Ever kissed Mr. Right (or Wrong...)?

[Robyn2006]

I know many of you here are hetero and have not such fantiasies as mine. But for me... and for many here I know too, all of this is far more than a fun hobby, it's expression of who we wish we were, female (ok... a really hot supermodel female). Anyway, these past few days in complete womanhood, I come to realize that there is nothing I long for more than to know what it's like to kiss a man, to know what it's like to hold him close and feel my lipstick peal off his lips... As such, I'm wondering how many of you have actually been out on a date with a man... AND kissed. Would love to hear about it! :kissing:

Why is it I feel I'm about to get bashed for posting this?

Robyn

[Teresa Amina]

This is the last place you'll be Bashed for anything! But, no, I haven't had the fantasy you've got. There are no doubt some who do. We're a pretty diverse bunch, really.

[Marci]

Hi Robyn,

I'm hetero. I'm also bi-gendered. There is a MAJOR dif between sexual orientation and gender presentation!

Question: Do you think you have transexual leanings?

I was a member of and presided over a gender group for a
number of years. I've been out dancing, partying, field tripping,
conventioning, shopping, venturing, and lotsa other "ings". I have
been asked to dance [both fast and slow] by males. I have danced
both fast and slow with a guy about 800 miles away [and away from
his wife]. I'd showed him my rings [I wear a femme wedding/engagement set
when dressed and out] but he just couldn't take, "can't you see I'm
taken" for and answer. It was actually FUN!! Nevertheless, I made sure that
when he wanted me to come up to his room that I kept my cool.

Another time I flirted with a dude in a gay bar with my wife as my
girrrllllfriend!? She had a blast watching me flirt with this guy who
was telling us about his wife and how she didn't understand him and
how he travelled alot. Well, we kissed on the lips a couple of times!
It was kind of a thrill...but not what I really fantacize about.

I prefer...and my fantacies are...being with other females and, if
they allow, their male SOs. I think NOTHING should be hidden.
Infidelity means that there is lying and coverup! Open relationships
are something that could work if society would allow. In any event,
if we are attracted to someone else, we should let our SOs know
that we have this attraction, but that we still LOVE 'em lots...

Hugs,

Marci :cool:

[Jennaie]

I have the same fantasy at times. Not realized. Never actually kissed a man. But... if that is you and your lipstick in that avatar..
come here...closer....closer....:kissing: ...:cheeky:


Jennaie :be:

[Deborah]

I'm wondering how many of you have actually been out on a date with a man... AND kissed. Would love to hear about it! :kissing:

Why is it I feel I'm about to get bashed for posting this?

Robyn

Only a fantasy right now. Maybe one day...maybe not.
I don't see a reason for being bashed over this thread.
Perfectly good question in my humble opinion.

[Debbie Kong]

I've been on dates with guys and I've kissed them. It can be fun. I like kissing women too.

I find kissing to be the singular most intimate act between two people. I've experienced kissing many people. Some were ugly, some were bad, some were good and some were so extremely passionate that nothing else seemed to matter but..., well you all know what I'm talkin' about.

What the partner's sex is doesn't really matter so let me just say that I understand your feelings and I feel there is nothing wrong with them.

Have fun and play safe.

Debbie

[Cherry Lynn]

Hi Robyn, I have kissed several men and it was wonderful. I am bi when dressed and love the feel of a man. My wife likes to watch me with a man and is supportive of this side of me. We like to meet couples that accept Danielle and who she is but also enjoy me in drab. It is the best of both worlds. We enjoy "friends with benefits" and have for 6 years.

