Is it me, or do fewer girls visit and comment on photo posts?

[kaleyg]

It's a lot of work to post a photo thread in the photo gallery. I have to edit all the pics and make them smaller, then load them one at a time, and write a coherent explanation! Coherence is tough! lol

But seriously, to work on a post, put it up, and get hundreds of views bu only 10-12 comments is disheartening. Other social media sites are simpler and more responsive. But this was my original community and I feel very connected here! Is our community shrinking? It seems like when I log in, there are only 3 people viewing the photo gallery, which is always my favorite place to visit!!

Whaddya say, ladies? Is it just me? Maybe my pics have gotten boring.

[Sallee]

I would agree I get disappointed when I see a bunch of views and 3 or 4 comments, But thats OK. I do think our community is growing but more people are just open about and don't need to post. There are other options like FB and Twitter, just more options

[Tracii G]

Its not hard to post a pic and if you don't get a response or very few thats just the way it goes sometimes.

[Angela Marie]

I was upset after my first few posts when I did not get as many comments as I thought I would. But then again I don't comment on many posts. So, from my perspective, if you leave a post fine. If not no big deal. The real issue is support for each other in our daily travails. And in that instance I have found people very responsive.

[Helen Waite]

Some of us can't post here as freely as we do with Facebook, which we can do even when the spouse is right next to us.

[Robertacd]

Yeah well forums like this are a dying bread for the reasons you mentioned on posting pictures and many others.

I have made long posts about weekend adventures with pictures and it is a pain in the you know what. So I haven't done one since, at least not with a bunch of pictures.

If I want a lot of praise I will post a picture on Facebook. It's easier for people to hit thumbs up or the "heart" if they like it and that is just as good to me as a bunch of "You look great" comments.

Oh and I have actually met most of the people that are my friends on Facebook.

[kaleyg]

Those are all good points. I guess I just wanted to whine a little. But I will say this: most of us have little or NO human contact as our femme selves. Forums like this are life-blood. Communities of lurkers aren't communities. I try to comment on a few posts whenever I visit.

[AllieSF]

I look at all photo threads every day. However, I do not respond to many. As you take a lot of time preparing photos and text for a new thread, I spend a lot of time reading and sometimes posting to other peoples' threads. I do not have time to write something in every post, with or without photos, that I look at. If you are always looking for a lot of responses, then maybe some other venue may be better for you. I usually like your pictures and do not feel the need to comment. I also live full time now so seeing how others dress and present is still enjoyable for me, but not necessary. When I rarely post a photo in someone's thread I do very little editing, normally simple cropping and a little touch to Brightness and Contrast, or maybe just an auto-adjust on my photo editor. So, what you see is the real me. Sometimes I am not sure about some others' photos when they look overly "corrected".

[Crissy 107]

I wish there were more members who would post. I feel if you take the time to start a thread we should take the time to comment. No way can we post to every thread but many of us try to do our best.

[kaleyg]

I look at all photo threads every day. However, I do not respond to many. As you take a lot of time preparing photos and text for a new thread, I spend a lot of time reading and sometimes posting to other peoples' threads. I do not have time to write something in every post, with or without photos, that I look at. If you are always looking for a lot of responses, then maybe some other venue may be better for you. I usually like your pictures and do not feel the need to comment. I also live full time now so seeing how others dress and present is still enjoyable for me, but not necessary. When I rarely post a photo in someone's thread I do very little editing, normally simple cropping and a little touch to Brightness and Contrast, or maybe just an auto-adjust on my photo editor. So, what you see is the real me. Sometimes I am not sure about some others' photos when they look overly "corrected".

Yeah, I get it. I'm whining, so sue me! :battingeyelashes: That being said -- to everyone I say, "take a sec to encourage each other when you can." And I'm not talking about massive editing -- I do much less of that than I used to. Now I typically just crop, instant fix, and maybe cover an Adam's apple. One time out of ten I'll do more. But mostly genuine -- if maybe at a distance a bit. Feeling more freedom to be less than perfect all the time. But it still takes time. In the past, I was so inspired to put together a fun post with pics, but now I almost don't think it's worthwhile.

