That's the most ingenious solution ever!

[Barbara Black]

My stuff takes up what little room there is in the basement, in two dressers and two store display hanging racks (mostly skirts here). My wife knows, is unsupportive, and would like to reclaim my space for whatever else (including me sometimes). Both of the store racks are on wheels so that I can condense the space when I'm not dressing up. I keep my lingerie out of sight with the exception of the panties I store in my underwear drawer with a few pairs of men's underwear. I do my own wash so with this exception she doesn't see much other than when I'm wearing it.

[Kate J]

Im am currently looking for a storage locker away from the house so I can store all my items and the new ones coming :) I have tried the roof cavity but in summer time it can be 55deg plus in the roof space.

[Jodie_Lynn]

I keep my things in the closet. Well, actually, a closet and a half. And in the dresser drawers.

There are benefits to living alone. :)

[Veronica4me]

I'm single, so everything is in my closet, shoes under the bed, and makeup in a cabinet. HOWEVER, I share a house with two other guys who are not CDs, so Veronica and her things don't leave the room unless they are both out of the house. I don't think they know, but I can't be sure.

[Dannie1]

Sadly in a suitcase in the boot of my car. Hidden away and not allowed to coexist with my male stuff. 😢

[Glenda58]

Since my stroke I don't hide anything she saw it all when I was in the hospital.