Encounter with Cops

[QueenJeanette]

The cops stopped by my house last night at 11:30pm. Someone called them because I was polishing my Corvette in my garage with the door open wearing just a pink thong. It has a nice cute blue bow on it. Whoever called them said I was naked. The cop laughed and said you’re okay. No crime because you’re not naked. Polishing job came out nice.

[Tracii G]

So you are an exhibitionist ?
To each there own I suppose. No law broken.

[Amy Lynn3]

Don't you just love neighbors ? Not.

[Maria 60]

Wow! I've been with this community for a while and read a lot of post here but this has to be one of the funniest. Thanks for starting my day with a laugh. Maybe I'll go wax my car later. But I don't know about the pink thong. We'll see. Lol

[QueenJeanette]

So you are an exhibitionist ?
To each there own I suppose. No law broken.

I was in my garage. Who's looking in my garage at 11:30pm? Some social critic who think they have the right to impose pathological rules on anybody they see fit. My neighbor is a real-estate agent and a critic. He kids are always causing trouble. Cops have been by to pick them up several times. I bet bottom dollar they called. Could I be an Exhibitionist maybe I am in some people eyes. I know I'm wearing less clothing everywhere I go in this heat. Be that as it may, I can mow my lawn in a mini skirt as long as I'm not displaying my genitals and I can wear pink thongs inside my house.

[Micki_Finn]

I wouldn’t have called the police, but I wouldn’t want ANY of my neighbors polishing their cars in just a thong. There’s a fine line between “do what you want” and “have some courtesy”.

[Stephanie47]

In this day and age I cringe sometimes at what may show up on neighborhood social media. I wonder if the person would have called the cops if the thong was black? Hope you have a nice butt. I will have to agree with Micki. Butt, to each his own>

[Ressie]

Reminds me of when I was a kid I wanted to be an Indian. An neighbor called the cops on me because of what I was wearing. What I was wearing covered up more than a men's swimsuit or underwear.

[Joyce Swindell]

I say as long as you were only waxing on and not waxing off who really cares?

[alwayshave]

Joyce, that's funny. Jeanette, even if you were nude, you were in your own home, the peeping tom should not have looked in at you.

[QueenJeanette]

I say as long as you were only waxing on and not waxing off who really cares?

I have severe ED due to a botched surgery. Haven't been able to wax off in 13 years.

[Tracii G]

I wasn't ragging on you so lets not get all defensive.
You are free to do whatever you want.

[docrobbysherry]

Most garages, like houses, have doors-------:brolleyes:

[NancyJ]

I think the most amazing part of the story is that you have a Corvette...I’ll bet the majority of us are driving something more along the line of a Prius... Hey, people who have nice cars like to show them off... Nancy

[Bobbi46]

Why wax your car at 11.30pm in a thong with the lights on and the garage door open? did you want to be seen ? or is this a norm with you? Just curious, whatever floats your boat

[Robertacd]

I understand why you would only be wearing a thong.

Back when I went to hot rod shows many had little signs that said something like "Buttons, snaps, and zippers can scratch the paint! Do not touch the car unless you are completely naked" :)

[Teresa]

QueenJ...,
I guess we could start a thread asking what other members do at 11.30 at night , might get some interesting answers !

I must admit no matter what car I owned I wouldn't have a need to polish it at that time of night , not unless you were being a bit exhibitionist just wearing a thong , maybe next time try mowing the lawn !!

[Richelle423]

Jeanette you’re garage is considered a part of your dwelling. I hope you were wearing a top with that. Me personally I would wear a bikini top n bottom when waxing my car but kudos to you!

[QueenJeanette]

Why wax your car at 11.30pm in a thong with the lights on
The scratches show up better at night because there's less glare from sunlight. I was doing a two step polishing routine, first step cuts into the clear coat to remove swirls and scratches, step two glazes the clear coat. This is not a wax job. This requires an extensive amount of time and effort to get the paint to look smooth. The less clothing I wear the less chance of scratching the painted service while performing this operation. The door was open to provide ventilation. Wearing just a thong was relaxing.

