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jacques
06-12-2020, 06:37 AM
hello all,
would you kindly take part in my simple survey, please -

How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing?

What item of clothing did you wear first?

Who did the clothing belong to?

Why did you wear it?

Many thanks for your help,
Stay healthy,
luv J

SheriM
06-12-2020, 07:05 AM
I was probably 3 - 5 yrs old and it was my mothers girdle.

Rayleen
06-12-2020, 07:23 AM
As a teenager looking in catalogues, attracted to women clothes.

went and bought garter belt and stockings.

It felt good and it continued.

abby054
06-12-2020, 07:55 AM
My aunt?s maxi skirt at age nine. Curiosity, privilege, and it felt good.

wendy
06-12-2020, 08:05 AM
4 or 5 years old, it was a girl's one piece swimsuit. Kindergarten class went to the pool for a swim, but I did not have any trunks at all. At that time, pools had loaner suits, and all the boys' trunks were loaned out. So they lent me a girls' OPS.

Patience
06-12-2020, 08:07 AM
How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing? 5 or 6.

What item of clothing did you wear first? A dress made of thick black fabric with red and white embroidery in the front.

Who did the clothing belong to? Not sure. It wouldn’t have fit anyone else in the house. Might have been my mother's although it didn’t look that old.

Why did you wear it? Curiously the first time. I was trying lots of things. This was just another thing. When I put it on, I felt a kind of rush, but also a calm feeling. I knew I found something special.

ShelbyDawn
06-12-2020, 08:19 AM
I was 5 or 6, I put on one of my mom's satin slips because the fabric felt nice and I wanted to be like a girl.

Jessielle
06-12-2020, 08:24 AM
I was like 11 years old, black satin bikini panties from my mom because I want to be sexy at bed. 💅

Teresa
06-12-2020, 08:32 AM
Jacques,
About 8 years old , my sister's swimsuit , my T had just kicked in so it was all to do with sex . Wanting to be more of a girl soon followed,

Denise S
06-12-2020, 08:39 AM
I first started dressed at the age of 5 or 6. I dressed up in my sisters shiny satin Leotard dance costumes. I wanted to look like all the other cute girls.

Robertacd
06-12-2020, 08:44 AM
Probably 10 years old, I put on my mothers bra and panties because one of the girls in my class started wearing a bra and I knew I should be wearing one too.

NancySue
06-12-2020, 08:56 AM
Age: 6-7
Nylon stockings and pantyhose
Next door sisters...later Moms
Curiosity at first, but I knew I was hooked, infected by the pink fog. To this day, they are #1.

BrendaPDX
06-12-2020, 09:17 AM
Good morning,

How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing? About 12

What item of clothing did you wear first? Pantyhose

Who did the clothing belong to? Sister

Why did you wear it? Don't know

Dawn P
06-12-2020, 09:31 AM
Early teens, Cousins dress. Just wanted to.

Frances nj
06-12-2020, 09:51 AM
i was14 my aunts bra an pantys:daydreaming:

Stephj
06-12-2020, 10:10 AM
I was nine I put on my sisters black bra and panties with her permission. When I was 5 years old I used to go to the store with my mom and sister they would find me in the lingerie section looking and feeling all the bras and panties. My sister is 4 years older than me

Helen_Highwater
06-12-2020, 10:15 AM
I think I was about 4 or 5, and it was a pair of yellow and white lace covered frilly knickers "retrieved" from a bag of clothing left over from a jumble sale waiting for the rag man to come and collect. Why did I wear them? Probably for the same reason I've done it for the rest of my life. If only I knew what that was!

April Rose
06-12-2020, 10:17 AM
At about 4 years old, I saw my cousin's (about 16) silk kerchief on her bed and couldn't help fondling it. She noticed, and immediately put it on me and picked me up, carrying me into the living room to show her friends.

I was as much embarrassed because I liked it as because I was exposed. She wanted me to wear it home to show my mother, but even at that age I knew this was taboo for boys.

Joanne Curl
06-12-2020, 11:14 AM
I was 9 or 10. The first thing I ever wore was my mom’s bra. I took it out of the hamper in the bathroom. To this day I don’t know why I’m compelled to cross dress.

Taylor186
06-12-2020, 11:48 AM
7 or 8. My mom's skirted one-piece bathing suit. 60 years later and I still don't really know why I like crossdressing.

