Morning surprise?

[_jenni_]

Woke up this AM next to my SO. For most couples this wouldn?t be awkward. However, our sleeping arrangement, by her choice is usually her in another room, we have never discussed it. It is something that organically happened over time. She is a night owl I?m an early riser. The shocker was the panties and half slip I was wearing with my t-shirt. She doesn?t know know I dress she knows I have (more or less dadt). And gets weirded out every time we tried talking about it was back when. She has found things over time the new wig in the mail last year, her only response was are you trans or a f****t. I digress. This morning though. I just rolled outta bed and put in my gym shorts as quiet as I can make my way down the hall and stash the slip in the washroom. Made the convo when she woke up around 1pm awkward on my part not knowing did she see or not see when she came in?!? But she is also always grumpy first thing.

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Jenni :hugs:, Very Interesting, I will be waiting for Part 2, >Orchid .oO:daydreaming:Oo.

[kimdl93]

I don?t know your age, but it seems that your SO had some rather unfavorable and inaccurate ideas about cross dressing whenever back then was, and a new wig in the past year pretty much means she knows what she knows. I have no idea how to work this out. Good luck if needed.

[Vikky]

Hi Jenni
Each to their own. My SO and I are both in our 70s, she doesn?t like my dressing put doesn?t object so long as she does not see me dressed. A couple of years, hot weather, snoring etc she suggested I try sleeping en femme but in another room and it has worked OK. I also get up much earlier than she does. I dress in night gear but after the usual ablutions I am in drab. We sleep regularly together as well, of course, a fair amount of time.
It works for us.
Vikky

[Sometimes Steffi]

My wife has also slept in another room for 9 years or so. I used to go to bed later than her and would inadvertently wake her when I came to bed.

Since she has decided not to sleep with me, I often sleep in a bra with forms under my T-shirt. She'd be very surprised if she ever decided to move into my bed in the middle of the night.

[_jenni_]

I don?t know your age, but it seems that your SO had some rather unfavorable and inaccurate ideas about cross dressing whenever back then was, and a new wig in the past year pretty much means she knows what she knows. I have no idea how to work this out. Good luck if needed.

Id say half the age of the frequent posters on the forum. If she wasn?t watching RuPauls drag shows and I am Jazzed every time they are on. Generally speaking reality shows don?t appeal to me regardless the topic. But she loves them all.

[Pumped]

I am 61, my wife 59, we sleep together all the time, can't imagine not. I am a bit of a night owl and go to bed long after she does and she might wake up, but doesn't remember it. I have come to bed and had a conversation with her and she will not remember. We like to cuddle and are snuggled up together as we sleep. She is usually cold, I am warm. She hogs the covers, I toss them off, it works for us. I feel sorry for those that don't sleep together, it means something to us.

As for dressing at night, she is accepting and don't care. She woke up one morning and I was wearing a bra, forms and a nice t-shirt. She came over to snuggle and ran into a boob. She gave it a poke, said, "what is this?", curled up with me and went back to sleep.

[Krisi]

For anyone who thinks they can wear women's clothes in the same house as their wife while she is home and hide it, it's a matter of "when", not "if" you will get caught. I've read of guys trying this, but really, you need to stop and think about it.

I have somehow worked it out so I can dress at home in front of my wife. I'm not sure she likes it but she accepts it.

[Kim Summers]

If my SO asked me are you trans or a f****t, my response would be neither but I know what I am now...SINGLE. X x x

[_jenni_]

@ Krisi
Honestly, never had the illusion of not getting caught it most defiantly is more an if than when. Every decision to dress is calculated and weighed vs time and desire.

@ Kim
Yes, no joke...first one makes you think well let's have a talk...then you are hit with the second that rocks you back and has you going well your social graces are a little lacking, LOL.

[Jenny22]

Kim. you don't really mean that, do you. Talk to her and try to explain, if found out. She may be accepting. If not, you have your other recourse, if that's what you truly mean.

[_jenni_]

Kim. you don't really mean that, do you. Talk to her and try to explain, if found out. She may be accepting. If not, you have your other recourse, if that's what you truly mean.

Right. Easy to think you?d say I quit. Much more difficult irl.

This was as much a surprise to me. She didn?t notice or say anything to this point if she did.