[Rhonda Darling]

To clarify what Jeanette said in post #19, “I’m minding my business, they should mind their own business.”

[Maria in heels]

Silly question but I was wondering if you were using a buffing machine or a polisher? If so, thats quite a bit of noise for 1130 pm at night ....

[Crissy 107]

Queen Jeanette,,That explanation makes perfect sense to me. 👍

[suzanne]

I'm with Tracii G. That sounds exhibitionist to me. How many women in your neighborhood dress that way to wash their cars?

[Elizabeth G]

Close the garage door.

[Tracii G]

Can't say I disagree with that comment.

[Tracy Irving]

I wonder if bringing the garage door down 1/2 way would still provide enough ventilation (and some privacy).

[Ressie]

25 years ago there was a thin transvestite in the area that had a lot of people talking. He would mow his lawn wearing a skimpy bikini top and bottom! This was on a road that was busy with tourists during the summer. That's an exhibitionist ;)

[Dawn P]

I wonder if it was of the new Walmart thongs Queen bought?

[CynthiaD]

Some people just love telling others what to do. Chances are that the person reporting you didn't really care what you were or weren't wearing. They just saw it as an opportunity to get someone else in trouble.

[Barbara Jo]

FWIW.....
Fact is in NY State (and some other states think) it has been ruled legal for a female to expose her breast in public as long as it is not done in a deliberately lewd fashion .This has been law in NY for decades now.
It has been ruled discriminatory to allow males to appear bare chested but not females.
Most all females who are aware of this prefer not expose their breasts in spite of this anyway.

The neighbor who called the cops is a sad indicator of how many neighbors are no longer friendly to each other and in many cases no longer even talk to each other .
It has gotten so bad in some area that some feel that if a neighbor is not exactly like them, they do not even want to associate with them of even exchange basic hello greetings etc.

[Bobbi46]

Decorum that is the key to the whole thing, in one respect waxing a car wearing a thong IMO is not going to garner the very support and acceptance that is dearly needed. There is so much negitivity towards our commuinity I feel a bit of restraint is really needed especially if one wants be friendly with the neighbours and have them alongside us and aligning with what we strive to be.

[Jaycie]

Glad to see the police handled so professionally. Getting pulled over while dressed used to be one of my biggest worries, but of all the calls police have to deal with daily, I'm sure a guy dressed as a woman would be a break from their stressful profession. I'm thinking it might actually be easier to get out of a ticket while dressed!

[Tracii G]

Police around here are so used to things like this so its a non issue.
They are trained to handle trans people because we have a fairness ordinance in my city.

[Allison Chaynes]

My question is, do any of your neighbors have an ax to grind for other reasons, and were you loud? I can understand being upset about noise but people should always communicate with the neighbors if there's an issue. You don't go straight to the cops unless there's a serious axe to grind.

[Tracii G]

I agree Allison I think there is way more going on here than a thong.

[Jean. Ann]

I think if you are going to present as a woman,then play by the
rules and Try o present as a Lady
There are lots of things women wear that are cool sexy non restrictive .
A long t shirt
A crop or bikini toP
Short shorts
All fun you look good
Everyone happy

Enough about the thong
Tell us about the Corvette
JAS

[Jennifer_Ph]

I wouldn’t have called the police, but I wouldn’t want ANY of my neighbors polishing their cars in just a thong. There’s a fine line between “do what you want” and “have some courtesy”.

This, exactly.

[Trish]

Post a picture of your Corvette.

[Bobbi46]

Forget pictures of a Corvette, what about dressing properly?

[Tracii G]

I want to see pics of the car and you in a thong working on it.
I need a visual reference.

[kimdl93]

I know that some people may complain about the public appearance of even a modestly dressed transgender. It happened to me once. I was in the habit of taking a casual walk at sunset in the vicinity of my RV. Someone complained, and a constable stopped me on one such walk to ask what I was up to. We had a good conversation and he assured me I wouldn’t be bothered again.

Now, had I been out in a thong (with or without ribbon), I would guess there would have been a different outcome. Personally, I think that the excuse of it being hot and not wanting to scratch the paint were both rather thin excuses. I also feel that those of us who wish to be out and seen should do so with some considerations to the kind of impression being given.