Stephanie Voorhees
06-12-2020, 12:05 PM
I was probably 6 years old. It was a pair of pink with little red flowers panties that belonged to my sister. I was out of clean underwear and my mother told me to wear them for the day until she could get to the laundry. I wanted so bad to keep them, but I wasn't allowed.

NatashaHexx
06-12-2020, 12:11 PM
I was 12. It was some pantyhose and a workout leotard I stole from my mom. I had seen a couple of music videos that contained Crossdressing, that had got me curious.

sara66
06-12-2020, 12:19 PM
How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing?
around 5
What item of clothing did you wear first?
Bra
Who did the clothing belong to?
Mom
Why did you wear it?
It was there. I may have been imitating my mother.

Sara

Vicky_Scot
06-12-2020, 12:22 PM
How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing? 12

What item of clothing did you wear first? Pair of black silky panties.

Who did the clothing belong to? Do not know as I took it off someones washing line.

Why did you wear it? Because they looked and felt so nice.

Victoria_R
06-12-2020, 01:11 PM
I was 6 or 7. It was a pink satin panties. They belong to my step mom. I wore them because I loved the way they felt and wanted to be like her.

kimberly c
06-12-2020, 01:44 PM
6 or 7 I put on my mom's panties and bra. It just felt so right I always went to bed hoping to wake up as a girl.

Donnaph
06-12-2020, 02:09 PM
How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing? Around 2 or 13.

What item of clothing did you wear first? A pair of sheer pantyhose.

Who did the clothing belong to? A girl at school I had a crush on.

Why did you wear it She had been wearing them and it was a sexual thing at that time.

Kandi Robbins
06-12-2020, 02:19 PM
How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing? 5 years old

What item of clothing did you wear first? A dress, I can still imagine how it felt.

Who did the clothing belong to? A neighbor.

Why did you wear it? I was five, what did I know?

Stevie Lane
06-12-2020, 02:25 PM
I was four years old.

It was a pair of pink girls panties, with little frills around the edge. The only underwear available at the time.

They were a spare pair belonging to Emma, a fellow classmate.

I wet myself in class because I was too scared to tell the teacher that I needed the toilet. Teacher took me to the bathroom and cleaned me up. When I stepped into the panties and pulled them up they just felt right. They made me happy.

GeorgeA
06-12-2020, 06:13 PM
About 5 and tried my aunt's nylons to see if they fit my legs. They did not. They were too long for my short legs. Now I wear nylons all the time and they fit.

Stephanie47
06-12-2020, 06:48 PM
How old? I really cannot remember. I do remember I had to be very young because I had to stand on the edge of the bathtub in order to get my mother's slip down from a drying rack.

I like the feel of my mother's nylon slips that she hanged in the hallway to dry. I would pass them by on the way to my bedroom. I loved the feel of the nylon. It was like no other clothes I had encountered.

I had no desire to be a girl. At that time it was purely the feel of the nylon. Later I discovered her floor length nylon nightgowns.

Michelle1955
06-12-2020, 07:23 PM
Making me think back 60 years.

How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing?
Female / girl clothing actually probably 3 years old.
Panties about 5-6 years old.

What item of clothing did you wear first?
Little Girls everyday dresses,etc. and panties.

Who did the clothing belong to?
A neighbor girls playmates I played with daily.
No boys my age on the block I lived on. Only a few girls so grew up playing with girls and girl activities.
Girls Panties at 5-6 years old while we were in her bedroom playing, she also wore my underwear.
We were afraid of being caught by her mother when she yelled out from the other room.

Why did you wear it?
I grew up with the girls playing together, it just felt right in my head to try the panties on since I had played dress up for a long time already.

TheHiddenMe
06-12-2020, 07:23 PM
I was 6 or 7 and there was a girl's dress in the shared basement and my aunt and uncle's condo/co-op in Chicago. There were two other units so I don't know who it belonged to. I tried it on, but it didn't fit.

As to why, I still don't know to this day. But the urge has never gone away.

Chelsea B
06-12-2020, 08:45 PM
I was 14 and just had to know what it felt like to wear a dress.

