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Robbiegirl
01-20-2020, 11:27 AM
Whether it was in real life or movies, I always enjoyed seeing women putting on stockings, walking around in a slip, wiggling into a dress ! It was always fun to watch how they would model in front of the mirror checking themselves out at every angle as they spun about in their heels !

Do you find yourself doing the exact same things you saw women do ? As a women ever commented to you about this ?

Do you enjoy spending time walking around in women's underwear or a pretty slip or are you anxious to get into your dress ?

Would your wife be ok with you walking around dolled up in just a slip ?

Robertacd
01-20-2020, 11:41 AM
I always did like to watch a GG get ready to go out. The transformation even an attractive GG goes through from natural to stunningly beautiful always excited me. I always wanted to go through that and be transformed into something beautiful.

When I am getting ready, I am usually just wearing my underwear. Most times just panties because I don't want to get powder all over everything.

I don't run around in a slip very often, mostly because I never wear one anymore and they are just too fragile for lounging or sleeping. But I do lounge around in my silky nightgowns and panties all the time.

alwayshave
01-20-2020, 04:44 PM
Robbie, I loved watching my mother getting ready when I was a kid. Walking around in a slip, doing her makeup, and putting on her stockings. For the same reasons, I loved movies where a women was getting dressed. Of course I emulated the moves I saw.

Davina Katherine
01-20-2020, 05:08 PM
Oh yes!

I've tried to do the wiggle thing, but sadly I don't have anything that needs to be wiggle into a dress or tight pants. :sad:

CrossKimmy
01-20-2020, 05:45 PM
This is one of my favorite things. I love the getting ready process and lost it as a true joy to get feminine and beautiful.

Patience
01-20-2020, 05:54 PM
Are you trying to get someone to admit their voyeuristic tendencies? :p

Tracy Irving
01-20-2020, 06:40 PM
While growing up, I can't recall watching women get dressed in real life or on the screen so I don't know what they do. My wife dresses nice enough but she doesn't turn it into a big production.

I tend to wear more than just panties but I can give it a go and see if I like it.

I don't see a slip as being dolled up, but I could wear just that if I wanted to.

dallasmann
01-20-2020, 07:11 PM
Great question! And yes, I did and do. I think I was in a learning phase back then whereas now I think it's just voyeurism for me.

When I'm in guy mode, however, I won't watch a woman get undressed, because I consider it private for her.

docrobbysherry
01-20-2020, 07:50 PM
Like Roberta, I enjoyed the transformation. Not the process involved, tho.:battingeyelashes:

Unlike Roberta that's exactly how I dress! Only my transformation is a lot more extreme than my old GF's and wife!:devil:

Like watching the process, Robbie? Here u go!:daydreaming:

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franlee
01-20-2020, 08:51 PM
Yes I have been doing the same as women do dressing for 50 years now. It's just the nature of dressing. And yes I enjoy spending leisure time in my lingerie and slips. As far as my wife goes she is perfectly OK with me dressing however I care to, she was just in here with me and I'm in a satin gown with mating panties and a navy House-coat. She never batted and eye, just business as usual.

lisalove
01-20-2020, 09:16 PM
I have always loved watch women and girls at the time, putting on their make up. I can watch it for hours.
At least it sure seems to take them hours to do their make up.

Asew
01-20-2020, 10:21 PM
I enjoy watching a women get dressed, but this is more or less a sexual thing. I don't spend a lot of time at the in between steps of getting dressed, I have an outfit I want to wear and I put it on all at once. Part of it is probably that I don't like makeup, so I will do my hair first and dress and doesn't take all that long.

I sometimes sleep in a half slip and will hang out in bed in it (before bed or slow start to the morning). But since it doesn't hide my maleness, it is not something I go around the house in. I have nightgowns that hide it so those are more something I would lounge instead.

My wife isn't a fan of the lingerie side of things so she wouldn't like it.

Diane Smith
01-20-2020, 10:27 PM
I often watched my mom get dressed when she was getting ready to go out. She didn't seem to mind and would often put a bit of lipstick or a pair of clip-on earrings on me while I was hanging out in her room. It probably helped make me what I am today.