[Tracii G]

Its worthwhile if you think it is.
If you want to post pics of a special event the by all means do it.
It most always gets many comments.
I'm not here trying to play a popularity game so I may post a pic every now and then.

[docrobbysherry]

To each their own, Kaley! U complain of "--all the time I spend posting a pic thread". But, u don't say how much that is? 15 minutes? 30? How long does it take to post 5 pics and comment? About 15 for me. Which is NOTHING! :straightface:

I spend weeks filming and editing photos for my picto stories. Which have between 75 and 600 photos. Takes me days, sometimes a week, to post and add dialog to them on FaceBook and/or Fetlife. I have no idea how many view them on those venues. When I post pics here, I KNOW how many view them. I consider under 400 to be ok and 400+ a hit! But, all that's not really important to me. I enjoy doing it and don't care how long it takes. Because, I take my pics and do stories for ME!:D
If u don't enjoy posting your pics? Don't!:thumbsup:

Results on every venue r different. Here's the results on my photo posts:

cd.com: 300 to 600 views is normal. I don't count "comments". I'm just happy if girls look!:daydreaming:
FB: 50+ likes and comments is good!:o
Fetlife: If I get 5 "loves" and one comment I'm thrilled!:heehee:

[GeorgeA]

I look at photos every day but comment only when I really like something. I have very specific taste and many pictures are simply not "up my alley". I will not say now what they are, but you can deduct what I like from the comments I make. We are all different and like a variety of things that to others may seem silly or abhorent or strange. Many times I see favourable comments about something that I dislike, but that's OK by me. I accept the fact that we live our life the way we want it and it's nobody else's business.

[Kaylin]

Well to me as a new comer to this forum. I wish I would of joined years ago. Being a crossdresser without something like this, is very lonely. I have a regular Facebook account of my Male self. But each day I'm on it. I hate it more and more. Too many politics and daily negative energy from family and friends posts etc. I also can't be my female self on there either
Too much at stake to jump out as Kaylin. Even though I would love too. But that's just how things work. Before I found this place I went to YouTube and watched other crossdressers chat about daily stuff and routines etc. And comment back and fourth. But, this place is absolutely amazing. Everyone so far that I've talked to, has been wonderful and understanding. I love this place. And so much Great knowledge and advice from everyone that has been here for years. Thanks everyone :) I'm definitely here to stay...

[Pumped]

I look, but generally have nothing to add that has not been said in other posts.

[Joni T]

I have made long posts about weekend adventures..........
Therein lies the big problem for me. Any thing over a few sentences or a simple paragraph or two is too much like reading a tome and I don't have the time to read your life's story, nor do I care what you're wearing while you're typing your tome.
Sorry.
Jon

[Rachelakld]

Perhaps an update with a "like" feature, as comments "looking good" etc is getting a bit old and cold.

Also photos with stories like a novel take a lot of effort to read.....
Remember when writing, try to think of the audience your targeting, if they are avid novel readers, then 3,000 words would be good for them, if they are more your browse and photo audience, keep it under 1 catchy paragraph.

If your photo, is yet another 1 of 1,000 similar bedroom (hallway) photos you have already posted, or if it's another leg photo with stocking 0.001 shade different from your other 200 leg photos, maybe look at getting different background.
We have one lady here, who in period dresses, rides vintage trains. Her photos are about action and adventure.
Other girls have classic cars as backdrops, aeroplanes, ships, motorcycles, restaurant photos, pub photos, theatre, museums, art galleries etc- all these things show us girls enjoying normal life.

[CarleyR]

Kaylin is right.

Being a crossdresser without something like this, is very lonely.

This is a valuable forum and each of the comments made here are important and useful. We should judge it by its quality, not its numbers.

[Nic J]

I regularly look at the posts in the pictures section, but don't comment.
It is inspiring to see the amazing looks you all create and sometimes, as a comparative newbie, i get ideas for new looks/clothes for myself from these photo's.
I don't comment because i haven't posted pictures of myself here (yet) and it would seem a bit cheeky to give feedback on other people whilst i remain "out of sight".