One of my Mother’s dresses. From there it quickly moved to full underthings, as full fem as I could achieve with what I had to work with. I was hooked immediately.

jacques
06-13-2020, 05:20 AM
How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing? about 8

What item of clothing did you wear first? tights

Who did the clothing belong to? sister

Why did you wear it? I wanted to be Robin Hood

Kay J
06-13-2020, 05:40 AM
I was 5 or 6 moms nylons i just love the feeling of them on her legs so i had to try them on myself and never have stopped and never will!

SaraLin
06-13-2020, 05:50 AM
How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing?
4 or 5. I'm not sure which. If I did it earlier than that, I don't remember.

What item of clothing did you wear first?
a dress.

Who did the clothing belong to?
My sister.

Why did you wear it?
Because I wanted to be a girl too.

Connie D50
06-13-2020, 06:19 AM
I was 8 my mom would leave all kind of thing laying around in her bathroom Panties first. Felt great added matching teddy (powder blue) remember it like it was yesterday. (still love teddys to this day have a great collection)

BLUE ORCHID
06-13-2020, 06:32 AM
Hi Jacques :hugs:, It was my Moms nylons and hi-heels when I was 4yrs. old. >Orchid ..+:daydreaming:+..

Katherine L.
06-13-2020, 12:37 PM
How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing? 11 or 12

What item of clothing did you wear first? Bra

Who did the clothing belong to? My mom

Why did you wear it? Found it in the clothes hamper and just decided to try it on.

Tammy Lynn Tx
06-13-2020, 09:25 PM
my age at first remembrance; 5-6

item;my sisters dress when she was much younger ( she was 10 years my senior)

why: she wanted a little sister but had to be our secret (I was too effeminate to be a little boy, she told me quite often to hide my feelings from others)

lingerieLiz
06-13-2020, 09:46 PM
about 5 or so. my sisters panties. My mother had me wear them since I didn't have any clean underwear.

Pixie_94
06-13-2020, 11:28 PM
1. I was 10 or 11, if I remember well.
2. They were some panties.
3. I prefer not to say.
4. I saw them and felt curiosity. That's when this mess of a story began.

Jeanettew
06-14-2020, 12:36 AM
How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing? 35

What item of clothing did you wear first? Stockings and high heels

Who did the clothing belong to? I bought them

Why did you wear it? I love the feel of nylons when I have touched them and was in a shop one day and saw a display and bought some and I then went on line and bouugh some high heels and waited for them to arrive before putting on stockin, then I started buying other cloths but my favorite is from the waist down Skirt Panties, Stockings and heals would love to be miad every day.

Mind i do like to wear a bra and a dress, sorry for going on

helenejo
06-14-2020, 12:38 AM
About 6, a frilly lacy petticoat of my mums, i think I had an early frisson of sexual excitement wearing it

FairyCrossdresser
06-14-2020, 01:43 AM
1. Around 11 years of age
2. A skirt
3. My sister?s
4.Due to an irresistible obsession

Jane G
06-14-2020, 02:19 AM
Such a long time ago. I always used to dream about being a girl long before I tried on any items of clothing. I think I was around 6or7. I used to play with my cousins all girls except little young me. No idea what the first item would have been. About age 8 I started to wear my sister's clothes and then my mums. I soon got busted and my dad went shall we just say, well over the top. Been here hiding in the closet ever since.

kayegirl
06-14-2020, 03:41 AM
I am the 3rd born of 4 siblings, and whilst I would not say that we were poor, money was tight, so hand down clothing was the normal. Problem was that by the age of 3 I was as big as my older brother, so any hand downs came from my older sister. No skirts or dresses, but plenty of t shirts, jumpers and knitwear, and plain white blouses. Most kept for playtime when it didn't really matter. Also passed down were pj's. I remember them as being much more comfortable than the boy pj's.

BTWimRobin
06-14-2020, 05:50 AM
My aunt has photos of me dressed to the nines in her clothes. I was probably around 3 or 4 at the time. I'm not sure why. Maybe because I wanted to look like her.

connie johnson
06-14-2020, 06:06 AM
Hi all.

How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing? 8 or 9.

What item of clothing did you wear first? Pantyhose.

Who did the clothing belong to? Mother

Why did you wear it? Liked the way they felt in my hands.

Connie

BLACK STOCKINGS
06-14-2020, 06:48 AM
8 years old my mothers girdle and stockings and shoes - It only took 1 time and I was hooked - 2nd time added her bra stuffed with toilet paper.

