sometimes he's right

[Wendy me]

:eek: when wendy is in me i am mellow and caring she tends to hold things in a little to mutch, mabey wears her skirts a little short (i think we have the leggs for it) well any way over the past few weeks a little sterss with mom and dad health things and kids grown up and on their own troubles, and my safe spot (happy place) wendy has been filling up.
yester day we put wendy away for the night he took us out to "vent" out on the harly drunk and free(i know sould not drink and drive) rode har most of the night stopped out in the middle of nowere to get my head to gether thought for awile did some mindfull meditation that clears the head boady and the mind.
any way as mutch as i don't want to be him some times he is right and knows what is right for the bouth of us .he is not a veary nice person the total opp. of wendy he dosen't get stress he gives it. some times its nice to be him at least for a short while.
anyway before you all think that i am crazy ,it's nice to be sitting hear as her clear(almost hang over but thats a good thing gift from him) alive and awake in this moment.
see the attchment thanks for puting up with this post we all have a little baggage just got to clean out the cob webs:see stress mindfullness ;)



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[babe4life]

Words of wisdom ...

Love,
Vicky

[Wendy me]

as i sit and read some of the posting i can see that if anything we are all just who we are mabey just a little to judgementle(spelling) of our slefes and outhers . just remeber this is who you are at this moment, in this life, at this time, be alone with your thoughts own them thay are you love yourslefe be true to who you are.

sorry to ramble on the venting and meditation brings to a new light

[Sweet Susan]

I find it interesting how you separated yourself from Wendy in your thread starter. Do you always do that? I see myself as Susan and my male self without distinction. I wonder how others see it.

[Wendy me]

yes we are two diffrent people that just happen to live in the same boady wendy is most definaly the nicer of the two a lot more fun to be with , he is allright but tends to be a lot more in your face type of a person (he can be a real asshole) he would proubly would have been kicked out of this site along time ago now i know some people probly read this and think boy this is some fuc_ed up chick but i know who i am and i am allright with that how manny out their can say that

[babe4life]

I find it interesting how you separated yourself from Wendy in your thread starter. Do you always do that? I see myself as Susan and my male self without distinction. I wonder how others see it.
Hi Susan, I am pretty much the same way as you. BUT, I will add this: I tend to be a LOT happier and expressive and friendly and (hopefully) wonderful as *me*. Kind of like all of my very best qualities come flooding out because I drop all my masks.

Love,
Vicky

[Wendy me]

which is the real you/me ????? all i know is i did not go from wendy to him to be happy i went from him to wendy mutch better( yes i have been to thearpy) it worked we are bouth still alive.

[Julie]

which is the real you/me ????? all i know is i did not go from wendy to him to be happy i went from him to wendy mutch better( yes i have been to thearpy) it worked we are bouth still alive.

Wendy, bottom line are you saying that you and him are a package and you have to learn to live together?

Julie J

[Wendy me]

yes'''''''''''''''''' do you know just how money it took to get to that?????julie you could open a shop and clean up
thanks you got it

[Amelie]

Wendy, bottom line are you saying that you and him are a package and you have to learn to live together?

Julie J


Wendy, Julie says it all here with few words. It seems you are of two personalities, your male and female, and like Julie said, they must coexist together if you are to survive. It can be done, you have to find your way of dealing with it.

Love Amelie

[Wenda]

Hey wendy, your spelling sucks, but your insights are right on. Like Wendy, I think that Wenda is a bit of an escape. Wayne is usually known for his diplomacy and for being calm under pressure. From time to time, however, he can be a bit too expressive, occasionally crosses the line for sarcasm. Dresses 'normally'.
Wenda is a shop-aholic, tends to be a bit trashy, likes the clothes that are borderline ****ty. I share the issue when we drink too much, we can open too many 'insights' that our conscious self normally keeps in the background. These times are risky and can be destructive, however, from time to time, we can gain insights that are revelationary. good luck, girl. wenda.