[Elizabeth1980]

I can’t post femme pics/stories on facebook, as I am friends with family and people from work, who don’t know about it. That’s why I think forums like this are good, for people who are not ‘out’ but want to connect with others who are like them. For those on facebook, do you create a separate profile for your femmeself?
I agree with Kaylin, in that I also cannot be my true self on facebook. A lot of the content on facebook does not interest me (like what people had for breakfast, which movie they saw last night, etc). I’m glad I found this forum, as I spend more time on it than facebook now.

[faltenrock]

I agree with your abservation, I feel the same and my posts receive less responsoes compared to the past. And yes it is a lot of work

[Helen_Highwater]

I think Rachel makes some valid points.

I've come across posts that I know must have taken a good while to write. They can be about the most amazing adventures but I often struggle to read them for one reason. So I need to say that I write this as hopefully constructive criticism.

If a post is written as one continuous body of text or if broken down into paragraphs but lacking a clear line between each paragraph then I struggle to read it.

Look it's me, I admit it, I find following a long post difficult and as a result even though it could be wonderful in every other way, if it's not broken down into bite sized chunks I can easily follow, I get brain fade and move on. So for my sake, paragraph, line space, new paragraph please.

I would also ask that folks don't photo shop their pics. Why? It's because it gives a false impression of your reality.

If I post pictures of myself dressed to go out and about, I don't want to create a false impression to those teetering on stepping out the door that you need to be picture perfect in order to do so.

I don't pass close inspection so I feel I need to give a true account of that and in doing so demonstrate that you don't need to be floorless to mingle with the muggles.

As for the original post, I find myself only replying if I've something new to add beyond what's already been written.

[Davina2833]

Helen,

Right on target!!!

Davina

[Elizabeth G]

I certainly don't comment on picture posts like I once did, for several of the reasons already mentioned here. Brain fade add Helen so aptly put it, nothing new to add and I just don't wander over to that sub forum as often as I used to.

[Lana Mae]

Hi, Kaley! I know what you mean, I posted on Male to female and got 600+ views and only 5 responses! In the not too distant past, that would at least have been double digits! It would seem even here people are too wrapped up in their own little world to respond! My daughter quit facebook for that reason! People would go "like" but not comment even her friends! I do post mostly to share and help others out, but I need responses to know if it is worthwhile!
Your pics are not boring!
I noticed the other day that there was very little action here! It showed people on the site but no action at all! Members need to participate! Well at least that is why I thought we are here!
Hugs Lana Mae

[Kelli_cd]

We are very much a "sound byte" society; if your writing doesn't grab attention in the first 5 seconds, the reader moves on to something else.

Small sentences and small words are easier to read. Put space between paragraphs.

Just some helpful tips from an employed writer.

[Judy-Somthing]

Not that I'm a girl but I love seeing photos of other CDers.
I don't comment on all I look at.
It makes me feel good to see I'm not the only crazy person who loves to dress up.

[sarah_hillcrest]

I just want to take a moment to express my graditude at you girls who always post comments. You really make my day!

[Teresa]

Kaleyg,
I don't post or view as much , now I'm full time I'm just getting on with living it a Teresa , I could post a daily picture ( rules permitting) but it soon becomes boring . So maybe it's a case of more members are just out and about doing their own thing .

I agree sometimes it can be time consuming editing pictures and when you do submit them no one appears to be interested . I guess some of become like a piece of old furniture , people know we're there but pass us by .

[alwayshave]

Kaley, I don't always post on photos, but try to. I am here to support other crossdressers, so a cheerful word is my support. That being said, lots of people lurk and don't comment at all.

[CarlaWestin]

If your photo, is yet another 1 of 1,000 similar bedroom (hallway) photos you have already posted..............maybe look at getting different background........................all these things show us girls enjoying normal life.
That's a bit easier said than done for some of us. Many of us need to wait for an opportunity window, get dressed and then hope for a good shot. I've seen some of the best images from those who never venture outside.
There's also DADT and desire to consider. It's a lot of work but, it's also a passion for me. I try to add a new twist to the theme of my photos in the restrictions of the event. And, I always do the mirror shot. It just seems to work.
And, I've gotten some really nice compliments on my latest toned down look. Which is a new novel twist for me.