[Daintre]

Hi Robyn, yes I have had a date with another man, I was divorced at the time and was searching for the best path to follow. I must admit that I was very taken with this man, he made me feel so feminine. He was the only man I was with. now I am ...oh what is the word.....celebate
Jen :cheeky:

[DawnRodgers]

Yes, I have been with men and been kissed. Frankly, I loved it. A man is a more passionate and agressive kisser than a woman - at least that is my opinion. I think that men are more insistent on using a kiss as a warm up to try to get more than kissing from you. They are more insisitent upon frenching you whereas a woman is more likely to be a passive kisser. Maybe they feel that the kiss is more a prelude and a woman feels that it is more a part of lovemakong.
Don't kow if this makes any sense but I certainly enjoy it from both sides of the sexual line.
Dawn

[sherri]

I've kissed a couple of white guys and another CD. Two were okay, one was kind of gross. They were all kind of aggressive about it. Don't really care for the scratchy beard thing. Then one night I kissed a black guy and it was really nice. He had been holding my hand and talking sweet etc etc, and when he kissed me it was so tender and sensual, it was ... well, like I said, really nice.

[Robyn2006]

Thanks ladies for your insight and stories... gives me hope! And I so agree with Debbie's comment that "...kissing to be the singular most intimate act between two people." This is why the thought of kissing a man ala fem drives me so nuts... even more than what might happen afterwards. There's such a connection when you kiss. With the women I've been with, it has always been the kissing that I loved most... Now, of course, I'm hoping to be on the other side of that kiss, to be a woman within my dream man's arms...:kissing:

Robyn

[Miriannah]

Wow, I envy so many of you. Someday before my youth is gone, I want to experience dating, kissing, and even 'being with' a man. Whether or not I'll like it, I don't know, but the urge is there and always has been quite strong.

[Sally24]

Just because we're hetero (or at least think we are!) doesn't mean we don't have fantasies like this. I don't know if I would be interested in kissing a man in reality, but I would like to at least flirt at some point. I have thought that it would be interesting to go to a club or lounge and dance with a man. I've always loved dancing as a man and would like to know how it feels to dance as a woman. Guess I'll just have to see how my SO feels about this sometime in the future.

Don't be afraid to post any polite question. There are many differences and simularities between us all here.

[Adrienne Heels]

I would love to kiss a sexy guy when I am dressed....at least in my fantasy. I think it would be so erotic and so feminine. Of course, since my fantasy is to go all the way with a guy when dressed, even though I am hetero as a guy......what else would you expect?

I think I have noticed very bisexual tendencies when dressed. But I am not sure what to make of this. I know I am straight, but am so curious.

[KarenNY]

I have been on dates with guys and kissed them, held hands, slow danced with them, but that's as far as I go. I was able to experience some of that at a younger age than most -- years ago, as a teenager, with teenage guys. A couple did not know my secret (thought I was a real female) and one -- my best friend whom I had come out to as a CDer -- who knew all about me and I ended up dating for several months. We had our own private prom date at my house (remember, my mother was supportive), where we slow-danced and kissed in the living room. It was a wonderfully romantic evening where I was treated completely as a young lady (or girlfriend)!

When I was older, into my 20s, I flirted with the occasional guy and I still enjoy being treated like a lady by a gentleman, but I admit I am far more attracted to women and other TG folks. Although I am now married to a wonderful albeit non-tolerant wife, I occasionally have fantasies about having a date with a gentleman.

For me, it's more about enjoying how a guy makes me feel (feminine) and acknowledges/affirms my female role than it is about me being sexually attracted to a man (which I'm not). I enjoy being a girl, but not too far...

[lawnmanmo]

I know many of you here are hetero and have not such fantiasies as mine. But for me... and for many here I know too, all of this is far more than a fun hobby, it's expression of who we wish we were, female (ok... a really hot supermodel female). Anyway, these past few days in complete womanhood, I come to realize that there is nothing I long for more than to know what it's like to kiss a man, to know what it's like to hold him close and feel my lipstick peal off his lips... As such, I'm wondering how many of you have actually been out on a date with a man... AND kissed. Would love to hear about it! :kissing:

Why is it I feel I'm about to get bashed for posting this?

