Scandalous, Shameful, Exciting

[Bianca Fay]

What's the most scandalous thing you've ever done in your life to fuel the fire of your desires?

We've probably all done things that we regret, yet, given the opportunity, would likely do again. Confession can be cathartic and this forum is a great place to divulge secrets that we would normally rather take to the grave.

In my case, I have always had a deep fascination for two specific things... flight attendants and pantyhose. This is my kryptonite. I used to work at a very renowned hotel that catered to the rich and famous along with a multitude of travelers and tourists. I worked the morning shift and we had a contract with a regional airline that brought in two flight crews every day. As the front desk office manager, I checked hundreds of beautiful flight attendants in and out over the years. I often had drinks with them in the hotel lounge and even had some as overnight guests in my house.

My shift started at 7am and that was the time when the day flight crew left. The housekeeping department didn't begin until 8am which allowed me the opportunity to enter the rooms of the flight attendants who had just checked out. Nine out of 10 times I would find a discarded pair of pantyhose. It was like being a kid in a candy store. I would take the nylons home and launder them before putting them on. It made me dizzy with excitement knowing that I was wearing a pair of pantyhose that a pretty flight attendant had worn the previous day.

Scandalous? Yes.
Shameful? Yes.
Exciting? Absolutely.

I'm not proud of what I did, but that's the point of this post.

What's your scandalous secret?

[kimdl93]

Honestly, I would rather not remember.

[Kerry Michaels]

:heehee:
Honestly, I would rather not remember.

[April Rose]

The most scandalous and shameful thing I have ever done, which no one else knows about, and I will take to my grave, turned out to be not very exciting or pleasurable after all.

[DaniellaUK]

You laundered them? OMG, why?

[pob]

At a party at a female friends house when I was about 17, I went to the loo and there were a pair of strappy high heels in my size discarded on the floor O_O, I locked the door and spent like 45 mins wearing them.

[Leslie Mary S]

Entered into a woman-less beauty contest and that was when I was just starting to dress. Still have the dress and heels.

[Sandi Beech]

I am guessing not everyone will want to share their most scandalous endeavors.

Kind of like the saying ? What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas ?. Some secrets should probably stay secrets.

Sandi

[Larissa Cassandra]

When I was in the navy I was on watch one night, all by myself in the hangar. I went into the women's restroom where they had lockers and found a bra hanging in an unlocked locker. I put it in my pocket and when I was alone in my room the next day tried it on. It didn't fit so I threw it in the dumpster. Even if it had fit, I would have had to get rid of it soon, lest it be discovered..... Sorry, whoever's bra that was!

[Alice92]

I have often been a bad girl. As a child and teen, I associated trying on my mother's and sister's clothes with solitary pleasure. Around the age of 10, I also slept in my older cousin's home. She was about to enter a beauty pageant. I secretly tried on her gown and broke her tiara by accident. No one has ever discovered the truth. As an adult, I stopped this disgusting practice but still once took advantage of a housesitting to try on a friend's wedding dress (no sexual play, just trying on the irresistible dress). Finally, my sister had given me a box of old clothes to donate to an association. Nothing very interesting, mostly jeans and t-shirts but also a purple dress that I knew very well from having tried it on so many times when we were both still living with our mother. I kept the dress, a blouse, a tank top and a scarf for myself. Afterwards it was a gift for the poor and I was poor at this time... I don't talk about how more naughtier I had been in some websites :censor:

[MonicaPVD]

The moderators on here preclude me from posting what I might consider most scandalous, shameful, and exciting. Let's just say that the bar got increasingly higher as years past until the pandemic hit. My life has been surprisingly tame since then and I am very much OK with that.

[Di]

The moderators on here preclude me from posting what I might consider most scandalous, shameful, and exciting. Let's just say that the bar got increasingly higher as years past until the pandemic hit. My life has been surprisingly tame since then and I am very much OK with that.