Teri Ray
06-14-2020, 07:43 AM
How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing?

Can't recall with certainty but I believe I was 7 or 8

What item of clothing did you wear first?

Mothers Bra

Who did the clothing belong to?

Mom

Why did you wear it?

I do not know why I was attracted to wearing the bra. I was, and it lead to my wanting to try other female things. I bet, if I ever figure out why I desire to dress female, I would know everything.

JeanW
06-14-2020, 11:42 AM
age was 5 or 6
item panties
an urge to know how it felt to wear them

manemami
06-15-2020, 03:15 AM
Age was 12 years old I wear mothers bra panty and looked my self in mirror.

Diane Smith
06-15-2020, 03:26 AM
Age 2-1/2 -- Mom first put lipstick, nail polish and clip earrings on me (only occasionally, for short periods)
Age 5 -- Started trying on her shoes
Age 6-ish -- Mom's girdles and stockings

- Diane

dominique
06-16-2020, 04:30 AM
About 12-13
Mum's tights
Mum
Just wanted to see and feel how they looked on me

Lacey New
06-16-2020, 06:36 AM
How old was I? Toe the best that I can remember I was about 14
What was the item? A pair of full cut nylon brief panties.
Who did they belong to? My mother
Why did I do it? I was curious to see how they felt knowing that they had been in contact with that most marvelous part of female anatomy. I was imagining being with a girl.

Genni
06-16-2020, 11:55 AM
I was about 4 or 5 when I put on my mom's satin panties which I found in the laundry while playing in the basement. I don't know why, but suspect it was because I wanted to be like mom, and I loved the feel of the satin.

Donna June
06-16-2020, 11:59 AM
I was probably nine. It was a full slip and it was my older sister's. Why? Because of a deep longing to dress as and be a girl.

josie_S
06-16-2020, 01:29 PM
How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing? I was 10 or 11

What item of clothing did you wear first? a black lace bra

Who did the clothing belong to? my mom

Why did you wear it? I've been wondering that my whole life...the only answer I've come up with is it was pure instinct. not much thought to it.

darcyfemme
06-16-2020, 03:06 PM
I was around age 13.
Satin panties
Neighbors sister
Why? Because it turned me on.

Michelle Vinova
06-16-2020, 05:12 PM
How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing? Around 8 years old

What item of clothing did you wear first? Heels

Who did the clothing belong to? Sister

Why did you wear it? For fun

Elaina
06-17-2020, 06:20 AM
How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing?
I was 5 years old.

What item of clothing did you wear first?
White panties with hearts, a white dress, and some flats.

Who did the clothing belong to?
My friend's sister.

Why did you wear it?
My friend was playing around in his sister's clothes (probably because it was taboo; later he gave me a hard time about it) and got me to join in. It was at that moment that I first felt comfortable with my body, but I also realized that I had a problem: my body didn't match who I felt I really was.

Susan_onmydayoff
06-17-2020, 05:20 PM
I was about 12 or so when the urge to wear a pair of my sister?s panties came out of nowhere?
I still don?t know why I did it then or still do it after all these years but I sure had a whole load of fun.

TTFN & MWAH!!

Susan xx

Jacqueline Vivaldi
06-17-2020, 08:49 PM
I was 40 and I saw my wife's bra and nice lace panties in her drawer, and I was curious, so I tried them on. What a sensation that has lasted until today.

Ina Girdle
06-17-2020, 09:08 PM
I was 5 years old.

I can see it in my mind to this day, a white panty girdle, with satin tummy & butt panels and crisscrossed stitching dividing the front panels and a little embroidered rose on the waistband.

It was my mom’s, lying on the floor of my parent’s bedroom.

I was drawn to it, it was too big at the time but that did not reduce the euphoria I felt holding it up and standing in front of the mirror. Started me on a lifelong journey of secretly exploring my inner femininity at a time when such things were never talked about.

Kimberly A.
06-17-2020, 09:47 PM
How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing? I think like, 4 or 5.

What item of clothing did you wear first? Pantyhose

Who did the clothing belong to? Either my mom or my older sister..... Don't remember which. LOL

Why did you wear it? Idk what got me started wearing pantyhose, but I've thought they felt AMAZING ever since. LOL

Marianne S
06-18-2020, 02:37 PM
For the sake of accuracy I have two sets of answers to these questions, but I think there's only one set that counts. Here's the one that doesn't count.

