So would you....?

[Deborah]

Be terribly upset if you woke up one morning and it fell off?
Realizing then that you would have to live the rest of your life as a female and being able to wear female clothes without any negative side effects?

On the other hand for the FtM's and GG's how would you feel if you woke up one morning with male equipment?

I would like to get the CD's and GG's perspective on this question so i ask the TS's not to reply please. Also try to keep it clean and non-vulgar.
Thanks

[Jenna1561]

Well, to play a little devil's advocate here.

At 45, with an established life, family, and career, if it simply fell off (or I suffered an injury that required its removal) there really wouldn't be a NEED to dress as a female, other than perhaps panties.

I'm fairly certain that at this point in my life, people would wonder if I simply decided to wear skirts and dresses because of its loss. They would expect me to continue dressing and behaving as a man, just without the proper equipment.

Now, don't get me wrong, I do day dream about slowly "changing" : developing fem hips and breasts and then having a need to wear bras and women's tops and how this would fit in at home and work, with a "Need" for "different" clothing.

So if it fell off, I developed breasts, somehow developed wide hips, soft skin, and thicker hair; Now Then - I'd be in heaven with no one to blame/credit but the good Lord..

Bring it on!!


Jenna

[Deborah]

I suppose i should have added that...that yes you would somehow transform into the other sex 100%. Sorry my fault and i'm glad you added the last part. :D

[Jenna1561]

Then most definitely yes, where can I sign up!


Jenna

[ReginaK]

I'd be pretty darn upset considering that's where I get most of my fun from.

[Kitty Sue]

When I'm feeling fem I would not be upset but when I am in guy mode I would be hating.

[stephanie100]

Where do I sign up the idea of losing the male bit mmmmm love to.

[ashlee chiffon]

it would be with great pleasure and a wonderful blessing to be able to live the rest of my life as a woman, the sex i most revere and feel an affinity for...
the best part is that i could then legitimately call myself a lesbian!!!:battingeyelashes:

[Wren]

I've thought about this before actually. I don't know if I'd like my parts permanantly switched I'd probably be devastaded because it would just be sudden, no thoughts involved, just bam! Hello new anatomy. It's kind of like Ranma 1/2 the manga/anime from Japan. If your familiar, if not it's about a boy who gets a curse on him so that when he comes in contact with hot water he transforms into a girl, and when he has cold water poured on him he reverts back to his male form. Every person can get used to anything given time. BUT I somehow don't concede, I would like the ranma option, the choice of switching back and forth at will but a permanant change....I can't even decide which shirt I want to wear in the morning, the long sleeved black one or the pink baby-t, so i end up wearing them one on top of the other. ha...a metaphor. I think.

HA now my post is in the right place...I'm such a luddite :(

[crusadergirl]

I don't think i would like it if i just changed in to a girl over night. Its just not something that would feel right to me. Its funnier pretending to be a girl to me then really being one. My whole life would change and i don't like change that much. I liked the idea of switching to male and female when u want that would be cool.

[Gail Stauffer]

not sure, would be interesting to wake up and be a woman I'd have to check out my new body if that happened!!

[lynda jane hamilton]

Provided my new parts left when it fell off would function so I could wee and get sexual pleasure then YES PLEASE!!!

Lyndax

[carson]

I can't remember the band, but this thread reminds me of a song from, oh, 10-15 yrs. ago called "Detachable Penis." Anyway, even though I like my femme side and dressing like a girl, I would be very upset if I lost the ol' "Twig and Berries." I'm a man and I like it that way!

[Marla S]

@carson: the song is by King Missile

I would be shocked first, but then, yes, I'd enjoy it and most likely would be happy.
But not knowing what it means to be a real woman, might be that I become a F2M.;)

[Bonnie Jean]

This is a hard one to answer , in one word YES:D

[Kimberly]

*engage sarcasm v3.0* Oh no.... terrible shame..... oh, well, here comes Kimberly full time!!

Hello girls ;)

[Miriannah]

Gee, let me think on this for a moment, what a tough question. Hmm...uh...thinking still...

DUH? I'd just wonder how long it would take for me to wake up from it all... :D

[ronda]

oh yes yes we can only dream of such wonderful things happening oh yes:D :D :D :happy: :happy:

[Teresa Amina]

If Willy and his Pals fell off would they be still laying there somewhere in the bed?:eek:
Love these fantasy threads- they touch the old childhood dreams that lurk about my subconscious.
Willy has been my constant companion for 50 years, we've had some really good times together;)
Think I'll keep him, thanks, but how about changing everthing else to look as I imagine Teresa ought to look? OOOOH! I Could dig that!:D

[Natalie x]

It's happened to me, several times. Then, halfway through the party, I woke up again, properly. Darn!!