Thank You Monica :)
Much appreciated lol

[Lori Ann Westlake]

Well, Cecily, that might be DARING, and certainly "shocking" and "scandalous" to some prudes. But I can?t call it anything to be ashamed of., so who cares what they think? You did no harm to anybody, after all. These were discarded pantyhose, so as it's not as if you were actually "stealing"!

I? have to confess I've done worse than that. When I was young I did in fact steal a skirt from an early girlfriend of mine. I just couldn?t resist it. I loved wearing that skirt of hers. Curiously, she never found it was missing, as far as I know. Perhaps she got tired of wearing it and preferred her newer clothes.

We can buy anything on the Internet these days, from used, rare and out-of-print books (my favorite) to traditional mercury clinical thermometers from China. unobtainable elsewhere. Unfortunately I?ve found the latter were of deplorably poor quality. I?m all in favor of the ?free market.? I?ve also read that there?s a thriving market among some for women?s used underwear. That's not my bag, but it's amusing to know that a few women out there are making a profit from this, when they can sell a pair of used panties for more than they cost in a store. If only the same applied to the used car market, where depreciation, not appreciation, ,is the rule!


The most scandalous and shameful thing I have ever done, which no one else knows about, and I will take to my grave, turned out to be not very exciting or pleasurable after all.

Well, I can guess what kind of thing that was. That's one of several reasons why I never thought of doing such a thing. Some fantasies are better off remaining as fantasies! But I guess some lessons have to be learned by actual experience.

[Karren H]

I was a prolific borrower and they were not scandalous since I was never caught! Whether it be the time I wore my tenth grade teachers lingerie or the time I spent all night at a friend of a friends friends next door neighbors house, alone while they were gone on vacation trying in everything female in the house. Or the time I bought a beautiful red gown at a department store while I was supposed to be taking packages back to the car and the family was wandering around the mall. I got lost! I am still lost.

[Lacey New]

Probably very ho hum and common for most of us was ?borrowing? my mothers and sisters panties and every now and then a bra and any other available lingerie.

[Cheryl T]

I would say but I'm not sure the statute of limitations has run out yet, so I'll keep it private a bit longer....LOL

[Stephanie47]

I think those descriptive terms were well embedded in my mind as a teenager when I wore my mother's clothing. At first the session was exciting. Afterwards, it all seemed shameful. Took years to get my head straight. Actually, the most shameful thing that really has stuck in my head for many decades is the day I stole a pack of Topps Baseball Cards in 1955. A five cent theft was and still is so far from my moral code it has shaped me forever. I wish it was someone woman's bra, but, it was only baseball cards.

[Debbie Denier]

I had a massive crush on a female co worker which was not reciprocated .She made it clear we would be just good friends. She always looked and dressed immaculately. Nice blouse, pencil skirt black tights/PH. One day I noticed as usual she was wearing her tights After lunch she came back bear legged. I noticed her discarded tights in the bin/ trash can next to her desk . When no one was looking I took them . There was a small pull/ ladder. I put them on in the restroom under my work clothes. Spent the rest of the afternoon sitting opposite her. If she only knew.Shameful exciting yes. Scandalous no , but the closest I would get anywhere close or personal to this lady.

[MonicaPVD]

Debbie, what a wonderfully and deliciously inappropriate thing. Your co-worker's forbidden sweat, oils, and dead skin cells mixing with your own. Hah! If anyone had caught you fishing her tights out of a trash bin, you would have been labeled a fabulous perve and most likely would have been on the unemployment line in short order. Majestic! I love it.

[Heather76]

Unfortunately, I cannot recall the first scandalous or shameful thing I've ever done to fuel the flames of any of my desires. I must lead a boring life. I don't consider wearing my mom's lingerie as scandalous or shameful. Those times were just a young kid exploring the unknown world of women.

[ziggie]

I'm with Heather on this one. Try as I might I just couldn't come up with anything that fit the bill. I guess I'm just a vanilla cone.

[SaraLin]

Scandalous? I can't thing of anything - really! I'm an "avoid the spotlight" type of girl.

Shameful? In my early days, I shoplifted a pack of panties from a store. They were WAY too small, and the guilt lasted a lot longer than the panties did.

