Out of everything women wear, which piece of clothing makes you feel most feminine?

[RainbowDash]

There are lots of things that women wear which bring out my feminine side, but there are a couple of things which stand out to me that really make me feel feminine more than anything. What do you guys think makes you feel feminine more?
For me, its a bra. The reason why is because bras are made for women, and when you think bra, you automatically think "woman". I love the feeling of a bra as it gently wraps around you in a gentle hug. But the thing about a bra that makes me feel so feminine more than anything else is the fact that it looks and feels as if I have breasts. When I see a woman wearing a sexy bra staring back at me through the mirror, I really feel good about my feminine self. Oh, and the color of a bra that really turns on my feminine side is black. I consider black to be very sexy and seductive, and since my goal is to try and look sexy, black does that for me. Other colors such as white bring out my feminine side in a different way, because white is supposed to make a lady seem pure and innocent.
If there was something else I could choose besides a bra, I'd have to go with a panty. Wearing the pretty or sexy underwear they get to wear brings out my feminine side as well. Not to mention that having a matching panty to go with that new bra really makes you look good.

[SarahBJackson]

Good question. I stealth dress almost every day and I like wearing v-neck tops a lot. I underdress too and that makes me very femme.

[jacques]

hello RainbowDash,
It has to be a bra. I could possibly explain my wearing tights (pantyhose) and vest tops by saying that they keep we warm in winter; I can explain that women's panties are more comfortable than men's underpants; I could explain that a skirt will keep me cool in the summer. But a bra is so non-masculine that wearing one can mean only one thing!
stay healthy,
Luv J

[Angela Marie]

As much as I love leggings I have to agree that a bra is what brings out the female in me.

[Krisi]

A bra, but it has to contain boobs even if they are ones I bought.

[countrygirl]

Pantyhose, bra, panties and a slip and dress.

[GracieRose]

bra for me.

[NancySue]

In order?Panties, bra, sometimes hose.

[GiovannaBotta]

I love corsets, they really ?do it? for me. Don?t really know why, but I feel very feminine wearing them. Then, I would place miniskirts and minidresses in 2nd and 3rd.

[JohannaSophia]

Garter Belt and Hose. Add the Bra with push ups for cleavage.:battingeyelashes:

[BLACK STOCKINGS]

Open bottom girdle with 6 garters or a full open bottom body briefer with 6 garter straps to hold up my hose

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi RD :hugs:, The Bra with Forms just has to be #1, >Orchid**O:daydreaming:O**

[Denice]

My shirts that button on the left

[Kay J]

Always have and always will be rht nylon stockings and obg or garter belts!

[Geena75]

Silky panties and pantyhose are very nice. A dress really does it, provided it is the right dress.

[Janet Murray]

Bra (filled) and Pantyhose

[Joyce Swindell]

I agree that the under dressing is awesome and has a feminine cast to my thoughts. I feel that a dress and looking at myself in the mirror puts a nice smile on my face. Kind of like icing on the cake. I know it's chocolate under the frosting, which makes me happy, but it's the whole package that makes it complete for me.

[Crissy 107]

There are a lot of things but a garter belt and stockings are my favorite

[JaneAshland]

pantyhose!

[Nastasha]

I have to say garter belt and stockings as well, or suspenders and stockings if you're on the other side of the pond.

[Fortuneta]

Number one a bra...all colors but match with panties drives me crazy! Still looking for a yellow bra, love that color!

[kimdl93]

Meh, no single item of clothing makes me feel anything. When I get fully dressed and I hope to be satisfied with my appearance and presentable.

[Katherine L.]

I agree with everything you said about wearing bras. I absolutely love them!

[nvlady]

Actually not clothing, but for me the thing that women wear that a man never wears is lipstick.

[Lana Mae]

Ruffles and lace! Rayon! Under things are fine but feminine on the outside is good too! Embroidery on jean, pants or tops! V neck tops! Just a few of my favorite things! Hugs Lana Mae

[emma-louise]

I have to agree with the bra gives you a feminine shape

[Connie D50]

I agree with the Bra, however I have been wear panties daily for over 40 years and still love it when I pull up a sexy pair.

[SaraLin]

Bras - the band pinches, the straps slide off and I need to constantly adjust them, and to get the proper shape, I have to fill them with something besides myself.
I'm with the GG's on this one - bras are a (necessary?) nuisance.

Panties - I wear them all the time. they're just my undies... no big deal any more.

If *I* want to feel my feminine-est (if that even is a word), a dress or blouse/skirt combo does it for me.
After that, I'd say it's a tie between wig and makeup. Both are a bit of a hassle, but I feel much more feminine with them.

[JocelynJames]

I?m with Crissy on this one -garterbelt and stockings . I would say corset is a close second.

[Kendra Sue]

I first loved girdles but panties and a bra really do it for me.
I love it when I have brasts

[Bobbi46]

For me a nice long dress, for evening wear I recently bought an "off the shoulder" of which, you guessed! i then had to buy some strapless bras tog with it. But the two together and black tights they make me feel so good and at peace with the world.

[Nancy Richards]

For me a tight bra with forms. Such a great feeling of being hugged tight.

[Cheryl T]

I'm lost without my bra.
I can be wearing anything else, but my bra is a necessity. Of course with my forms since I don't have breasts of my own.

[Stephj]

Number one a bra...all colors but match with panties drives me crazy! Still looking for a yellow bra, love that color!
I love wearing a bra have since I was ten years old. I have one yellow bra wear it quite often yellow is my favorite color. I feel naked without a bra on

[Bea_]

I?m not a typical dude, but I am a dude. I?ve never worn anything that made me feel like I looked LIKE A WOMAN.. except once...

