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Candy_in_Cincy
08-16-2021, 08:00 PM
I've always known that my wife is amazing, but today she surprised me with the best day I've ever had.

She's known I liked to cross dress since we were dating. Over the years I've dressed up for her several times and we've had fun in the bedroom. She's been supportive but I've always been pretty embarrassed about my crossdressing and have been careful not to push to do it too often for fear of her thinking I was overdoing it and turn her off to it.

I've told her several times that one of my fantasies was to be dressed up in girl mode and for the two of us to go out together. When I got out of the shower this morning she told me to she wanted to spoil me and make that fantasy come true! While I was putting my makeup up she came in with a dress that she had picked out for me and then helped me do my hair.

Then, she held my hand and asked if I was ready to go and have a girl's day out. I was so nervous but I managed to say yes, so we got in the car and went out for coffee. The longer we were out the more confident I became and by the end I just couldn't stop smiling. When we got home we were both so turned on that we had the best sex of our lives.

I still can't believe it happened. I'm so happy and I hope this is the first of many adventures for the two of us.

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Crissy 107
08-16-2021, 08:20 PM
Candy, You look absolutely amazing and what a wonderful day with a wonderful wife!

Oldlvb
08-16-2021, 08:20 PM
Sounds like you do have and amazing wife treat her accordingly

TheHiddenMe
08-16-2021, 10:04 PM
What, no five-way chili?

I think the smile gives away the joy.

So when are you going to do it again????

xam
08-16-2021, 10:34 PM
Nice adventure for both of you and glad your wife is so supportive.

franlee
08-16-2021, 11:47 PM
A special time for you from a special wife. Enjoy the times she affords you and cherish her! Life is so short and when you get a little older you'll love these memories that she was the real focus of.

mbmeen12
08-17-2021, 12:15 AM
Good for you and a great day to enjoy!

Gi Gondin
08-17-2021, 02:14 AM
Congratulations Candy. How nice of her to propose such a lovely day for you.
I hope this is a beginning of a new phase of your life. Have fun and keep her happy!
Thanks for sharing! You both look great and happy.

DianeT
08-17-2021, 02:32 AM
Glad for you Candy. You both look great.

Davina2833
08-17-2021, 03:08 AM
Candy,

Both your smiles say it all!!! Glad you had a fantastic day...I'm sure more will come.

Davina

BLUE ORCHID
08-17-2021, 04:48 AM
Hi Cindy :hugs:, Lovely Pictures and a great story, You are so blessed to have such a wonderful:love:Wife,

>>>>>>>>>>>Orchid**O:daydreaming:O**

Donna Lynn
08-17-2021, 06:18 AM
Wow, such a great day and a wonderful wife. I am happy for you.

Lana Mae
08-17-2021, 06:27 AM
So wonderful!!! Hugs Lana Mae

Krisi
08-17-2021, 08:14 AM
You look like you are having a great time. You are very lucky that you wife would do that with you.

That has been my long time wish as well, that my wife would spend some time with me dressed as a woman and out in public as two female friends. I just don't know how I can make it happen.

GretchenM
08-17-2021, 08:50 AM
You look great and so incredibly happy. Completely presentable as a woman. You have a very special wife and she looks comfortable and happy as well. Great memories being made.

Confetti
08-17-2021, 08:52 AM
You two look great, it makes me happy you have an exceptional partner kudos!

kimdl93
08-17-2021, 10:21 AM
I have to admit, I am very envious.

Candy_in_Cincy
08-17-2021, 11:02 AM
You look like you are having a great time. You are very lucky that you wife would do that with you.

That has been my long time wish as well, that my wife would spend some time with me dressed as a woman and out in public as two female friends. I just don't know how I can make it happen.

It never would have happened with my first wife. She and I weren't able to be as open with each other. I wasn't able to express my full desires and I knew that, if I did, she wouldn't be receptive to exploring my feminine side. In our 16 years of marriage I was able to wear stockings while we had sex two times and wear lipstick once. But, after each of those times she said she wanted to back to "normal" sex and I felt ashamed of my desires. Needless to say, we ended up with a dead bedroom which was one of the contributing factors to our divorce.

My current wife and I have been together 5 years. We definitely have our ups and downs, but we know that it's safe to be our true selves with each other.

Jenn A116
08-17-2021, 11:09 AM
Brava! So happy for both of you!

Teresa.Smith.VA
08-17-2021, 11:38 AM
As one who has also experienced many times what you experienced with your "girl's day" out with your wife, let me say "welcome to the dream-come-true club".

