What CD evidence did you leave out by mistake?

[Judy-Somthing]

After dressing, have you ever forgotten to hide an item or two?

One day I went to high school and realized I left a bag on the kitchen table with a girdle, stockings and bra in it.
When I got home from school it was in the hall and nobody said anything about it.

Another time after dressing I went to a party and two girls asked me why I was wearing eyeliner. "oops"

I think the worst one was when my wife came down from the bedroom carrying my sz13 pumps I forgot to hide after dressing, she took it pretty bad!

[Karren H]

A bra and pair of heels in the bottom of my wardrobe.... My wife also took it badly... That was 15 years ago and she is still taking it badly.... sigh....

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Judy :hugs:, Does RED Stained lips count, >Orchid**O:daydreaming:O**

[candykowal]

I always use my office desk in the attic to stage my womens wear.
This time I put everything away and realized I was still wearing my bracelet and necklace.
It's a bit of work to un-store my boudoir (hidden HVAC duct work in my office false ceiling) so they are still in the craft area where we store beads for making jewelry.
I have got to move them tomorrow...thanks for the thread, and the reminder. :ohgoon:

[alwayshave]

Judy, after a weekend of dressing, one of my secretaries stated I hadn't removed all my eyeliner.

[Natalie5004]

Just today I told my wife about a You Tube fashion show I watched about the new bikini's. I told her that the material used for the entire suit would cover only the back side of a cereal box. She asked me if I ordered one.
I told her not to be crazy. They do not come in my size.

[Rosemary+]

When I was in my late teens I came late at night and I had a little too much to drink, I tried on one of my mothers bras laid in bed and I fell asleep.
I slept in and my mother woke me up in the morning, I was still wearing the bra and she asked me why I had it on. I babbled out some answer, she shook her head and walk out the door
Nothing was ever said about it again

[MonicaPVD]

A few strands of long hair on the car seat. Eye makeup not entirely removed. The best was one time I got home, splashed some water on my face and proceeded to transfer a not insignificant amount of foundation onto the Mrs favorite towel. Oops.

[JenniferR771]

Oh, GOSH!
There was last week when she found my 4 inch blue with yellow trim high heel pumps, hidden in my office closet. She was angry but just threw them into my garden shed--where the rest of Jennifer's stuff is in big storage tubs.
5 years ago there was my short red wig in my car trunk. I never saw it again.
There was also a old time wedding dress slightly damaged by mice in my garden shed--never saw that again.
There was the time at work when I had not fully cleaned off my mascara from the night before.

[Geena75]

There was the time a couple years ago I experimented with eye shadows and got busy with other stuff. Went to the store like that (with eyeglasses on, so less noticeable), when wife got home she asked "What did you get on your eyes?" Dashed to the bathroom and washed it off, claiming it was dirt or soot or something. Nothing more said.

[Stephanie47]

When my wife was working and I had a day off I would be fully en femme, head to toe; wig, bra, panty, slip, hosiery, garter girdle, dress and heels. We're in a DADT, but, it is the ostrich type; stick head in ground and she will not see it. Anyway, I do not push any of it in her face. Once I failed to put away a bra. Another time a panty. Each time she picked them up, folded them and put them on top of the dryer which is behind doors. She told me she picked them up and placed them there. No yelling. No snide remarks, etc. Another time I forgot to properly dispose of my water balloon falsies which she found in the kitchen sink. All she said was "What's this?" To which I said nothing, mumbled an err.. and disposed of them. She never ever goes into my armoire to put anything away. She does not pry or snoop. I think she does not want to find anything. No trolling through the house.

[DanielleDubois]

When Danielle was totally closeted and a secret from my wife I used to be paranoid about leaving any evidence like a missing fake nail, a sequin etc. I even used to vacuum high heel marks out of the carpet. Now that my wife knows about Danielle I still don't like to accidentally leave things out for her to find and remind her about Danielle but it's no a big deal anymore if she says you left a pair of panties hanging in the bathroom. I am very lucky she is supportive and understanding.