Kaylin is right.
Being a crossdresser without something like this, is very lonely.
This is a valuable forum and each of the comments made here are important and useful. We should judge it by its quality, not its numbers.


It is nice that there is a view count. I can imagine most viewers like me are having an enjoyable experience and don't need to repeat the obvious comments.


I can’t post femme pics/stories on facebook.............I also cannot be my true self on facebook. A lot of the content on facebook does not interest me .............I’m glad I found this forum.
As I've seen FBook do some ponderous behavior, Carla will never have a presence there.

[Linda E. Woodworth]

I view the pictures and comments pretty much every day. However; I rarely if ever post a comment. Why? Simply because if several girls have already said how nice the pictures are I don't see a need to repeat the same comment.

Also, if their is a story with the photo's I'll try and read it.

If it's just one huge block of text I'll drop it like a hot potato. I detest reading from a computer (work made me read thousands of procedures written by.......)

If it's broken up into paragraphs I'm more likely to read it provided I find it interesting. If it starts to drag or gets boring, again I'll drop it and move on.

[Ressie]

I hardly ever go to the photo section. And the few times I've posted photos I didn't get very many comments. It's best not to expect too much IMO.

[BTWimRobin]

Participation is what makes this forum such a great place. I try to comment whenever possible. Unfortunately, I don't always have the luxury or time always do that.

I do appreciate all the time and effort that you girls put into all your pictures and posts.

[Linda Leigh]

I look at all the pictures and alot of them already have posts most are repetitive IE look great, nice outfit, nice shoes, etc. so I dont comment.

[Jean 103]

Maybe so,

I don't look or post photo posts much anymore.

I stopped for a number of reasons.

Mostly because this is my life now, living as Jean.

First I don't need to look at others, or have others look at my pics.

It all changed for me when I started living as Jean.

Still I would encourage you to continue to post your pics, for you, don't worry about the numbers. Do it because it is something you enjoy.

[Tracii G]

I'm with Jean please continue posting your pics and don't worry about the numbers.
Post because you want to share with the rest of us.
Thats the problem with face book people keep track of the number of likes and how many friends they have.
Its not a popularity contest and the numbers actually don't much value at the end of the day.
The one thing here is the long drawn out post that says the same thing over and over. Those posts make me move on to the next one.

[monika]

I see what you are saying kaleyg!
Just the way it goes I guess, and you are probably one of the prettiest CD's on the whole site!
I used to get a ton of comments earlier but not really anymore, so I just stopped making photothreads��
Probably I am getting too old and boring haha.
But this was the first place I ever posted pics so I am grateful for the feedback I got back then, very encouraging!
Also, I have a Flickr with over 84m hits, but less and less comments there as well.
But posting pics is fun so I won't stop at least��

[Rachael Leigh]

When I found this site many years ago it was a place where I could take pictures and show them to like minded folks and
hopefully get honest feedback. I did most of the time but for me the more I began to accept myself as trans and going out
as Rachael I didn’t need to post my pictures as much.
I understand those who are closeted and need this place for feedback and acceptance.
I’ve found for me I don’t comment as much as I don’t feel as connected anymore to just doing photo shoots as I now live
mostly full time and for me it’s just who I am I try my best to support the ladies here as I know how important that can be
for self acceptance.
Don’t take few comments personally I know I use too again I wanted honest feedback and I already am aware I’m not one
of the really beautiful ladies here. I’m just me

[kaleyg]

So many great thoughts! Thank you ladies. Takeaway so far: don't take it personally! While I would like to say that my self-esteem is independent of what others think or say, it isn't. I think we all need affirmation. I applaud those who take a moment to comment. For those who have evolved beyond Cd.com, that is awesome! Just remember how this site helped you in the early days and pay it forward. I honestly don't make new photo threads because it's fun -- I do it to be affirmed. Anyone else like me?

[Crissy 107]

Kaley, I don't always post on photos, but try to. I am here to support other crossdressers, so a cheerful word is my support. That being said, lots of people lurk and don't comment at all.
I agree with Jamie on this. I can understand posting and hoping to get some positive feedback, it may not always happen as much as we would like, if we could only get the lurkers to post...