The first time I painted my toenails a bright red and took a couple of pics of my feet. It was like seeing woman?s feet and slightly uncomfortable for that reason.

I like being an irregular dude and I like the indulgence of feminine things with no inclination to be a woman.

[Karmen]

High heels for sure.

[Jenn A116]

Another vote for bra. Especially a filled bra.

[Stephanie47]

The first article of women's clothing that drew my attention is a full slip. After washing them my mother hung her slips to dry in the hallway to the bedrooms or from a clothes rack over the bathtub. I have an extensive collection of vintage slips in numerous colors which are not made any more which I think is really really sad. The image of Elizabeth Taylor in her slip in "Cat on a Hot Tin Roof" (1958) is memorable to say the least. Of course to fill out the bodice a matching bra is needed as well as a matching panty.

[Donna Lynn]

Garter belt and stockings with high heels, I do know the is not one thing, but they do really go together. This is hard one ? High Heels.

[Taylor186]

Corset, hosiery, heels.

[Nicole90]

Pantyhose, always pantyhose. I Love the stretchy silky nylon on my legs and feet!

[RainbowDash]

I have to agree with the bra gives you a feminine shape

The bra giving you that feminine shape is exactly why I love it! They are rounded and shaped like breasts in the front, obviously to accommodate the breasts. That bra makes my appearance of having breasts that much more realm thereby bringing out my feminine side more.
Thing I hate most is when I have to go out and have to take the bra off. I'm still in the closet and don't want everyone to see me dressed up. A panty is easy enough to hide, but a bra shaped the way it is sticks out, and people will notice that. Sometimes makes me wish I were a woman so I could wear a bra all the time, or at least out of the closet so I would not care about what people say or think of me.

[CallieH]

Such a difficult question to answer! Like many have observed, the bra certainly is very singular in its purpose. The same with corsets, they have one job to do and they do it well, and look so hot!

I will throw in a different option here though - fishnets. While they don't necessarily have the same feel as stockings/pantyhose, there is something so deliciously naughty about them that when I'm wearing a pair I'm almost immediately switched into feminine mode.

[valerie anne]

From my experience, once you develop a bit a breast weight & volume (I am a full 38 C cup), your bras are your main concern in developing your feminine image.

You worry about your uplift, wobble & support, your cleavage, your shape and how to hide/display your bra straps and band under summer tops.

I have had varied reactions. In the local supermarket, a lady came up to me and said "my dear, your bra straps are obvious, but so pretty". On the other hand I was ejected from a lingerie store for wearing "salacious" underwear.

[Mackem Sue]

It's a toss up between low denier stockings (with suspender belt - love wiggling my toes in stockings) or a slip against my skin.

Sue

[Ashlee]

panties and pantyhose on shaved legs (w/red nail polish seen through the pantyhose)

[sometimes_miss]

It would be the bra because I can of course subconsciously feel it with every breath, but the most important, constant thing is a long hair wig. To me, long beautiful hair is what spells 'pretty girl' to me. So whether I'm looking at it, or wearing it myself, it's the signature sign of femininity. I can always see it in my peripheral vision, feel it on my neck, see strands blowing in the air and as I move, and the wisps that I leave just slightly out of reach from my eyes. When I'm wearing a wig, I find myself almost constantly, slightly playing with the hair, or gently taking the tangles out of it, when I'm not involved in doing other things. To me, that's something very limited to what women do; I've never seen guys that take really good care of their long hair, or play with it subconsciously at all.
I've heard many women with long hair complain about how much trouble it is, how much upkeep it takes, how it gets into their mouth when eating, or into the food on the table if it's that long, gets caught in parts of chair backs, all sorts of complaints.
But I'd absolutely love to have long, beautiful hair again (I had let it grow past shoulder length when I was a teenager, and absolutely loved it; playing with my sister's hair accessories was one of the most enjoyable parts of borrowing her things).

[Davina2833]

Crissy,

Can I add a girdle (OBG) with the garter belt and stockings!

Davina

[Erin Lafleur]

I would have to say a pretty bra, of course with breast forms. There are a lot of close seconds though, panties, stay ups, garter belts, corsets, my wig and dangly earrings to name a few!

[Michelle1955]

Out of everything women wear, which piece of clothing makes you feel most feminine?
1) I am more than a crossdresser, started by 5 officially with a friends panties. Always felt female inside.
But nearly all my every day friends my age within walking distance of my house has girls. So playing house / dress up started before that.

2) being 24/7/365 in panties / slip shorts for years just underwear. But very important.

3) to smooth out the rough spots / days the bra / forms smooths the internal female issues more manageable.

Ie Bra/forms is the short answer.

[Cacique82]

Nightgowns, the silky kind. Lace panties used to be my #1 but being wrapped up in all that soft fabric often with a touch of lace is unbelievably intoxicating. Light pink is my fav color.

[DanielleCD]

All of the above? Seriously... panties and bras!

[Ina Girdle]

It is a bra, which I fill out myself. I have purchased quite a few online, but went for a fitting and found my brand & size. What a difference, it is comfortable and I wear it all day long. I love a nice firm full underwear, which I underdress in everyday, it works for me and my wife has come to accept it as normal for me.

[Jen.nd]

For me it will have to be nylon stockings which feel amazing and make almost anybody's legs look great. I just dont get why most of my generation has stopped wearing them because if I was a GG I would wear them a lot. Or so i believe lol.

[SueAnncd]

bra , panties, slip, and a nightie for me

[Michala]

Without a doubt, for me it's a bra.

[Judy-Somthing]

Dresses the most and of course pantyhose, heels, makeup, and wigs!

[cdinmd206]

Hands down it is wearing stockings with garter with hi cut satin panties

[CrossKimmy]

Absolutely panties. I basically change how I move once I slip into a pair.

