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Cassiek
09-06-2020, 07:33 AM
I have been on this site for a couple of years and often wondered how many other girls like myself are women of law enforcement.

Patience
09-06-2020, 08:45 AM
The word Blue has been bandied around a lot recently.

Could you please clarify your meaning? Thanks.

NancySue
09-06-2020, 10:09 AM
Yes, I?m curious too. Women in blue.

nvlady
09-06-2020, 10:22 AM
Women in blue I'm sure refers to police officers.
CD'ers come from all walks of life. One member here I'm sure is an attorney, there are probably a few doctors, there was one who was a hotel desk clerk, I had a lower-level government job.

Patience
09-06-2020, 10:35 AM
Hey, nvlady.

That's what I thought as well, but wouldn't want to jump to conclusions, which is why some of us asked the OP to clafify.

And point of fact; just like there are a lot of different occupations presented here, there are lots of different nationalities as well and slang does vary by region. Taking that into account would go a long way to minimize conjecture and confusion.

Katherine L.
09-06-2020, 11:21 AM
I’m a retired LEO.

AngelaYVR
09-06-2020, 12:06 PM
For any of us, living this life and can help us appreciate the struggles of others. In your particular profession, Cassie, would you say that it has affected your outlook at all? That is, do you think your dressing helps make you a better officer in any way?

Teresa
09-06-2020, 12:15 PM
Cassiek,
Being TG doesn't restrict your occupation , as many others have proved on this forum .

LIKETODRESS2
09-06-2020, 12:54 PM
NOt law enforcement but worked corrections 18 years.

docrobbysherry
09-06-2020, 01:01 PM
In the past when I or others have posted threads asking who's been in the service, Cassie? The number of former and current service men/women here is enormous!:eek:

KimH
09-06-2020, 01:37 PM
Sister in Blue here! I'm glad you asked, I've always been curious as well.

Good news - I'm happy to say that my boss is aware of Kim and it has never been an issue. I accidentally outed myself in conversation one day and it went well. I suspect a couple of others have figured it out as well and it hasn't been a problem there either.

Bad news - There are others I work with, sometimes closely, for whom it would be a problem. I'm not sure how it would go if they found out.
Fortunately we have some good policies and support systems that would make things much easier if they ever cause problems.

I'm not 100% sure if my female side makes me a better officer but I suspect so. It certainly helps me understand those I encounter who have been stigmatized or marginalized.

Bobbi46
09-06-2020, 02:06 PM
I was in law enforcement but only did 4 1/2 years on the "front line" before my photographic knowledge scooped me up, no body knew of my need to dress back then, (1973 to 1996) things were different then! and I dont think I would have had the career I that I did have had it been known then.

luuv2dress
09-07-2020, 03:32 AM
I?ve always wondered this myself 😊

Ashlee
09-07-2020, 04:17 PM
i wear the other uniform (firefighter) i find this thread AFTER i message you...sigh

FrannGurl
09-07-2020, 05:14 PM
Thank you all for your service!

VickieBonne
09-07-2020, 07:49 PM
Retired LEO

Liz Jones
09-08-2020, 04:11 AM
Fire Officer ( retired) like the police we enforced laws..........

MonicaPVD
09-08-2020, 06:10 AM
As someone with a PhD in personal hangups, it makes a lot of sense to me that there would be many LEO gurls. All closeted, of course.

BrendaPDX
09-08-2020, 09:49 AM
While I am not a LEO I do know of one closeted LEO (retired).

Visitor
09-08-2020, 10:54 AM
Appreciate this conversation that in one way grounds the experience. It is easy to focus on dressing without recognition I'm not alone with this. Of course, I've always been fully closeted so I've never met any sisters. As mentioned, we will be found in any profession. I wasn't in law enforcement by was a manager in a public agency. I never dressed at work but certainly did plenty of "acting out" away from the office. Thanks for the question Cassiek.

Natalie5004
09-08-2020, 10:57 AM
Gee, I never thought of that. Please be safe when working and please be a help to all people.

Thank you.

mbmeen12
09-09-2020, 12:48 AM
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Thank you for your service!

Sometimes Steffi
09-09-2020, 08:27 PM
i wear the other uniform (firefighter) i find this thread AFTER i message you...sigh

Ashlee

You are beautiful.

Rescue me
Oh take me in your arms
Rescue me
I want your tender charms
'Coz I'm lonely and I'm blue
I need you and your love too

sung by Aretha Franklin

Lea
09-10-2020, 12:54 PM
Retired LEO with a little over 33 years.

jfem
09-11-2020, 11:49 PM
Coming up on 31 years......as a LEO!

Bobbi46
09-12-2020, 02:59 AM
jfem, 31 yrs good on you sadly I only did 23 yrs of my 30 before having to come out with stress and depression, now retired for going on 25 yrs and at last able to realise my dream of dressing 24/7

abby054
09-12-2020, 10:33 AM
Though I am not in law enforcement, the toughest law and order guys of my generation and my parents? generation were well-known cross dressers, Rudolph Giuliani and J. Edgar Hoover.

Deborah2B
09-23-2020, 10:30 PM
I am in law enforcement & have been for decades. I have been crossdressing off & on since childhood.

Sallee
09-23-2020, 10:42 PM
Whats a LEO ? I think I got it Law Enforcement Officer ? Am I right :daydreaming:

luuv2dress
09-24-2020, 12:14 AM
Jfem 31 wow! I can?t wait to hit 25 and run😅
Shore area here as well

jfem
09-24-2020, 10:59 PM
Luv2dress.... won?t be long now for me, I really do love the work. How many years do you have left?

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It?s the years after that matter the most! And if you have 25 of them they you are doing something right!

luuv2dress
09-24-2020, 11:01 PM
Luv2dress.... won?t be long now for me, I really do love the work. How many years do you have left?

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It?s the years after that matter the most! And if you have 25 of them they you are doing something right!

6 left!!!!

susanmichelle
09-25-2020, 12:21 AM
Whats a LEO ? I think I got it Law Enforcement Officer ? Am I right :daydreaming:


Yes Sallee I?m a LEO too but in astrology sign lol