When I was four or five, I put on my mother's nightdress.

Now why did I do it? As background to this, I suspect I wasn't in school yet, which is why I was at home that morning. My father had gone to work early and my mother was still in bed. I crawled into bed with her and we played and had fun for a while. Then she got up, dressed, and left the room to do some chores. She'd left her nightdress on the bed, and I put it on. A while later she came into the bedroom again, and remarked in surprise: "Oh, I didn't know you were wearing my nightie." That's all I remember.

So why? I honestly don't know. I can't remember how it felt. I could theorize that I "wanted to feel close to my mother," or something of the kind. I was probably around that Oedipal age. But on the whole I think it was no more than an experiment. There was this nightie, on the bed in front of me, so I tried it on. And that was that.

I wanted to mention this, not because I thought it was "significant" to my later crossdressing, but for the opposite reason: because I think it was not significant. Unlike some of our members, I never did anything like it again in childhood. I never felt as if I "wanted to be a girl." I recall my mother as looking surprised, but not "disapproving," so I don't believe I avoided any further "cross"-dressing out of fear. I simply had no urge to at the time.

So i'm mentioning it because I think some people can read too much significance into random behaviors like this. Children are naturally curious, and perform all kinds of "experiments." Which includes "playing dress-up," whether as a Pirate or a Princess. It's a pity if anyone thinks an isolated incident from childhood somehow "set them on the path" to lifelong crossdressing. And worse when some horrified parents react with shock and condemnation to such meaningless experiments. "Look, the kid put his sister's bow in his hair! Arrgh, my son is going to be gay!" All ignorant nonsense, but traumatic to a small child, I'm sure.

Now for the answer that counts:

How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing?

Twelve or thirteen.

What item of clothing did you wear first?

A pretty summer skirt with a blue floral pattern.

Who did the clothing belong to?

My mother.

Why did you wear it?

This one's easy. Because it turned me on! It was arousing. I saw this skirt lying around and couldn't resist the urge to put it on, even though I wasn't sure how long my parents would be gone and I risked getting caught. But I wasn't; and that was the real start of my crossdressing. After that I was soon into blouses, skirts, dresses, underwear, slips, bras and panties, nylons, everything!

Cdsissymtl
06-18-2020, 04:06 PM
The first time I wear lingerie I was about 13 or 14 years. I wear a garter belt and matching panties, black lace. They were my moms. I felt very sexy and dirty. After that I took some time off of wearing sexy clothes until my late 20s, when I met a guy and he told me that due to my bubble but, I would be sexy wearing panties. I believed him and started on and off wearing stuff when home alone. I bought lingerie, I threw lingerie... ☹️
Now I try to keep wearing lingerie on a daily basis, just to feel sexy inside. Much easier when I don?t to have to hide from the wife anymore.

rachelatshop
06-18-2020, 09:54 PM
I was 20 yrs old
My girlfriend's panties
because they were my girlfriends and they were soft and slinky, and I was sexually frustrated having returned from a date
They had been left behind after a camping trip and it helped me remember sleeping together

cpt2669
06-20-2020, 03:03 AM
I was about 11, plus or minus 1 year.
It was a one piece bathing suit.
It belonged to my mom.
Why, I went into the master bathroom because the other was in use. It was folded up on a self over toilet. I felt the material and it was different and nice. Out of curiosity I put it on. From then on when I got the chance I would try on a swimsuit. Couple years later I try on dresses. Swimwear are still my favorite.

Jenny_S
06-20-2020, 07:20 AM
Ohh that was a long time ago. I was probably 6 or 7 trying on my mother?s girdle. Curious initially but quickly fell in love with so many aspects of dressing.

Jenny

nethiker55
06-20-2020, 11:20 AM
I was 7 or 8 and I put on a skirt that belonged to my sister. I have to say that it not only felt good but also natural

MissAlexisRae
06-20-2020, 09:53 PM
15 or 16, my girlfriend left a bra at my house. I'd been curious about the female experience for years and took advantage of the opportunity. Not too long after, I tried on her panties while she was out of the room and I was hooked.