- Diane

lingerieLiz
01-21-2020, 12:19 AM
When I was very small maybe 4 or 5 all the women at my aunts were getting ready to go to a party. They had on their girdles, slips and put on their silk stockings. They sat down at the makeup table to put on their dresses and it looked like so much fun. I wanted to do it too.

Stephanie47
01-21-2020, 02:29 AM
My experience was rather limited until I got married. My mother did on occasion walk around our apartment in a slip, but, not too often. I did enjoy watching my wife lounge around in lingerie and slips. There are plenty of titillating videos on YouTube. I have an extensive collection of vintage slips which I do enjoy wearing without a dress. My favorites are a group of Velrose and other brand midi length slips. I sincerely doubt my wife would appreciate me walking around in anything feminine.

Kay J
01-21-2020, 06:06 AM
I to love watching my mother getting dress and i think that Diane is right that is why we are what we are today! So that being said thank you mom and God bless! ;)

HelpMe,Rhonda
01-21-2020, 06:13 AM
Always enjoy a good montage of a woman trying on lots of beautiful outfits that she just can't decide on.

Wesley
01-21-2020, 06:40 AM
I prefer to watch them get undressed

NancyJ
01-21-2020, 07:00 AM
Absolutely! I have always loved watching my wife get dressed, and have very fond memories of watching my mother get dressed. I was late to school many mornings because of lingering to watch her. I have often wondered to what extent she realized that I was watching and how fascinated I was. Later, as I began to borrow from her drawers and try on her bras, panties, girdles, and stockings, I would think she would have noticed something amiss. I have often asked myself whether those early experiences influenced my gender dysphoria, or was I already a boy who wanted to be a girl? Nancy

Star01
01-21-2020, 10:03 AM
My mother passed away in 1962 weeks before my 11th birthday. A while back I was putting on makeup and had vivid memories flash back in my mind of watching her apply her makeup and rolling and pulling up each stocking and attaching to her garter. She probably told me to get out of the room at some point but a bunch of memories came rushing back that I hadn't thought about since they happened. I must have been doing that whenever I had the opportunity as I found myself doing things instinctively while putting on makeup that I couldn't have known otherwise.

Cheryl T
01-21-2020, 10:43 AM
Of course I love to watch a woman dressing.
It's always a learning experience. Not having the one-on-one training a young girl receives I had to have some reference. How to put on my bra, rolling up stockings and slipping them up my smooth legs then attaching them to my garters. Stepping into my heels, applying perfume and of course doing my makeup.
Many things I still do the way I observed when I was young and some have been modified as I learned proper technique but always the visual reference has been something enjoyable.

Kitty Sue
01-21-2020, 12:28 PM
Until you brought the topic up OP I had never really though about it. The answer is yes! I have always enjoyed watching women get ready and dressing. Trying on different clothes and shoes and makeup.

Tracii G
01-21-2020, 02:14 PM
Never really watched my Mom get dressed so I have no idea.
Do women actually spin around while they dress?

Dana3
01-21-2020, 03:40 PM
One of my favs.

I wouldn't go so far as to say its voyeuristic? I've just always enjoyed seeing the transformation.

It doesn't have to be any particular aspect of "getting ready"

But, yes I must admit, there is always a bit of envy on my part. But I feel that with just out and about seeing everyday women going about everyday things.

Walking through or by Womens apparel or cosmetics always brings my envy to a fever pitch.

It's difficult to put into words

Robertacd
01-21-2020, 03:52 PM
Do women actually spin around while they dress?

Only women in the movies do that. None of the women in my life, from my mother, every girlfriend I had, to my wife ever did anything like what robbiegirl describes when it comes to swishing, spinning, and generally prancing around when they were getting ready. Most of the time it was more hurried and rushing around. Just like when I am getting ready to go out, there's no time for that.

SophyV
01-21-2020, 04:56 PM
I guess there is a kind of Clark Kent to Super[wo]man transformation women go through, from head in a towel and no makeup to a well put together outfit, styled hair, and makeup. My favorite is the last check of the lipstick before heading out the door.