[Robbiegirl]

Silky babydoll nightie with matching panties ! Its hard to feel at all manly in all the frills ! LOL

[Eve_cd]

High heels, it?s an instantaneous shift. Followed closely by a corset. Hosiery and bra/panties definitely have an effect, but underdressing for quite some time have dulled their impact.

[BethInTights]

While undergarments certainly make me feel feminine, nothing has the same effect on me as the swish of a nice dress or skirt. I love the look of a nice skirt or dress and how it moves when I walk it just screams feminine to me as it caresses my legs or swishes across the fabric of my panties.

[MarinaTwelve200]

The Bra.

[Teri Ray]

Another vote for a bra.

[Erin Lafleur]

While undergarments certainly make me feel feminine, nothing has the same effect on me as the swish of a nice dress or skirt. I love the look of a nice skirt or dress and how it moves when I walk it just screams feminine to me as it caresses my legs or swishes across the fabric of my panties.

Jeeze Louise, I'll second that!

[Gilly68]

I'll add yet another vote for a bra. The feeling of the straps tugging on your shoulders and the clasp on your back when you've got your forms in, nothing like it! I even love doing a few jumps to feel the bounce of my fake boobs in it.

And nice pair of control tights would come second, seeing my legs smooth and shapely is a real girly thrill as well!

[Linda E. Woodworth]

Pantyhose

[Bianca Fay]

In my opinion, pantyhose are the most exciting item in a woman's wardrobe

[abby054]

From Stana?s website,
Feel like a woman. Wear a dress. - Diane von Furstenberg
Feel like a woman. Wear a bra. - Stana

But for me, the hair makes the most difference. Look like a woman. Wear a truly great wig. - Abby

[Brenda Locke]

As a lot of others have said, .a Bra with forms or without. However a good wig is also in the running.

Hugs all Brenda

[SoBrooke]

Panties are nice but I love wearing a bra with my forms. I just feel so at peace with a bra on.

[Lori Ann Westlake]

My shirts that button on the left

Yes, that "different feeling" of anything female is always enjoyable. I've always felt that a "shirt" that buttons on the left should be called a "blouse," which adds to the feeling.

After pondering the main question, which made me want to wax poetic, I have to go with the vast majority here. The Bra takes the prize!

It's a hard decision, because so many items of women's clothing evoke that glorious feeling of femininity. In spite of this, each piece can only contribute to the whole in its own limited way. I feel delightfully feminine in a boldly colorful sundress, but it's part of an entire outfit, and I must be in women's underwear to make it complete. The intimate eroticism of silky, lacy panties goes without saying. Likewise the exquisite sensation of legs stroked through nylons, so that even pants feel tinglingly different when worn over pantyhose. A pretty blouse. The openness and loose swish of a skirt flowing around the knees. The delicacy of a slip underneath. A full-length slip is outstandingly feminine, from the thin straps over bare shoulders to the swell of the breasts, outlining the curves of the body all the way down in smooth silkiness. The tightness of a girdle, suggestive of "bondage," enhances the feeling of vulnerability underneath. High heeled shoes, besides their elegance, are also a discipline, forcing the legs and body into a more feminine stance. All these things, including the brush of long hair, have their charms, and a bra alone would be nothing without other clothes.

However, the bra, besides being a uniquely feminine garment, probably contributes more to the overall feeling of femininity than any other. Despite the sexiness of panties and nylons--favorites with so many for other reasons--you can easily forget you're wearing panties or nylons, or even a skirt. You can forget you're wearing heels if you're sitting down. But it's hard to forget you're wearing a bra. It's a constant reminder of feeling feminine. The squeeze of a bra around the bosom is lilke the hug of a girdle--but who wears a girdle all the time? So in that way the bra "stands in" for the absent girdle. The bra straps over bare shoulders have a similar feel to the straps of a full-length slip or sundress, but we don't wear those all the time either, and besides, bra straps are firmer, so that we usually stay aware of them. Sometimes they slip down, to remind us they're there. Most of all, the bra pushes the breasts forward, offering them in a tempting display, reminding us of our newly female shape.

While the bra can "stand in" for certain other clothes, other clothes would never be the same without the bra. A blouse, a dress, or a full-length slip would never have that shapely bulge without a bra underneath. And a sweater, say, just "feels different" when it's put on over a bra, with the contrast between the clothed breasts and the bare skin around.

The bra is essential to femininity, but it's indispensable to the crossdresser, because... well, without a bra (and something to fill it), what would we look like? The bra also seems like the "great companion" to everything else. Bra and blouse. Or pose, half undressed, in bra and panties. In bra and girdle. In bra and half-slip. In bra and skirt. In bra and shorts. A bra and anything else seem to "go together like a horse and carriage," in the words of an old song (no matter how outdated).

Putting on a bra is like "crossing the Rubicon" between masculinity and femininity. A man may wear a dress or skirt, or "underdress" in panties, and still profess masculinity. At times I can sit around at home casually dressed in nothing but a skirt and panties, with a little slip underneath, and in a way I just "feel comfortable" without really thinking "what gender am I presenting as right now?" It doesn't seem to matter. But sometimes the feeling steals over me: "I need a bra!" Once I've got that bra on, I'm definitely "Lori," and naturally a blouse follows, typically with a few other accessories to enhance the feeling of femininity. The lure of the bra, and the effect of the bra, certainly does that for me!

[ShoeziQ]

Heels!
I will often put them on first while I pick out the rest of the outfit.
I am a huge fan of the bra, but so much of my experience starts with the heels.

[Karren H]

I 32nd the bra. Especially a pretty push-up bra. It turns my not so feminine large breasts into something magnificent and makes any outfit look amazing!