Rosemary+
06-21-2020, 12:39 AM
I was 4 , before I started preschool
A yellow dress that was hanging in grandmother?s wardrobe
My grandmothers
I felt that I needed to put it on it was there it looked pretty and I thought it would look good on me
I always imagined my self as a girl

DianaPrince
06-21-2020, 03:52 PM
I was 23 or 24, it was my the girlfriend’s (now wife) panties. I would try stuff, then quit for a year, then repeat.

hiheeledbabe
06-22-2020, 06:11 PM
16
pantyhose and heels
sister
I wanted an up close experience of heels working the pedals of a car. Still experiencing it 50+ years later! :)

Christina89
06-22-2020, 11:19 PM
i was about 12 or 13 years old.
i wore a black and blue two piece bikini.
it belonged to my mother.
i was watching an old show called Totally Spies. the main characters were out clothes shopping and they were going thru a selection of clothes and i was wondering what it would be like to do it myself. so i went thru a bunch of my mothers clothes trying them on. but the first ones i started with was a black and blue bikini. never looked back since then.

Vicky Peters
06-25-2020, 10:56 AM
I was 12
A white longline bra and side zip OMG
My aunt
She asked me to zip up her dress, my question was how did she put all that on. I enjoyed finding out.

Rusty
06-25-2020, 02:54 PM
7 I'm so trying to pin point the year.
my grandmother who adopted me
zip up long line open bottom girdle-the kind that had straps and cups and there was so much material to it you could smell it over the perfume and cigarettes
Oh boy those were the days......and I did try on everything that hit the laundry basket-thats why the door was locked people!!!

FairytaleScorpio
06-25-2020, 04:38 PM
How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing? 42 or 43

What item of clothing did you wear first? panties

Who did the clothing belong to? girlfriend (we're married now)

Why did you wear it? material felt nice when they fell out of the dryer and landed on my feet

candykowal
06-25-2020, 09:45 PM
I was 3 or 4, often sleeping with Mom as Dad was out of town for work and I was a very ill baby.
She would dress me in a little girl satin full slip, diaper, and plastic panties. I suppose she bought the slip for me.
With her last chance of birthing a girl turning out to be a boy, and my illiness, I think Mom coddled and pampered me.
I sure got use to the luxury of a boudoir of silky lace and pretty garments, soft sheets, perfume, and the couture of a 50's feminine lifestyle.

jacques
06-29-2020, 02:59 PM
thanks everyone,
stay healthy
luv J

Alex1967
06-29-2020, 03:08 PM
How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing?
8

What item of clothing did you wear first?
Girls nightie and the day after knickers

Who did the clothing belong to?
My cousin

Why did you wear it?
Went to stay overnight and did not have any spare clothes - Male cousins clothes too big, so needed to borrow from female cousin - really enjoyed the girls nylon clothes , very different to the cotton I normally wore

Felicia M
06-29-2020, 04:00 PM
How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing? - 3 or 4

What item of clothing did you wear first? - pantyhose

Who did the clothing belong to? - mother

Why did you wear it? absolutely no idea

jacques
06-30-2020, 04:22 PM
hello all,
thanks for all your replies
here are the results:-

First item we wore ?
Panties 26%
Hosiery 17%
Bra 11%
Dress 10%
Shoes 7%
Girdle 5%
Swimsuit 5%
Skirt 4%

Who they belonged to ?
Mother 38%
Sister 18%
Aunt 7%
Cousin 4%

Why did we start?
The texture 20%
Curiosity 18%
Wanted to be female 15%
Erotic pleasure 12%
I was dressed (no male clothes available) 11%
It felt good 8%
Imitating female 5%
Seen a CD 3%
Many don?t know why

Age we started ?
Most common ages were ? 5, 4, 12, 6, 8
Most common age for starting with a bra or bikini was 12

I think this confirms that most of us were drawn to crossdressing before puberty for non-erotic reasons, though some started just after puberty

stay healthy,
luv J

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sometimes_miss
07-10-2020, 08:34 AM
As a toddler, when no one else was around, my mom often dressed me in my sister's old clothing, supposedly so I wouldn't ruin my 'good boy clothes'. This went on until my dad found out, and he blew a gasket. She'd never do it again.


How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing?
Of my own accord, I did so once, when I was 4; but there were no transgender feelings involved in it.

What item of clothing did you wear first?
A dress.

Who did the clothing belong to?
My sister.

Why did you wear it?
My mom spent a lot of time on my older sister's appearance, virtually none on mine. So while she was doing my sister's hair before school, I went and put on one of my sister's dresses, and went up and said, 'I'm ready for school, too!'