[JocelynJames]

I haven’t actually read the responses to this post , but I will say a large amount of people never comment. If you’re here for the pics you’re here for the pics. Sure it’s great when people see what you see. I come mostly for the photos , but other insights in the community too. Just know you play a part by getting your pics “out there”

[Kay J]

What a great post! I know as a girl that dose try to respond to most photo post we have some very nice lady that will respond back with a thank you for your kind words or at least look and see who you are on your home page . That being said you may try it as it will probably will help get a lot more response.Just my two cents worth for what it is worth.

[Lydianne]

I did a quick search of the pic threads you have posted:

You posted:

on 05-03 which has 47 replies.
on 05-20 which has 26 replies.
on 06-06 which has 17 replies.
on 06-16 which has 22 replies.

I'm not sure how many the most recent one had before you posted this observation, but I wonder whether you also had these thoughts when you got your 47 replies?... You should be pleased because for a long time, there have been people here that do a lot more and get a lot less. Two that immediately come to mind are Jason and Mark B. Those two go to work dressed and do a tonne for our visibility by going out, but they don't get the traction here that you have. Regardless of the reasons you do not go out, that still holds. I have not seen them complaining about their popularity though. I suspect they have an eye on the bigger picture so-to-speak. Wildaboutheels used to drive at this point a lot:

What happens on here isn't the truth. What is the truth, though, is what happens when those two ( and Wild ) go out. They have reported an overwhelmingly high acceptance out there and only a few bad apples, while on here.. well,.. a pic in a house gets 47 replies :straightface:.

- Lydianne.

[abbiedrake]

I've partipated in a number of threads here in the main M2f sub that contain pics but I don't often check out the Pics sub itself. I like to participate in the forum but commenting on photos specifically isn't top of my list of priorities.
Horses for courses, I guess.

How big an issue is this? I would think there are probably better sites for those who enjoy sharing pics. This forum template isn't the easiest for such.

Personally I like quick fire conversation and banter so as well as contributing here I enjoy chatting on a crossdressing Discord. Debates here can be great but there's also something to be said for more immediate responses.

Like I said horse for courses.

[Tracii G]

Wow 47 replies I don't think I ever got that many comments on a pic and I have been here 11 years and posted quite a few pics.LOL

[Stephanie47]

I have to chuckle a little about this thread. It was not too long ago someone started a thread asking why some of the members have the time to respond to all the threads? It takes time to view, analyze, form an opinion and post. Then move on to the next post? Even as a retiree with a lot of time on my hands I do have other things in life to accomplish. I do wonder why is it necessary at all to reply to any particular picture post? Is it for reaffirmation? When I find a particular picture posting exceptional I do click on her bio page and click on previous postings. One click on the latest post many times has me clicking on many other postings. That leads to a higher count? Sometimes I even follow any link on her page to other sites. Maybe part of the "problem" is inherently I am a male. How many times has my wife chastised me for not making a compliment on her presentation for a day or an outing? Too many times. Maybe the visual has to have an impact great enough to drive me to distraction. Being an underlying male can get someone in trouble. Even on this site. "Honey, I love you! You beautiful! How many times do I have to tell you?" Reaffirmation?

[carhill2mn]

I think Rachel makes some valid points.

I've come across posts that I know must have taken a good while to write. They can be about the most amazing adventures but I often struggle to read them for one reason. So I need to say that I write this as hopefully constructive criticism.

If a post is written as one continuous body of text or if broken down into paragraphs but lacking a clear line between each paragraph then I struggle to read it.

Look it's me, I admit it, I find following a long post difficult and as a result even though it could be wonderful in every other way, if it's not broken down into bite sized chunks I can easily follow, I get brain fade and move on. So for my sake, paragraph, line space, new paragraph please.

I would also ask that folks don't photo shop their pics. Why? It's because it gives a false impression of your reality.

If I post pictures of myself dressed to go out and about, I don't want to create a false impression to those teetering on stepping out the door that you need to be picture perfect in order to do so.

I don't pass close inspection so I feel I need to give a true account of that and in doing so demonstrate that you don't need to be floorless to mingle with the muggles.

As for the original post, I find myself only replying if I've something new to add beyond what's already been written.