[Yinlingyen]

I would have to say high heel sandals, particularly the ones with very thin straps (only one across the toes and one on the ankle).
Or transparent high heel sandals.

[BustyOlivia]

My heels complete it for me!

[Territx]

I agree with Lori. And, I want to acknowledge her vivid and thoughtful analysis and descriptions. :battingeyelashes:

[Georgina]

I can't say feels feminine but girdle, stockings and slip surely makes me feel great, with all the other clothes of course.

[valerie anne]

I previously voted for the bra, but now it's the bustier!

The combination of the deep multi-hook band, so deliciously difficult to fasten, the aggressive boning & underwires, the uplift and the sheer femininity of it, is so enchanting.

[Lacy PJs]

I wouldn't be Lacy PJs if the things that make me feel most feminine weren't... lacy PJs and nightgowns!

Lacy PJs

[BustyOlivia]

I previously voted for the bra, but now it's the bustier!

The combination of the deep multi-hook band, so deliciously difficult to fasten, the aggressive boning & underwires, the uplift and the sheer femininity of it, is so enchanting.

🤔 I was between a bra and heels but since I got my S Cups I can?t find a bra that fits for a decent price. But a bustier!!! That would be amazing, I?d spend some money to fit into one of those!

[IleaCD]

Breast forms, attached with medical adhesive and a nice bra to hold them in place... heaven!

[Melissa73]

Has to be a demin skirt...especially if its a mini.

[lingerieLiz]

Yes pretty bras

[Lacey New]

Without a doubt, a pretty pair of full cut nylon panties. Preferably a nice pastel color with some lace trim.

[Kris Burton]

Bikini panties, the silkier the better.

[CynthiaD]

It varies with my mood. Breastforms are a biggie. I love the feeling of weight on my chest, and I miss it when it?s not there. But lately it?s been a wig with dangle earrings. And usually a necklace.

And then there are corsets that give me a narrow waist and great looking hips ? but it?s too hot in Texas for corsets right now.

And bodycon dresses. Now that I?ve achieved a more normal weight for my frame they look great on me.

And sometimes it?s just standing around in a bra and panties ?

I could go on and on.

[LovelyLeesa]

Number one for me is pantyhose. Follows by bras and panties.

[Jade P]

All types of feminine hosiery - pantyhose, thigh hi stockings, opaque tights. I love the way my legs look and the silky feel.

[MargaretJ]

Stockings and heels. Everything else came from my fascination of them as a very young child.:)

[ShirleyN]

Skirts definately. Just feeling so comfy and feminine.

[Diane426]

For me it's the reflection in the mirror knowing I'm wearing the same thing that women wear everyday. Panties bras and hoses just make the complete fem package.

[Steph7]

Shoes, crazy about them, of course garter belt and stockings, or suspenders and stockings and a sexy dress. Black my favorite color.

[jessicacd43]

Panties!
Pink
Red
Pink
All color panties!

[MarinaTwelve200]

In MY case , a Bra. It would be interesting, psychologically, to compare ones favorite article of clothing to their reasons for CDing. The connection to "Sex" with panties panties is obvious (Still could be wrong) but Bras, Hose, heels, skirts may be an "attachment" to the aesthetics to aspects of the female form or function and may not be directly related, primarily to "sex". Perhaps encountering different experiences with women at critical ages, etc.------eg. Get turned on by the "beauty" of the feminine part or article at an age BEFORE interest in SEX develops as in Puberty., etc. It might tell us a LOT about why each of us do what we do and why.

[Jane G]

Any thing silky I love. Adding a specific female touch has to be a bra. Half the population of our planet take them for granted and I am happy to say so do I. My bras are simply clothes I have to wear to be me. There is nothing special about them, yet they are so special.

[CamillaH]

For me it's leggings and thigh high boots

[Denice]

OK, so it's not clothing, but lip gloss

[BustyOlivia]

Any thing silky I love. Adding a specific female touch has to be a bra. Half the population of our planet take them for granted and I am happy to say so do I. My bras are simply clothes I have to wear to be me. There is nothing special about them, yet they are so special.

For me too! A great bra complete the looks

[Sienna_cd]

For feeling feminine it has to be pantries, but closely followed by a bra. Looking down with a blouse and seeing my ?boobs? makes me feel femme. Oh, and of course they need to match.

[Missyathome]

Rhumba panties and a lacy cami.

[BustyOlivia]

For feeling feminine it has to be pantries, but closely followed by a bra. Looking down with a blouse and seeing my ?boobs? makes me feel femme. Oh, and of course they need to match.

Oh yesssss! Having real breast forms to look down at make the transformation complete!

[NikiMichelle]

High heels…at least 4 inch high heels!

[michelleD]

Garter belt, stockings and heels go together so well, the must wear #1combo. Single item would be a tight laced corset with boning for shaping and support.:battingeyelashes:

[Sandra_Dodds]

All types of feminine hosiery - pantyhose, thigh hi stockings, opaque tights. I love the way my legs look and the silky feel.

Same here, quickly followed by a nice pair of 4" high heels

[lingerieLiz]

Probably bras Ive worn them for many years and tried them on all over. I have around 300.. When I do work in a new city I shop for lingerie. I wear panties every day and wear bras most days. I love my projections under my blouse or sweater.

[Charlotte Haynes]

Glossy nude pantyhose.
Perfume is not a clothing item, but that makes me feel at most femininist😀

[Asew]

I have to go with a twirlable skirt or dress. I love the flow of it and for me it is the biggest draw to crossdressing.
Texture wise anything silky gives me those favored feminine vibes, so combine the two with a silky ball gown and that is one of my favorite feminine items.

[mollymulligan]

For me it's a bra. Men have nothing similar to it and I don't feel complete dressing without wearing one. It feels like a hug all the time!

