What is your dream crossdressing adventure?

[Paula_56]

I've been out and about for years and have had all kinds of adventures. One of the best would have to be a whole weekend in London as a woman. I am from the US so being so far away from home just made it so much of an escape.

I had my nails done on Friday and this forced me to stay enfemme all weekend, Museums, shopping, dinning, public transport, and a evening at a concert on Sunday.

So my dream adventure would be to attend a week long seminar as a woman. In the past I would often attend classes for my career, spending a week as Paula in another city would just be so much fun.

Tell us what is yours????




Foe what it's worth here is an article I wrote about the weekend

http://www.femulate.org/2014/11/bond-girls.html

[MonicaPVD]

A weekend in London sounds marvelous but it would take me a whole day to get there. Perhaps four to seven days in London is more appropriate. Any opportunity to spend a multi day period of time as Monica is my ideal. I've only had that opportunity on a handful of occasions, and they were usually interrupted by work-related obligations. One day we'll get to London, Paula. One day.

[Krisi]

Mine is a bit simpler, but it would be to spend the day as Krisi out in public with my wife, sightseeing, shooping, dining, etc. as two girlfriends out on the town.

I know that seems pretty tame to some folks, but even though my wife "tolerates" my dressing, I think there's an invisible line between that and her going out with me in public, even in another city where we're unlikely to encounter anyone we know.

Unfortunately, it's most likely going to remain a dream.

[candykowal]

Paula, London is a great place to be girly!
Piccadilly Circus, Jubilee ParK...maybe shopping in east London on Philpot street, near the Mulberry school for girls, so many feminine clothing shop!
I did a lot of London as Candy way back in 1986, it was a expensive time if I remember.
Hope you get your chance to be Paula in London, you'll have a fun time, especially if you go with like minded friends!

I suppose I have done a lot, presenting as a lady, I suppose one of my thoughts would be to live in a Amsterdam flat for a month and be Candice again 24/7.
I think it would be an interesting time to be near shops and a whole community catering to transgendered people.
Being able to find clothes, shoes, makeup, and services in my size and in abundance, chatting face to face like we do here on crossdressing.com .
Living in a totally accepting community. As if all the members here are neighbors! And we own and run TG shops, eateries, bars, dance halls, salons.
A Utopia of immersed acceptance of ones inner self, so such is my impressions of Amsterdam....
Otherwise, a week at a Florida beach resort would work too.... :heehee:

[Paula_56]

I did spend a weekend in London as Paula

[CrossKimmy]

Going to a far away place, renting an entire apartment or house to myself, going shopping and dressing up in all kinds of outfits playing with make up etc.

[Misty_cder]

I have two adventures, one in the daydreaming realm, the other has a chance of happening. The dream is to spend a whole vacation dressed with my wife. While my wife is accepting of my dressing, she does not think I can pass due to my body frame and therefore is not comfortable with the idea of me being seen in public. What has a chance of happening is her accompanying me to a transformation make over. I told her I have always wanted to do it to learn how to properly apply make up and see how I would look when a professional applies the make up. I told her I want her to participate so we can take photos together while I’m dressed. She is open to the idea and even indicated she could learn some new techniques to apply make up.

[docrobbysherry]

Altho Sherry has appeared in Bangkok, Tokyo, Angkor Wat, Singapore and other exotic venues? My most satisfying outings were local.

When passing! Being mistaken as and treated 100% as a natal female is an experience like none other.:battingeyelashes:

[Jacqueline Vivaldi]

I live a lot of my adventures by going for a whole week to Cape Cod or Newport. I go biking, shopping, to great restaurants, museums, the beach, dancing and generally feeling free and very good about myself. Although I have been to Paris many times, I would love to spend a week just knocking around Paris in my finest outfits. Maybe I would meet someone interesting.

[kimdl93]

A trip abroad is my aspiration as well. I have been contemplating a trip to northern Europe, including Scandinavia, Germany and the Netherlands.

[AngelaYVR]

I would dearly love to see an opera in Vienna. I have been a few times locally but to be in one of those beautiful old opera houses, wearing a gorgeous dress and watching Tosca would be an amazing night.

