I love...

[Dannie1]

I love female clothing
I love the way it fits
I love the way it feels
I love lace
I love the colours
I love painting my nails
I love the feeling of freshly shaved legs
I love even more the feel of tights on my shaved legs
I love putting on a dress
I love wearing padded bras to create the illusion i have breasts.
I love the way my bum looks in underwear
i love my legs in a short dress
I love looking down my crossed legs in tights at my feet in high heels
I love walking in heels
I love doing my make up
I love feeling feminine
I love making myself a woman

I LOVE BEING ME

[Happygirl!]

Dannie1,
I love your affirmations! And thanks for reminding me of my own feelings!
Happygirl

[Dannie1]

Thank you.
I'm not sure i got them all down but it reminded me of why i love it and how far I've come with connecting to my other side.
Still more progress to be made, but this is a great journey and I'm happy to be apart of this community. :)

[HannahB]

Think I will print that out and just hand it to the next person that asks "Why?".

[Tracii G]

Nice list and I'm happy if it makes you happy.

[Dannie1]

:) exactly

[Connie D50]

Dannie ditto lol

[Rhonda Darling]

I love knowing there are so many who love the things I love.

[Vikky]

Yep, I can relate to most of those.
Vikky

[Robbiegirl]

Love your Post Dannie! !!!

You mentioned when you first joined about forfits and being feminized. Do you recall any specifics about those experiences and how they might relate to all the things you love today about being a Girl ?

Were you put into a dress or did it go as far as girl undies and even having your nails painted ?

[Abbey11]

Totally agree :hugs:

[Cheryl T]

I Love that You love all those things that I Love !!

[Dannie1]

Thank you!

I’d say my experiences are definitely progression.
But it stems from dares in the early days.
Going to work in female underwear/stockings. Doing the house work in a dress and heels. These were two dares. My wife really enjoyed it as it was fun and made her laugh.

The minute she knew I didn’t mind, it stopped. 😔
No longer was it making me do something I didn’t want to. Now I desperately wanted to do it. Stops being a dare doesn’t it if the person is all for it.

I would say those were triggers to unlocking a part of me that’s always been there.

Thank you for asking. 🙂

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🙂 thank you

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And yes nail painting was another...

Still smile when I think back to those fun days playing dare games together.

Still supportive of me now but in DADT set up.

[Robbiegirl]

Wait your wife dared you to wear panties and stockings and a bra to work ? Love her sense of humor ?

Was it her underwear and was it very girly ?

dares are the best

[Dannie1]

Yes her underwear. :)

It was fun. Remember it feeling very liberating in the beginning.

She does have a good sense of humour. One of many qualities.

I was mistaken to think she would want to be involved after I came out as having a duality.

Big shame and a learning curve... not everyone thinks like me... despite her being my soulmate.

[Robbiegirl]

Love women with creative and great senses of Humor. Did she give you some plain underwear to wear or something lacy ? I hope you stuggled putting on her stockings to throw her off the trail ??

How did she come up with such funny clever dares ? Did you give her hints ? Doing Housework in a Dress and heels ! Did you at least get to pick out the dress ? What no apron ?

I am surprised you never bought her a French Maids Outfit knowing you would probably end up wearing it ? LOL

[CourtneyJamieson]

Thanks for the post Dannie. I would put a check-mark next to every item on your list as well.

[Dannie1]

Such a long story and seems like a lifetime ago.

My wife isn’t particularly keen on thongs.
I was trying to encourage her too try. And she said would I want to wear something like that?!

I said if I do will you?

This caused lots of laughs.

That evening she dared me too.
Was very funny.

Over time the dares got more elaborate and risky.

I did have a maids outfit and was put in charge of chores while she put her feet up. That’s when she knew I was fully in to crossdressing. She stopped playing an active role and I was picking my evening outfit for chores. She liked I did the housework just not the crossdressing.

Then one day snap...

Dropped the bomb on the whole thing and said she didn’t like it, or seeing it. Made her uncomfortable.

I basically got carried away. Thought she liked it. In her defence the signs were there. I was too wrapped up in expressing myself to notice.

We have re-built since then but things are very different.

In my opinion. Anyone looking to come out so to speak, a dare game is a great way. 👍
Just don’t get carried away!

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How do you mean check mark. Like bullet points?

[Barbara Black]

I love all of those things, with the exception of my bum in any condition..

[NancySue]

Absolutely yes to all. Great thread. I love wearing my hip and butt pads for those feminine curves, especially in a pencil skirt.

[ossian]

I's saving a link to this thread. Thanks for posting!

[Asew]

I love this post :)

[CD Rachel]

I love your post. Exactly my feelings as well.

[Karen Lee]

Love the list but you missed out I love perfume and jewellery... especially pandora jewellery 😊