[Mackem Sue]

As said elsewhere, it's a toss-up for me between suspender belt / garter belt and stockings, and a slip.

Sue

[mollymulligan]

That's true, although I have never worn a garter and stockings, but should try it sometime!

[Mackem Sue]

The garter / suspender belt needs to be of decent quality with metal clips. A cheapo with plastic clips tends not to hold the stockings.

That's a lesson I picked up on, but I gather my mother didn't, hence her self-confessed conversion to tights / pantyhose when she "had" to wear a skirt.

Sue.

[Al1986]

Another vote on the bra
And skirts

Bra because that?s the one thing in my opinion defines Femininity. Knowing you have one on and it just hugs your body all day long?such a thrill!

Skirts are cute and since I have long legs I can rock the long skirts and even short skirts. Slips are fantastic aswell.

[GraceH]

A bra with forms makes me feel wonderful, but the feel of a dress swishing against my legs in a light breeze is hard to beat, as well. Although it isn't clothing per se, lipstick is probably the most instant thing that makes me feel feminine.

[Erica_B]

Pantyhose, thigh highs and heels. I recently started painting my toenails, although not clothing that?s making me feel quite feminine.

[Tanya J]

Definitely another vote for the bra. It is the one thing if fitted and worn correctly that does the most to enhance, and make me feel wonderfully feminine.

[TerriLynnCD]

Chalk me up in the Bra category. Panties just don't cut it. It's still underwear, we all wear it. But as has already been mentioned many times, there is no male equivalent to the bra. After that, hose. Stockings/pantyhose/tights/etc. Then a skirt or dress. Again, pretty much stuff without male equivalencies.

Guys clothes are so boring. Sooooooo many options on the other side!

[Robyn16]

For me it?s a short black skirt , black pantyhose and high heals , that gets me there really quick :battingeyelashes:

[Ruby62]

I am also in the bra category followed closely by the feel of a dress or skirt

[StaceyJane]

I love to wear pantyhose

[Adriana]

Sheer Pantyhose and 4" Heels with a mini skirt :)

[Ilsa]

A lovely lace nightgown set from Shadowline.

[josie_S]

A bra was the first women's clothing item I ever tried on, and it still does it for me all these years later. But I also love bodysuits, especially the ones that snap at the crotch. I think it's the 90s girl in me.
I know this isn't an item of clothing but if I have my nails done, especially acrylics, that also does it for me!

[Joni T]

My high-heel, over the knee boots.
Joni

[Linda K.]

Strangely enough, I feel most feminine when wearing my outfit for the office. I love the feel of the skirt pressing against my legs. :heehee:

[Amanda07]

Mark me down for wearing bras. I have always loved wearing them. I wear one around the house and yard everyday. A close second is skirt and dress with my open toe heels.

[Daryl]

Probably my bra. It's the last item I take off before I put my nightgown for bed.
In the morning it's the first item I put on after my shower.

[Marissa Q]

Unambiguously, any high-heeled shoes. They create an insta-fem moment for me.
And while some might not consider them "clothing", per se, big bold earrings are a close runner-up.

[NancySue]

Since nylon stockings were my first experience, I?ve worn and continue to wear hose, especially HSR thigh highs. Of late, though, I seem to favor a bra. Mine are all underwires and fit perfectly. Slipping on panties, a bra and hose is a wonderful way to start each day. And yes, a flit of perfume is an enhancement.

[AmyVanessa]

Heels, bra, makeup

[Snide_lobster]

For me I think it has a lot to do with clothing and accessories around the legs. A nice skirt, stocking, heel pair is fantastic feeling.

[WillowHanna]

Since all I own is panties right now, I'll have to say those.

Much more comfortable then I thought they would be.

[alwayshave]

Panties, girdles and hose.

[Rachael Fernandez]

Definitely a bra, although nylon panties and a skirt help me feel very feminine too

[MonicaPVD]

Low-cut blouse, c-cup breast plate, pencil skirt and stiletto heels. Not many opportunities to wear this out and about but definitely makes me feel like a boss woman. Most of the time, though, I'm wearing skinny jeans and leggings with a modest top and more reasonable heels.

[freeindress]

Any sports swimsuit, one or two piece, or a black wetsuit with long arms and bikini bottom cut; or a beach dress.

[cosmolovesph]

While i love Pantyhose, nylons, stockings, etc... I think for me it has evolved to a Bra being the most, probably due to wearing them less frequently vs PH.

[Jade P]

A tie between Panties with lace trim. Hosiery - thigh hi stockings, pantyhose and tights.

[Monique65]

I love to wear a short, pleated skater skirt that falls mid thigh paired with stockings or pantyhose.

[Kelli_cd]

My introduction was wearing slippery nylon panties that belonged to my sister. Over time, I realized that panties are just more comfortable. But my world changed when I went for a bra fitting!
So, what makes me feel most feminine? Matching bras and panties!
Painted toe nails is next, followed by hosiery/garter belt.

[Davina2833]

Kelli,

You are so correct, there is nothing like a bra fitting(s)?

Sounds like you & I started the same way. Interesting how some lives mirror each other.
As you know (I think SOMA has excellent bra fittings).

Davina

[CDJamie2000]

I have this lovely323751[/ATTACH]FF"] blue blouse and below the knee white skirt that i love wearing and with my silver wig look so feminine.

[AnelineM]

First thing I tried on my crossdressing path was my Mom's lipstick, then my sister's panties. I love underdressing with panties and nude lipstick

[Bruce64]

Brassiere absolutely the most Feminine piece for me.

