Dressing in front of a friend

[Crisack]

I came out to some friends a while back but no one has ever seen me fully dressed. One of them always comes over and when he would call, I'd tell him to wait while I changed. It was becoming a pain in the butt so he finally told me he wouldn't be bothered if I were dressed up. Well, tonight was the first time. Gotta say, I was a little apprehesive about the whole thing. When he came by we just sat and chatted like usual. It didn't even phase me I guess, lol. Felt pretty normal but that could be how close we are too. Just glad he didn't laugh, lol. Very refreashing =)

Oh this is what I'm wearing, glad I wasn't having a lingerie night! Not sure I'm up for that but I don't answer the door in my underwear regardless of what I'm wearing, lol.

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[DawnLabelle]

Great story, glad it went well for you :). And I *love* the dress youre wearing, fits you beautifully.

Dawn

[Kathleengurl]

Yeah, what she said...

... that dress looks great on you!
-k-

[Sarah Rabbit]

It would be nice if we all could do that:D :D My family know's about Sarah and are very supportive, But I do not have the courage to present Sarah to them.

Hugs, Sarah R.:bunny:

[Barb Valentine]

Good for you
( I'm still hiding in the closet)

[Kitty Sue]

Awesome. I too have some friends that I have dressed in front of. Another knows I am a CD and it is probably just a matter of time until she sees me dressed. I just hope I look as great as you do in that pic.:)

[Joy Carter]

I just couldn't do that at this stage of the game they just would not understand or accept it. It's nice that you have courage of your convictions it took alot to do what you did. To me it would be that if they thought it was a sexual thing and that would hurt me to the core.

HUGS J C

[Elizabeth Anne]

My wife has been after me for years to dress on Halloween & go to several friends & neighbors houses just to see & get their reactions. I am really not into that, I am more serious about my crossdressing. My problem would be I would have to "spill the beans" & "tell the whole story to them." However, I may do it one day.

[Monica55cd]

How great to have frineds that close and supportive..... and by the way...
you look so hot!!! gorgous dress...hair...makeup looks great too....did he think you look very sexy?? what did he say???

[Trinity_cat]

Hi Crisack, well done for staying dressed while your friend came over. You said he didn't laugh. What was his reaction to seeing you in a dress (and a lovely one I might add).


My wife has been after me for years to dress on Halloween & go to several friends & neighbors houses just to see & get their reactions. I am really not into that, I am more serious about my crossdressing. My problem would be I would have to "spill the beans" & "tell the whole story to them." However, I may do it one day.Quite right of you to refuse your wife Hon. Halloween is a time for costumes, and a serious CD like yourself does not consider "Dressing en Femme" a costume.
Now if you want to go as Catwoman, that's another story.

[Dana]

True friends accept you for who, what and as you are ~ in your entirity. As the old saying goes, "A friend MIGHT help you move a body ~ a true friend will bring a shovel!"

Sounds to me as though you've got yourself a true and rare thing ~ a true friend who accepts you for who, what, and as your are ~ a most precious thing in life.

[JEANNE63]

Yes! What Dana said, very cool!

[CharlaineCadence]

When I finally realized what was going on with me I went to me besst friends and told them they are married and have seen me through many things They have helped me alot even plan on going shopping with me and they where the first to see me dressed now. my aviatar was taken at their home.

[nurseandy]

you look absolutely beautiful, i would love to see you dressed so go for it, you may find your friend very appreciative

[Jasmine Ellis]

WOW.....I want that dress........You are very elegant sweetheart, love your look. And well done for your friend

[SherriePall]

You look fantastic. Love that dress. Tell us a little about it. Glad you have such a good friend.

[Janet_Johnson_cd]

Yes, what a lovely dress. ;)

[Tina Dixon]

A true good friend, nice dress also.

[eleventhdr]

Dressed in front of friend's BUt they do know that I am a cd becasue i ahve told them so. And this they do except. In as a matter of fact i have even gone so very far as to inform them that i would really rather be female completly. Some do not I think really belive me on that one but they problay would accept me if and when i ever did become one. If i was to stay around here which i very problay would not becasue my family would never accept me as female Of this i do already do know So i probaly would go very far awy and begin life all over again as a girl. So be it. But given the chance yeah i just might dress i front of them indeed. Just to show them that and how I would be as female!:.

Suzy!:.

[paulaN]

A 10 for you, a 10 for the dress, And a 10 for your friend. way to go ..........

[Alexandria]

Love the dress!

[Crisack]

Hiya everyone =)
Thanks! The dress is from my ex wife. Since we seperated she's been more inclined to help me out with clothes. It's actually hers but she doesn't fit it anymore. Since we split up she's gained weight and I've lost it, which drives her up the wall. When we go shopping together she always has to buy a larger size than me which of course leads to her shooting me dirty looks, lol. It's funny how much better we get along now.

I never did ask him what he thought. Not sure why. Probably didn't want to hear "You look like my friend wearing a dress". I'm glad he's seen me, I'm going to hit him up to help me with some better pictures. Now I just need to come out to the girlfriend. She's a makeup artist for a couple of photographers so I know she could help me out in a HUGE way. Kinda funny,

"Did you come out to your GF for support and understanding?"
"No, I needed help with my foundation..."

[Laura Jane]

Dressing in front of a friend

When I read the title, I thought Oh Dear, there is a subtle difference between dressing and being dressed! :D

It would have to be some friend to come around and zip you up!

[Eugenie]

There are only a few of my friends who have seen me "en femme".

The first one is a friend with whom I have had an affair. It was from the happy heighties, open mariage, etc. We had been together for a few month already and I told her all about my Xdressing. She has been very supportive. Far more than my wife. My wife knows that I xdress, but doesn't want to get involved or even talk about it.

My girl friend often buys girls clothes and underwear for me.

It's been now more than 20 years that we see eachother. Last time we met (she lives in Manhattan and I live in France) was last may. She helped me getting ready for my first open meeting with other T-girls at CDI NY. She drove me to the meeting place and came back to pick me up.

Her husband is aware of my x-dressing and has seen me a couple of times fully dressed.

I have another GG friend who has seen me "en femme". She is a friend of my wife too. My wife got to know that I told her about my xdressing... She was quite crossed at me... But being realistic, she lives with it now... With that second friend there is only a friendly relationship, no sex. She is a great support though.

Finaly there is another GG friend who knows about my xdressing but who has never seen me "en femme" except on a picture oe me ( actually the one on my avatar).

It may seem strange but I have no male friends whom I would feel like showing my feminine side.

I've met some T-girls who have of course seen me "en femme" but it is quite different from coming out to friends whom you have known for many years...

Hugs.

Eugenie