Does your desire to dress and/or buy new clothes increase this time of year?

[Jessica Secret]

I was thinking about this and whether anyone else feels their need to dress or buy clothes gets stronger during the holidays, whether it's stress from all the running around this time of year or spending more time with family and thus less time to dress, or perhaps wanting to pamper ourselves, etc.? Speaking for myself I dress in lingerie for bed every night anyway but I definitely feel an increased desire to add to my wardrobe this time of year every year and spend for something really luxurious. Is this the case for anyone else?

[Karren H]

Not really. Mine stays about the same all year long except the occasional drop off to nothing.

[Charlotte Sparkle]

My desire to dress and buy clothes is there all year long BUT Xmas time means venturing out to the shops to buy presents for the Wife and family. I get drawn into clothes shops with sparkly sequined party dresses on display just inside the entrance. I'm like a magpie, I'm attracted to anything that shines, sparkles or shimmers.

I tend to lose self control more at this time of year, because once I'm drawn in I'm like a small child in a candy shop. Surrounded by so much femme stuff I find myself getting more and more excited as there is so much beautiful stuff on display!

[Aka_Donna]

Dressing yes, but not for the reason you think of first. It's not because it's a holiday but because the darkness comes earlier. So ok to dress when it's dark.

[NancySue]

I don?t find any change in my dressing, but shopping is another item. With all the sales going on, I find myself buying more after all Tis the Season.

[RADER]

Like on a Holiday like Christmas, I will try to dress more up-grade, fancier. Nicer dress etc.

[Wendy-Lyn]

Not specifically.

Although, while doing some last-minute Xmas shopping this morning, I did find myself drawn
towards a ladies' clothing shop near the supermarket which sells these lovely tops (the one I
wanted was, of course, not available in my size), then I had planned to go to Best & Less to
look at knickers and socks. I get quite a bit of my clothing from there, and they don't care that
I'm a bloke buying women's clothes. Service is always friendly and pleasant, and some of their
gear looks great and is reasonably-priced.

Time got away on me, however, so it looks like I'll be waiting for the post-Xmas sales.

[AnelineM]

Sort of. I have thought for the past 21 years when my wife asks me what I want for Christmas, I'd like to say, I'd like a nice dress. Something with 3/4 sleeves, maybe a floral print, in some flowy fabric. But we don't do that. So I say "socks".

[docrobbysherry]

I have hated Xmas shopping for over 60 years!:doh:

Now, Xmas dressing is a whole different matter! Because it DOESN'T require dealing with crowds!:tongueout

[NjJamie]

The "need" is always there but the sales are what awakens the sleeping giant! During the summer I knew of a long weekend at the end of August so I shopped ahead of that and when stuff went on sale for the Christmas season I also broke out the covert credit card and went crazy. I'm going to look at the $ damage in a week or so and that will affect the purchase of new hips but otherwise it should calm down for a while.

[Connie D50]

I don't think it increases, I do think it's easier to justify buying them we don't exchance gift with each other any more. So of course all my gifts to myself is for Connie :).

[Kris Burton]

Actually, it diminishes it a bit as I try to buy gifts and stay within a tight budget. It's those times when I have a bit of a surplus that I am overcome by the pink fog...like when I might receive a gift card!

[Jenni6521]

I wouldn?t say my shopping increases during this time of the year. I will certainly admit that my window shopping does increase. I do enjoy going about browsing and admiring all of the clothes I would love to buy. I have to stay out of the shoe stores though. That is my one weakness and addiction. This week my gym trainer was wearing this cute pair of Brooks sneakers with Christmas patterns. I was really admiring them, my female workout partner was not as impressed. Our trainer asked me how many pairs of shoes I had? When I combined both men’ and women’s together I told over 30 pairs. She just smiled and said so you are also a “shoe ho.”

[April Rose]

For the past few years I have made it a habit to wear a festive outfit on Christmas eve. I am alone this year but I still plan on wearing something pretty and festive. I haven't decided between my black velvet skirt and a red top , or my new teal fit and flare dress and a festive scarf. Dangley silver earrings and heels for sure. whether I wear makeup or not will depend on my energy level. It's just me at home after all. Happy holidays everyone and enjoy your evening.

[Cheryl T]

My desire to add to my wardrobe doesn't change.
My desire to wear my more "dressy" outfits increases. It's such a festive season and I just want to be a part of it. A party dress, fancy jewelry, new hair style with some adornments. I mean after all it is a time of celebration.