[manemami]

i remember due to accident i was not able to keep by baggage properly and my wife found wig, a big bra and boob inserts she shocked as she felt i am in hands of touts and i may go away from her. when i explained her the fact about my love towards femininity and seeking counselling from psychiatric, she came to along with me to psychiatric since then she is fully supportive. She shares all her clothes and allow me to store my inner garments in my cupboard. Since them i am daily using panties and occasionally using with bra. God given me such supportive wife. She is not angry with my inability to have sex due to my medication for female harmones.

[DianeT]

For what it's worth, the most common mistake that will give away a crossdresser is to -blip- the -blip- when -blip-ing -blip-s while trying to -blip- after a -blip-, at that point the wife can -blip- the -blip- very easily. Never, ever do that.

[Judy-Somthing]

About thirty years ago my mother in-law thought it would be nice to clean my messy car without asking.
Well she found two bras under the seat and ever since then she thought I was cheating on my wife.

[Beverley Sims]

I often go to work with my engagement ring on.

I get asked why I am wearing it.

Yep, there are a hundred and one reasons why I did not take it off. :-)

[Pumped]

For what it's worth, the most common mistake that will give away a crossdresser is to -blip- the -blip- when -blip-ing -blip-s while trying to -blip- after a -blip-, at that point the wife can -blip- the -blip- very easily. Never, ever do that.

Huh?:idontknow:

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About thirty years ago my mother in-law thought it would be nice to clean my messy car without asking.
Well she found two bras under the seat and ever since then she thought I was cheating on my wife.

Wow! I can't imagine anyone cleaning my car. I can't help but wonder if it was an excuse for her to do some snooping, and she found some "dirt"!

[Michaela Jane]

After my wife passed away, my dressing really began and one evening, I was enjoying some femme time when a car door closed outside. It was our eldest daughter. I never moved so fast to take off my wig, bra, forms & dress, dumped them on my bed and quickly put on some jeans & tee shirt. I got to the door just as she had climbed the steps. I welcomed her in and she made a beeline for her mothers jewellery box. Yep, on a dresser opposite the bed. As she left the room, having got what she came for, she said, "You left your falsies out". I said nothing and, thankfully, she has not said or asked anything since.

[jenabrooks]

When I was early teens I was caught playing with mom's makeup she never said anything. Later then I was in my late teens in the 70's I had long hair shoulder length. I was talking to mom in the bathrooms and she opened the closet took out her curlers and asked if I wanted my hair curled. It freaked me out and I walked out.

[docrobbysherry]

My ex found a bra I left in our bedroom. She was sure I had bought another woman there!:doh:

My dressing had nothing to do with our break up. I didn't get serious about that until well after she moved out and had our kids 1/2 the time!:heehee:

[ShelbyDawn]

In high school I used to 'borrow' my sister's panties and sleep in them. One morning I overslept and was in serious risk of missing the bus. My mom came in and tore the covers off my bed, fully exposing the pink panties with lace trim I was wearing. She never said a word but a week or so later, all of my tighty-whities disappeared and were replaced with men's bikini briefs. Um, yeah, I still stole, oh, I mean 'borrowed' my sisters panties...

[Maria_mtf]

When I was a teen I left a bra I borrowed from my mum under my pillow. When I got back from school she changed the bedsheets and it was on my bed! I put it back where I found it and made up some awful excuse about playing a trick on my brother, nothing said since, and I wasnt caught again.

[abby054]

Nope. Nothing...yet.

[Jamie Lynn]

Left some shapeware between the matresses at my bosses house when I was staying with him and his wife years ago. She decided to flip them one day and low and behold! I denied like crazy!!! Nothing else ever said after that.

Also, greeted my 20 something son one day without realizing I'd forgotten that I had some dangly earrings on. I got the...."DAD".......with a WTF look. Oops! Nothing else ever said.

[sometimes_miss]

The killer; I left a full slip out, after an evening of being dressed up. My wife at the time worked the evening shift, and came home very late, I was already in bed and the bedroom dark, so she didn't see it until the morning. I had gotten up first, in the dark I didn't see it either. I went out to cook breakfast, and she came out holding it, saying, 'What is this'?
My heart sunk; I only had seconds to decide which way to go; let her think I was having an affair, or tell the truth.
'Honesty is the best policy'. Well, not this time. She still wouldn't believe me when I told her the story about how I wound up being a crossdresser; she really believed that I was fooling around with some other woman. Until.... I went to my stash and produced a pair of size 15 high heels; then her eyes went wide.
Had I lied, I'd likely still be married. Plenty of marriages survive one incidence of infidelity.
But I went with the truth, the pink fog convincing me that all the good things about me would easily outweigh my crossdressing.
NOPE. It didn't. Despite a few years of going to a therapist, she eventually admitted that had she known, she never would have married me.
Moral of the story, don't ever wear underwear?
Oh well.

