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CamilleH
12-27-2021, 05:44 PM
My wife is super accepting. She buys Camille lingerie for Christmas and attends various functions with me dressed. I have 3 daughters, but only the youngest lives at home. She is gay and is in a rock band. I have wanted to come out to her for a long time, but frankly, I have just been a big chicken. So I finally just opened up to her and it went swimmingly. One of the first things she want to know if if she could do my makeup sometime and then if she could go with me to the next event. Needless to say the chicken was being silly.

Debbie Denier
12-27-2021, 05:55 PM
That?s brilliant Camille.Plenty of good adventures for the future.

alwayshave
12-27-2021, 09:11 PM
Camille, I'm glad your daughter was accepting.

Maid_Marion
12-27-2021, 09:20 PM
Hi Camille,

That is great to hear!

Marion

Kris Burton
12-27-2021, 09:25 PM
This is wonderful Camille, and wonderful that your family is so accepting of your fem self. I am curious though, what was your motivation to coming out at this time? I cannot imagine coming out to my sons, but maybe it might be necessary someday.

bridget thronton
12-28-2021, 04:09 AM
You have a great daughter

Jolene Robertson
12-28-2021, 05:46 AM
Glad it went well but sounds like you kind of knew it would considering. I think you will be having some interaction with her and a good time letting her do your makeup.It's great to have acceptance in the family, are you out to your other daughters?

Julia B
12-28-2021, 06:12 AM
I am so hopeful for this next generation. I think they get it in so many ways.

Jenn A116
12-28-2021, 10:29 AM
Sounds like you raised a wonderful young woman!

Cheryl T
12-28-2021, 10:33 AM
What a fabulous response.
What fun it will be having her do your makeup. In the group I used to belong to one of the ladies was always accompanied by her spouse and her daughter (about 14). She was always so at ease around all of us and acted like she had 20 moms.

Connie D50
12-29-2021, 08:10 AM
Camille
That is great that your daught is acepting. One of the best things I ever did was tell my two daughters, both where accepting it help my wife to be a little more accepting.

Lana Mae
12-29-2021, 09:24 AM
Wonderful news! Now what about the other two? Hugs Lana Mae

docrobbysherry
12-29-2021, 01:20 PM
Much better than when I told my live in, teen daughter!:doh:

You're very lucky, Camille!:thumbsup:

kimdl93
01-01-2022, 03:13 AM
That is a perfect coming out story. Being chicken is understandable, but with the support of your wife, something that your need to overcome

delta47
01-29-2022, 07:33 PM
Her maturity is a sign of good parenting

Leslie Mary S
01-29-2022, 07:49 PM
Congrads on the coming out to the future rock star.

Femi9
01-29-2022, 07:51 PM
Fantastic! My wife told our eldest daughter about me recently. I think my wife needed someone to talk to about it and my daughters reaction was "I didn't need to know that", so I don't think I will confront her unless she comes to me first and asks me about it.

Leslie Mary S
01-29-2022, 08:21 PM
Femi9 she will. Just give them some more time. You have the rest of your life.

jazmine
01-29-2022, 08:29 PM
That is awesome! Thanx for sharing! And please do share such future adventures!

JulieC
01-29-2022, 11:59 PM
Congrats on telling your daughter :)

My wife and I have chosen not to tell the kids. We still have two at home, though in five years time they'll both be gone. I just don't feel there's anything to be gained by telling them. Maybe once they're out, and I'm dressing a lot more frequently, I might need to tell them because of them suddenly coming home for some reason. Guess we'll play that by ear. My wife has pondered telling them after I'm gone.

ziggie
01-30-2022, 07:00 AM
Congratulations on a job well done, both raising an understanding daughter and being able to tell her.

Bobbi46
01-30-2022, 03:54 PM
its not so much the coming out bit that some find daunting but it is the aftermath when it all works out well. my grown up daughter was over the moon about it when i told her. I felt calm and at peace for the first time in years

Beverley Sims
02-02-2022, 11:14 AM
This sounds like a great outcome for both of you.

Karen G
02-02-2022, 11:19 AM
Great news! I'm very happy for you Camille!

Melony1968
02-04-2022, 01:27 PM
So glad to hear that girl.