Jenny22
01-21-2020, 05:45 PM
I used to watch my mom roll up her silk stockings and attach them to the tabs on her girdle. Stockings were hard to come by during WWII, and I'd go downtown with her sometimes so she could get a run repaired. Yep, they did that then! Those also were the days when rouge was applied by a small pad and voila, a circle of red rouge on each cheek, no blending!

Mackem Sue
01-21-2020, 05:58 PM
Dressed and undressed as long as they're dressing girly.

We have a local burlesque troupe that perfoms monthly and when the more professional ladies are performing, it's always a pleasure to watch when we can get to got o see them. Unfortunately, seats for them go quickly.

It's funny how I have a spike in my dressing behaviour before and after seeing a performance. :-)

cdinmd206
01-22-2020, 10:26 AM
I grew up in a really sexually repressed home. My mother would never be seen in her lingerie and sex was never mentioned, however I had an aunt I have fond memories of. She would always be in either a very revealing long robe or sexy night gown when she would be fixing me breakfast and cleaning around the house. Since she must have taken a lot of deep breaths as a child she filled out her tops quite nicely. I will never forget the day when I was in her bedroom and she removed her dress and then her slip in front of me. I can still picture her standing there in beige stockings, white satin garter belt, white see thru frilly panties and a white lacy bra. I guess she noticed my reaction and asked if i liked her outfit. All I could do was shake my head yes. Little did I know at the time that later she would be dressing me as her daughter.

Teresa
01-22-2020, 03:09 PM
Robbie,
I've never really watched a GG get dressed , my wife never made much fuss and was always in a hurry .

As for watching myself , that period has long gone, OK we need to check things in the mirror , what works and what doesn't . I only walk about in underwear when I put my makeup on , I'm usually getting ready to go out out so I slip the clothes on I've chosen , check it in the mirror and head out the door . My wife isn't going to see me again in this situation so what she thinks isn't important .

I wonder how many women do twist and twirl in front of the mirror ? So many women don't like some aspect of themselves , so they're more likely to check how bad they look rather than how good they look , lets not forget clothes don't turn GGs on like they do some CDers .

sometimes_miss
01-25-2020, 07:53 AM
Yes, I loved watching my girlfriends/wife getting dressed or undressed, and patterned my own behavior after them. None of them ever said anything about the attention I gave them, I suppose they just thought I was thinking about having sex with them, and they were correct about that, as sometimes watching them would inspire passion and we'd start out just kissing, her sitting facing me on my lap, usually eventually wind up having sex, and have to re-start the getting dressed process all over again. Then sometimes it would recur again, and we'd go through the whole scenario all over again. Ahhhh, the good old days.

I don't rush to dress up; I may go about the house partially dressed in girl clothes for variable periods of time when it's warm enough to do so. I do have a couple of women's one piece bathing suits, but don't have my own pool, so I don't feel able to go swimming in those in public places.

I haven't had a SO now for 22 years, so there's no one to be ok with me doing so.

Now I'm sad.

Linda E. Woodworth
01-25-2020, 08:17 AM
I've always enjoyed watching a woman getting dressed, unfortunately the opportunity amounted to little or never.

That sort of thing didn't happen in my house growing up in the 60's. Everything was prim and proper and kept in their place.

Years later I was having a Linda day and walking around in the house with my full regala on "except" for a skirt over my half slip. My wife came home and gave me hell!

She ranted and raved on how "real" women don't do something like that.

I think the fact that it was also the first time she saw Linda wearing a wig also threw her for a loop.

While she may have long forgotten that experience, I have not.

Victoria1
01-25-2020, 08:27 AM
Absolutely!! I love to watch my wife get dressed. I find it very sensuous. I'm also a little envious. I also like to watch her get undressed, especially on those occasions when I get to help!!

Maria 60
01-25-2020, 08:52 AM
That's funny that I'm reading this now because it's Saturday morning and Im wearing a full slips that I wear as nightie and i stay like this for breakfast and most of the morning.
When I was younger I would spend a lot of time at my aunts house, I remember my aunt would stay in a full slip almost all day, she would usually put her dress on when she would go out. I would sit on the couch and watch her clean the house seeing though the slip at her usually white panties or the control top of the pantyhose. I remember how upset I would get when a friend would come by to gossip because she would put on her overcoat.
Thanks for the memories.