[sara66]

My dream is simple spend 3-4 days enfem. Either in Denver or Vegas. shop till i drop. Maybe something like Diva Las Vegas. Nothing over the top.
Sara

[Natalie5004]

Dinner night at home with my wife. Once that happens I will proceed from there.

[Wendy-Lyn]

I would like to spend a day/night as Wendy and attend the annual Gay Mardi-Gras parade and festivities in Sydney, Australia. I live several hundred km away though, so getting there would be a logistical nightmare, and costs for accommodation won't be cheap.
I've been trying to work out how I can manage it tho, so maybe next year, eh?

[Heather76]

Much like Natalie, I'd love to spend an evening fully dressed, after a professional MUA has done as good a job on me as possible, simply being at home with my wife having a nice dinner. Afterwards we would just spend time cuddling together without her feeling awkward. I'd like to present Heather to her as good as is possible - even if it isn't good at all.

[alwayshave]

I'd really like to do a weekend in Las Vegas or New Orleans fully dressed.

[Cynthia T]

I'm over 70 and not really passable -- but I would like to be a contestant in a beauty contest. Hair, makeup, swimsuit, evening gown, walking the runway...

[Geena75]

I suppose my dream is pretty tame, but possible. I would like a day to explore being Geena, to get a makeover, to go to a meeting of the group in Grand Rapids and have free conversations with other CD people. Perhaps even go to a club afterwards with new friends. To feel for the first time really free and open about this "peculiar pastime."

[Sometimes Steffi]

There are a lot of Crossdresser conferences and most of you can satisfy your dream of being a girl for a day, a girl for a week and meeting other crossdressers. You can get your nails done, get a makeover, and go out to dinner with 30 girls like us.

I'm going to the Keystone Conference from March 22 through March 26. It will be my 10th time there.

[Karren H]

I have gone almost a week enfemme a few times but my fantasy has always been to go to either our local F2M Fantasy makeover salon or True Colors in Bethlehem, PA and get the full blown make over. Makeup, hair and clothing, all new! Then maybe hop a plane or a train and take a weeks vacation enfemme with my new look.

[Cheshire girl]

Firstly congratulations on your very feminine natural look. For me the biggest adventure is doing the normal things of life like eating out shopping and going to the beauty salon or makeup counters. It?s funny how just a routine opticians appointment booked in my femme name is so much fun.

[Vikky]

I would love to go to a black tie ball all dressed up to the nines, I have the dress etc. Do some dancing, enjoy the music and mix with the crowd. Then combine it with a weekend away at a posh hotel and shop, visit a museum and enjoy being a woman.
Vikky

[franlee]

For my wife and I to go on a 7day Alaskan Cruise for CDer's. And the entire trip I dress and carry on as Fran.

[Connie D50]

Franlee, I'm with you a Cruise for CDer's. I would love to see Alaska however a nice warm climate appeal better to me.

[Stephanie47]

Dinner night at home with my wife. Once that happens I will proceed from there.

That about sums it up for me. When my wife was still working full days I had about seven hours to accomplish a lot of domestic chores a la June Cleaver; washing and ironing, vacuuming, baking, meal preparation, changing bed linens, etc. About a half hour before it was time to pick her up at school I had to shed the clothes. I would love it to be able to be en femme for an entire day and get an accepting pat on my butt while finishing the dinner preparation.

[Remee]

Paula, you look great. My dream adventure is to spend a week enfem and do all activities women will do without being clocked. I would love to get fantasy makeover in wedding dress.

-Remee

[Heisthebride]

I had an adventure this past October in Las Vegas, I have done en femme vacations before but part time male clothes and part time female clothes. This time I had no options to backout into boy clothes. My suitcase was filled with only girl clothes, and I left my condo dressed as Becky when I went to the airport.

Day 1 - Travel Day - walked to the light rail pulling my suitcase and took the train to the airport, checked in, went through security, got on the plane, landed at LAS, got a rental car, found my Airbnb, then I went to Target for some food supplies for the next five days all while dressed as Becky.

Day 2 - Diva Las Vegas Day - Casual wear for bowling, got to the Bowling Center at Orleans and I was the only one there. It was cancelled, but I played some slots. Laid out by the pool in my bikini (airbnb was a house with a pool) then got ready for dinner and drinks at Diva Las Vegas meet and greet.