Robyn
Hi Robyn
As an admirer who adores the CD world and this lifestyle, I can say that for THOSE girls that have no problem kissing a man, it is usually something that is thrilling and sensuous. When you are dressed as a women and having those "feelings" as a women, kissing a man when that moment should arise usually comes with ease and passion. Again, I am talking only about those CD women who have no problem with this. In my opinion, it just takes your breath away and your femininity just seems to sky rocket. I love to be with an attractive passable CD women and it just seems to fall in place naturally to kiss at times.
Jerry

[natasha]

Have to honest, I have thought about it. If the situation does ever present itself I am truthfully curious as to what I may or may not do. As I write this I would probably.............turn the light switch off and find out what happens. But girls do reserve the right to change their mind on a moments notice!!!!!

[windycissy]

Count me in, I never thought I would ever want to kiss a guy, but I met my Mr. Right through this forum, and after he took me out on a date, we kissed and I just loved it! He lives in another city, so we don't see each other very often, but when we do we have so much fun! Click here if you want to learn more about us (http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=23514)

[SEXY_HEATHER]

i've only been with one guy and one cd but in my case the cd was a great kisser.loved french kissing with her and was so intimate and carressing each other

[Lilly 40C]

Never Mr. wrong but, plenty of Mr. rights. If you have not kissed a guy yet, do it you'll love it, I know I do.

[Kate Simmons]

Hi Robyn, I'm not gonna berate you Hon. Been there, done that. It's great when you're in the arms of a handsome hunk and get that long deep kiss. Makes me feel fulfilled as a woman anyway. Enjoy the romance while it lasts though, as men are as we all are so well aware are well........men. I'm not knocking the rest of it (sex, et. al.) but it's nice to feel loved and appreciated, a great feeling. Take care, Ericka

[Brianna Lovely]

I have been kissed by a man and found it very romantic. If I'm all dressed up and he takes me in his arms, runs his hands down my back and then kisses me, I almost swoon.
Of all the things two people can do, I think huging and kissing are the best.

Give a friend a kiss, today.

[Rexy Lee]

At the risk of sounding promiscuous, in my many years of crossdressing I've been with around 25 guys or so. Thats over the last 30 years so its not like I'm a **** or anything...well maybe just a little, LOL.
In my experiance being with an accepting and understanding male while dressed takes our desire for feminity over the top!
One of my most memorable experiances in fact was when a lover of mine unexpectedly brought over a friend of his and the three of us.......well, you know.

I guess my belief is that we only get one shot at life and we better make the most of it. If it doesnt hurt anybody, than why not give it a try!

But thats just me...:doll:

[Kate Simmons]

I'm going with a guy right now who accepts both sides of me(rare find?). We are friends as guys but a little bit more when I'm Ericka. As guys we talk about work, hobbies and guy stuff but when I'm Ericka there is a huge difference. We go to dinner and dancing together and whatever else. The nice part about this relationship is that when I'm Ericka, he is a real gentleman and always thinks of me first. We have a great friendship and he appreciates my need to be Ericka. Best of both worlds? It's great to say the least. Take care, Ericka

[sharifemme]

I have a friend who dated a man for a few times and yes, she did get a kiss. She decided she wasn't gay and found a very loving woman for a partner who REALLY supports crossdressing. However, she did appreciate the experience of being treated like a woman in a romantic situation. He held the door for her, pulled out the chair for her, danced with her, paid for her dinner, and treated her like a lady. I suppose if some guy treated me that way, I'd give him a kiss too!

You should find no judgement here! We are all different. We love you for who you are!