[NancyTO]

I definitely check out all the online end of the year sales on women's clothes. In addition to Black Friday, we have Boxing Day on December 26th in Canada which is another huge retail sales day.

Holiday and New Year's dresses go on sale as well, that I check out for evening and special occasion use.

[Debbie Denier]

It decreases at Christmas . Like Sherry I don?t like the crowds. Shopping becomes an ordeal and a chore instead of an enjoyable experience.

[Bianca Fay]

I really don't dress very often (maybe 6 times in total over a period of 10 years when I first got curious).

Having said that, I've been wearing pantyhose since I was 18 or 19, and YES I definitely purchase more pairs during the holiday season. I subscribe to at least 8 online hosiery sites and get inundated with an avalanche of sales offers from all of them at Christmas time. I find it very difficult to resist placing several orders and it's much easier than buying pantyhose in person at brick and mortar shops.

[Kimberly A.]

Hi, Jessica. :) Well tbh, this time of year really doesn't effect my desire to dress, or buy new clothes..... I go out en femme every time I get a chance and well, I've had to cut down on buying new clothes because Kimberly's closet is QUITE full! LOL But anyway, no, the holidays don't make me wanna get out en femme or buy new clothes any more than any other time of the year. I'd dress ALL the time though, if I could. :bs:

[freeindress]

Almost no dressing in winter, but planning for summer and shopping beach/surf-wear from Vinted while there is more supply than demand. Only dressing in leggings and matching top for yoga at home, and sometimes underdressing with a sports bra.

[Sandi Beech]

Uggh, I spent a lot of money this month, way more than I should have.

Sandi

[GretchenM]

I used to feel that way, but now I don't feel much need to buy things at any time of the year. I guess I am happy with what I have and it fits my sense of self so well. But if something needs to be replaced with a newer version I will shop for that. My identity is quite stable now after decades of wild gyrations. However, I still love going to the women's department in stores and see what is coming out. It is mostly intended for much younger women than myself. Very pretty things, but not really appropriate for a person of my age.

[susann_gardener]

Has been real bad this season. Mostly because I had a planned visit to a friend where I could dress and spend the day. That got killed by covid, and now I want to dress in all the new clothes and makeup I bought for that occaision.

[Pixie_94]

It's been strong recently, especially since I got my first salary, but I haven't bought any clothes, or at least nothing remotely feminine or that you'd find on the women's section. Though, my wallet is safe, I still cannot get near a shop or one of those sections without feeling too observed.

[Wendy-Lyn]

Further to my last comment on Christmas Eve, I hit the mall this morning
and headed for Best & Less to get the panties I didn't have time to buy then.

I looked at a few different items, found a dress I loved but alas, there were
none in my size. Ummed and aahed over a couple of others, looked at bras
because, well - they were there (but didn't buy one).

Had a couple of pleasant interactions with other shoppers, neither they nor
the SAs cared that a bloke was going through the bras and dresses, with a
handful of panties in his trolley. So I ended-up buying the panties, then as
I was leaving I spotted a sale rack with an assortment of items, from which
I liberated a shortie Christmas nightie. Went back and paid for that, and left
feeling very happy.

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[Majella St Gerard]

I'd say it's no different other than I usually but a sexy little Christmas outfit.

[abby054]

Does your desire to dress and/or buy new clothes increase this time of year?

No, in my business, November/December and April/May are the busiest months. Being busy means less time and less desire to dress. On the other hand, it is easier for the retailers and for me to kid ourselves with the old excuse of buying it for my wife.

[Patience]

No.

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[Kelli_cd]

I've looked at my purchasing habits. That was kind of scary. I started almost 5 years ago. Since then, I've averaged buying something at Soma about every 3 weeks.
Time of year has nothing to do with my buying. Except the sales. I can't seem to pass up a good bargain.

[fun4metoo2004]

For me it does not have anything to do with time of the year. I am getting ready to build a house, so all my money is staying in the bank except for essentials, Nails, waxing, and new thongs.

[Stephanie47]

Before the internet Christmas and other holidays (Valentine's Day, Easter, Halloween) I used it as a guise to buy lingerie and clothes for myself. There was no alternative other than perhaps ordering on the telephone from a catalogue. Now, I buy whenever I feel the need on-line. Mentally, for me I use to feel at ease buying for "my wife" when I was in my 20's and 30's and 40's. Now, in my 70's it seems like few men are in the lingerie aisles.

