Lily_gg
10-30-2004, 08:49 PM
The latest in the Lily & her grrly story...
Well, we've not had the chance to talk properly much lately - it's been snatched phonecalls here and there, and his day yesterday went kinda wrong, he didn't end up phoning me until I was about to go to bed (I'm in Oz, he's in UK, time difference makes things tricky), so I was upset with him to start with, plus I've had a crappy week anyway, so was being a bit over-emotional (for this, read crying and making noises like a duck with a cold :p).
Buuuuut, he managed to calm me down, got me to talk about my crappy week and made it all seem a lot better, talked about us generally and stuff, and then got onto talking about the whole cd 'thing'. We ended up talking for about three hours, I went to bed very late, but very happy and loved up!
We ended up talking about his collection of clothes and things - I didn't really know what he had, and one of my worries was that his 'bust' (wasn't sure if he had breastforms, water balloons or what!) would make me feel all inadequate about mine - he was saying about needing the right size so as not to look unbalanced or too small for his frame, and I reminded him that I've always felt mine are too small for my frame. Thankfully, he's been a lot more sensitive since he's released his femme side, and I got a whole load of reassurances about how much he loves them :). He's apparently got breastforms, which I guessed, but wanted to know about before I saw him, and he's also got some chicken fillets which he used to use, and has promised to bring with him so that I can play with them and make myself super-busty too :D
At first, he was really nervous about telling me, but then we got into it, and he was describing his favourite stuff, and then told me that I've forced him to shop! Apparently, it never used to matter too much what his stuff was like, because it was just for him, but now that he's planning to dress up for me, he doesn't want me to see him in cheap and nasty, or slightly badly fitting stuff, so he's having to re-evaluate his wardrobe!
And he kept stopping and checking that I was ok with hearing everything he was telling me, and agreed that we should take it slowly - we're talking waxing, and I was worried that if he waxed and dressed up all in the same day, it might freak me out, so we've decided the dressing will be at least the day after the waxing, and so on... He also reckons that I'd love some of his stuff, especially a corset he keeps mentioning, so has said he'll bring loads of it with him, and we can have a dress up night in his things - role reversal or what?!!! Could be a very interesting suitcase if customs decide to stop him... So, you have men's clothes in here? Yes. And you have these women's clothes? Yes. And this, what's this in the pink tissue paper? Oh, that's a new toy from Sh! that I'm not allowed to open - surprise from my girlfriend. And this one? Oh, that's the harness to go with it. And this make-up bag is yours too? Um, yep. And this book, the Encyclopedia of Unusual Sexual Practices? [my mail order purchase to his house] Yes, fascinating read that one! Hmmmm, thank you very much sir, carry on! lol.
So, at the moment we've got to the point that I'm feeling more ok with it every time I talk to him, because he's being really sensitive about my feelings, and taking it really slowly with me. He also told me several times that he's really lucky, and he thinks I'm absolutely lovely. Finds it hilarious that I'm on here yakking away to you lot too, and thought it was really sweet that I call myself Lily - sounded very touched by that one (it's because he buys me lilies). He's talking about getting online himself so he can come and meet you all, will definitely be on here when he visits! And I'm thinking about booking him in for a back, chest, underarms (which he's currently shaving anyway) & legs wax - I'm not 100% sure if I'll like it all, but we'll never know until we try, and it'll be a great surprise for him - he knows I'm happy for him to get say his back waxed, but the rest will surprise him!
Anyhow, I've been on here and yakking away like crazy for far too long now - just wanted to let you girls know where we'd got to so far - any views, questions (about SO's reactions?) etc welcome! :D
*hugs to all as always*
Well, we've not had the chance to talk properly much lately - it's been snatched phonecalls here and there, and his day yesterday went kinda wrong, he didn't end up phoning me until I was about to go to bed (I'm in Oz, he's in UK, time difference makes things tricky), so I was upset with him to start with, plus I've had a crappy week anyway, so was being a bit over-emotional (for this, read crying and making noises like a duck with a cold :p).
Buuuuut, he managed to calm me down, got me to talk about my crappy week and made it all seem a lot better, talked about us generally and stuff, and then got onto talking about the whole cd 'thing'. We ended up talking for about three hours, I went to bed very late, but very happy and loved up!
We ended up talking about his collection of clothes and things - I didn't really know what he had, and one of my worries was that his 'bust' (wasn't sure if he had breastforms, water balloons or what!) would make me feel all inadequate about mine - he was saying about needing the right size so as not to look unbalanced or too small for his frame, and I reminded him that I've always felt mine are too small for my frame. Thankfully, he's been a lot more sensitive since he's released his femme side, and I got a whole load of reassurances about how much he loves them :). He's apparently got breastforms, which I guessed, but wanted to know about before I saw him, and he's also got some chicken fillets which he used to use, and has promised to bring with him so that I can play with them and make myself super-busty too :D
At first, he was really nervous about telling me, but then we got into it, and he was describing his favourite stuff, and then told me that I've forced him to shop! Apparently, it never used to matter too much what his stuff was like, because it was just for him, but now that he's planning to dress up for me, he doesn't want me to see him in cheap and nasty, or slightly badly fitting stuff, so he's having to re-evaluate his wardrobe!
And he kept stopping and checking that I was ok with hearing everything he was telling me, and agreed that we should take it slowly - we're talking waxing, and I was worried that if he waxed and dressed up all in the same day, it might freak me out, so we've decided the dressing will be at least the day after the waxing, and so on... He also reckons that I'd love some of his stuff, especially a corset he keeps mentioning, so has said he'll bring loads of it with him, and we can have a dress up night in his things - role reversal or what?!!! Could be a very interesting suitcase if customs decide to stop him... So, you have men's clothes in here? Yes. And you have these women's clothes? Yes. And this, what's this in the pink tissue paper? Oh, that's a new toy from Sh! that I'm not allowed to open - surprise from my girlfriend. And this one? Oh, that's the harness to go with it. And this make-up bag is yours too? Um, yep. And this book, the Encyclopedia of Unusual Sexual Practices? [my mail order purchase to his house] Yes, fascinating read that one! Hmmmm, thank you very much sir, carry on! lol.
So, at the moment we've got to the point that I'm feeling more ok with it every time I talk to him, because he's being really sensitive about my feelings, and taking it really slowly with me. He also told me several times that he's really lucky, and he thinks I'm absolutely lovely. Finds it hilarious that I'm on here yakking away to you lot too, and thought it was really sweet that I call myself Lily - sounded very touched by that one (it's because he buys me lilies). He's talking about getting online himself so he can come and meet you all, will definitely be on here when he visits! And I'm thinking about booking him in for a back, chest, underarms (which he's currently shaving anyway) & legs wax - I'm not 100% sure if I'll like it all, but we'll never know until we try, and it'll be a great surprise for him - he knows I'm happy for him to get say his back waxed, but the rest will surprise him!
Anyhow, I've been on here and yakking away like crazy for far too long now - just wanted to let you girls know where we'd got to so far - any views, questions (about SO's reactions?) etc welcome! :D
*hugs to all as always*