I will bet that what you experienced yesterday will be a day you will never forget because it was more than just a fantasy come true. That first day out together also likely represented something equally or even more important than your experience of being out in public looking and feeling like a beautiful lady. Yesterday your wife's invitation translates to a high degree of unconditional love and acceptance of your femme self. It also points to the high level of trust that you two have for each other. Accommodation and compromise is always easier when trust levels are so high.

Congratulations and thanks to you both for sharing your fun day with us all, many of whom will never enjoy the fun of a "girl's day" out.

Lastly, you looked really, really good yesterday. You both looked like two very pretty, very attractive women. Well done!

mary spence
08-17-2021, 12:41 PM
Candy, What a great experience for you! The smile says it all. Here's hoping you have many more opportunities for girl friend days!

cdinmd206
08-17-2021, 09:21 PM
Looking quite good Candy. Does your wife have a single sister? LOL

GracieRose
08-17-2021, 10:27 PM
What a great treat. Your smile says it all. From the smiles, it appears that your wife is enjoying the outing also. Fantastic!!!
My wife is too afraid of running into someone that we know here in town and they would see her, with me, then figure out who I was. So I run around Cinti. solo when dressed.

Sandi Beech
08-18-2021, 05:19 AM
Cool, dreams do come true.

Sandi

Connie D50
08-18-2021, 05:39 AM
wow what a great post you look happy and great.

Teri Ray
08-18-2021, 05:54 AM
Such a great story. Best wishes to both you and your very lovely wife. It sounds like the be begining of many more great adventures for you both.

Krisi
08-18-2021, 09:14 AM
It never would have happened with my first wife. She and I weren't able to be as open with each other. I wasn't able to express my full desires and I knew that, if I did, she wouldn't be receptive to exploring my feminine side. In our 16 years of marriage I was able to wear stockings while we had sex two times and wear lipstick once. But, after each of those times she said she wanted to back to "normal" sex and I felt ashamed of my desires. Needless to say, we ended up with a dead bedroom which was one of the contributing factors to our divorce.

My current wife and I have been together 5 years. We definitely have our ups and downs, but we know that it's safe to be our true selves with each other.

Well, I wish you the best and I hope you get to go out on a regular basis.

My concern (and I suspect my wife's as well) is that going out in public, someone would recognize her and by association, me. Or that they would ask her who I am. Going to another city would minimize that risk but there's still the matter of betting to the car from the house and vice versa.

Really, I haven't figured out a way to even ask her about this.

ChubbyLeahCD
08-18-2021, 10:33 AM
That?s my ultimate wish, to do just that with my wife!

NaughtyMichelle
08-18-2021, 07:48 PM
Awesome OP. It's sounds like you have a wonderful wife!

LIKETODRESS2
08-18-2021, 08:32 PM
Sounds like a great time sounds like you had a lot of fun

Mermaiden
08-19-2021, 05:58 AM
What a dream come true!
Do you think your wife enjoyed as much, and wants to do again?

Candy_in_Cincy
08-19-2021, 08:46 AM
I don't think it's possible for her to have enjoyed it as much as I did, because this was a fantasy I'd been playing out in my head for most of my life. But, I do know that she enjoyed bringing so much joy to me, recognized how powerful of an experience it was for both of us, and that sharing this part of me brings us closer together.

I want to do it again soon and I've told her many times how much I enjoyed that day, but I'm trying to be cautious about pushing it too much. I'm going to wait a week or so and then maybe propose we buy some lingerie for both of us online. The next time the kids are away or we're out of town I'll suggest maybe we go out at night with me dressed up and do something even more adventurous. But until then I'm going to reassure her that I'm still the guy she married and be clearly masculine in the bedroom.

skirt_guy
08-22-2021, 02:06 AM
She is a keeper for sure! You both look great! Make sure you take care of her special needs too!

Rachel Louise
08-22-2021, 04:54 PM
Very jealous, Candy. And rocking it too by the looks of things.

I don?t have a better half myself but this would definitely be on my bucket list if I did.

Gilly68
08-28-2021, 12:48 AM
That's so lovely! You both look really happy and sounds like you had an amazing day!

You make a beautiful couple 😊

Di
08-28-2021, 12:58 AM
Lovely
Besides both of your smiles
Loved what you wrote
Safe to be your true selfs.
Nothing better !

Kris Burton
08-28-2021, 01:24 AM
A fantasy come to life. I love stories like this. Who among us has not had this fantasy, and for the both of you it is real. Best to you both and for more wonderful experiences!