[Angela Burke]

Would I be upset if I woke up one morning to discover my penis had fallen off?
Well yes I would be rather upset.
That's upset as in screaming the f*****g place down!
I think i'll just hold on to Stromboli (a nickname he was given a long time ago, do you have one, a nickname that is) as we've become rather attatched to one another over the years.

[Joy Carter]

They would only see the back side of my three inch heels.:cool:

[TGMarla]

Terribly upset? Well, yeah, who wouldn't? Whether you wished for such a thing or not, it would certainly rock your boat. But in playing along with the spirit of the thread, if Mr. Happy were to take the permanent vacation, I'd probably wind up liking it in the long run. I love and admire the female lifestyle. Women can and do enjoy doing many of the things I like doing as a man, like football and baseball games, golf, etc. So why is the little voice reminding me to watch out what I wish for, as I just might somehow get it?

[Cherry Lynn]

Marla put into words what I was thinking.

[Adele]

Often crosses my mind. It was something I dreamt of during puberty.

And I'd rather lose my genetalia than a hand/arm/leg/other extremity.

Would you need to sleep for a month or so? I have a business to run.

[Jennaie]

Why didn't you offer this to me when I was 12, not 50.

Jennaie :be:

[Shelly Preston]

I would be extremely upset

If the shock does not kill me.

I would most likely cope and adjust to the change eventually

I would be more worried about the effect on my family.

[Elsie GG]

As a GG with a heterosexual cross-dresser in the family - I would be stressed if suddenly she became a she permanently. If She decides she wants to make a permanent chNGE, I would want discussion and some time to adapt to the potential of a permanent change.

[Seven]

Girls May I please also ask one more thing,

How many of you then,would love to give berth to a Baby or maybe two ? with no gas & air ,the full 12 months bit, I must say that's making me think a bit, also the pain with the monthlys, then the PMTs. I just got to think about this one. or am I just better of, just cross dress ? GG have a hard life, it's not just stockings and lace, No I take my hat of them all.

XXXXXXXXX Seven

[HaleyPink2000]

Well, in a few a words.

Darn, look at that! Wife answers " Did you do that"! My smirky reply " Well, I won't have to adjust it getting in the Truck any more"! Not really answering her question, like normal. LOL:)

[kim in n.c.]

In a heart beat! But with one condition. If the part that fell off could still function. Can I keep it. :D
Ill let it out and take care of it, pleeeeease:sad:

[CaptLex]

On the other hand for the FtM's and GG's how would you feel if you woke up one morning with male equipment?

I suppose i should have added that...that yes you would somehow transform into the other sex 100%.

Good post, Deborah. If I woke up like that one day, I would first check to be sure I was really awake and not still dreaming. If it were really true, it would be like Christmas and the Fourth of July wrapped into one for me. O happy day! :D

[Bernice]

An interesting post. The premise presumes that we were not consulted beforehand, i.e. that it is a total surprise. That takes all of the guilt and preparation out of it. There would be no negotiation with family, doctors, etc, and this would happen presumably at no financial cost, as well as hopefully with no pain and recovery.

Another thing about this fantasy is that it is not reversable. We have no choice, the deed is done. The only question is are we happy about it?

Certainly, any time there is a sudden major life change, we are advised to make the best of it. Certainly there would be a period of adjustment. I could worry about the affect on my family, but with no option to reverse course, my family's feelings are essentially beyond my control. They would have to come to grips with the fact that there is nothing I can do about it.

Leave it to Bernice to take a casual question and analyze it to death...

So to answer the question more directly: yes, absolutely, estatic, overjoyed, seventh heaven. Any questions?

The whole idea makes me want to say some prayers, log off, and take a nap!

Hugs,

Bernice

[Adrienne Heels]

Oh, yes, that would be so wonderful to suddenly wake up 100% woman!!

If only it could really happen like that.....

[Kimberley]

This is a no brainer Deb.

Do I have to take dance lessons first because it would be a jig? Such are the wishes of a TG/TS.

Kimberley.

[Julie Avery]

If I may borrow two of Marla's inimitable expressions, if Mr. Happy were to take a permanent vacation and I still looked like a chimp in a burlap sack, I would not be a happy camper.

[Lindahexi]

If I woke up to find my male bits gone, but I had all the femme attributes, namely curvy body, good looks, nice high voice and all the other things I've wanted all my life, I'd be on cloud nine. Supposedly negative things about being female such as childbirth, monthly's etc do not put me off, I've always felt like a woman trapped in a mans body, so I'd feel complete at last.

[mistunderstood]

Well I would be a happy camper.

[Tina Dixon]

Well now that my wife found out about my dressing this week end, it could happen real soon:o

[ChristineRenee]

I wouldn't miss it quite honestly.;)

[Deborah]

Well now that my wife found out about my dressing this week end, it could happen real soon:o

If you're married then your wife owns it anyway. Didn't you read the clause at the bottom of the marriage license. ;)

[Bev06 GG]

MORTIFIED FOR BOTH OF US I LIKE THINGS JUST THE WAY THEY ARE THANKS.