At 7, I was molested, and he dressed me in his younger sister's clothing; this went on until I entered high school. His suggestion that god made a mistake, and that I was really supposed to be a girl, really screwed up my gender self identity for a long time. Apparently, some parts of our personality become permanent during certain stages of development, and I was forever to be stuck feeling as if I'm supposed to be a girl.

Erin77
07-10-2020, 09:24 AM
I was 5 or 6, I put on one of my mom's satin slips because the fabric felt nice and I wanted to be like a girl.

Like 100% the same answer!

DanielleCD
07-10-2020, 10:08 AM
How old was I? About 13 or 14

What item did I wear? Panties and a bra

Who did they belong to? My sister

Why did I wear them? Curiosity and sexual excitement

Shiny
07-10-2020, 10:17 AM
I rememver the specific day! I was in the bathroom, ten years old, it was mid summer 1968. Mom had a washed pair of nylon stockings drying on the shower rod. I noticed them hanging there as I had always seen them but now the sunlight was shining through the sheer beige material. I had seen many women in our house mostly aunts and friends and I had always seen them in dresses and nylon stockings and had always seen that shine and heard that "shick-shick-shick" zip when their legs would rub together.

I felt the sheer, filmy material and it felt nearly frictionless. I new it was a weird idea but I just had to try them on. I did and then I was able to feel that slipperiness and see that same shine and even heard the same ZIP the nylons made when I rubbed my calves and thighs together. Well, that was it for me---It became evident over time that at that point I had realized I had the nylon-gene in my DNA.

Shiny-

Liz Jones
07-10-2020, 11:28 AM
Age--74
where--Caravan rally in Scotland, 2016.
what clothes--leggings,dress,sraw hat&pigtails...........
reason,--fancy dress.
Background,--Caravan rally stewards were looking for entrants--told to "volenteer" by Wife( !!! ) stewards lent me some clothes, vowed to get my own for next year........ (see my page &"About me" for ful story---its diferent &(i hope )funny!
Now,-- have a expanding wardrobe but not making progress with makeup....
Wife,--fully in the picture.....

Angie G
07-10-2020, 12:25 PM
I was about 11or 12. It was a bra. it belonged to my Mother. I just felt A strong urge to wear it.:hugs:
Angie

Nell27
07-11-2020, 07:30 AM
Thanks for the interesting thread! At 51 years old, I put on a pair of my wife?s panties about a week after her magical six words to me.

While we were getting ready to head out for a high school tournament of which she was in charge, I promised I would advise and assist her the entire day. She smiled and said, ?Today, you are my little bitch.?

Those words took my breath away! 😀

Something clicked inside me and one week later I was wearing panties, silky camisoles, and cute nighties I raided from her lingerie drawers. One month after that, Dear Wifey went through her dainty clothing and handed me several items to have as my very own!

Nell

MsEva
07-11-2020, 10:58 AM
I guess the story is too long for this format. There were a lot of things early on in life. My first playmate was a sweet girl Brenda. BTW she still looks fantastic today (thank you Facebook). T My brother went to Nam and sent back some stuff. One thing he sent was a Vietnamese doll dressed in tight fitting silk dress. When I played on the floor of our little house, she was a spy and would try to get my GI Joe to talk. Weird I know. But I realized even at the age of 5 or so that I identified more with her than with Joe. During these early days of confusion I am sure that I snuck into my Mom's dresser to try on girdles and slips, but do not have a deep memory of specifics. Suffice to say I was always enthralled with crossdressing from an early age. I loved to see the Lily St. Cyr adds in the detective magazines I found around the house. I wanted to be the girl in those drawings. As a boy scout doing paper drives in our small Pennsylvania town, some guys threw Hustler and Playboy magazines in the collection. No one would miss a magazine or two would they. I was so enthralled by the women, especially in the cartoons. My Mom worked in a shoe factory. She got great discounts on heels and boots. When I was 14 or so, I tried on a few pairs of patent go go boots (very hip in those early 70's) and they fit. Needless to say they were always a part of my memories of being turned on by women's garb. A few years later, we moved into our new home. It was right next to our old two bedroom house, sold to us by my parent's closet friends. It was there that I discovered, in the attic, a cedar chest of things left by the previous owners. To my utter surprise there were two beautiful Merry Widow corsets in them. She also left that thick, dark lip gloss in the bathroom. So I guess it comes down to this:

First article of clothing.
Two white corsets (maybe corsolletes) with what seemed like a thousand hooks on the back

Whom did they belong to:
The daughter of the previous owner

Why did you wear it:
It was an extreme turn on!