Sharifemme

[jdotp75]

i've never wanted to be with a guy until I started dressing. All I wanted, was to know if I was hot enough to get a guy. I went out once, and had a drink bought for me. my gg fiance at this point wants to see me with another man. suffice it to say in the bedroom we been known to switch roles, so she wants to see me with a man. I have to be honest here, if the guy who bought me a drink would've tried he would have gotten anything he wanted! (he asked the girl he left with why she was talking to me the way she was (like i was a guy). he had no clue! now when he got home what went through his head? As for the is he gay or straight question... jeans and t shirt, or even GQ...girls but put me in the shortest skirt ive got, some fishnet thigh highs, a garter, corset, and six inch platforms and im a boyfriend stealing litttle b**ch. and yes she loves me, i love her, and whenever she wants i will give her and some lucky guy a show they will never forget. ok all worked up now... gonna go get dressed up and practice.
Toodles!

[Anita Mae GG]

I know many of you here are hetero and have not such fantiasies as mine. But for me... and for many here I know too, all of this is far more than a fun hobby, it's expression of who we wish we were, female (ok... a really hot supermodel female). Anyway, these past few days in complete womanhood, I come to realize that there is nothing I long for more than to know what it's like to kiss a man, to know what it's like to hold him close and feel my lipstick peal off his lips... As such, I'm wondering how many of you have actually been out on a date with a man... AND kissed. Would love to hear about it! :kissing:

Why is it I feel I'm about to get bashed for posting this?

Robyn


nothing to bash you for......legit question......I have often wondered what it would be like to kiss a girl and I am not a crossdresser at all.....normal feelings I think....
I think you have nothing to worry about:happy:

[SKINNYGIRL]

I have always wanted to kiss another CD, but the opportunuty hasn't presented itself yet. As far as kissing a masculine man, I couldn't do it.

[Eugenie]

I won't tell the whole story as I already posted it here, but I have been kissing a man too.

At the begining it was just an evening with another TV friend. We were having a great time discussing of all sorts of topics.

The situation turned to courtship from her. I admit that I had a rather provocative cleavage which woke up the man in the TV :cheeky: At that point it was no longer a TV flirting with me but a ordinary man turned on by a pair of breasts...

Letting him play with my breasts was really straight forward move on my side. But I found kissing a rather difficult move to make. It is such an intimate act... I finaly did let him kiss me and it was wonderful.

Love.

Eugenie

[Josi]

Robyn
This is not a bash ... (here comes the "but") and is said with warmth and not rancour.
BUT ..:;) l ..
when you say "far more than a fun hobby, its an expression of who we wish to be .. " ...
Your choice of words is interesting and “leaks” another message.
It feels you are (perhaps unintentionally) demeaning those of us who have no tendency or desire to kiss a man. Fine for you and others that have the desire or the fantasy ... it’s your free choice and you are so entitled to your choices and to enjoy them.

But aren't I and those like me, entitled to our choices too without being seen as "less than" anyone else? There are no hierarchical levels. None of us is better than any other – we just have different but EQUAL preferences.

It’s far more than a fun hobby for me too, it’s an expression of who I AM.

Kind regards to you, no bashing intended. Just telling you how it feels.

Ok so I am oversensitive! :)

[unclejoann]

I was in drab when I met a man and fell into a nice makeout party without sex. We kissed and cuddled, it was great. He was gay and we were just getting acquainted and I thought he was Mr Right. but after the party I suggested I dress up next time and that was The End. He was totally intolerant of crossdressing and became very rude. Oh well.

Other men I have kissed didn't turn on the sparklers for me but is nice enough, one was while stripped to just my lady underthings so I was accepted. I like kissing a man and it does make me feel more femme.

[anne16]

I know many of you here are hetero and have not such fantiasies as mine. But for me... and for many here I know too, all of this is far more than a fun hobby, it's expression of who we wish we were, female (ok... a really hot supermodel female). Anyway, these past few days in complete womanhood, I come to realize that there is nothing I long for more than to know what it's like to kiss a man, to know what it's like to hold him close and feel my lipstick peal off his lips... As such, I'm wondering how many of you have actually been out on a date with a man... AND kissed. Would love to hear about it! :kissing:

Why is it I feel I'm about to get bashed for posting this?