BEVXXX

[Lauren Mitchell]

Let's see...I already do number one sitting down while dressed...and as long as I can enjoy the big "O" and can develop breasts, why not?

[trannie T]

I like having all my parts. But if I lost them at least I would have something to wear.

[Helen MC]

I have thought about this question over many years.

When I was a teenager and about a year or so after I had started to crossdress there was an incident in the UK where a boy of about the same age as I was then was burned by a firework that some thugs had lit and put down his trousers and as a result of the burns he had to have his penis and testicles removed. This event was the topic of some gruesome discussion the next day in school and most of the boys grimaced when they read about it even in the more restrained prose of 1966/67. "He'll have to be brought up as a girl" was the opinion of most of my fellow pupils. Now at that age I did not have knowledge of the complexities of transgender issues and had only just found out from reading the "Problems Page" in my mother's magazines that I was myself a Transvestite (the term "Crossdresser" not being common then).

I thought a lot about this and whilst I would not have wanted all the intense and prolonged pain and other physical traumas of such severe burns as this lad had suffered, I did think what it would be like to lose my penis and testicles and if so would I then live as a girl? Since then there have been many incidents of men losing their "family jewels" owing to illness or accident and I have contemplated the outcome of such an event.

Whilst having quite a lot of female emotional and psychological attributes I developed into a heterosexual male, albeit a fetishistic cross-dressing one, and in physical relationships my penis and testicles have of course been of benefit, as they still are in an autoerotic basis. However, in the purely biological sense they have not as I have not and never will father children I have never wanted to, anything but, and even in the basic utility of the penis enabling the male to stand to pee, I have since the age of 12 prefered to sit like a woman when urinating so that is of no real benefit to me either.

To try to answer the question, as I live my life these days the absence of male genitalia is something I feel I could adapt to without too much bother, far less so than your "normal" butch macho male. Certainly I would far rather lose my genitals than my eyesight, hands, legs , mobility, sanity, etc.

[heather_nouveau]

Deborah:


I think I would be "terribly relieved" would better express my feelings rather than "terribly upset!"

I would be okay with it.

Heather

[Sam-antha]

Well now, first I would be shocked and then I would want to experiment and then....tell you after Ihave thought..

But ;
Did it fall off when I was asleep or,

Did it fall onto the floor when I stood up ?

[Maureen Henley]

I have often had that fantasy. The reality is, so long as my wife is alive, I hope it never happens, because I think the transformation would upset her greatly. Not the fact that I could no longer make love to her, because our love life is nil (my fault, not hers), but because she still wants her husband around.

Were she to pass away, then bring it on. I would love it.

[Denise01]

It is amazing I have had that dream on several occasions. I would be very happpy if it did happen. My only major thought would by why did it not happen many years ago

Denise

[Abraxas]

I'd be rather happy about that, I think, but there is also the whole thing about what would my family think, how do I explain this to my friends... Now I definitely can't have a straight boyfriend... that kind of thing.
If it didn't effect anybody but me, I'd be pleased as punch!

[sparro]

I'd freak out. As nice as it is to dress/look like a boy, I think if I woke in the morning without boobies, and with something new in my underwear my first reaction would be to freak out. I have a strange sort of attachement to my anatomy, and as cool as it might be, I think having them taken away so abruptly would shock the hell out of me.
Now, if I woke up as a male every OTHER day (and could go back to being female the next day) I would be pleased as punch. I suppose I'm a little afriad of committment.:p

[size7satin]

If "it" fell off........ who would I do my moring arobics with?

[Penny]

I've thought about this before actually. I don't know if I'd like my parts permanantly switched I'd probably be devastaded because it would just be sudden, no thoughts involved, just bam! Hello new anatomy. It's kind of like Ranma 1/2 the manga/anime from Japan. If your familiar, if not it's about a boy who gets a curse on him so that when he comes in contact with hot water he transforms into a girl, and when he has cold water poured on him he reverts back to his male form. Every person can get used to anything given time. BUT I somehow don't concede, I would like the ranma option, the choice of switching back and forth at will but a permanant change....I can't even decide which shirt I want to wear in the morning, the long sleeved black one or the pink baby-t, so i end up wearing them one on top of the other. ha...a metaphor. I think.

HA now my post is in the right place...I'm such a luddite :(
This could lend a stronger meaning to the word emergency if your water
heater went on the fritz!

[susiej]

I've often dreamed about the accident scenario, in which the sexual reassignment surgery that I will never truly get in real life, was suddenly available to me due to some freak accident. The difficult (actually, impossible) decision would be made by fate, and the rest would be simply a matter of coping with "adversity". This is a similar line of fantasy/imagination to the original post.