Helen has expressed my feelings quite well.

[Crissy 107]

I remember Macey saying that she was told by someone here that she posts too much, of course I jumped on that and agreed. LOL

[Devi SM]

Kaleyg,
I completely agree with you.
Now I'm not interested in posting pic but when I use to do it I felt the same frustration you express.
I don't know it was me, my long stories, my English is hard to understand, I'm ugly and I tidy wants to tell me the truth but there are other girls that weekly post pics and got so many comments, 2 or 3 pages.
I tried to create and strategy to do friends. For long time I was complimenting every single post, I PM with a lot if people but the summit is I'm in transition and without looking for I jumped a "wall" where people from this side don't like people from my side (there're no such sides) so now my post really got almost no answers and most of that some ex"friends" told me that now we couldn't be dri3nds....weird but reality..

[Crissy 107]

Devi, I’m sorry to hear that and it really makes no sense to me. Hey, we’re still friends!

[Eemz]

I look at all the photos threads and if there was a like button I would be hitting it a lot. Maybe Facebook has us all trained but it feels redundant now to put a comment “I like this, looks great” when it’s clearly true but six other people already said that and you have nothing new to add. You are right though and I sometimes do comment anyway on threads that have had a lot of views but not replies, exactly for that reason; I’m afraid the person might think nobody is looking but actually we are

[Devi SM]

Thanks Crissy, yes we are!.
One good aspect of make us feel that we're from the "other side" is that we already break the shell and ow must leave so when I come back to mostly to read (to see other guys dressed as woman lost its novelty for me) and try to help and guide others that are behind me on the journey.
I'm living full time as I meant to be and all those fears from the past don't ha e relevance and look insignificant t.
We need more crossdressers that understand they are not crossdressers and find this new reality of being a reality and not a fiction enclosed in a closet and his mind.

[Robertacd]

One thing that I have not seen yet is old school forum etiquette states that "I agree" post are to be avoided as they are just "noise".

To me adding more and more "You look great" replies breaks that etiquette.

[Devi SM]

Roberta, when you go to see a performance and the rest the people clap their hands don't you do the same no matter if your clapping will be hear?
The most people can reassure me better I feel, every body has their ow small ego...

[Robertacd]

If I feel like it, I will. But if I was not impressed I won't clap just because everyone else is.

It too hard to judge the forum moderation, so I tend to think again and not post more than I do anymore.

[Kandi Robbins]

I have had the same experience and as such, have drifted away myself. The place isn't what it used to me, for me. Once every month or so, I'll throw up some pictures, simply because I care about showing others how to go out, as I do very often. The comments, while sweet, are not as many and getting to be not worth the trouble.

Daily I used to very much look forward to seeing what was going on here and now, I check once or twice a week and when I do, very quickly. I am not a social media type, so I guess those that are come and go on to the next big thing. I will always do my best to support our cause.

[kimdl93]

Honestly, I think there are so many outlets for posting these days that there’s a dilution effect. I’m one of the few holdouts from Facebook, Instagram, SnapChat, Pinterest, and all that. In fact, I am sure that the ones I mentioned are increasingly out of style, and being replaced by some other thing....or things.

Nonetheless, I do check the pictures daily, but I’m not likely to comment on anyone’s pics. I think everyone tries to look their best, but its not an even playing field. Some of us look better with gauzy filters and low light conditions.

[kaleyg]

So many great observations. So many good points. This has been a learning experience for me. Thank you for your thoughts!

[DanielleDubois]

Wow, Kaleyg, you certainly got the views and comments and on this thread! Should have snuck in a photo or two:)

But, in all seriousness, the range of responses to this thread really shows how different everyone's expectations for this forum are. Some are here for photos, many for the support, some like long stories, some like it short and sweet etc.

I post in the photos section because Danielle is strictly a homebound girl and one of those "same old in the bedroom photos" people. Also has a wife who is supportive but does not care to see Danielle in person. Therefore the photos thread is a safe place where I can get feedback on my presentation and also share some of my backstory with other understanding individuals.

I freely admit there is some vanity involved and I can be a little disappointed when a post doesn't generate as many comments as I was expecting but I treasure every comment I receive and sometimes feel bad I don't reciprocate as often as I should. But I am one of those who usually only comments when I feel I have something to add to the conversation.