[Veronica1941]

First, where is the "I agree button?" The first time I dressed, I was 15, and going to a Halloween party at my school. My mother dressed me in her clothes, starting with panties. Wight away, I felt different, and happy. After the Bra, she dressed me as if she was going out to party. When she was finished, I not only felt happy, I felt pretty. It was the most wonderful night of my life, and still is. But now, wearing a Bra, Panties, and Lipstick is what makes me feel pretty. (Plus Sexy) :)

[jessicacd43]

Panties!!!

[BrendaPDX]

Bra for me too.:battingeyelashes:

[erica2054]

Definitely a bra. So fem

[Maria in heels]

For me, it's all about the heels of course! Yes my daily underwear are panties and even my wife says that they fit me better than "tightee whiteee" but its become a regular and those are the only panties that I have at all. But my heels....those are my favorite part and I am always on the lookout for new pairs....

[Raiku1313]

for me, its a really nice skirt and blouse. the heels are also a plus but i prefer a nice pair of boots.

[AngelaYVR]

I have something women used to wear, a black vintage 60s corselette. It is very Gil Elvgren and once it is done up it is quite snug. With a pair of Gio nylon stockings and retro heels I feel powerfully feminine, like Sophia Loren in The Millionairess.

[Vintage4sarah]

For Sarah, there are many items I assemble and wear to perfect my female image. At any one time, each can trigger that wonderful feeling of feminization. But since my youth, the one consistent item item will always be a pair of nylons encasing my legs and the joy of simply crossing my legs or walking about while wearing them.

[CD Erika]

For me a pair of stockings heels and a cute dress make me feel the most feminine I can!

[Jessica Secret]

Definitely my beautiful/romantic/bridal lingerie/sleepwear, there is absolutely *nothing* like it. I love my lingerie wardrobe!

[Raychel]

I would have to say pantyhose I guess

[Lily88]

For me it?s low heels or cute flats. I?ve got a load of high heels which I LOVE but how often do you see women wearing them?there?s something amazingly feminine about the kind of shoes that scream ?girl? rather than ?crossdresser?

[MsEva]

Actually not clothing, but for me the thing that women wear that a man never wears is lipstick.

I am with you on that. Beauty of getting a bit older is my facial hair is totally white. So I don't have to wear a foundation at all. Just a quick close shave and lipstick and I am in the fem zone.

[Debbie Denier]

It would have to be tights/pantyhose, panties ,and lovely black dress with a split to show plenty of leg. I nearly forgot court shoes.Nearly everything really. So many girls do not dress as feminine as they can . Don?t realise how lucky they are.

[mariajose]

for me it would be heels and (more of an accessory I guess) longer nails. both help changing the mind set and body language

[Kitty Sue]

Garter belt and stockings.

[Felicia M]

Oh my...this is such a difficult question.

Bra - the 'bounce' feels absolutely divine.
Corset - the shaping and restriction are spellbinding.
Thong/Panty - pulling them on can give me goosebumps.
Stockings - my first love.
High Heels - are bewitching, sexy and dangerous.

I honestly am unsure which one does it for me but I adore them all.

[Celee]

Definitely wearing a bra is the most feminine. As soon as I put my arms through the the straps I know it?s Celee time. Also, nothing beats sexy, lacy lingerie to feel feminine.

[RainbowDash]

I've already given my vote to the bra. While there are many things that make me feel very feminine, I shall answer this while wearing something that is really making me feel good. My second vote goes to swimsuit.
Men's swimsuits are basically just a pair of shorts, whereas women's swimsuits come in so many different styles. I have 1 that is very cute, and 2 others which really bring out my sexy feminine side. IMO, they really help bring out a woman's sexy side. This is the new swimsuit I just got from Victoria's Secret. And I feel absolutely terrific in it!324555

[KymG]

The item that makes me feel most femmine is a wig.
Obv women dont generally wear wigs so i will go with the heels.
Or possibly a bra.
I dont know. When i step in to the heels its like ive thrown a switch, i cant explain it.

[Joni T]

My over the knee, 3" heeled boots.
Joni

[Charlotte Sparkle]

Difficult question that one, I have narrowed it down to just three items of clothing:


Ball Gown Wedding Dress with a sweetheart neckline
Figure hugging Floral Bodycon Dress
Red Pencil Skirt


If I had to pick just one though, it would have to be the Ball Gown wedding dress.

[Patience]

The Bra.

It's the one item that has no male equivalent.

[Zoey0897]

I'd have to say a corset. It's hard to feel as feminine as quickly. Petticoats, strapless gowns, and lipstick are also high on my list.

[Wendy-Lyn]

A nice bra/bralette.

And a full slip (my preferred nightwear, except I don't currently have one
so panties and a cami make a good substitute.).

[alexmarie]

Bra and panties

[StacyG]

I just bought breast forms, so now I'm buying bras and dresses and blouses. Yeah bras do it for me now.

[Robin-in-TX]

After a year of HRT, I'm a full 40B, so, I would have to say my bra. I remember pre-HRT having to put something in it for shape and it felt feminine of course, but now having breasts and filling it the way it is designed to be filled is just a completely different feeling.

[Nylon Wendy]

Tights - 10 denier, gloss, natural tights. Bliss xxx

[Kathi-Anne]

Pantyhose, pantyhose from my waist down to my toes😊

[Beverley Sims]

A bra, always a bra.

[Elaine Lynn]

i would have to say a Bra with forms but once i put the bra on cant resist the pantys pantyhose and a light girdle.

[Ricky Rayne]

Almost all of it.. but I think I enjoy a lace thong and heels the most..

[it's Kirsty!]

A short dress and heels. Fishnets too

[Jenni6521]

For me it has always been panties. That's where I got started. It is also the place that if I purge and once I return will easily land. Even in a purge I will always save at least one pair of panties. I love all types of panties. It is also the one thing that I can wear under my slacks and not feel like I am being noticed.