Day 3 - Casual wear again, did some shopping, played some more slots, more pool time. Changed into formal wear for meeting a friend at The Peppermill. Chatted had some snacks and a Pink Squirrel.

Day 4 - Casual wear to start, more shopping at Du Barry's but had to be home early for my photoshoot. 5 hour photoshoot, 2 makeup looks, 6 wardrobe changes. It was amazing, too tired to go out afterwards.

Day 5 - Woke up early for another mini photo safari, decided on sort of a business casual look. Met my photographer for photos outside at Paris Casino, Cosmopolitan and Bellagio. More pool time in the afternoon. Evening was formal wear again as I met another friend for dinner at Prime Steakhouse at Bellagio. Won some money at Roulette.

Day 6 - Travel Day again - all the same airport stuff in reverse. All in all I spent something like 128 straight hours as Becky. It really isn't easy being female full time. Makeup and hair every day, sometimes doing your makeup twice depending on the look. So much time in heels is a real workout, so be sure to wear comfortable shoes. It was an amazing experience.

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[Kris Burton]

Id like to go to Key West. My wife and I were there for a short time many years ago, and it was a fun place that was LGBTQ friendly. I'd like to go there as Kris and enjoy it even more fully without concern of being dressed en femme. I guess Vegas or one of the gatherings like Keystone Conference could accomplish the same thing.

[NancySue]

Traveling en femme, to an adult, expensive, all-inclusive resort in the Caribbean, spending my time both shopping, sailing and on the beach. A daily visit to the spa for massage, makeup, nails, waxing, mimosa?s and dressing up for a candlelight dinner.

[Debra Russell]

I would like to had that experience Paula - what fun...................Debra

[cosmolovesph]

I have gone out many times.... but I would love to go to an Opera or something like that to really dress up and not seem "out of place"

[Ginawannabe]

My dream is to be Gina for a weekend. No boy clothes allowed. Have a transformation at Janet's Closet. Go to Adam's Apple. Then whatever happens, happens.

[franlee]

Franlee, I'm with you a Cruise for CDer's. I would love to see Alaska however a nice warm climate appeal better to me. We have cruised to Nassau and the Caribbean and while on the cruise I did get to dress in our stateroom but we had friends with us so getting out was a NONO. I want to go on that specialty cruise just she and no locals or friends.

[Philippa Grace]

I have read of a hotel in Brighton, south England, especially for CDers. You stay over, get a makeover, dress, and stay en femme the whole time, with other CDers. That would be amazing!

[Helen_Highwater]

This thread has got me thinking. There's a few things I'd like to tick off on the bucket list one being a night in a theatre seeing a show. Nearly did it last year but due to circumstances...

As for a "Big adventure" having used most forms of public transport while enfemme I suppose flying would be the next big step. I think I'd start with a domestic UK flight. heading abroad enfemme, somewhere that I'd struggle with the language barrier regardless of how I was dressed would seem like adding too many variable in at once. Plus CD'ing a unfamiliar country could be asking for trouble. I can see why cruising has it's charm.

But as it stands at the moment, just more time out and about would be nice.

[Debbie Denier]

The CD hotel suggested by Phillipa seems a good and realistic idea. There is also a hotel in Blackpool that will arrange for a lady to do a full makeover . A bit nearer than Brighton for girls in the the north of England and Scotland .

[Sometimes Steffi]

As for a "Big adventure" having used most forms of public transport while enfemme I suppose flying would be the next big step. I think I'd start with a domestic UK flight. heading abroad enfemme, somewhere that I'd struggle with the language barrier regardless of how I was dressed would seem like adding too many variable in at once. Plus CD'ing a unfamiliar country could be asking for trouble. I can see why cruising has its charm.

Hey, we speak almost the same language "across the pond" as you would say. And many big cities are very safe for CDers.

[donnalee]

I'm doing it. My home has enough space around it that I can wear what I want pretty much every day. I do have to change about every 2 weeks to go into town for food & other necessities, but the rest of the time I dress how I want.