Robyn
Hi Robyn im a bi/tv and yes i love being kissed by a man, several dates with (tranny lovers) its a wonderfull experience and i have done a lot more with men but thats another story. I must stress i love men when dressed fem, but when im dressed drab (male attire) i have no interest in men. Girls if your not bi give it a try you may be pleasently surprised.
love Annexx

[randi_789]

Robyn, I can understand your thinking that you were going to get bashed for posting your comments. I recall some other threads that had similar topics that brought on some criticism of the poster. I know I should provide the thread, but only recall it slightly. I think the difference was that the thread contained more about being bi when dressed, and how being with a man if you were married was cheating on your wife. So, this is why when I read your post I expected some bashing as I read through all the replies. So, perhaps I am right in seeing the differences in the threads. No mention of marriage, no mention of being bi only when dressed, and thus no bashing.

If I were to say that I have been with a man, and that I am married, and that my wife doesn't know about my dressing, I am sure I would get some critical comments.

I am curious as to how many of the replies in this thread that said they have been with a man come from those that are married. I know there are some whose wives support it, but what about the others?

Just my two cents.

[Josi]

"Girls if your not bi give it a try you may be pleasently surprised."

No thank you - I am an H.H.who doesnt need to try being bi !


(Happy Hetro!) ;)

[danielle_from_cal]

It had been a while, but I have spent plenty of time kissing a man. It's nice when he has shaved, but a mustache is nice too. Now I am married so men are off my list of kissable people.

[Felicia Fox]

hi,

if i were a real woman id be a gorgeous lesbian if i find my fur lady and if she loves furs as much as me and looks gorgeous i would kiss her and make out with her and sleep with her and you know the rest.

[Caitlintgsd]

Yea guys kiss good. At least some of them, But stubble, yeeewwwww! I have a few guy friends that like to kiss hello or goodbye whenever I see them.

[Steffie-Lee]

A date for lunch, a walk in the park, holding hands, perhaps to steal a kiss. That is when the girl trapped within really comes out.

[Jesse69]

I don't like guys, and I would never kiss one even when in drag. A lot of guys are ugly, too - compared to women. No CDs, TVs, or gays too for me.

[Marlena Dahlstrom]

I have often wondered what it would be like to kiss a girl and I am not a crossdresser at all.....normal feelings I think....

Well sexuality (like gender) is a spectrum that society chooses to see as an either/or.

It's also worth remembering the difference between curiousity (things that you've simply wondered about), fantasies (things that intrigue you but you'd never actually done), desires (things you'd like to do even if you haven't done them) and actual behavior.

From what I've seen a lot of women have fantasized -- or at least been curious about what it would be like -- to be with another woman. So yeah, I'd say they're normal feelings.

Incidentally, as KarenNY said, I think a lot of the CD fantasies about "being treated by a lady" by a man are more about a chance to be the one pursued rather than doing the pursuing, as well as an affirmation of one's "femininity" -- in a sense being desired in that way can be seen as the ultimate in "passing" (even if in reality both parties know who's who).

[Bonnie D]

Tammy Marie:

I feel for you about the bashing. No one should be bashed for any topic. Disagreed with is fine but not bashed.

Josi:

I didn't see any condescension to anyone hetero. Hopefully none was intended. I'm bisexual and don't feel any better or worse than anyone else.

Robyn:

I've kissed, as well as everything else, a lot of men. Some are very nice others are so so and then there are some you don't want to get anywhere near their mouth. This was something I had fantasized since puberty and didn't experience until my early 20s.

Bonnie

[gwenrob43]

I have had the same fantacy for a while now. first it was just the dressing, then the other thoughts began. I don't think I'm gay, but I would like to see if I'm pretty enough to attract a man. :blushing: I wonder what he will say or do when I tell him I'm a girl with something extra. I'm a romantic, whether it be a man or a woman. I think I'd really prefer a woman, but I'd really like to try it. :kissing:

[EricaCD]

What would I do? Flirt, yes. Innocent little "good night at the end of an ok date" kiss, possibly. Real serious snogging, probably not. My guess is that at some point my brain would kick in and freak out.