[DianeT]

Huh?:idontknow:

Right, it beats me too. I wrote a first uncensored version of this post but as soon as I finished it the main door slammed open and 4 men dressed in black rushed into the house and hurled me to a black car's trunk, then after a short drive where I tried to identify environmental noises in case I would later be interrogated by supermodel agents straight out from the average police TV series trying to retrace my itinerary, I was taken to a weathered building and a dim lit room where I had to sign an NDA to avoid leaking info to wives members of the forum. As they dropped me unceremoniously before my house and I started walking up my driveway, four female commandos popped from the nearby tree, snatched me and drove me to a safe house where I was interrogated about what the other four men in black wanted exactly. They had me sign a petition from the Wives for Transparency Fund to stop disclosing super secret classified GG detection hints to fellow crossdressers and make an oath to abide by these terms. Then dropped me in the center of the town with a little plaid so I would not get cold as the mornings are still a little chilly. I walked back to my house in desert streets, and this is when this flying saucer descended from the skies and landed before me with a great burst of light and no sound at all. I am sitting now in front of my laptop with this alternate post version displayed, my mechanical wristwatch is 2 hours behind, there's an episode of the "LGBTQI+ Files" playing on TV and a paper tag around the computer monitor reading "Sanitized for your protection". I like the new plaid, though, not sure where I got it but it sure is very comfy.

[Cheryl T]

Not what I did, but in our old situation my M-I-L lived with us.
My wife did laundry thinking she'd be there when the dryer stopped, but she was late. Her mom was nice enough to take everything out and fold it all, my wife's panties, my panties ... It was quite obvious as she wears a 9 and I a 6 and hers basic cotton while mine are a bit more feminine to say the least. My wife found everything on the table folded and almost freaked. Her mom never did mention it, but that could have been a moment for sure.

[char GG]

@ Diane T.

LOL, you must be living the dream :lol2:

[Stephanie47]

'Honesty is the best policy'. Well, not this time. She still wouldn't believe me when I told her the story about how I wound up being a cross dresser. Had I lied, I'd likely still be married. Plenty of marriages survive one incidence of infidelity.

I got the same retort when my wife and I had "The Talk." How it came about was rather interesting with hindsight. For years lingerie and hosiery for me had been in the bedroom scene with mutual benefits. After our son was born she asked me to not wear a negligee so often. Our son slept in his crib at the foot of the bed. So much for a one bedroom apartment. Years later we had moved across country and bought our house. By then we had a daughter. One day she opened the bottom draw of my armoire and yanked out a vivid red Vanity Fair bra. Hence, "The Talk." When my wife realized there was more to me wearing a negligee on occasion she wanted no part of it. It turned from bedroom kink to something more.

Yes, she said had she known she would not have married me. She also said she wished she had not told me all her sordid secrets of her past because it would have made it easier to walk away. She realized I had accepted her with all her secrets so it would have been two faced to walk out. She even told me it was alright with her if I found a support group to attend. Now, it is totally ostrich. Stick head in ground and not acknowledge anything. Mum. Not a word since 1983.

[Tanya silk stocking]

Came in after work and my parents had decided to go out for a meal so this was the the time to get the stash of clothes out of its hiding place and try on the new long black skirt and lovely lace garter belt and stockings to try on..So I.was totally dressed en femme with lovely 4" stiletto heals on and I fell asleep on the bed and was as iwoke realised it was morning time so quickly got undressed and went down stairs with my heart in mouth hoping I wasn't seen but unfortunately not the case and got the talk of my parents and if did I want to be a girl..Why didn't I say yes 😀

[Amy Lynn3]

Not sure I can remember all the times I have left articles around. I was caught wearing my Moms girdle before age five. When I was 17 I forgot and left a pair of my panties on my bed and left. When I came home my Mom and Dad were waiting on me. I thought the roof would come off the top of the house.

