View Full Version : What obviously feminine thing is part of your everyday life now?
Violetgray
10-21-2020, 09:53 AM
I'm not full-time as of yet. I do think there are obvious signifiers of my non-standard gender identity.
My eyebrows are always threaded
My nails are always purple
If I still have the remnants of yesterday's eye makeup on when presenting as male, that's fine. I wash my face, but I don't necessarily scrub until it's all gone.
What about you? Are there things that have permanently crossed from the Girl Dimension into your everyday life?
Teresa
10-21-2020, 10:22 AM
Violet,
To me it's not so much items I wear but being called Teresa or Terri . Only yesterday I had my annual flu injection and it's lovely to be called through by a female name .
My toenails are always painted. I grew my hair out but not obviously feminine until you factor everything else in. I wear something feminine everyday (most days skirts or dresses) but even the rare male mode still always has a feminine touch such as bracelets, a necklace or anklet. My home office has quite the feminine flair including light pink walls, my clothes in a open closet, and feminine decor.
Paulie Birmingham
10-21-2020, 11:16 AM
I watch Shakespeare in love even when home alone.
carhill2mn
10-21-2020, 11:51 AM
My eyebrows are plucked and drawn on, I have no hair on my arms and hands.
Kimberly A.
10-21-2020, 12:14 PM
Yes, I keep all of my body hair shaved off, (except for my back, cause I can't reach it LOL) plus I'm always wearing panties and/or pantyhose. LOL
Karmen
10-21-2020, 12:17 PM
I wear panties, pantyhose and have toenails painted most of the days.
audreyinalbany
10-21-2020, 01:05 PM
I've been keeping my legs shaved, although with me it's hard to tell since I never had much leg hair to begin with. I don wear leggings and capri length yoga pants at home quite a bit
sometimes_miss
10-21-2020, 01:09 PM
I sleep every night in girl pj's, and spend most days dressed as a girl, as well. Girl shampoo and hair care, and I am meticulous about my nails as well, though I don't keep them polished all the time.
I reserve my 'man uniform', for chores outside the home, where being seen as a man is simply expected by the rest of the world. I consider it no different from any other uniform worn for work purposes; man clothes are simply what I wear to do certain tasks that are more easily accomplished in them.
CrossKimmy
10-21-2020, 02:19 PM
Keeping my legs shaved
NancySue
10-21-2020, 02:39 PM
Keeping my legs, etc. shaved, panties, hose, either pantyhose or thigh highs, bra, touch of makeup.
CharlotteCD
10-21-2020, 02:42 PM
As above many times - low body hair. I'm a cyclist so shaved legs is the norm, and I'm a swimmer so that covers the rest. Except my chest, which is a no go zone for the shaver on my wife's insistance.
Taylor Dame
10-21-2020, 06:42 PM
I always have shaved legs and arms and wear panties every day. At night I sleep in women's sating pajamas.
Princess29
10-21-2020, 07:00 PM
shaved body hair, plucked eyebrows, pierced ears and often my fingernails are left to grow to a very long length
Angela Marie
10-21-2020, 07:44 PM
Wearing leggings all day long.
Dawn P
10-21-2020, 07:45 PM
Wear panties 24/7, was having a full face wax before COVID.
lisalove
10-21-2020, 08:20 PM
All my clothes, my finger nails and toe nails always painted, always as hairless as I can be, and eyebrows are trimmed as feminine as I know how to do them.
Crissy 107
10-21-2020, 09:11 PM
Panties 24/7 and my toes are always polished, cool weather legs are shaved
Stephanie47
10-21-2020, 10:17 PM
Wearing a nice pair of nylon panties 24/7 and a nylon nightgown at night with a fresh panty.