[crissy7]

When I put on a bra it feels magical.It feels like I should always have a bra on.Love my bras.

[jessicabf]

A cute dress that fits! Now that I have hip and butt pads, and nice quality forms... trying on all my dresses, and see them fit a fem figure.... feel soo cute!

I have to mention, beyond article of clothing:
Getting decent eye make up...
Smell... my wife bought me a kit from Bath & Body Works... a yummy raspberry sent... I use the lotions on my my hands are arms getting ready for bed. She loves it, and wants to cuddle.

[Girly bride]

Bridal lingerie and a wedding dress with veil

[Jenni6521]

I would also agree with many that have posted with a bra. It is the one item of clothing I can't just easily get away with wearing w/o someone else noticing. I wear panties daily. I have tights, leggings and pantyhose that I can wear under my slacks or jeans, and in the winter when riding my motorcycle I am always wearing one of those items. I just always feel most feminine when I am wearing a bra. I am overweight so I can fill out a B cup fully.

[Jamie MacFaile]

My black bra for sure, but love wearing skirts, pantyhose and heels.

[Steffigirl]

Heels 1 , bra 2

[cd300]

I would have to say bra with my forms.
To me that give the ultimate feminine
Feeling. Though now that I have some heels
Its a close second. ☺��

[Heather76]

Definitely my D cup bras filled with water balloon falsies. I adore big boobs and love dressing to imitate them. Next would be thigh highs and garter belts. Every girl should wear them.

[Crissy 107]

Bridal lingerie and a wedding dress with veil
This is something I would love to do. There is a bridal store right next to the salon I get my hair cut at and I love window shopping!

[Ginni]

Hoisery, pantyhose or thighhighs, high heels, then a bra.

[missjoann49]

I would have to say any of the under garments, that's where it all starts. Bra, panties and a nice pair of stockings
And then next in line is perfume

[Fiona_44]

First would be a bra & breastforms. After that would be babydoll nighties - they make me feel so femme.

[1Ladyjade]

I have to say for me it's my mini skirt now. I love to put it on without stockings so I can feel the hem swishing on my thighs. A bra for me is just to complete the look. But I get pink fog over that skirt.

[Jolene G]

For me it is a bra and pantyhose. I love the feel of hose on my freshly shaved legs

[Shiny]

Has to be vintage opera length garter hose with a good 6 strap garter belt. Then in the old days I would have said any good nylon dress or rayon dress or taffeta dresses or taffeta slips with all the special vintage fabrics that lined those tailored dresses. A shame all that is long gone now.

[SylphDevine]

I have a micro mini black skater skirt which I love to wear with my white microfiber lace panties underneath. Black thigh highs often complete the lower half. I get so distracted when I wear that skirt I forget everything else.

[Fiona Manchmal]

For day, it has to be hold-up stockings and high-heels. The stockings' lacy grip is a constant reminder of what I'm wearing. One day, if I ever get out, I expect the click of the heels matching my steps will only add to the enjoyment.

For night, my favourite is a teddy (aka cami-knickers), in particular one of the M&S Rosie collection silk teddies of recent years - I've five in various colours (is that too many?), and a vampy, black one from Pour Moi. They make wonderfully comfortable pyjamas and are lovely to wake, snooze and lounge in. In fact, here in England it's already well past my bedtime, so, what colour I wonder....?

Goodnight.

Fi.

[EricaNG]

Shoes and stockings

[Catinka]

Full body girdle with garters and silk stockings

[DeeDee67]

Pantyhose

[jacky83]

A dress or a skirt may be some of the top picks. On the other hand it is frequently a give away that its a CD.

[JulieC]

Pantyhose and heels. Pantyhose was my first experience, and is still very near and dear to my feminine heart. I can't give them up, and wouldn't give them up. I don't like having to hide my legs (at times) while in pantyhose. I really enjoy looking down and seeing roughly half of me be absolutely feminine. Heels complete the look, and I adore wearing heels.

[Femi9]

It's the high heels for me

[delta47]

The shoes.

[Leahjh]

Bra for sure!

[--Missy--]

That's a great question! I love reading all of the replies. For me my first thought was a bra, then I wasn't so sure. If I had to choose a single item though, it would definitely have to be a bra.

[krissy]

For me its bras but i love stockings the seamed ones wow

[Georgina]

Has to be a slip especially vintage. I wear one every day under my skirts or dresses and I always feel great.

[66caprice]

My hot pink bra .

[Melony1968]

Matching bra and panties make me feel so feminine.

[RainbowDash]

Wow! This forum has certainly gotten far more many responses than I ever thought it would!
Anyway, everyone has their own opinion on what article of women's clothing makes them feel the most feminine. But judging by the answers I've read, I would have to declare a bra the clear winner! For those who don't already know, I voted for the bra. My favorite bra to wear is the Dream Angels Lightly Lined Demi Bra from Victoria's Secret. They feel the most good to me, and I don't feel like it is digging into my chest the way a push-up bra does. I do like push-up bras, but Dream Angels seem to be my most favorite.
So how many others out there give their vote to the bra? If not a bra, what item do you like best?

[Stephj]

I like the body by Victoria Demi bra have several. But there?s a dream angel Demi blue lace bra I have been looking at for a while now have to pay off the $60.00 I owe on my VS card first

[Kerry Michaels]

The wig, though you could argue that?s not women?s wear in this context. After that, wearing my plunge wrap dress with breast forms making convincing cleavage creates an awesome feeling.

[Vicki hale]

Everything is a mental fill good to me. I like myself when I dress out. I went out to o. Haven't tried makeup for a long time. Can't afford it now. I tell you what I wouldn't disturb a woman when getting the look they want cause it can be a chore. Ha!!!!! I'm an indoor lady again but under dress to. So when I dress it's everything feminism.