[Robbiegirl]

Being dolled up by some southern Belles in thier square dance dresses and petticoats and being taught how to square dance !

[Ginawannabe]

Spending the weekend as Gina. Going out to a restaurant or bar. Justing being Gina. Hoping someone will be nice enough to strike up a conversation. Hopefully a female.

[Ressie]

I suppose my dream is pretty tame, but possible. I would like a day to explore being Geena, to get a makeover, to go to a meeting of the group in Grand Rapids and have free conversations with other CD people. Perhaps even go to a club afterwards with new friends. To feel for the first time really free and open about this "peculiar pastime."

The group in Grand Rapids? You're talking about me and my friends I met years ago! Have you been to any of the meetings?

We've been patiently awaiting the day the pride center opens back up for our meetings. Meanwhile we've been having Zoom meetings which has helped quite a bit. Send me a PM if you're interested in that and hopefully this pandemic will end soon. We have fun whether in person or online!

An adventure for me would be spending a day or night out dressed all by my lonesome, anywhere. That would be more adventurous than going out with a group. I've only tried it once but it was only for an hour or so.

[Jessica Secret]

A romantic lingerie sleepover/slumber party with other CDs and/or GGs.

[Veronica Lacey]

I believe that a return cross-Canada RV adventure would be stellar at the end of April/May/June. It could provide plenty of private time to gain some comfort as Veronica. I could stop/sleep anywhere, modify my outfit to something less obvious if need be (pit stops, groceries), wear whatever I please while driving and always have toilet facilities available.

[StacyG]

I've underdressed on every cruise ive been on. Went on an RC Alaskan cruise by myself in 2016 and didn't pack a single pair of men's underwear and sept in a different nightgown or nightie every night. My dream would be able to go and be passable the whole trip. Fancy dresses for the captain's dinners and some party dresses.

[Breanna1975]

Having a "girls day" with my wife!! Hopefully her and I can go out soon just gotta have someone watch our little boy for the day..

[Amanda77]

I guess I'd be the oddball out. Id like to find a secluded place to go camping away from everyone. ( i work with the public all week long for over 20 years) it'd all be Amanda time hiking, swimming, sleeping, reading a good book or two. Maybe even somewhere i could try my hand at panning for gold. Within cell service though so i could check in with someone so they wouldn't worry about me.

[JuliannaS]

Right now my dream is for my girlfriend to take me out for a nice dinner, dress me up nice, do my makeup for me. Order for me at the restaurant, refer to me as she, or her, pretty much take care me the whole night. Tteat me like the woman i am.

[Thatonegurl99]

I would love to be able to go out with my wife, as friends and enjoy a night in a nearby city, and just have nothing to worry about but what the next thing we want to do is.

[Raychel]

I have really not thought about a dream crossdressing adventure.
I guess it would be an RV trip where everyone was accepting.
Or a Cruise in that same fantasy world. Lol

[Diane Douglas]

I would love to have an evening out with my wife. Make it a little romantic. Start the evening dressing nicely, go out for a quiet dinner, then some dancing or a show. Then I could think about the weekend or week away.

I am happy for those that are able to get and have these wonderful adventures.

[Alana Westenra]

OK we said 'dream' right? I'd like to get some slightly over-the-top club makeup on, long purple wig, the shiny black buckle leggings that I somehow still fit into, pleaser flairs, shredded tank top and my favorite denim jacket. Meet up with some friends at a show, something like 'Sleigh Bells' or 'Jinjer' and somehow, for some reason get called onstage to fill in on an instrument.

[SaraLin]

(trying to imitate Rodney Dangerfield...) "I don't have any dreams left. I'm Married"


Back in the day, one of my "fantasy" dreams was to have a romantic date where I was the girl. Dinner, show, dancing and drinks afterward - the works.
The thing is, the guy (yes, guy) would have to know my story, know it wasn't about sex (I don't think), AND STILL 100% treat me to a wonderful evening -never once acting like he was on a date with anyone other than a real GG.
I never found that. The closest I ever came was one guy who said he wanted to date me, saying he'd treat me like a lady. But almost every sentence out of his mouth was about how he liked drag queens. MAJOR spoiler.