[Jean. Ann]

I do not think either a man or genetic woman or anyone else should wear a thong in public

JAS

[QueenJeanette]

Some people just love telling others what to do. .

The fact is that it was an outright lie. They said to the cops, "There's a naked man in the garage". I was in my garage wearing a pink thong with a blue ribbon bow. I wear just panties in the summer time with and without a shirt all the time outside in my yard, emptying the trash, checking the mail, answering the door, and in the garden. The cops thought it was okay. Good thing they can't see in the pool area (I have a 6ft fence) because I'm typically naked. I have no issues with my body. My neighbor's wife stands out in the yard in her bra and panties using her cell phone. Nobody blinked. Maybe it was some drive by. Anyway the real funny part about the scenario was when the cop showed up, it started pouring down raining and he go soaking wet for nothing.

[monalisa]

What year is the Corvette? Should have posted a picture of it polished.

[QueenJeanette]

What year is the Corvette? Should have posted a picture of it polished.

It's a 2004, black convertible. Photo not necessary.

[Dawn P]

Does anyone else wish this thread would go away?

[Tracii G]

Some CDers just like to shock people and push things to the max just to see how far they can go.
Not my thing but if its yours you have to deal with the consequences.

[Charona]

I don't remember all the details, but some years ago here in the wilds of Nebraska there was a similar incident. A man, who either lost a bet or succumbed to a dare, was wearing a set of ladies thong panties and little or nothing else in the parking lot of the local Walmart. Naturally someone called the police. The police spoke with the man (by definition a crossdresser since he was wearing women's clothing), and released him since he was breaking no law.

[Bobbi46]

I think things like this ( wearing a thong to wax a car late at night) do not throw a good light on our community at all and don't help acceptance for us one little bit.

[AllieSF]

Bobbi, if that is the case what about how people present themselves all over the world, anime in Japan where some dress as if they are cartoon characters or others like little sissy girls with petticoats and bows? What about grunge, gothe, mini skirts when they first came out (all those young girls are s***s, bikini bathing suits? They plowed through all the criticism and did their own thing to where much of it filtered into modern fashion which many of us copy.

In our world, maybe not your small town, one person or a few, who present differently do no harm to their own segment of society. Yes, maybe a few innocent or prudish people may be scandalized, but also maybe they are overly prudish and conservative and hate change in anything. They are also bad for our whole society because they let emotions rule their thinking. The vast majority of people are sane and have enough common sense to know that that little dark gothe girl is not a deranged person to be avoided and she does not represent the whole of society, and will probably grow up to be a very nice and wonderful person having left the gothe behind to join society like most of us eventually do. That same vast majority also knows that a crossdresser who presents as a sexy woman when out does not represent the whole. Therefore, one person in a thoing washing a car may offend some, though not the lady across the street who smokes a cigarette in a bra and bikini bottom, and a few CD's and even trans people who dopp not dress the way you and others think they should do not affect your own life and interactions with others. They are they, and you are you, and people know that distinction and do not judge all based on a few. The ones that don't know the difference are not worthy of our concerns..

[Bobbi46]

As i understand the start of this thread which was related to a thong late at night which on the face of things i think was a bit pravocative that is what i was relating to be being correct towards our community, each to his/her own but i feel its not right to draw unwanted attention to our community when so many are striving to be accepted.
And my local town is not a small one at all and has all sorts as well.

[EllieOPKS]

Bobbi is right.

It's SO hot outside I think I will wax a car while wearing a thong and oh yeah, fumes are so strong from my TURTLE WAX I will raise the garage door. That's so lame.

[Elizabeth G]

I absolutely agree.

[Jean. Ann]

Meanwhile back to the original topic
If you are doing nothing wrong
a close encounter with the police need not
be frightening or embaressing
Just be honest and you will have no problems
It is not illegal to be pretty

JAS

[Di]

Well since every angle has been covered .Support and disapproval with some members repeatedly giving their opinion I am closing this.
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