Exciting? that's a tough one. I guess it would have to be going out to to a club with a CD group and the lady I was dating at the time. Sitting at the table and feeling her foot sliding up my leg and under my skirt was something I'll never forget! Second place would probably be driving from Florida to Maine - femme the entire way.

[julia.bowie]

Cecily ... and I thought you were going to say that you smelt them and never washed them. Ah drat - what a downer to the story :-)

[docrobbysherry]

U want my most scandalous, shameful, and exciting deed? And, I'm supposed to post it here? That's a laff!:devil:

Well, I'm a guy that gets turned on dressing up in women's things. While that's no where near the top of my list? It MAY be in the top ten and I MAY be able to say that here!:heehee:

[Brianne_bc]

When I was in grade two I stole a pair of white maryjanes from the coat room at the school I went to.
when i was a teen I tried on my mums friends boots when she visited for coffee.
I stole a pair of platform shoes from my grade 12 english teacher.
Ive done far more scandalous things but you will have to PM me and ill tell you.

[StacyG]

Living in a coed dorm in college and discovering the girls laundry room. My collection grew, but I did get caught one night. Dropped the evidence and ran. Diving from Houston to Dallas in a pink with black polka dots, satin teddy.

[Marissa Q]

Sometimes I think that the only scandalous thing in the universe is never doing anything shameful or exciting. :)

That being said, I heartily plead The Fifth.

[MostlyMK]

I was an RA in college and there was a drop-dead gorgeous coworker in the same dorm. She had a tight black button-down top with little ruffles I had seen her wearing before. One day in the laundry room I noticed that top sitting in a pile in the dryer. I didn't think I just grabbed it and stuffed it into my clothes and took it back with my stuff. I felt terrible later but couldn't think of any plausible way to return it so I just kept it a few years until I grew out of it.

[Jessica Secret]

Most "scandalous" thing I've done is trying on my mom's sexy nighties/lingerie as a teen, wasn't really ever in a position to do anything beyond that.

[sometimes_miss]

As a volunteer at the local hospital, one of the candystripers used to leave her uniform hung up in the coatroom, rather than take it home with her. So I would check to see her schedule, and when knowing that she wouldn't be coming in for a few days, I would borrow her uniform overnight, always making sure that I got it back in time before she would be coming in to work again.

[Lori Ann Westlake]

Sometimes I think that the only scandalous thing in the universe is never doing anything shameful or exciting. :)

That being said, I heartily plead The Fifth.

And I heartily agree! We should all do something scandalous and shameful but daring and dangerous at least once in our lives, if not more!

I was recently telling our daughter and her fiance about one wicked thing I did in my youth. I'd told my wife about this long ago, but it seems neither of us had told our daughter. It had nothing to do with crossdressing, and it was not so heinous nor mean-spirited, but it was definitely felonious, not a mere 'misdemeanor.' It was emphatically not the kind of thing they expected of me in my eminently respectable maturity, so they were quite shocked at hearing it.

As to the details, I'll have to take the Fifth like you, since I'm not sure there's a Statute of Limitations where I did it. I wouldn?t want to ruin my reputation even at this late stage, and people today have an unforgivably pernicious habit of dragging up the ancient past to smear people's reputations in the present. But it was daring, dangerous and exciting when we did it. We narrowly missed being caught by cops, twice--once in the act and once in the getaway--but fun too to know we got away with it. (I had a male companion, and my girlfriend at the time was a co-conspirator waiting in the car.)

As the saying goes:


You only live twice:
Once when you are born,
And once when you look Death in the face.

Even if we've never looked Death in the face, in the sense of "life and limb," we may have looked SOCIAL death in the face--which can be nearly as ruinous!--and defied it. That can be almost as terrifying and exciting. If I'd been caught for that transgression, I might not be where I am today. But since I wasn't, I don't regret the excitement at all.

[Dominique12]

Karren, PLEASE tell us how you ended up wearing your tenth grade teachers lingerie?