[Geena75]

I notice more pretty dresses at the stores I go in this time of year, and the inclination to buy does strike me. I was at the store this morning and saw some dresses on a rack for 30% off and had to seriously resist the urge to go over and shop them -- I was with the spouse at the time. Now I still want to go back solo and look at the price and sizes. I should probably wait a week or so for if they go on serious clearance.

[Davina2833]

Hi Kelli,

I was there last week for a late evening shopping...

Davina

[Staci]

I do look for more special items at this time of year. There are a lot of fancier clothes than during other times of the year. More cocktail dress type items.

[Valerie420]

Yes lately I have been wanting to go thrift shopping for new jewelry and clothes.

[Cheryllynn]

Dressing urges stay constant, but I tend to buy more items with all the sales going on. The wife always taught me to watch for deals, particularly on women's clothing as the sales can be quite good.

[JennB]

Unfortunately yes, marketing and the seasonal sales work!

[CynthiaD]

Between Thanksgiving and Christmas I have a ?presents only? rule for shopping. But for the last several years this includes a new red Christmas dress for me from Santa. This year I got a darling flowing red maxi dress. But, a few years ago I found a lovely Christmas dress with a panoramic view of a snowy landscape with Santa in his sleigh on the skirt. I love to wear it on Christmas, but wearing a new red dress is so irresistible. Santa is now for Christmas Eve or the day after. I also like to buy a new party dress for New Years Eve. But that?s it for clothes shopping.

After Christmas I have a ?pay off the Christmas bills? rule that lasts through January. I go through the dresses I haven?t worn in a while and either give them to goodwill or move them to where I will see them an wear them more often.

[Veronica Lacey]

The Christmas season itself does not generally inspire nor lead to more dressing or purchases but the cooler temps and many more hours of darkness can contribute to thoughts of dressing. Much nicer to enjoy a variety of outfits and lingerie when it's cold out - especially sub-zero - than say, the +42C we experienced this last summer.

Shopping is primarily done online so the interest in buying is based solely on a decision to go looking. Will often find something but this is not tied to the Christmas season.

As a side note, AnelineM's post gave me a chuckle. How politely accurate :)


Sort of. I have thought for the past 21 years when my wife asks me what I want for Christmas, I'd like to say, I'd like a nice dress. Something with 3/4 sleeves, maybe a floral print, in some flowy fabric. But we don't do that. So I say "socks".

[stephenie3756]

Sort of. I have thought for the past 21 years when my wife asks me what I want for Christmas, I'd like to say, I'd like a nice dress. Something with 3/4 sleeves, maybe a floral print, in some flowy fabric. But we don't do that. So I say "socks".

I totally love this post! Mine would be "how about another little black dress, or a cocktail/party dress, or a fabulous evening gown? I know I have plenty of all of them, but I could always use one more." Instead. i get to say " a new pair of pj's?"

[kimdl93]

Mmm, let me think. Really, my idealized holiday is being able to put together a cute, semi-formal outfit for gatherings with coworkers and friends. I have not been able to realize this entirely but for a few occasions.

[jacques]

hello Jessica,
I think my need to dress and shop more frequently does increase near Christmas.
But is that because there are increased opportunities? Longer darker evenings when no one is going to knock on your door. Lots of men wandering around the women's clothing section of shops and buying 'sexy' lingerie for their wives and girlfriends.
luv J

[Alice Dore]

I do, usually I plan spending money on clothes after holiday season, sales, stress cold and dark weather probably all play some role in this. Usually I buy all online, and already got my shipment, yay ^^.

[Raychel]

The amount of my dressing does not really have ups and downs. Unless I am traveling. Then there is definitely a lull. Those times can sure be really difficult. 2 or 3 months of no dressing as I desire can sure cause a slight amount of mental anguish. But I always seem to get thru it some how.

Sure does make me appreciate getting back to my house and some quality Raychel time

[DestinyJ]

There is just something about over the knee boots for me. I love that look on women and even more so myself. When the spring hits, it?s beautiful toes and dresses. Guess it?s safe to say that I love it all year round.

[AmeeJo]

I tend to stealth wear my clothes under bulkier items like sweatshirts so, I usually don't wear out in public during the warmer months. Maybe one day I'll get over my fear and just be me but, not yet.