Not at all surprised to find out I am in the minority on that one, though. Good for those of you who have gone for it, and for those who enjoy the fantasy, have fun!

Erica

[Mandy Salamander]

similar to rexy,, above,, i've more than kissed, what seems like quite a few men, till one considers the length of time they were spread over,, never mr. right, tho a couple mr. really wrongs,,, but have had a couple moderately satisfying extended relationships with previously straight men,,, 'n my personal opinion, f' what it's worth; i really doo appreciate being coddled 'n catered to,, and as passive as i am, doo much prefer t' be pursued than be th' pursuer,,, soooo,,, while men are great fun f' a night out 'n a roll in th' hay,, doo really much prefer GG's for a more lasting relationship,,,,,,,,,,,, as i've become more comfortable with my transgenderism, i no longer feel a need to have my femininity validated by anyone else,,,,,,,,,,,, then again,,, sometimes a girl just wants t' have a little funn!!!

[jillinla]

We are of course all entitled to our choices, and I, perhaps being a bit greedy, have chosen it all.

I have kissed and made love with both men and women; loved every minute of it, though a few times the men later feigned surprise at my genitalia and the fact that I was not a GG ( the same genitalia they had been feverishly courting the night before) and became somewhat violent - ahh men)

My wisdom is that gay men are better lovers than the hetero- and much less dangerous

The ladies are all wonderful

(Does that put a slant in my bi?)

[Denise_Z]

One of my most memorable experiances in fact was when a lover of mine unexpectedly brought over a friend of his and the three of us.......well, you know.

I guess my belief is that we only get one shot at life and we better make the most of it.

It's interesting that you used the phrase "we only get one shot" because, and don't take this the wrong way, but in the AIDS era, you could be playing Russian Roulette with that one shot. Please be careful.

[Toyah]

Ok I know this is not what you want to hear but NO not ever men are sexually repugnant to me.
I really dont mind if thats what you want but not playing that game ever.
As for dating guys sorry why would I want to do that , ah well thats my 10 pence worth

[Rexy Lee]

It's interesting that you used the phrase "we only get one shot" because, and don't take this the wrong way, but in the AIDS era, you could be playing Russian Roulette with that one shot. Please be careful.


That is a given hon.
Anything else is reckless and irresponsible.

[Emily Ann Brown]

I think Marlena hit the nail on the head. And I think part of the female gender issue is romance (no, I don't think romance is necessarily sexual) and our female side has questions and curiosity about romance. I have been in the park holding hands with another sister who just happened to be in drab mode. We were imitating the other couples there. I loved it, but I had no desire to kiss him/her passionately or anything else.

Emily Ann

[Jillian310]

To Kiss or not to kiss, is that the question? I have a few male gay friends. Some live solo, some are paired up. Whenever I visit them at their homes, usually every week or so, I always go in my short mini strumpet outfit. If we are going out together, I dress more conservatively, but I do love shorter skirts! When we greet, the 'hellos' are always punctuated with kisses, and when we part, there is another round of kisses. Usually there is some backside caressing too, and lots of hugging and clinging. I find this most enjoyable. I have also met a few CDs and straight(?) guys that have kissed me, and/or I have kissed them. Others seem to abhor even the thought of kissing, while they have other, more erotic game plans. In order of preference, when out and about, I prefer intimacies with other CDs and my gay friends over the straight(?) guys. Also, I do get a kick out of seeing my liptick on the cheek or lips of those for whom I have some feelings. Like the song says, 'I enjoy being a girl'. Is a kiss a prelude for 'other' things? It depends on the person and the circumstances. But I love the wonderful anticipation that I feel when I know I am showering, shaving, dressing, and making up for an encounter that will involve guys, whether for a nice lunch or dinner, or just going to a friendly bar or club. I strongly suspect that GG's have enjoyed this feeling as they have prepared for 'dates' throughout their lives.