AllieSF
10-21-2020, 10:26 PM
I am full time for the past few years. So, clothes do not count for me. I am always hairless where it counts, wear a simple true gold chain with a simple cubic zirconia stone, and gold earrings plus a 3rd smaller blue cubic zirconia stone stud (I had one in the other ear but it closed up), which I wear 24/7. I do not wear any makeup except for special occasions, which are few and very far between for now, except for my daily lipstick that I keep refreshing whenever I remember throughout the day.
darla_g
10-21-2020, 11:31 PM
i guess i'm like most preferred shaved body. I go to a local place to get eyebrows threaded and tinted. Wear my nails a bit longer. Constantly pursue women's type hobbies.
I don't care for underdressing however and save it all up and kind of do my own fashion show.
I won't purge but i will selectively pair down a bit
Connie D50
10-22-2020, 06:25 AM
I am smooth all over, always in panties.
Vikky
10-22-2020, 06:28 AM
Dressing en femme almost every night.
Vikky
Cheryl T
10-22-2020, 06:52 AM
Where to begin...
Panties exclusively for 20 years, toes painted all the time, fingers either clear or colored polish, brows shaped and arched, body completely smooth and hair free, double pierced ears with diamond studs and ?? in the lowers.
Then add that 90% of my clothes are not from the male aisles and that's about it.
Krisi
10-22-2020, 08:19 AM
I wear panties every day. My jeans and jean shorts are from the women's section.
Jenn A116
10-22-2020, 08:36 AM
I keep my legs and armpits shaved. I also periodically remove the hair from my arms. I've always got clear polish on my nails and regularly (every 2 weeks) get a manicure.
Star01
10-22-2020, 09:36 AM
I am blessed with light body hair and have been completely shaved for years. In the past I would allow the hair to grow on my hands and forearms but decided to shave that as well this spring. I was very nervous about it because I?m in a dadt but my wife and nobody else has said anything. I have pierced ears but only wear earrings now when dressed and I shape my eyebrows. I usually use clear coat on my fingernails and red polish on toenails but I have been kind of negligent about that during this past summer. I have t stopped giving myself manicures and pedicures (slumming it and do my own nails) so I need to get back to the polish.
Aside from those things I wear panties 24/7. Considering my circumstances I feel good that I am able to do those things. My wife received a clothing order yesterday and I think she was taken off guard by my interest in the things she ordered. She got one nice sweater that I especially coveted and imagined myself wearing with leggings. She said ?I can wear this with leggings? as if it was a revelation but that was my first thought when I saw it. Enjoying the simple things since I can?t dress fully.
BarbaraVa
10-22-2020, 09:54 AM
Shaved from head to toe, eyebrows shaped, toenails painted red, ankle bracelet, pantyhose every day, my hair is very long and I usually have some level of makeup on. I'm usually wearing a bra as well.
SophyV
10-22-2020, 09:57 AM
I only shave my pits and upper chest. I used to shave my legs but the hair is sparse unless I do it for the feel it is not worth the time and nicks.
LilSissyStevie
10-22-2020, 10:08 AM
My wife.
Joyce Swindell
10-22-2020, 10:53 AM
I try to keep my body shaved. Not alot of hair on my legs so that one is easy. It's keeping up with everything else that's a challenge! My wife shaves my back when requested but sometimes she will offer knowing I can't see it. I also have my toes polished (the choice of colors vary). My ears are pierced but I only wear earrings on the weekend or after work. I also wear sandals showing off my toes outside of work.
I'll sometimes underdress with a corset and when it's cool enough for a jacket (Florida-rarely) I'll wear a bra.
Jane G
10-22-2020, 11:00 AM
What a great question, not often a new one comes up. As a largely closet Cd there are limits. Shaving however is an obvious one, that I can get away with. Under arms and legs. I'm very lucky in that I don't have much body hair by male standards. I have been put on the spot a few times at the beach, when my wife has deliberately pointed it out to others. Best to keep your partner informed and happy at all times, if you can.