My best guess is that I'd "go all the way", and end up as close to totally feminine as I could get. "Yes, thank you, doctor, tomorrow would be fine with me. Could I have another click of morphine?" :-). My wife and daughters would have some adjustment to do, but the great feature about this particular daydream is that the change is thrust upon us all, so it wouldn't be something of my choosing, which I would never do to them in real life.

Having lost that most distinctive part of my maleness, I can easily see myself getting therapy, taking hormones, and ultimately completely switching genders, under the philosophy of doing the best you can with the cards you are dealt.

Hugs,
Susie

[sharifemme]

If I woke up some morning to find I was a woman, the only thing I would regret is losing my wife. I know she would'nt be able to stay with me anymore.

Sharifemme



Be terribly upset if you woke up one morning and it fell off?
Realizing then that you would have to live the rest of your life as a female and being able to wear female clothes without any negative side effects?

On the other hand for the FtM's and GG's how would you feel if you woke up one morning with male equipment?

I would like to get the CD's and GG's perspective on this question so i ask the TS's not to reply please. Also try to keep it clean and non-vulgar.
Thanks

[ginafaye]

lets see mine falls off .......does it get stuck back on my gg?....opps guess we just have to make the best we could out of the situation

[ericalynne]

oh what a wonderful fantasy...to have a real v****a, but all the rest to go with it...yes yes yes yes. Dreams are so lovely, aren't they...kissies ,,,ericalynne

[Jacqui]

I would like to get the CD's and GG's perspective on this question so i ask the TS's not to reply please. Also try to keep it clean and non-vulgar.
Thanks

Great thread, Deborah! As to your wish above that only CD's and GG's reply, I am a little in awe as to the number of responses that fall into the "accept the change" category.

I did a little head count up to this point, and it could be a little off due to interpretation of some of the girls' cryptic replies, but I came up with the following:
33 would accept the change
10 would not like it
10 were either maybe or non-commital
That's about 62% who would welcome the change!

So the question that I have is (and pleease, let this label part slide!), I have gotten the opinion (perhaps erroneous) since I joined this forum that CD's were mainly content with the dressing/makeup aspect and presenting ourselves as women; not really wanting to change sex or give up our innate gender. Whereas TG/TS feel that there are varying amounts of gender dysphoria and that the desire to be or live as the other sex is stronger than just the desire to dress.

Am I wrong about this or are there alot of CD's who may not realize that they really might be a little more TG/TS?

As for my answer,
I would be the 34th to welcome waking up "transformed 100%" as a woman in a miracle minute. I used to think of myself mainly as a CD, however, I think I have come to the realization that I'm TG/TS. So, if that is the case, I'm sorry that I answered this question.

Forgive me?

Jacqui

[Teresa Amina]

Am I wrong about this or are there alot of CD's who may not realize that they really might be a little more TG/TS?

I realize it more all the time. Reading others posts is like looking into a mirror- you see things you didn't notice about yourself sometimes. The dividing line is pretty blurry between CD & TG. Maybe there is no real line. The definitions always seem to depend on what we see through that fuzzy lens of Self.

[dawn-marie]

I Would Be The Happiest Girl In The World. To Be Able To Be The
Person That Has Been Quitely Kooped Up For So Many Years Would
Be The Ultimate. I Know The Monthly Bloating And "period" Would
Be Part Of The Deal And Some Of The Other Not So Pleasent
Problems, Non-understanding , Dense And Unable To Think On More
Level At A Time , Male Rulled World Throws At Gg's.
But For Those Of Us Who Think And Try Our Best To Be Female,
Day In And Day Out, It Definently Would Be A Great Event.

[betty56]

Sign me up! Im ready! Night all! xxoo

[Ranee Daze]

Set up an amber alert ASAP. The greatest toy I've ever had too play with, gone forever?!?!?!?!?!?

Wake me up from this nightmare.

[maid phylis]

if i woke up in the morning and found i was missing my male plumbing i would be so happy ,and to find out that i was also 100%female i would cry tears of happiness.love phylisanne:c9: :doll: :danci:p ng:

[Bonnie D]

I've had this dream since I was a young boy. To wake up one morning and find that I've become a girl. I still have that dream even though I'm much older now and I'm married. My dream is basically the same but instead of showing my mother what happened and insisting she quickly take me shopping, I now show my wife. She is not at all pleased but can see how ecstatic I am about the change. I confess to her how much I've always wanted to be a woman. She lends me some of her clothes and we go shopping and we talk. After a few days and realizing that I'm not changing back we decide that we will be good friends and I move out.

The TG spectrum is quite long.

Bonnie

[Rachel Schaedel]

Where do I sign up and get in line? If I could get the "right "part that I wanted that would be fabulous;)