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You can get crochless pantyhose on sudden fem or search crochless pantyhose.bi wore pantyhose in remote Alaska and I didn't have the filled up pants.

[Janette]

For me it's a nice pair of thigh high stockings then some high heeled pumps.

[Meredith R.]

It's hard to pick what makes me feel the most feminine but I would have to say a bra with my breast forms in them bouncing when I walk, followed closely with a pair of peep toe, platform pumps, followed closely by a pair of tights/leggings/pantyhose, followed closely by my oh so short skirt that I love to hike up and feel the cool wind up against my legs wearing a pair of tights/pantyhose. My favorite thing in the world to do is to sit down outside and cross my legs wearing that short skirt with my legs in those tights/pantyhose. It feels so amazing and sexy and sort of naughty at the same time knowing for a split second I could have been showing the goods!

[christym]

hose first and foremost! other than that I don?t really know what else I could do without and still feel like I?m being my real self.

[renee elizabeth]

i would say lingerie, bras, panties, stockings with garters, bustiers, as far as dresses there is nothing that made me feel more feminine than wearing a white wedding gown with a bridal veil,

[Marsha Louise]

For me it's the snugness, support and shape enhancement I get from a padded bra. I'm very slim up top and wearing a lightly padded bra really improves the look and feel of most of my tops and sweaters. It improves my posture and boosts my confidence, too!

[Sporco]

I agree with every bit of that statement. I love wearing panties and hose, skirts and dresses but the bra is the best. It's always there with that special hug that reminds you what you have on, especially with breast forms adding some weight and jiggle.

[AmeeJo]

Hmmm...I love thigh highs with a garter but I think I'll say the one thing is definitely a bra.

[Sebi]

Garter with a mini skirt for sure.

[Catinka]

A firm open bottom girdle with garters and nylon stockings do it for me

[kirsten82]

Nylon (Panty) Briefs, with lace even better.

[ValerieL]

For me it would have to be pantyhose, just the way they feel and the way they make my legs look. They make me feel very feminine!

[CDLagras]

High heels for sure, wearing them forces you to be more feminine.

[krissy]

Bras slips panties Srockings with seams and oh yeah perfume

[Rachelle77]

A silky thong and high heels for me.

[steffigirl37]

A slinky slip dress, pantyhose and strappy heels.

[MonicaPVD]

I have to agree with this. Also: anything that is restrictive: shapewear, underwire bra, corset, breastplate, etc. Feeling restricted under all that gear makes me feel hyper aware of my body and I love that.


A slinky slip dress, pantyhose and strappy heels.

[Wendy-Lyn]

Krissi, I'd have to agree with perfume/scent.
I've only recently started using it, and it makes such a difference.
I got a few roll-on deodorants as well, with different but feminine scents.

[BLACK STOCKINGS]

For me it is wearing a tight fitting bandage dress - I love bandage dresses they just hug you all over. Of course a great pair of matching shoes and hosiery.

[Maria 60]

I don't know for me staring down at my pantyhosed feet makes me feel so feminine. When I was younger women wore pantyhose with skirts and jeans and I loved seeing women in there high heels with the pantyhose showing. So for me I would say pantyhose.

[imnskirts]

When I put my bra on, I feel so feminine

[PHLover77]

Pantyhose is my gateway drug. I don?t Crossdress without them; the feeling of them on my legs is electrifying!

[samanthakevin]

Bra for me

[nickflores98]

Panties and a bra. But the most feminine would be me fully dressed up, fully shaved and makeup

[Sienna_cd]

Lingerie: Panties, bra, stockings

[EllenJo]

Bra and panties. As i watch myself putting on my bra I feel the most feminine.

[Sallee]

bra and panties seems to be the winner here. But for me it is makeup I love putting on makeup. A good beard cover foundation to start and then get to work on feminizing my features with blush and eye shadow, mascara Lip stick of course and all the rest. My biggest problem is getting over done which is Okay for the club but not so much the mall. Of course I love my attachable breast forms not to bi but with the right amount of jiggle and a bra to make sure they stay in place. I don't do heels very often again it has to be the right venue. I do love it all

[DeeDee67]

I love the smell of make-up, the other thing I recently discovered for me my hair is now long enough for a ponytail. I absolutely love putting my hair in a ponytail and shaking my head as it sweeps across my back OMG! That just kicks it in going full dressed even if I let my hair down once dressed.

[Jane P]

Speaking of scent,smell,aroma; when I am surrounded by a feminine scent, whether it's on me or upon a passerby I am taken to another place. You cannot easily remove scents and that can lead to interesting conversation and interaction with those that you meet..

[AllieBellema]

I'm with everybody on the bra and panties. Whenever I dress up, I have to have them on just to feel my feminine best!

[1Ladyjade]

When I first answered this question I said my heels make me feel the most feminine. I have had the fortune to be able to dress almost every day for a couple weeks now. While I still love my heels. And my boss just gave me six new pairs. I think I feel most feminine when I put on my lipstick. That's when I feel that little click.

[JenniferZ]

A bra for sure. I love wearing one that fits well and they feel good and feminine. Also a big fan of panyhose and recently fallen in love with dresses.

[DanielleCD]

I've said bra and panties before but, it's more than that. Monica mentioned anything restrictive and I get that... I love a corset.... but it's also the different feel. Panties feel different then my man briefs in many ways. Either softer, silkier or just the way they sit on my hips. A bra... well, the only thing I have manly close to that is a heart rate monitor, but a bra is hard to beat. Stockings rock... the silky feel with the compression. A corset pulled tight, a dress that fits just right. Heels with an ankle strap. It all adds up.