Breeheels
10-22-2020, 04:04 PM
I guess wearing lingerie under my boy clothes daily. Wearing a nighty and some loose panties to bed every night.
Ericka_d
10-22-2020, 07:30 PM
At this point probably every thing. That I can do at this point.
Jodie_Lynn
10-22-2020, 07:54 PM
If I still have the remnants of yesterday's eye makeup on when presenting as male, that's fine. I wash my face, but I don't necessarily scrub until it's all gone.
ICK! You DON'T clean off old make-up?
Violetgray
10-22-2020, 08:50 PM
ICK! You DON'T clean off old make-up?
I mean I do, but I'm using waterproof makeup, so at some point I just have to weigh the makeup free look vs. rubbing my eyelids raw
Bridgettek2020
10-22-2020, 09:07 PM
Panties or a thong under male clothes, clear nail polish, lip gloss that matches my natural color, and practicing my walking, whether dressed male or female
Jodie_Lynn
10-22-2020, 09:52 PM
I mean I do, but I'm using waterproof makeup, so at some point I just have to weigh the makeup free look vs. rubbing my eyelids raw
vegetable oil on a cotton ball. Works wonders. AND you don't scrub yourself raw
lingerieLiz
10-22-2020, 09:58 PM
Bras under tops. Actually not new. I've worn bras most every day for years.
Val_Blackbird
10-22-2020, 10:20 PM
Like most, it appears, my toenails are painted, though I'm pretty dreadful at it. I wear fem underwear and jeans basically daily. And I usually keep everything shaved (except when I'm just too tired to do all the shaving).
Pretty boring, but that's on character for me. 🙂
Bobbi46
10-23-2020, 01:40 PM
Painted nails and no body hair anywhere.
Billie
10-23-2020, 02:47 PM
I've been rocking acrylic nails for the past year, shaved legs and women's pants/shorts 99% of the time.
Taylor186
10-23-2020, 03:34 PM
I compliment women I meet regarding something they are wearing or their overall look.
wendy
10-23-2020, 04:29 PM
I also try to underdress as much as possible when I can't get into full Wendy mode.
mona lisa
10-24-2020, 05:28 AM
Painted toenails. I have been wearing sandals when outside and running errands, etc and actually have gotten comments from a few women on how nice my toes look with colour on them :battingeyelashes:
Victoria1
10-24-2020, 06:56 AM
Panties and nighties. I wear panties everyday and nighties every night. Just part of my daily routine.
fun4metoo2004
10-24-2020, 12:44 PM
full body waxed about every 60 days. Brown mascara, clear nail polish. Panties always.
KarenSusan
10-24-2020, 02:17 PM
Except for an hour or two that I'm out running errands, the other 22 I'm either in a skirt, dress or nightlife.
Brenn
10-24-2020, 02:20 PM
Shaved legs and wearing ballet flats. Sometimes wear nylons in the cooler months.
valerie anne
10-24-2020, 02:45 PM
Hand washing lacy bras, baby dolls & sheer stockings!
BTWimRobin
10-24-2020, 02:55 PM
Let's see. Panties most days, smooth legs, colored nail polish on my toes and a clear topcoat on my fingers.
jeanine38
10-24-2020, 05:13 PM
My legs are shaved (I bike, so I have a "cover") and I carry a purse no matter what I'm wearing. I wear bras almost every day, but not with forms. Just because I like them
Fiona Lindum
10-25-2020, 04:16 AM
Knickers and tights.
Brianne_bc
10-25-2020, 09:44 AM
Lingerie every day.
panties every day, usually stayups or stockings and garterbelt or girdle and a bra.
CynthiaD
10-25-2020, 10:14 AM
Hmm, it’s a long list.
Regardless of male/female mode:
Panties, threw out my last pair of male underwear many years ago.
Pantyhose, no male socks.
Feminine top. I might have a couple of male dress shirts somewhere, but I haven’t seen them in a while.
Painted toenails.
Full body shave.