[Leslie16]

No, I've never kissed a guy, dressed or not. But when I'm dressed, I do try to be attractive to guys. I guess that part of the package -- if I'm found attractive, then I must be dressing right!

The only experience in that regard was in a TG club a month or so ago. A guy (a tg "admirer") was eyeing me from across the room -- he obviously was interested. Eventually, he came over, and started hitting on me. He casually put his hand on my rear, and started touching my leg. I was very curious about where it was all going, enjoying (frankly) experiencing something only girls usually experience, and of course very very pleased that I was getting such positive attention. But, I felt no sexual attraction whatsoever. Nothing. Nada. I think he got that message, because although I didn't stop him, he eventually just wandered off.

Later that evening, a guy I had been talking to a lot walked me to my car. It honestly had not occured to me that he was interested in me, but his eyes popped out of his head almost when my skirt rode up when I got in the car. As a guy, the possibility of a peek like that is always on my mind (!), but I was completely oblivious to the fact that I could have that effect on a guy myself! That was a wonderful feeling. We talked a little, but again I had absolutely no sexual interest in the matter, to his obvious disappointment!

Bottom line: I'm completely heterosexual, but I do like to have my dressing efforts rewarded with attention! I think its part of the whole "being a girl" experience.

[Georgina Milnes]

The first time I ever kissed a man it was the most wonderful experience,I felt so feminine and wanted,and I must say that what followed was the changing point of my life,he was just the best and i have to thank him for what I have become and enjoy.

[Eugenie]

I was very curious about where it was all going, enjoying (frankly) experiencing something only girls usually experience, and of course very very pleased that I was getting such positive attention. But, I felt no sexual attraction whatsoever. Nothing. Nada.

Later that evening, (... snip ...) I was completely oblivious to the fact that I could have that effect on a guy myself! That was a wonderful feeling. We talked a little, but again I had absolutely no sexual interest in the matter, to his obvious disappointment!

I think that you hit the right argument here, twice in the same post. The problem isn't kissing another man or a woman but kissing someone we are really attracted to.

I have been in situations where it was clear that the woman I was with felt attracted by me. But I didn't feel the attraction for her and kissing her would have been out of the question.

Before one faces a new situation, one never know how one will react.

When it happened to me to have a man sexually interested by me "Eugenie", like you I was thrilled of being desired by a man like a real woman. This was more a turn on than the kissing experience which followed.

I was like a teenager tempted by an experience but who didn't really feel ream emotion.

Perhaps some day I will really feel attracted by another person. Then the question of the gender of that person may be completely irrelevant.

Love.

Eugenie

[kimmy p]

I know many of you here are hetero and have not such fantiasies as mine. But for me... and for many here I know too, all of this is far more than a fun hobby, it's expression of who we wish we were, female (ok... a really hot supermodel female). Anyway, these past few days in complete womanhood, I come to realize that there is nothing I long for more than to know what it's like to kiss a man, to know what it's like to hold him close and feel my lipstick peal off his lips... As such, I'm wondering how many of you have actually been out on a date with a man... AND kissed. Would love to hear about it! :kissing:

Why is it I feel I'm about to get bashed for posting this?

Robyn

Let me tell you a story, when I was a teenager I one day sat myself down and said "Self, you like girls clothes". Self didn't answer, but self also didn't refutiate the claim either. Well this left me confused, I wasn't all that into girls at that point (late bloomer) so I started wondering if all this made me gay. then I thought about it some more and said to myself "self, imagine getting a big wet sloppy kiss form a guy". this time self responded with a resounding "EEEeeeeeewwwwww, yuck". So that was solved. To give you the shorter answer..... No. There is a lot of role reversal I would be willing to try, at least once, but nothing with a male.

Thanks for your time,
Kimmy P.