An update on me and my wife

[Ronnie38]

So after quite a few conversations with my wife I am happy to say that no, I am not in a dadt situation. In fact quite the opposite. I find I have been reading her all wrong. She is very much on board with everything about me. In fact, last month for our anniversary, she bought me flowers and a gorgeous necklace. Then she surprised the heck out of me and took me shopping. We spent almost 2 hours picking out clothes for each other. No nervousness or judgment. She assured me that she loves everything about me and she's even becoming more comfortable with herself because of our "girls nights" together. She's been trying different clothes that she never felt comfortable in before, wears dresses and makeup more often and now that we've started painting our nails together she is doing that more often. Its amazing what happens when I pull my head out of my butt and just listen. I have one amazing wife and she just keeps getting better.

[Jackaltr0nic]

Love it! time together is always worthwhile, glad you found another way to bond!

-Amethyst

[Victoria_Winters]

Grats. Super jellies!

[bridget thronton]

You do have an amazing wife

[NatalieT1974]

You?re very lucky.
Cherish her

[alwayshave]

Ronnie, That's wonderful.

[BTWimRobin]

Your wife is amazing. Cherish her!

[Teri Ray]

Great news. Keep up the open honest communication. We are happy for both of you.

[Maid_Marion]

That is wonderful news Ronnie!

Marion

[Elizabeth G]

Wow, that's fantastic!

[NancyJ]

You are so fortunate. What you have is what I dreamt of when I came out to my wife. Her rejection of this part of me is one of the greatest hurts in my life. Cherish her!

[Paulie Birmingham]

That's wonderful news.

[Karen RHT]

So good to hear Ronnie, congrats to you both. Keep going, keep enjoying.


Karen

[LeannS]

Ronnie That is great to her now do something very special for her remember its not all about you.

[JeanTG]

Only in my wildest dreams. For me it's not DADT, it's DADD: Do it and drop dead! I'm not in a happy place at the moment because of it.

And as for the "T": they can always tell. Always.

[carhill2mn]

It is great to read about situations that turn out well! Thanks for sharing.

[Tracii G]

That is really nice to hear Ronnie.
I am really happy for the both of you.

[Jenny22]

That's wonderful, Ronnie. Just don't go wild, now. Take it at HER speed.

[JaclynL61]

Excellent Ronnie. As others have said, cherish her.

[sara66]

We as people, in general, spend a lot of time worrying about things and afraid to confront our feelings or problems or situations. I am happy all is right with the world.
Sara

[JulesLynne]

Happy for your both! Make sure you do something extra special just for her.