I have thoroughly enjoyed reading the variety of opinions in this thread.

[Eemz]

> the photos thread is a safe place where I can get feedback on my presentation and also share some of my backstory with other understanding individuals

Danielle that's a really good point... to date this has been the only place I post "femme" pictures of myself and it is an important outlet for me in that way. I do go out and about, but almost always on my own. So if I get something new that I like or even just have a good makeup day, I have nobody to share it with. My friends & family know, but I can't exactly go sending people WhatsApp messages "look at my new outfit" on a regular basis (although I have at times) or they'll think I'm nuts, or worse that I'm trying to badger them into spending time with me dressed, which is so not it.

[Jodie_Lynn]

If I look at a photo thread, and see 10 comments that are "WOW! Great pic", "You look wonderful", "Nice outfit", what more can I add?

Is a photo thread a tally sheet for 'likes'?

IF, and I know this isn't going to happen, but IF there was a 'like' or 'love' button, then you'd get a lot more hits for pics, and it would soothe the ego of the poster.

And, slightly off topic, but still on point, if you post a thread and it is a solid wall of text with no paragraphs and spaces between paragraphs, I'm going to do my eyes a favor and skip reading it. Not because I don't care about what someone has written, but because the format is difficult on an illuminated screen.

[Asew]

When I first started using this site I never checked the photo posts. Then someone mentioned the MIAD (man in a dress) photo post and I would comment and post on it. Now with the new photo thread rules the new MIAD thread died out and I lost interest in checking the photo posts. And since there is no like feature, I figured even a simple response was my version of liking the post.

[Michaela Jane]

This subject pops up often. I remember being a member of a flight simulator forum some 19 years ago where the same argument came up. As with everything, one only has so much free time to visit forums because life gets in the way.

[Tahoegurl]

I post on the thread for some feed back on my style...to celebrate a great makeup day or to give others some inspiration on what they can try. I only have an issue with posting from my phone...it dosen't work very often. By the time I get home I get busy and forget to post...i think there is also the lurking notion about the pictures being pirated off the site by "others" and posted else where. I'll keep posting when I remember to. Cheers.

[Eemz]

Asew ya I liked the themed ones like the Animal Prints or the Pink Thread. I even went out and bought a pink tip for that one because I didn't own anything pink and was in danger of being evicted from the CD Federation :) I don't really know why they killed those off.

[LaurenS]

Ditto. If there was a simple “Thanks!” or Like button like on other forums, that would help give feedback without committing to much time. This forum even has a minimum amount of text allowed in a post or comment.

on the photos posts, there is only so many ways to say beautiful, or cute, or great, so I usually only respond if there are few responders already.

Therevis likely only a few changes if any that can be made to a legacy forum software platform like this to bring it features like modern social media platforms, so we all have to work within the constraints.

I would not take it personal - the postings - and this site - are valuable to everyone in the community.

[Frannie7]

Wow, this has provoked a lot of comments and opinions. Best of all it seems we all respect others’ opinions even though we may disagree. As a Cder who does get out, but not very often, I find I enjoy the comments when I post even if they repeat themselves. If I dress at home, there is no one to share that with so this forum provides that opportunity. As otthers have said many if us need that affirmation.

Some may get that affirmation daily by being full time or going out often. The comments that people may say to them in live situations may be repetitive in that case as well but they are still appreciated. That’s why I don’t mind repetitive comments. When I comment I try to say something original but it’s nit always possible.

To sum up, I encourage us to comment when we can. And of course in my case constructive criticism is always welcome.
Frannie

[Shelly Preston]

It great to see a lot of members having a say on this topic.

Personally I rarely comment on the pictures, as I would be here forever saying how you all look fantastic.

As a Moderator here some things keep me busy so I don't always have time to comment.
Life can also get in the way.

Moderator note

I understand why some comments have been made, However.

If you have an idea which you think will actually work to improve things let me know via pm.
It will get taken seriously.

Writing styles is not something comment on as we are all different people and have our own way of commenting.

Please remember this is a support forum and not a popularity contest.