NancySue
01-25-2020, 09:45 AM
Absolutely! I still do. I still, occasionally watch my wife get dressed, especially putting on her pantyhose..when she wears them. I make up for lost time..Q1..yes, I?ve been a keen observer of feminine movements for years...primping, pulling their sweaters, skirts, or blouses down, etc. Q2..yes..my wife. Q3..no, I don?t walk around in lingerie, but wear lingerie daily. Q4. While my wife is supportive, she wouldn?t go for not dressing for the day. I agree.

Devi SM
01-25-2020, 02:30 PM
This has been usually a common feature on crossdressers.
I had forgotten that because was so sinful but with therapy and HRT I'd been able to look back my life with different eyes...very common issue...

Mackem Sue
01-25-2020, 08:04 PM
Are you trying to get someone to admit their voyeuristic tendencies? :p

My initial thoughts.
:D

Nadia Wren
01-26-2020, 12:19 AM
I enjoy watching a woman applying her make-up in her car at a red light during my commute to work.
I am surprised at how many saw their Mothers getting dressed.

abby054
01-26-2020, 05:49 AM
The opening scene of the movie, ?Just Like a Woman? starring Adrian Pasadar as the cross dresser, is exactly what you describe. A young boy, perhaps seven years of age, watches his mother dress for an evening out. His mother smiles at him several times during the scene, showing a close, loving relationship between them. She draws him near and tenderly kisses him. The tenderness that he associates with his Mum getting dressed and the wheels turning in his mind are obvious. His wife, in the next scene, is a violent woman and his clothes inflame her violent tendencies.

I lived with my grandparents often when younger. I often saw my grandmother get dressed and move around the house in her full slip. Helping her do her hair, her magnificent knee-length hair, was fascinating. By age seven, I lived with my Mum, who dressed for work often with me in her room. She worked the night shift. Like her mother, she put on her makeup and did her hair while wearing her slip. I remember often watching her roll up her stockings, delicately slide them on, and cinch her garters. When she as finished, she put on her uniform dress, then put me to bed and wished me good night. We did this for many years. Dad worked the evening shift and the younger kids were already in bed, so it was just Mum and me as she dressed. It is little wonder that I started dressing with a slip and stockings.

Because I associated a woman getting dressed with memories of my Mum and my grandmother from very early childhood, my dressing never had sexual aspects. I viewed dressing as a woman as becoming beautiful, not as becoming sexy. I intentionally kept it that way. To this day, I still feel no sexual excitement in dressing. I enjoy it as becoming beautiful, not sexual, as always has been the case. My wardrobe has just the minimum necessary lingerie but lots and lots of leg wear and outer wear. My wife becomes violent if I watch her dressing or doing her hair or makeup. Because a wife is by definition, a sexual creature, her behavior reinforces my notion that dressing as a woman involves becoming beautiful not sexy.

Mackem Sue
02-22-2020, 09:08 PM
I guess it's a case of (unintentionally) watching women wearing certain items of attire.

Over here in the UK, there was a series called "The New Avengers" in the 1970s. Joanna Lumley started out as a stockings wearer on the series as Purdey and that was my first true take on stockings.

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Moderators, I'm simply making a point so no need for deletion. This was part of the start of where I am.

Sue

Crissy 107
02-22-2020, 10:55 PM
I can remember my mother wearing her OBG, rolling her stockings up and hooking them to the garters. No wonder I tried all of her things and just absolutely loved it. :)

sophia62
02-23-2020, 07:12 AM
i too would watch my mother getting dressed to go out with her stockings slip bra and doing her makeup
it fascinated me. now i get to do the same thing it makes me fell really pretty my wife is fine with me getting dressed
and i sleep in bra panties and a slip all the time sometimes stockings and garter belt too x

Erin_T
02-23-2020, 07:51 AM
I loved to try on my moms panties and bras when she was gone. They were always so silky and felt great even at a young age...

crissy7
02-24-2020, 12:57 PM
Watching and asking my wife about different underclothes is how I learned to wear clothes properly.She dresses very nice every day dresses and heels 99% of the time.So yes I watch .