Reading romance novels.
Reading glamour magazines (small g!)
Shopping online for feminine apparel.
Sexy and plain nighties every night.
Wearing a bra, forms and a wig to bed.
Since the lockdown I spend at most five hours a week in male mode. Usually less.
I dress in female clothing every day, for most of the day,
So I’ll add:
Picking out a cute outfit to match my mood.
90% of the time, wearing a dress,
10% of the time, skirt and blouse or leggings with a cute top.
Even in male mode I often wear embroidered jeans and ballet flats.
And then there’s makeup ...
AnnieMac
11-03-2020, 06:12 PM
I sit more.
Jean 103
11-03-2020, 08:46 PM
Purse, I carry one all the time.
On my Vegas vacation I was carrying my Hobo bag, it's pretty big. I ended up carrying things for my friends.
cindylouho
11-04-2020, 10:11 AM
Terrific thread idea Violet, and really interesting reading about the different shades of daily routine girlyness here, a mini introduction of sorts. As for me my body and legs are always waxed (Though I could almost pluck the hairs out individually in most areas) toenails always painted, in lingerie or PJs almost 24/7, no makeup... yet, freshly showered shaven and dressed every day by 6:00am and ready to serve my wife her coffee.
Cheryl T
11-04-2020, 10:17 AM
Oh and I forgot to add that I am smooth from nose to toes and of course a touch of makeup.
Mascara has become a daily item as well as a little brow powder and tinted lip gloss.
Rhonda in dallas
11-05-2020, 10:07 AM
For me I alway carry a purse with the matching wallet. I keep my legs and arm pits shaved and painted toes. I know it a bad habit but I only carry Virginia slums 120 cigs. Also under dress every day. Wear bra and forms to bed ever night
Mezzanine
11-05-2020, 05:48 PM
Shaved legs and painted toe and fingernails.
Tina88
11-06-2020, 10:31 PM
Lingerie...don't go anywhere without wearing a little g-string and bra...always being fully waxed and smooth is something I can't do without anymore
BobbiKay
11-08-2020, 03:31 PM
Panties every day, leggings and tunic to bed. Toenails have color, fingernails are clearcoated, and I try to grow and shape them a bit. It's been several years since my last haircut so, when not in a ponytail, my hair almost reaches my nipples (wish it grew longer). I don't grow much leg hair anyway, and epilate that along with my arms and hands. Still trying to work up the fortitude to epilate my chest and belly, so in the meantime I trim those areas with a clipper. I'm trimming my "Brzeznev brows" (as somebody called them) with the clipper, and someday soon will work up the courage and the funds to get them shaped. I wear jeans daily, and probably have as many girl jeans as boys'. I own hose, but wear socks usually; often they are knee socks. I have more women's shoes than men's, but most of them don't get worn in front of my wife or on the job. But sometimes I'll change to a pair of heels on a long drive.
kendracd
11-08-2020, 03:46 PM
I have to have my bra on every day, its totally weird without it I feel naked, when I first started wearing one it felt strange but now I cant go without one.
BLUE ORCHID
11-08-2020, 08:15 PM
Hi Violet :hugs:, For me it is my lite control panty girdles. >Orchid **o:daydreaming:o**
Naomi18
11-08-2020, 09:11 PM
I like to paint my toenails. I remove body hair. I have worn graduated compression pantyhose for years - my wife?s suggestion when I worked in retail. I recently started wearing a corset daily when home, and a waist trainer when on the job. I enjoy leggings and female athletic wear also. I usually sleep in boyshort panties. While in my studio painting, I enjoy wearing a dress and thigh high stockings or something fun to inspire my work.
*ROXY*
11-11-2020, 10:59 AM
My list of things:
Only wear women's lingerie now
Women's jeans, deodorant, perfume
Long painted fingernails 24x7
Painted toes
Shaved legs arms and chest
Sometimes tights
Women's winter coats
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