My son came by my home, without calling first and I was just getting out of the shower. The doorbell rang and I used a towel around me to answer it. The first thing my son said was... nice toes Dad, He was correct, because I thought they were a pretty color pink. Nothing else was ever said. Traces of makeup or lipstick have given me away several times. Before my daughter moved away she ask one time why I was wearing pantyhose. I thought I could make it to my bedroom without anyone seeing me. Was I ever wrong.

I had stored some cloths in the trunk of my car and my wife was looking for others things and found my stash. That is when I fessed up.

[SaraLin]

(years ago....)
I used to drive up north to visit my family about once a year, and would stay with my mom.
One year, I missed a nightgown when I was packing to leave.
The next time I came back, it was sitting there, washed and folded.

[Pumped]

Right, it beats me too. I wrote a first uncensored version of this post but as soon as I finished it the main door slammed open and 4 men dressed in black rushed into the house and hurled me to a black car's trunk,


Huh?

Well that cleared that right up!:roflmao:

[stefaniec]

Years ago I woke up one morning on the weekend after a long night of dressing up, and my girlfriend at the time wanted to do a skype video call since she was travelling for work. I thought I did a pretty good job removing my makeup before bed, but I guess the lipstick I used resisted the makeup remover more than I thought. When the video started she quickly commented "your lips are looking very luscious today." I figured she would have made an accusation of cheating before she guessed I was a crossdressers but luckily she didn't really say anything else about it. Of course a while later she found out about me a different way.

[Judy-Somthing]

I hate staining lipstick!
I always put foundation makeup on my lips before lipstick.
Seems to solve the staining problem.

[Janet Devon]

My wife and I went to visit her sister and family . I wear panties 100% of the time. Before we left my wife was washing the clothes and fell asleep on the couch while the clothes dried. He sister thought she would be helpful and folded the clothes for us. It was obvious that there were no male underwear but two sizes of female panties. Sh said she didn't sort them out, just folded them. Nothing more was said. I am sure my wife was not happy with me but said nothing.

[Diane426]

I left 2 bras hanging on the shower rod to dry. She saw them and just said very cute.

[candykowal]

I had 2 bracelets sitting on my desk, where I stage all my things...all in one place.
Helps me contain my feminine things when the pink fog kicks in.
Well my wife was going to call our insurance agent and needed the number in the file cabinet in the office.
I forgot my watch and figured I'd have my wife get my watch next to the file cabinet....
.... when I realized I didn't put my watch on because I was wearing the bracelets....that I left on the desk, in the office!
"I'll get the number, dear...I want to pick out a watch to wear anyway.".....phew! :whew!:

[sara66]

I have left makeup sitting on the vanity. My wife knows about my dressing. She has even said I could hang my clothes in full view in my closet. I still keep everything hidden.
Sara

[Star01]

To put it in perspective I am in a DADT. My wife was doing some wash and asked if I had anything I wanted thrown in with hers. I said yes and she came and took my laundry basket. A while later she says that an eyebrow pencil fell out of the basket which makes sense as they were stored on a shelf and one got separated from the bag and rolled off the shelf and landed in the basket.

I mumbled something like just throw it away and nothing else has been said for almost two years. I guess that means that she is keeping up her don?t ask end of the forced agreement. I behaved extra good for a few days until my knees stopped shaking.

[Bea_]

I'm pretty open with the wife and leaving things out isn't much of an issue. But, before I retired, I worked a rotating shift. I was headed to work one night while my wife was out for a Dr appointment or something. She got home just as I was headed to my truck to go to work. I'd been experimenting with mascara or eyeliner, I don't remember. I thought I'd cleaned it off enough but, obviously, I hadn't. She FREAKED. This was in the early days of my progression and she had not (and still hasn't) come to a point of accepting me in makeup.

It was a dramatic time and I hated that she was so upset, but if she hadn't stopped me from going to work like that, I would have gone in to the job with lots of evidence still on my face. I am thankful that SHE was the one to catch it.

[Christina89]

I was doing laundry one week and a pair of my panties got caught up in one of my work shirts that I hang dry and fell on the floor in front of my door. I didn't notice it when I took the clothes out of the washer to put in the dryer. When I went to get some water from the kitchen I found them on the ground. Thankfully my roommates didn't notice.