[oh to be rachel]

Right now my dream is for my girlfriend to take me out for a nice dinner, dress me up nice, do my makeup for me. Order for me at the restaurant, refer to me as she, or her, pretty much take care me the whole night. Tteat me like the woman i am.

This is my dream!

[StacyG]

When i woke up this morning I remembered a dream I had back in my 20's that i was locked in a mall after it was closed and I had Victoria's Secret all to myself. I would love to be able to go shopping and try on tons of clothe.
I'm also with Raychel about the camping. I have been hiking in cami and tap pants. When I was in college I would go camping once or twice a month, so i could sleep in my nighties or lingerie and i could wear what I wanted after dark around the campfire.

[Sometimes Steffi]

I had that same dream, but I was locked up in a department store (think Macy's). And that was at a time when the mannequins wore wigs.

[Lacey New]

How I would love to be 25 again and weigh 140 lbs and have an accepting girlfriend who would dress me up, take me out, then come back home and you can imagine the rest of the story. Then repeat, repeat,repeat.

[BobbiKay]

"I dreamed I sailed the canals of Venice in my Maidenform bra" -- no doubt many of us remember that series of adverts from the '60s.

I guess my dream adventure in the Before Times was when I was involved in a project to update the technology in a number of branches of a women's clothing store. After the first couple of overnights, I realized that there was an hour or two of downtime while the software installation and configuration scripts ran on the new hardware, and I had nothing productive to do during that interval. I wasn't about to touch their merch, but nothing kept me from bringing in a big box of Bobbikay's thrift store clothing and shoe acquisitions to try on. So I got the use of the dressing rooms, the lighting, the 3-sided mirrors, etc., to find out what really fit and what didn't, what went together, etc., and weed out the things that didn't work after all.
The store chain did not have any cameras or DVR so I was free to be me for a while.

[kellyanne]

You look great Paula, my dream trip would be similar - I am a history, art and learning addict so seven days of sight seeing and learning en femme would be terrific. I would add a dance to wrap up the week.
Would like to visit all the great capitals of Europe and must stop into Sarejevo to a certain cafe on the corner...where a guy was buying a sandwich in 1914.

[Renee_B]

My dream would be something simple, be completely made up and spend an entire week going out as Renee doing everything from shopping to going to an art gallery to dancing at a nightclub

[Georgina]

My dream has always been to go out dressed formally to an event in the colder months. I would love to be fully dressed in dress or skirt suit with overcoat and a nice hat and gloves.

[SexyKerri]

Mine is easy. To have a small group of girlfriends (cds/wives/etc) go on an all girls weekend getaway like Vegas. Like a bachelorette weekend. With shopping, dining and having the time of our lives

[Crissy 107]

Mine would be to go to the Keystone Conference with all the girls from here and have a fabulous time :)

[JuliannaS]

This is my dream!
I mentioned it to her once and she ask where I would like to go. I mentioned our favorite restaurant and she said no probably a bad idea to go there since we went into people we know there. It is probably a good idea to pick some place that is not local for us.

[RainbowDash]

This was only part of my dream, which was to be able to go out in public dressed up as a woman. I did it twice, but I don't know if it really counts because I was at a Ren Fair. I bought an entire outfit and dressed up like a Fair Maiden, the 2nd time around adding a few more items. I was not scared about people knowing I was actually a guy underneath all those girly clothes, since alot of men at these types of events dress up like women. Best part is, nobody cares or looks at you funny, everyone just goes with the flow. I saw quite a few men dressed up in women's outfits at the fair. Its almost time for the Ren Fair to come back to Texas again in April and May, and you can bet that I will definitely dress up and be there.
But going to a Ren Fair is just one thing. I have dreamt constantly about being able to dress up in regular women's clothes and go out someplace like the mall, to a restaurant, etc. Unfortunately, I am very much afraid of what people will think and say, and do not wish to be ridiculed and made fun of. Now on the other hand, if I went out with other crossdressers or at least 1 or 2 other women to accompany me, I would feel better since I would have people there to support me, just in case anyone deems it necessary to throw insults my way. That being said, if I can make myself look feminine enough, then maybe people will not know that I am a man underneath all those women's clothes.