Genifer Teal
07-25-2020, 09:57 AM
Teenager, pantyhose, sisters, to help slide my big foot in to their shoe.

Cheryl T
07-26-2020, 09:00 AM
How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing?
I was 5

What item of clothing did you wear first?
Nylon panties

Who did the clothing belong to?
My mom.

Why did you wear it?
Curiosity. The shiny fabric, the smoothness.



That's my beginning.

Lacy99
07-29-2020, 04:38 PM
How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing? 6 maybe 7?

What item of clothing did you wear first? Bra and Panties

Who did the clothing belong to? Mom

Why did you wear it? Wanted to know what it felt like to wear them.

MissSixties
07-29-2020, 05:29 PM
How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing? about 5 or 6

What item of clothing did you wear first? pantyhose

Who did the clothing belong to? mother

Why did you wear it? not sure why i tried them on thinking back but once on they felt amazing - got busted by her that very same time with no consequences , think i should have pressed on more with her

JuliaGirl
07-30-2020, 11:36 AM
How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing?
11? 12?

What item of clothing did you wear first?
Mom's bikinis or her bra?

Who did the clothing belong to?
Mom

Why did you wear it?
If I only knew the answer to that one, Jacques. :battingeyelashes: Needed to. Wanted to.

EmilySmith
07-30-2020, 08:57 PM
I was 11 years old.
I shaved my legs (very early hair growth)
Tried on my sister's bikini.
I was curious, and then immediately hooked.

aly01
07-30-2020, 09:10 PM
:notworthy::clap:10 or 11
Sisters swimsuit
Liked the feel of the material the way it looked on

Billie_M
07-31-2020, 11:55 AM
How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing? 5 or 6 Years old

What item of clothing did you wear first? Girdle

Who did the clothing belong to? My Mom

Why did you wear it? it seemed fun to do

melissalynn
07-31-2020, 03:46 PM
At about age 10 or 11 my mother had me wear a pair of sandals she just bought for a couple of hours around the house to stretch them out a bit. Wasn't happy about it. A few years later I tried on her bra and panties out of curiosity. What a difference a few years make.

Rachel Lea
08-01-2020, 07:03 AM
I was about 6 year old, a pair of high heels we had that were in my toy box. I assume they had belonged to my mom. I wore them because it was fun to pretend.

NikiMichelle
08-01-2020, 11:35 AM
I was four and put on my sisters ?leotards? (now called opaque tights). Why did I? I have no clue and I would love to know what it was that tempted me to do it...I have always wondered why...was it hereditary or habitat driven? Oh well....still dressing almost 60 later!

Robin777
08-01-2020, 07:38 PM
I was 10 or 11

It was a pair of panties

My Mother

I don't know why I put them on. I was just drawn to them. It felt good.

_Abby_
08-02-2020, 06:30 PM
Hi Jaques,

Happy to help out.

How old were you when you first wore an item of women's clothing? I was sixteen

What item of clothing did you wear first? A long sleeve lace teddy, it was wine and had a snap-fasten crotch.

Who did the clothing belong to? It belonged to my then girlfriend

Why did you wear it? I cannot for the life of me remember. I know she was there and that I also wore her skirt, but exactly why....?

KimH
08-03-2020, 08:57 AM
I first wore girls clothes when I was about 5 or 6. I don't remember what started it but a friend and I were in his sister's closet playing dress up with all of her prettiest things. I also don't remember what the first item was but I do remember how wonderful it was when I out on one of her dresses and that feeling never left.

Michala
08-03-2020, 09:12 AM
Probably about 10-12

Probably a bra of my mom's

Wanted to see what it felt like. Had boobs when young and wondered what they felt like in a bra. Still have them and still like the feeling.

franlee
08-04-2020, 07:27 PM
Answering in order, Age-16/ Item-entire outfit, underclothes, dress shoes and pantyhose/ Belong to-my girlfriend/ Why-A bet to get her out of them, you can reason out the why from there

There is your facts for my 1st time.