persistent feelings

[Star]

For me this has been going off and on for years. I am closeted. It's on again after 4 months and getting intense. Im tucked all day now and wishing i had breasts. Tucking it away is as important as dressing. Like its been said here the feelings dont go away.

[Daphne Jane]

I have been there before sister and still going through it what I am doing is going one step at a time starting with the therapist and working my way through just stay strong sister we are here for you

[Kimberley]

I can relate to this, absolutely. While dressing is somewhat important what doesnt go are the feelings, they are always there. For me it has been for as long as I can remember.

I dont know where this is leading me yet but I am trying to figure it out with my pdoc. Maybe you need to consult a gender therapist to help you too. (I am assuming you arent in therapy now.) If you do go this route, make sure the therapist specializes in gender issues. Not all of them do, and this includes psychologists, psychiatrists and counsellors. It really is a specialized field.

Kimberley.

[heather_nouveau]

Star:

You are not alone honey! I find myself constantly wishing I had real breasts! I've found that I only really feel like the "real me" when I'm wearing my forms! It's almost become an obsession with me lately!


I think I may need to start seeing a therapist to try and sort things out and figure out "where to go from here."

Please feel free to PM if you need somebody to chat with!

Hugs,

Heather

[jillinla]

Hi

Even in the closet - you need to tuck
You might try small forms that can be worn unnoticed under your drab

No - they're not real but they feel good