[Alice Torn]

Was renting a room from an older lady, and left bracelets in the bathroom! Another time, had red lipstick stain and a little eye liner on, and my sister should have noticed it. Another time, left a voice greeting with fem sounding voice, and brother called and heard it, and mentioned it in a critical way. I changed if asap. I think i told him i was tired and hoarse at the time.

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Sometimes Miss, Sadly, it only takes one thing for some women to tar and feather a man, even though everything else about him has been exemplary . Cruel world this is, for many a man, who is honest.

[MysecretSummerlife]

One of the first times I remember "borrowing" underwear I fell asleep with them on after some personal alone time. Hint hint. Needless to say mom comes home for lunch as I'm still wearing them. That went over about as well as you could expect.......

[Jillcder]

One Saturday morning my wife was cleaning the downstairs bathroom that?s were I would get my girl on well as she was wiping down the sink with a white rag she said to me what is this showing me the residue of my powder and blush I panicked for a second and said it must be from our rusty water my wife is a very smart lady makes me wonder how much she knows.

[Jemima Stephens]

I got a new wig through the post and hid it in my sports kit drawer which was already overstuffed, My Wife went to get something out of the drawer above and mine opened too and she saw the wig. She behaved very oddly for a couple of days which I didn't understand and then confronted me, she was afraid that things were 'escalating' so I had to promise to throw it away (which I did, along with the one she didn't know about)

[Lori Ann Westlake]

Not much to report really. Sorry to disappoint. I was always so paranoid, so excruciatingly protective of what I called "my security" that I cleaned up pretty well after me. Lots of times I nearly left something out, but picked it up in time.

Just a couple of exceptions. In my teenage years my mother found this really "girly" sweater in my bottom drawer (which she shouldn't have been digging into anyway) and asked me about it. I just told her a girl gave it to me as a keepsake--as though it were no different from a lock of hair. But I sometimes wondered whether my mother ever guessed I was into her own clothes. I was always most careful to put everything back "just so," and she never said anything to me. So I don't know to this day whether she never suspected, whether she "didn't want to know" (DADT), or whether she was "just being tactful."

However, there was a more recent occasion when I got out of an outfit I'd been wearing and tossed on some guy clothes to take the dog for a walk. I got halfway down the road in broad daylight before I realized I was still wearing these big dangling elaborate hoop earrings I'd forgotten to take off.

Never mind. Unlike yesterday, men can get away with anything today, in that line at least. So I just kept walking. Didn't see any neighbors. Nobody said anything.

I've got to acknowledge that leaving panties and such around can be deadly dangerous to a marriage where a wife might suspect an affair instead. I'm just lucky that my wife has always known better.

Come to that, I wonder how many men who were really having an affair have tried to get away with telling their wives "Those panties are mine, dear. I was always afraid to tell you, but I love wearing panties."

What's a wife to think? If they're a size 9 and the guy is average, it might fly. If they're a size 6 and the guy is a hulking 220-pound linebacker, "Pull the other leg, Charlie, it's got bells on. See you in court!"

[Cass42]

A pair of dangling earrings,I was 11 at the time and dad had a huge fit over it seeing them on my dresser

[Paula_56]

Left one of my falsies in the bed.

That night I discovered it while we were both in bed

I discretely moved it to my side and hid it. WHEW!!!

[jacques]

hello Judy,
In the street I overheard a young girl ask her mother "why is that man wearing makeup?"
luv J

[CynthiaD]

My mother found one of her full slips in my room once. I made up some lame story about it, and she seemed to accept it. In retrospect I think my parents probably knew about my borrowings all along but were too embarrassed to talk to me about it. When I was in high-school I resolved to give up the girl stuff and learn to be like all the other boys. But that?s a different story.

[melissalynn]

There was a time when I was a teen I left 2 pairs of my mother's pantyhose in the basement. I had been using them to stuff her bra which I did put away There was another time, much later in life, someone asked why my lips were so red. There were some remnants of the lipstick. The cherry ice explanation was given and maybe it was believed. Nothing further was said on the subject

[Jaymees22]

Panties, My wife found them, then I had to explain that I wasn't having an affair. She might have preferred that explanation.